Many times in life are in total depression due to failures of either professiona

l or personal nature, and so, that we are subject to being of abuse and bad advi
ce by the people around us in which we place our faith and confidence to succeed
.
Without realizing it, most times we get carried away by our emotions, anger and,
without thinking of the future will bring consequences to our decisions for wha
t we have left to stay on this planet.
So we must be strong enough to face the problems face to face at the cost of swa
llowing our pride, or that the other party is not intolerable for dialogue.
And is that many times in this room in the hole of the sadness, many people do e
ach one giving us a burden that has nothing to do with what we are looking for a
nd take control of our intelligence and our life at least as long as we or let h
im long to take our misfortune, which once overcome we shall see the terrible mi
stake we made and the way they were used by those who approached us at this stag
e of our existence.
Manipulations may range from monetary, sexual, religious, even unconscious, but
now the best ally that we have may not be a help book but a simple sheet of pape
r and a pencil, in which we write down what we want and do not want part of our
daily life and emphasizing those with a solution within our hands and crossing o
ut those that do not, do analysis and make the short or long term what we will n
eed or not around us.
After then, we will realize if the person really is on our side is supporting us
to achieve our full happiness and we were not used as an instrument of their ow
n ideologies about revenge or what is the life that have nothing to do with us w
hat you think is right, then take the decision to solve the problems on our own
or seek the help of people who share your honest friendship, the solutions that
lead us to be happy with ourselves without recourse to a psychiatrist inhibiting
drugs and their feelings.