SOLUTION FOR

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This booklet was written by Shaykh-e-arqat Amr-e-
Al-e-Sunnat, the founder of Dawat-e-Islami arat
Allma Mauln Muammad Ilys Ar Qdir Razav

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in Urdu. The translation Majlis has translated
this booklet into English. If you find any mistakes in the
translation or composing, please intimate the translation
Majlis on the following address and gain awb.



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Contents
Solution for Conflicts
Transliteration Chart ...................................................................... III
About this Booklet... ...................................................................... IV
Excellence of Durd Sharf .............................................................. 2
Do not Make Yourself Worthy of Hell! ........................................... 2
Satan Creates Arguments ............................................................... 4
Anger Causes Problems .................................................................. 4
A Particular Door of Hell ................................................................. 5
The Nr of Mlik bin Dnrs Patience ............................................ 5
Three Types of People .................................................................... 6
Disaster for People with Enmity ..................................................... 7
Blocking the Way for Forgiveness ................................................... 7
Breaking Ties Unnecessarily is a Sin ................................................ 7
Excellence of Hiding Faults ............................................................. 8
How should a Muslim be? .............................................................. 8
Conceal Faults and Earn Heaven ..................................................... 9
When a Fight gets heated ............................................................... 9
Punishment for Backbiting .............................................................. 9
Punishment for False Accusations .................................................. 9
Cursing is taking Revenge ............................................................. 10
The Virtue of avoiding Arguments ................................................ 10
How Muslim should be? ............................................................... 10
Hurting Muslims ........................................................................... 11
Talking Bad about Someone Leads to Punishment....................... 12

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Mischief Makers are cursed .......................................................... 14
Qurnic Method of Converting Foe into Friend............................ 14
Outcome of Good Treatment ....................................................... 15
2 Madan Examples of confronting Evil with good ....................... 15
(1) Public Plea for Forgiveness ................................................ 15
(2) Cruel Punishment of 100 Strikes ........................................ 16
Divine Command regarding Forgiveness ...................................... 17
Three Tips on how to Earn Heaven ............................................... 18
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will Reconcile ............................................................... 19
To Create Harmony is Sunna ...................................................... 20
Imm Hassan Made Peace ............................................................ 21
Something better than Voluntary Prayers and Charity ................ 22
Who is a Good Islamic brother? ................................................... 23
Please Honour My Requests ......................................................... 23
Reconciliation! .............................................................................. 23
16 Intentions ................................................................................. 24






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About this Booklet...
or quite some time there was conflict amongst Islamic
brothers of a particular European country and efforts for
reconciliation proved to be ineffective which was consequently
affecting the Madan work of Dawat-e-Islami. When Amr-e-
Al-e-Sunnat

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was informed of the matter, he sent
a letter via a member of the International Affairs Department
(Majlis-e-Ban-ul-Aqwm Umr) who travelled to that
particular country from Bb-ul-Madna Karachi in Rajab-ul-
Murajjab (1427). Ars letter was read out to the Islamic
Brothers concerned who after hearing what it said, had tears in
their eyes; they apologised to each other and signed a
statement of reconciliation. This took place approximately 4
months ago and now

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there is peace in that area. This
has resulted in progress in Madan work and Madan Qfilas
within that area.
This letter makes the reader ponder over the Hereafter and
develop fear for All
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wrath. It encourages reconciliation
and peace. This revolutionary Ars Letter is being
presented by Majlis-e-Maktbt-wa-Tawt-e-Ariyya with
slight changes under the name Solution for Conflicts to
benefit greatly the distressed community of our Madan
Master
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can be read out wherever personal disputes resulted in
Muslims splitting into two groups.
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those with fear
in their hearts will begin to tremble with the fear of All
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and will reconcile with each other.
This pamphlet Solution for Conflicts contains warnings of
the harms of personal disputes in the light of Qurn and
Sunna and reference to other narratives as well. It will
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pierce soft hearts and will prove to be a whip of
warning to those that are hard. The solution for conflicts is in
your hands. Those who want to be warned will be warned and
those who dont will not be. Every man has his own destiny.
With the leaves of flowers even the liver of diamond can be cut
but an ignorant man

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in whose name we begin. Satan will try to prevent you
from reading the following letter. Do not let Satan succeed.

his Salm is from Muammad Ilys Ar Qdir Raav
to the Nigrn, members of the Majlis-e-Mushwarat and
responsible brothers of the international non-political religious
movement Dawat-e-Islami of the Qurn and Sunna in .
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It is a salaam that clears hatred and spreads love; reaching you
after kissing the illuminated turban of our Dear beloved Prophet
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and his blessed tresses and after wandering
through the streets of Madna,

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Solution for Conflicts
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Excellence of Durd Sharf
The Master of Madna and the peace of our hearts

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said, If two Muslims, who love each other for the sake
of All

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, meet each other, shake hands and send Durd
upon the Prophet
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, before they depart from
each other their previous sins are forgiven. (Musnad Ab Yal -
Musnad Anas bin Mlik, ad 2951, V3, P95)
Oh All

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the Madan work of the Sunna inspired movement Dawat-e-
Islami. Oh All

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our hearts from enmity for Muslims. Oh All

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us and the whole Ummat of our Madan Master
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Do not Make Yourself Worthy of Hell!
With good intentions and solely for the pleasure of Allah

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and reward for the Hereafter I am taking this opportunity to
help resolve your personal conflict, by addressing the problem
of severe criticism amongst brothers who despite on-going
attempts of reconciliation failed to reconcile. This has consequently
resulted causing harm to major Madan activities. If you
brothers hold dear to my Madan requests, study this letter
every month for at least 12 months or get all responsible brothers
together and read it out to them.
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you will all
succeed in perfuming Islamic society as fragrant flowers of
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Ars garden forever. However, if my suggestions are ignored
and instead of rectifying those who are wrong according to the
movements policies
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, you expose each others faults without a
proper reason and you continue to fight and argue amongst
yourselves then you will, All

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forbid, continue to make
yourself worthy of Hell due to hatred, backbiting, spreading
rumours, heartbreaking, exposing faults, suspicions and other
causes of disaster. I hope this bayn, that has been compiled
with the aid of the blessings of the Holy Qurn and the blessed
sayings of the Rasl-All

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by my sinful self,
will affect your hearts and minds and result in reconciliation.
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my requests will not go to waste. All

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the Holy Qurn, Sra ryt, verse 55,

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Translation from Kanzul-mn
And advise, for advice benefits the Muslims.

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In cases of conflict, Dawat-e-Islami requires that first an attempt has to be
made to rectify the responsible individual on a personal level. If this does not
solve the problem, you should approach your local, divisional, city, provisional
and then national Nigrn in the mentioned sequence within the boundaries of
Shara. If the problem still remains, considering you live outside of Pakistan,
you should seek assistance from the member of the International Affairs
Department (Majlis-e-Bain-ul-Aqwm Umr) in Pakistan who deals with
your particular country. If the problem still remains, you should approach the
Central Consultation Board (Markaz Majlis-e-Shr) in Pakistan who will
make the final decision which must be accepted by every Islamic brother,
unless there is a valid Islamic reason not to do so. No member of any Majlis of
Dawat-e-Islami is beyond the boundaries of Shara; every Muslim must
abide by the rules of Shara).
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Satan Creates Arguments
Dear Islamic Brothers! Remember! The accursed Satan causes
conflicts amongst Muslims, makes them fight and kill each other
and prevents them from reconciliation. What often happens is
that if a concerned Islamic brother intervenes and makes
things better, Satan will implant suspicions and make things
worse again. Warning us against the attempts of the wretched
Satan, All

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says in the 53
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verse of Sra Ban Isrl,

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Undoubtedly Satan sows discord among them
In the 91
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verse of Sra Mida, we are warned:
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The devil only seeks to instil hatred and enmity between you.
Anger Causes Problems
Muslims should make sure that this mischief making and
disastrous attempt of Satan goes to waste. Indeed, there are many
dangers in the world and in the afterlife caused by personal
conflicts. A person who loses his temper very quickly often
causes mischief. People with short tempers should be warned
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of losing control of themselves due to their ego and disobeying
the commands of All

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as it could throw him into the
deep ditches of Hell. Have a look at the punishment for anger
and make efforts to save yourself from the torment of Hell.
A Particular Door of Hell
The Beloved Prophet of All
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said, There is a
door in Hell through which those angry people will enter who
calm down only after committing a sin. (Ittifussda-til-Muttaqn,
V9, P318)
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The Nr of Mlik bin Dnrs Patience
The way our pious predecessors

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tolerated the
Cruelty of tyrants and the mischief of disbelievers and overcame
anger can be seen in the following narration: Sayyidun Mlik
Bin Dnr

rented a place to live. There was a Jewish

person living next door. The Jew hated him and so he would
throw rubbish into his

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house via his drain, but the
Sheikh wouldnt complain. One day the Jew came and (sarcastically)
asked, My drain isnt causing any problems in it? He

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replied very politely, When the rubbish falls from the drain, I
sweep it up and clean the area. The Jew asked, Dont you get
angry despite all the trouble it causes you? He

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said
that the Merciful Lord

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has said in Sra Ale Imrn, verse
134:
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And who control their anger and are forgiving towards mankind;
and the righteous are the beloved of Allah

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When the Jew heard this he became a Muslim. (Takira -tul-
Auliy, ikr of Mlik bin Dinr, P51)
Dear Islamic Brothers! Did you see what blessings politeness
brings! Politeness is what caused this Jew to become a Muslim.
One of the harms of anger is that it creates hatred and enmity
and this sometimes leads to corruption and murder. Read
about the harms of hatred and enmity and tremble with fear of
All

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Three Types of People
Sayyidun ibn Abbs
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narrates that the blessed
Prophet
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said, There are three people whose
prayers do not rise a single hand span above their heads:
1. An Imm who people despise,
2. The woman that spends the night with her husband annoyed
at her and
3. Two brothers who have fallen out with each other (without
a valid reason). (Sunan Ibn-e-Mja, V1, P516, ad 971)
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Disaster for People with Enmity
Sayyidun Mu bin Jabal

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narrates that the Rasl-
All
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said, On the 15
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night of Shabn,
All

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looks at His people with mercy and forgives them
all except the polytheists and those who hold enmity in their
hearts. (Al-Isn bi-tartb a ibn ibbn, V7, P470, ad 5236)
Blocking the Way for Forgiveness
Sayyidun Ab urara

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All
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said, Peoples actions are presented to
me twice every week on Mondays and Thursdays. Every believing
person is forgiven except the one who holds enmity for a
fellow Muslim brother. It is said, Leave these two until they
have reconciled. (Al-Isn bi-tartb a ibn ibbn V7, P471, ad
5638)
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Breaking Ties Unnecessarily is a Sin
Dear Islamic Brothers! Remember! For Muslims to break ties
with each other due to hatred (without a proper reason) is a
sin, arm and leads to Hell. Sayyidun Ab urara

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narrates that the beloved of All

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warned, It
is not permissible for any Muslim to avoid his fellow Muslim
brother for more than three days. He who avoids his brother
for more than three days and dies will be put into Hell. (Sunan
Ab Dwd, ad 4914, V4, P363)
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Excellence of Hiding Faults
Dear Islamic Brothers! Remember! Personal conflicts that are
not based on Shara usually result in long periods of suspicion,
backbiting, spreading rumours, accusations and other major
sins, consequently making both parties worthy of the punishment
of Hell. The sin of publicly spreading each others faults due to
personal conflicts has become very common therefore a great
deal of care is needed. It is very important that a Muslims
faults be kept secret if anyone becomes aware of them.

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there is great reward for concealing the faults of a
Muslim. Sayyidun uqb bin mir

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narrates that the
blessed Prophet, master of both worlds, king of the messengers,
fountain of compassion and generosity
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said, If
someone conceals a secret fault of a person after seeing it, it is
as if he has brought a girl to life who had been buried alive.
(Al-Mujamul Asa, V6, P97, ad 8133)
How should a Muslim be?
Sayyidun Abdull ibn Umar
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narrates that the
Honourable Messenger
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said, A Muslim is a
brother of another Muslim; he does not oppress him and does
not leave him unaccompanied. If a person attends the need of
his brother, All

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will complete his needs and if anyone
removes pain from a Muslim, All

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will remove pain
from him on the day of judgement and if anyone conceals the
faults of a Muslim, All

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will conceal his faults on the day
of judgment. (a Muslim, ad 6580, P1394)
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Conceal Faults and Earn Heaven
It is narrated by Sayyidun Ab Sad Khudr

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person who sees a fault in his brother and then hides it will
enter Heaven. (Kanzul-Umml, ad 6394, V3, P103)
When a Fight gets heated
Personal conflicts usually result in a lot of backbiting. Backbiting
is a major sin, arm and leads to Hell. When hatred settles in
hearts and fights begin, a storm of backbiting and accusations
arises and pushes everyone towards Hell. The following are
two statements of our beloved Prophet

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Punishment for Backbiting
Our Holy Prophet
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has warned, On the night
of ascension I passed by some people who were scratching
their faces and their chests with their nails which were made of
copper. I asked, Oh Jibrl
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replied, They used to eat the flesh of people (by

backbiting) and they would humiliate them. (Sunan Ab Dwd,
ad 4878, V4, P353)
Punishment for False Accusations
If someone falsely accuses a Muslim of something he did not
do, All

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will keep him in

until he compensates
for it. (Sunan Ab Dwd, V3, P427, ad 3597) (

is a place
in Hell where the blood and pus of its inmates will be kept).
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Regarding the words until he compensates for it, Sayyidun
Shaykh Abdul aq Muaddi Dilv
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said, Until
he compensates for it by repenting or after being purified by
suffering its punishment. (Ashatul Lamt, V3, P290)
Cursing is taking Revenge
Remember! If you curse the man who oppresses you then you
have taken revenge. The blessed Messenger
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said, The one who curses the oppressor has taken his revenge.
(Sunan Tirmi, V5, P324, ad 3563)
The Virtue of avoiding Arguments
Muslims should avoid disputes due to their egos. If someone
hurts your feelings, it is better to avoid arguing and quarrelling
and to show forgiveness. The Holy Prophet
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said, If a person avoids quarrelling despite being right, I will
guarantee him a place in the (inner) edge of Heaven. (Sunan
Ab Dwd, V4, P332, ad 4800)
How Muslim should be?
Why are Muslims quarrelling amongst themselves? They are
supposed to protect each other. Our Holy Prophet

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said, A (true) Muslim is one who does not hurt others
with his tongue and hands and a (true) migrant (Mujir) is
one who migrates from (avoids) anything that All

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has
forbidden. (a Bukhr, V1, P15, ad 10)
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In the commentary of this blessed ad, Mufti Ahmad Yr
Khn Nam

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said, A true Muslim is one who is
Muslim not only literally but Islamically as well; one who does
not backbite another Muslim, swear, ridicule, or tell tales, fight
or write anything against others. He

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also says: A true
migrant is one who not only abandons his country but abandons
sins as well. Abandoning sins also falls under migration and
this (migration) will continue forever. (Mir-tul-Manj, V1, P29)
The Holy Prophet

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said, It is not permissible
for a Muslim to stare aggressively at another Muslim. (Ittifussda-
til-Muttaqn, V7, P177)
He
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also said, It is not permissible for a
Muslim to terrorise another Muslim. (Kitb-uz-Zud Li ibn Mubrak,
ad 688, P240)
Hurting Muslims
Dear Islamic Brothers! The issue of fulfilling the duties of others
is a very delicate one but unfortunately today no-one cares.
Never mind the public, even the prominent are seen to be
neglecting this vital duty. The illness of displaying anger
unnecessarily is a common problem. Even the prominent often
hurt the feelings of others out of anger but do not care. Hurting
the feelings of any Muslim without a valid reason is a major
sin, arm and will lead to Hell. Al -arat

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writes in
Fatw-e-Razavyya Sharf (V24, P342) with reference to
abarn Sharf that the Holy Prophet

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has
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warned,

(If
anyone hurts a Muslim (without a proper reason) it is as if he
has hurt me and he who hurts me it is as if he has hurt All

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). (Al-Mujamul Asa, V2, P387, ad 3607)
Hurting All

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and His Messenger
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is an
evil trait of the disbelievers. All

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says in the 57
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verse of
Sra Azb,

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Indeed those who trouble Allah

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and His Noble Prophet upon
them is Allah

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curse in the world and in the Hereafter, and
Allah

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has kept prepared a disgraceful punishment for them.
Talking Bad about Someone Leads to Punishment
Spreading peoples faults and shortcomings without valid
reasons, especially the shortcomings of Muballighn and Sunn
scholars can affect religious propagation very badly and can
prove disastrous in both worlds. Ala-arat

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says, If
any of the Al-e-Sunna (scholars) make a major mistake then
it is Wjib to conceal it because, All

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forbid, people will
turn away from them (and cease to respect them) and this will
obstruct the benefit that people gain from their speeches and
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writings. To publicise (their mistakes) will be evil publicity
(which will dishonour them) and the Holy Qurn has clearly
forbidden such publicity. All

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says in Sra Nr, verse
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Indeed those who wish that slander should spread among the
Muslims for them is a painful punishment in this world and in the
Hereafter.

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Especially, if they turned to the truth without delay. The Rasl-
All
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said,

(He who scorns his fellow Muslim brother for committing a sin will
indulge in that sin himself before he dies). (Fatw-e-Razavyya, V29,
P94 - Jmi Tirmi, V4, P226, ad 2513, Dr-ul-Fikr Beirut)
There are some people who are troublemakers; give unnecessary
criticism, cause mischief and cause grief to Muslims. These people
should fear All

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because He

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says in Sra Burj,
verse 10:
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Indeed, those who troubled the Muslim men and Muslim women,
and then did not repent for them is the punishment of hell, and for
them is the punishment of fire.
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Mischief Makers are cursed
One ad states, Mischief (Fitna) is asleep; the curse of All

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is upon those who awaken it.(Jami-us- aghr lil Suy,
ad 5975, P370, Dr-ul-Kutub-ul-Ilmiyya Beirut)
Qurnic Method of Converting Foe into Friend
Dear Islamic Brothers! Remember! Filth cannot be cleaned
with filth; it must be washed with water. Therefore, if anyone
mistreats you, you must make efforts to treat him kindly.
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, when you see the positive outcome of your kind
behaviour, you will feel peace in your heart.

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Those who forgive wrongdoers instead of taking revenge and
confront evil with good are very lucky. Encouraging this
facing evil with good behaviour, the 34
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verse of Sra mm
Al-Sajda says:
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O listener! Repel the evil deed with a good one, there upon the one
between whom and you was enmity, will become like a close friend.
Outcome of Good Treatment
Sayyidun Muammad Nam-ud-Dn Murdbd
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tells us how to confront evil with good in Khazin-ul-Irfn:
For example, confront anger with patience, ignorance with
tolerance, mistreatment with forgiveness. If someone hurts
you forgive him and the outcome will be that foes will begin to
like you like friends. Background: It has been said that this
verse was revealed regarding Ab Sufyn. Despite his intense
hostility, the blessed Prophet
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treated him well,
he granted his daughter the honour of being his wife and this
resulted in him becoming a passionate devotee (of the Blessed
Prophet
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) and willing to sacrifice his life for
him. (Khazin-ul-Irfn, P863, -ul-Qurn)
2 Madan Examples of confronting Evil with good
(1) Public Plea for Forgiveness
On the day that Makka-tul-Mukarrama was conquered, the
leaders and common folk of the Qurash were gathered around
the Kaba. These were the very same people who had been
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harsh enemies of our Beloved Prophet

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for the
past 21 years. They made life difficult for our Master

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to
leave Makka and migrate. These were the very tyrants that
travelled 300 miles to fight the believers and wage war against
them. Today these same people were stood with their heads
lowered waiting for the Holy Prophet
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to
decide their fate. Our Holy Prophet
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asked,
Tell me, what you think will happen to you today? They
assumed that their deaths awaits them and replied, You are
the son of a tolerant and merciful father (and also the son of
such an uncle) three times. The Master of both worlds

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He said, "There is no reproach on you, this day! May Allah forgive
you - and He is the Utmost Merciful, of all those who show mercy."

(Ysuf 92) (Sunan-ul-Kubr-lil-Baaq,V9,P199,ad18275,Dr-ul-Kutub-
ul-Ilmiyya Beirut)
(2) Cruel Punishment of 100 Strikes
Leader of millions of Mlikis, famous shiq-e-Rasl Sayyidun
Imm Mlik

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issued a fatw in 146 A. H saying, The
Abbsid ruler Ab Jafar has forced the public to swear the
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oath of allegiance to him therefore abiding by the rules of the
government is not obligatory for the public. This oath is legally
not valid. As a result of this, the governor of Madna Sharf

, Jafar bin Sulaymn ordered his arrest

for the following charges:
1. You have rejected the existence of the Abbsid rule.
2. You have incited the public to oppose the government and
3. You are a rebel. As a penalty, he

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was struck 100
times until his arms had come out of his shoulder sockets
and for the rest of his life he

,
could not lift his
arms fully. In fact, he

,
wasnt even able to
straighten his mantle on his blessed body using his own
hands. The narrator of this says that he was there when
the Imm

,
was being struck and that each time
the Imm

,
was struck, he

,
would recite:

(Oh All

.
! Forgive these
people for they do not know the truth). The fierce strikes
resulted in him falling unconscious. The first thing that
he

,
said as soon as he regained consciousness was,
People! Be witness. I have forgiven the people that hit
me. (Madin-i-Akhlq, Part 3, P36-37)
Divine Command regarding Forgiveness
The 199
th
verse of Sra Arf talks about forgiveness:
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Translation from Kanzul-mn
(Oh beloved) Keep to forgiveness and enjoin kindness and turn
away from the ignorant.
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Three Tips on how to Earn Heaven
Sayyidun Ab urara

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narrates that the Blessed
Messenger
,

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said, If a man possesses three
qualities, he will be judged lightly by All

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(on the day of
resurrection) and All

.
will send him to Heaven (out of
His mercy). I asked, Y Rasl-All
,

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! What
are those qualities? He
,

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replied, (1) Creating
bonds with those who severe ties with you, (2) giving to those
who deprive you and (3) forgiving those who oppress you. (Al
Mujamul Asa, V1, P263, ad 909)
Oh you Islamic brothers who passionately want to spread the
message of the Sunna! After presenting narrations and stories
revolving around forgiveness and briefly mentioning the sins
committed as a result of personal conflicts and warnings of
punishments for those sins, I will now mention, with the pure
intention in my heart of creating peace, some verses and
narrations about reconciliation.
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All

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will Reconcile
Sayyidun Anas

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mentions that once he was with the
Prophet
,

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. He smiled. Sayyidun Umar

asked, Oh Messenger of All
,

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! May my
parents be sacrificed for you, why did you smile? He replied,
Two of my followers will fall on their knees in the court of
All

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. One of them will say, Oh All

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! He has
oppressed me, I want justice. All

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will say, He does
not have any good deed (to give you), what can he do? The
man will say, Give him my sins. When the Blessed Prophet

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,

reached this point, he

,

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began
to cry and said, That will be a grand day because every single
person will want his burden to be lightened. All

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will
say to the oppressed, Look at what is in front of you. He will
say, Oh All

.
! I see huge cities and palaces made of gold
and adorned with jewels. Which Prophet or Truthful or
Martyr are these for? All

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will say, There are for the
person who pays their price. The man will ask, Who can pay
for these? All

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will say, You can.
The man will ask as to how this is possible and All

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will
say, By forgiving your brother. The man will then say, Oh
All

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! I have forgiven all that was done. All

.
will
then command, Get up, hold your brothers hand and both of
you go into Heaven together. Then our Holy Prophet

_.

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,

said, Fear All

.
and create peace amongst
people because All

.
will Create peace amongst Muslims
on the day of judgement. (Al-Mustadrak, V5, P795, ad 8758)
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Dear Islamic Brothers! This ad smells of the fragrance of
the divine Sunna of reconciling between Muslims and the
Prophetic Sunna of encouraging reconciliation. May All

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make us perfume our outer and inner selves with this
fragrant Sunna and help us make great efforts to create
brotherhood amongst Islamic brothers and make our environment
a fragranced garden of peace and harmony; in fact make it an
ever scented garden of Madna.
Our All

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has encouraged us to adopt these blessed ways
in the 10
th
verse of Sra ujurt,
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Translation from Kanzul-mn

The Muslims are brothers to each other therefore make peace
between your two brothers and fear Allah, so that you may gain
mercy.
The blessed Prophet

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,

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is a perfect example of
the qualities mentioned in the Holy Qurn. His blessed Sunna
provides for us an example of creating harmony amongst people.
To Create Harmony is Sunna
It is stated in Khazin-ul-Irfn (P229) that our Holy Prophet
,

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was once travelling and he came across an
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Anr. He
,

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stopped for a while and the animal
he was riding at the time urinated. Ibn Ubba held his nose
out of disgust. Sayyidun Abdull bin Rawa

,
said,
The urine of the mount of the blessed Prophet
,

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smells better than your musk. The Prophet

_.

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,

,

left that place but the argument between those two got worse
and ended in both their tribes furiously quarrelling with each
other and prepared to fight. The blessed Prophet
,

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returned and reconciled the two. The following verse was
revealed at that time:

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Translation from Kanzul-mn

And if two groups of Muslims fight against each other, reconcile
them. (Sra ujurt: 9)
In another verse we are encouraged to make peace in these words:

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Translation from Kanzul-mn
Peace is better; and the heart is trapped in greed. (Sra Nis: 128)
Imm Hassan Made Peace
The biographies of our pious Ancestors

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are painted
and decorated with the beautiful colour which lies in practicing
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these verses of the Qurn and the traditions of our Prophet

_.

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,

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. These people made great sacrifices to spread
Madan flowers of peace and harmony amongst Muslims.
A very good example of this is that of the grandson of the Holy
Prophet
,

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, the honourable, the compassionate,
the chief of the youth of Heaven Sayyidun Imm asan

,
.
Regarding Imm asan

,
, our Merciful Prophet

_.

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,

said, This son of mine is a leader and All

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will
create peace through him between two groups of Muslims.
(a Bukhr, V2, P509, ad 3629) Imm asan

,
became
caliph after the martyrdom of his father, Sayyidun Ali

:

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. He

.
remained caliph for 6 months and 6
days but he gave up his caliphate in order to make peace
between two groups of Muslims.
Something better than Voluntary Prayers and
Charity
Dear Islamic Brothers! Creating peace amongst people is indeed
a great Madan task. All

.
is pleased with this more than
any voluntary (nafl) prayer, fast or donation. Sayyidun Ab
Darda

,
narrates that the chief of all the Prophets
,

_.

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said, Shall I not tell you of an act that is better
than al, fasting and charity? The companions

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replied, Why not (Y Rasl-All
,

_.

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). He
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said, Creating reconciliation to cause mischief
destroys the religion. (Musnad Imm Amad, ad 27578, V10, P422,
Dr-ul-Fikr Beirut)
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Who is a Good Islamic brother?
Did you see? How great an act creating peace amongst Islamic
brothers is. Then how good must that Islamic brother be who
shows compassion to those who are younger than him, respects
those who are older than him and loves those who are the
same age as him and wishes good and benefit for all Islamic
brothers and always tries to put a stop to evil and mischief
amongst Muslims through his kind behaviour and polite attitude.
Please Honour My Requests
Dear Islamic Brothers! Please honour my requests. Please do
not break my heart, end your anger and prove that you are
fortunate people by putting an end to your personal conflicts.
Cry and repent to All

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, forgive each other for past
mistakes. Once you have forgiven each other, please read or
listen to the following statement carefully and sign it for the
sake of your welfare in the Hereafter and to bring joy to the
heart of this sinner please send a copy to me.

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when
this letter was read out to the Islamic brothers, they ended their
conflict, made peace amongst themselves and signed the following
statement.
Reconciliation!
We (22 Islamic Brothers) have read/understood the letter (by
Amr-e-Al-e-Sunnat). We admit our carelessness, we have a
burden of regret upon our heads and we repent to All

.
.
We have forgiven each other for the sake of All

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now on, none of us will criticise anyone for any past mistake
nor will we tease him or tell others about him. Inshaa-All

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we will participate in Madan tasks together. In the future,
if any of us does become aware of the mistake of another, we
will attempt to rectify his mistake directly without mentioning
it to anyone else. If this fails, we will try to solve the problem
according to the movements Tarkb (policies).

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16 Intentions
Two Madan Flowers:
1. Without a good intention, one will not be rewarded for
any act of piety.
2. The more the good intentions one makes, the more is the
reward that one earns.

Dear Islamic Brothers! You have read Ars Letter Solution
for Conflicts.
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your hearts would definitely have
been penetrated. Please, for the pleasure of All

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, make
an effort to make the following 16 intentions. Our Holy
Prophet

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said:

(The
Intention of a Muslim is better than his action). (abarn
Mujam Kabr, ad 5942, V6, P185)
1. I will be the first to approach Islamic brothers who are
upset with me and
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2. Relatives who are annoyed with me and make peace with
them for the pleasure of All

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3. I will not humiliate anyone for faults that he has made in the
past.
4. I will not spoil my relation with someone based on rumours.
5. I will avoid suspicions.
6. Finding faults.
7. Hurting feelings.
8. backbiting.
9. Telling tales.
10. False accusations and feeling joy when I see other people
in loss.
11. I will also avoid listening to backbiting and tales about other
people.
12. I will reconcile between Islamic brothers as much as possible.
13. I forgive anyone and everyone who has ever upset me for
the pleasure of All

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.
14. I forgive in advance anyone who will hurt me in the
future (Remember! Hurting a Muslim who has forgiven
you in advance without a valid reason will still earn you
the punishment for disobeying All

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).
15. I will attempt to confront evil behaviour with good behaviour
in order to abide by the command of the Holy Qurn.
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16. I will buy and distribute at least 12 of these pamphlets
(especially to my relatives and Muslims who have fallen
out with each other).
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Give this booklet to someone else after
reading it yourself
Distribute booklets published by Maktaba-
tul-Madinah during weddings, times of sadness,
Ijtimt and other such occasions and get
rewarded. Make it a habit of keeping booklets
in your shop to give to customers for free.
Give booklets to the newspaper delivery person
or to children and have them distributed in
your neighbourhood. Give a new booklet each
time and gain reward for inviting towards
good.