It is always unwise to dwell upon ones past folly.

Maybe God has a reason why He did not give us the ability to read minds; I ought to think that one of them is simply to prevent others opinions to create havoc in our self worth and perspective. It could be self-deprecating base our reality in how others define us. Hence, sometimes it is rather resolute to voice out our opinion so that others would give them a thought, anyways one can entertain a thought without entirely accepting it. Inflicting grievances due to crass and unfeeling behaviour are signs of psychological problems manifested in how you treat people and how you react to events.