Sexual Singularity

by Lawrence Lanoff

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Sexual Singularity

Were outside staring at the mountains and suddenly I look down and I see
her ass round, shapely; its the thing that really turns me on about her in
this moment. And as I look at her ass, the words come out of my mouth:
Your ass is turning me on so much right now. I just want to bend you
over, lift up that tight, hot skirt of yours, pull down your panties, and
spread you open wide. Right in this moment your ass is irresistible to me.
So whats going on here? This statement underscores the fact that all
women need to feel irresistible . . . that you are just simply overwhelmed
by her. What Im about to teach you is what I call the Sexual Singularity.
The Sexual Singularity consists of cultivating and creating her
irresistibility. And when you cultivate that in yourself, of course, you
cultivate that in her. Women want to feel desired. Feeling desired feels
delicious. When you look at a woman, one that youre into and you know
those feelings are reciprocated, and your desirous gaze reflects that
everything in your body has come alive, that youre imagining her being
with you sexually and all the possibilities you can share, and you actively
cultivate appreciation of all the things that you love about her, that
manifests itself as irresistibility. And her irresistibility is irresistible for
you. In addition, her knowing shes irresistible to you makes you
irresistible to her. That is the Sexual Singularity.
So lets go over the steps, and then well talk about how to cultivate those
in your life.
But first why is this important to you?
Its important to you because if you understand the Sexual Singularity and
you understand how to fan the flames of her desire for you and her feeling
that she is irresistible to you, its going to create a very deliciously
wonderful sexual environment of pleasure. And thats what were
interested in here.
So the first thing to understand is that a womans not going to feel like
having you inside of her vagina until all of the erectile tissue in her body is

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puffed up and alive and filled with blood. And this is the same for you; I
mean if your cock isnt hard and filled with blood, you know, it can be
awkward. Remember your turn on is very obvious, her turn on, because a
lot of it is happening inside her, is not so obvious. So in essence you have
to understand that female sexuality really starts inside her mind, but it also
starts outside in. In the same way that your cock needs some kind of
stimulation, maybe its visual stimulation, maybe its mental stimulation,
maybe its actual manual stimulation, so does her pussy. And one of the
things that starts that fire, that ignites the fire of the Sexual Singularity is
this feeling that shes irresistible.
So how do you begin to cultivate irresistibility?
The first thing is to understand that there are many components to how
this works. Theres a physical component, theres an emotional
component, theres a mental component. And those three components
comprise the Sexual Singularity. So, I want to make sure that Im
stimulating each of those components. I want to make sure Im stimulating
her physically, stimulating her emotionally, and stimulating her mentally.
Now, why is this program so important?
Its because as youve already learned and you will continue to
understand, language is your way in to her mind and into her emotions.
Language is the sexuality hack. And understanding the power of language
is like having a superpower: Speaking your sexual desire to her and
stimulating her mind with details and specifics is exceedingly intoxicating
and powerful. So were looking to awaken her with physical, emotional,
and mental stimulation.
So whats the physical?
The physical is the sequence that turns her on. Everybody has a sequence.
You have a sequence. What is that sequence? It is all the things that make
you want to have sex. Its what I call the Erotic Activation Sequence. If
you think about it in terms of her and whats happening, the best way to
access this is to have a discussion with her. You can say, Hey when was
the last time you were really, really turned on? Lets go back and think
about what happened. What was happening that those heightened
sensations were created? Because there was a sequence of events. Many
of them were probably in her unconscious mind. And the beautiful thing

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about the Sexual Singularity is if you understand how much of her turn on
happens in her unconscious mind, and if you understand that language is
the key, you can actually start planting those seeds to trigger her turn on
immediately, right now, today. And that is exciting.
Those seeds have to do with making her feel like shes irresistible and
surrounding her with your safe and nonjudgmental nature as well. So, not
only does she want to feel irresistible, but she wants to feel that when she
comes out of her cage that youve got her. That, you know, you wont be
looking at her and saying terrible things. Now this is whats so interesting.
This is real life Im sharing with you, this is reality. I was just speaking to
a woman the other day and one of the things she said to me was that, as
much as she wants to open up, her experience has been that when she
does, guys freak out.
Now why do guys freak out?
They freak out because theyre insecure and theyre stuck in the fucking
Madonna Whore Complex. Right? So you have to destroy that complex.
You have to blow that up. You have to realize it is completely made up.
And every time you put her in that box, you are getting less and less
access to sex. The first thing I do when it comes to the Sexual Singularity
is I let a woman know I have zero desire to put her in any of those boxes. I
want her to be free. Freedom is my frame for the Sexual Singularity. I
literally blow up any thought she has about the Madonna Whore Complex.
I do that simply by explaining that I dont want anything and I dont need
anything. If I do want anything, what I want is for her to feel free. I want
her to be in her sexual power, not controlled, not contained in any way,
just free.
Next I want to let her know the things that really specifically turn me on
about her. That is key if youre cultivating your relationship. You can just
have a cute phrase or a sentence. You really have to seek and find and
cultivate and call out the things that you love and appreciate about her.
Where it turns into irresistibility is when you activate the sequence of
those things those that turn you on and those that turn her on. That
sequence leads to the inevitability of irresistibility. Thats why its so
important.

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Step 1:
So right now, I want you to write down 3 specific things that turn you on
about your partner. Do this right now; Ill give you a minute. Write down
3 specific things. Specific. Think details, lots and lots of detail. What turns
you on? What specifically turns you on about her? Now Im kind of a
brain geek so if her mind doesnt turn me on, her other attributes actually
arent going to be enough for me to be like, Wow you are irresistible.
So Im looking for, in my partners, things about their brains that turn me
on. What is it about her mind? What is it about her, could be other things,
like her work ethic, her grit, maybe the way she moves or dances, the
things about her where you look at her and you say, That is fucking hot,
and I love that about you specifically.
So you know, continue to cultivate. Also, think about physical things:
Maybe its the shape of her pussy, maybe its her ass, or her feet, or her
lips, her eyes, the color of her hair, the way her jawline connects to her
neck, her hands, her wrists. I mean we could go on and on and on, but you
want to find those details that lead to the inevitability of her irresistibility.
This is key. So pick 3 things, write them down, note the specifics. If you
need to stop this audio, just pause it and pick it up when youre ready. Im
going to move on now.
So now, Ive got my 3 things.
The outcome is a beautiful result: 1 + 1 + 1 = sexual irresistibility.

Step 2:
And Step 2 is to communicate these 3 things to her, plus how that
activates her irresistibility.
For example, take the sequence that I opened with: Im looking at the
mountains. Im appreciating her. Im appreciating the moment. Im
appreciating her hair. Im appreciating the way shes dressing. And then I
come down to this appreciation of her ass. And I communicate this to her.
And then when I say, And what Id love to do right now . . . I let her
know what I really want to do. I would continue with . . . is bend you
over, pull up your skirt, pull down your panties, and have you spread your

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ass and your pussy for me. And I want to grab my cock in my hand and I
want to feel you. I want to just feel you and look at you and be turned on
by you. And then I want to fuck you. Raw and animalistically. Right here.
Right in the middle of everything.
So whats beautiful about this is I can have this, literally have this
conversation, anywhere. And if you think about many of the techniques in
this program, some of which you will learn and some that you have
already learned, including the Just Coffee Mind Fuck, these great
techniques apply these principles. So the idea is be communicative.
Communicate the specifics so that they lead to her irresistibly. Its
inevitable. And that feels really good.
This is where, when youre actively expressing the things you appreciate
about her, that you begin to cultivate depth in the relationship. Any yahoo
can say a bunch of lines that dont have any meaning or connection to her,
but when you can find those things, cultivate those things, and pull them
out, you are activating the Sexual Singularity. Its a powerful technique. It
activates a deep primal power inside her. It activates the language and
emotional aspects of her brain, and it takes care of the physical, emotional,
and mental stimulation.
When you have those 3 things happening, then you are activating her
sexual sequence, and that activation activates her urethral sponge. In fact,
it activates all the erectile tissue in her pussy and in her body: her nipples,
the tip of her nose, her lips; this is all erectile tissue. And it can feel really,
really, really good.
Also I may increase my reassurance of her safety by adding to the
language by performing some cupping, where I put my hand under her ass
or I reach around behind her, and you know this can feel really good, too.
So not only am I saying words that create irresistibility, but Im creating
some physical closeness. One of my favorite things is to come around
from behind and put firm pressure on her breasts and gently squeeze them
with the entire palm of my hand. (Remember, do not be grabby grabby is
bad for the most part.) So, its like Im trying to palm a basketball.
My hands are spread out and Im just adding some pressure and Im
breathing with her, but theres this sense of holding her breasts firmly
while Im whispering the things that Im appreciating about her and the

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things that make her specifically irresistible to me. That is the Sexual
Singularity Method.
Enjoy. Have fun. Play around and share your experiences and ideas. And I
will see you in the next segment.