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FHS 2400
1/21/15
Essay on Family
a common goal in raising a family in the same traditions and customs of that
culture. It is about learning to love each other. Arranged marriages are as
much a part of that as any other marriage. Family means being able to work
together for a common goal. However, sometimes people will not cooperate
completely, but they are still biologically part of the family. As long as you
try to include and love them, they are still family.
The final person I interviewed was my mother. She is sixty years old,
and in the process of divorce, so this is a hard topic for her. She said, The
ideal family is the traditional family, with a mother, father and children. They
all work together for the common good and teach their children. But we find
ourselves with non-traditional families. When there is a loving care taker
that can raise, love, and teach children, that is a family. When people live
together and nurture each other. They know each others problems and
triumphs. That is family.
Having seen multiple points of view, my own opinion, is that not all
families are in ideal situations. Sometimes you are thrust into a situation
with a family member that is difficult and will require patience. The key
factor is love, and the desire to support each other. I have a good friend,
who, though not biologically related, supports me and is always there for me.
I consider him family, and he looks at me the same way.
References:
Strong, B, & Cohen, T. F. (2014). The marriage and family experience:
Intimate relationships in a changing society (12th ed.). Belmont, CA:
Wadsworth