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WESCOE WIT Handmade is a euphemism for less awesome IN THE LIFE Saving the day, one comic book shop at a time
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KANSAS IN HEAT Conflict resolution in 12 easy steps IS IT SAFE TO SEXT? The pitfalls of bootycalls
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THEOLOGY ON TAP Henrys on Eighth, 5:30 p.m., free, all ages SMA CURATOR KRIS ERCUMS ON EXTRA/ORDINARY: VIDEO ART FROM ASIA Spencer Museum of Art, 5:30 p.m., free, all ages POKER PUB Conroys Pub, 6 p.m. & 9 p.m., free, all ages THE JUNKYARD JAZZ BAND American Legion, 7 p.m., free, all ages BALLET FOLKLRICO DE MXICO DE AMALIA HERNNDEZ Lied Center, 7:30 p.m., $12, all ages THE DIXIE SWIM CLUB Lawrence Community Theatre, 7:30 p.m., $14-$20, all ages TRIVIA AT ZIG & MACS Zig & Macs, 9 p.m., $10, all ages PAT GREEN & CORY MORROW The Granada, 9 p.m., $26, all ages THE WERKS/ BILLY THE SQUIRREL The Bottleneck, 9 p.m., $5, 18+
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Ive worked at the Autism Society of Colorado in Denver, played with puppies at the Lawrence Humane Society and am excited to spend my spring break working with Teach For America. Volunteering gives me satisfaction more than anything, and I feel good about the effort Ive put forth to help someone. These experiences have taught me that the small things you do everyday make an impact. Most recently, I made a donation to Bill Self s campaign to raise money for Haiti relief on the KU Athletics website. Volunteering, donating and helping go a long way, farther than you can imagine. Ive thumbed through countless galleries of images from the earthquake that destroyed the once-energy-filled city of Port-au-Prince, its vibrance buried alongside the bodies beneath crumbling cement. Peoples lives are devastated, but they can be repaired with the help of generosity. One of the easiest ways to help is by texting the word HAITI to 90999 to donate $10 to the Red Cross. Helping the cause wont make you an extraordinary person, but itll make a difference.
The summer before my freshman year of college, I spent a hot afternoon shopping in my hometown of Lincoln, Neb. I was looking for a new pair of designer jeans that I felt, somehow, would create an impression on all of the unknown people I was to befriend at the University of Kansas, three hours away. As I walked down the wooden stairs and out the stained glass doors, I saw a homeless man sitting beneath the glittering green and gold banner of the boutique. I thought nothing of his destitute condition. A college-age guy walked by and the old man asked for change. I can do you better what do you want to eat? he replied. My heart sank. I guiltily witnessed a strangers kindness while clutching a bag filled with an obscenely expensive purchase. That instance has always stuck with me, and has inspired me to help others as much as possible.
EDITOR // Alex Garrison ASSOCIATE EDITOR // Kelci Shipley DESIGNERS // Laura Fisk, Liz Schulte CONTACT // Lindsay Cleek, Leslie Kinsman, Katy Saunders HEALTH // Adam Vossen MANUAL // Emily Johnson, Ben Sullivan NOTICE // Mary Henderson, Abby Olcese, Anna Sobering PLAY // Beth Beavers, Taylor Brown, Anna Kathagnarath CONTRIBUTORS // Samantha Abbott, Mike Anderson, Mia Iverson, Molly Martin, Landon
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GIRL 1 : GIRL 2 : GIRL 1 :
Are you saying you think your notebook is better than mine? No, Im just saying its different because its handmade. Handmade is a euphemism for less awesome.
Someone asked if I liked wool as well as wood. The closest Ive come to this is many times, Ive felt like a sheep in todays world.
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Hundreds of you are showing your support for the Gehry-designed cultural center in Lodz. Lets make it thousands. #Lodz
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I was really bored last weekend, so I watched Made of Honor to see what it was like. Wait. Made of Honor? Really? What did you think of it? Welllets just say Im glad I watched it by myself.
I plan to cut strips of Douglas Fir for trim on plywood and apply Fix-All on a large canvas. What are you doing this weekend?
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What if we were prostitutes working together, but without a pimp? Like a co-op?! No, like a ho-op.
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Bring it on. Or, just in case youre not tough enough to engage in an actual eye-blackening, nose-punching fistfight, bring it on virtually. Googlefight.com allows you to take out any built up aggression, be it from your griping roommate, nagging professor or sexually frustrating crush. Simply enter two keywords and click make a fight. While the results are being tallied, sit back and watch two scrawny stick figures (not accurate character portrayals), duke it out onscreen. With a roundhouse kick and crossover jab, the winner proudly jumps for joy. The winner is determined by whichever keyword has the most results, and is colorfully displayed as a
calculated bar graph afterwards. Fights are categorized into four categories: the classics, funny fights, fight of the month and last 20 fights. Funny fights show Marilyn Monroe beating Marilyn Manson 2.64 million results to 1.5 million. Classics have Anna Nicole Smith edging out Pamela Anderson by 500,000 results and the Fight of the Month squares off Google and Microsoft. Google destroys Microsoft by 140 million results. Youll be surprised who is small but mighty, and whos scrappy as hell. Go ahead, duke it out. If you cant throw punches face to face, GoogleFight has got your back.
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Contributed photo Okie grown: Guitarist Paul Benjamin Karleskindt and his band, The Paul Benjamin Band, describe their style as homey as moms apple pie and as classic as famous rock and country tunes. The band will be playing Friday at the Bottleneck, 737 New Hampshire St.
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Laundry sometimes takes a backseat to more important things like homework and camping out for basketball tickets, but dont reuse those dirty socks. Funguses thrive in warm, dark and moist environments, created perfectly by shoes and feet. The funguses use the dead material on the skin and the nails as nutrients. Some of the most common funguses are trichophyton mentagrophytes, epidermophyton floccocum and trichophyton rubrum. These funguses can show up as quickly as 24 hours of not changing your socks, says Jake Goldstein, podiatrist at the Center for Foot Care in Kansas City, Mo. Sharing socks and continuing to wear them after working out are also ways to spread or transmit a fungal infection. The funguses cause cracks in the skin on the feet and in between the toes. A bacterium known as cellulitis can enter these cracks and cause an infection in your foot that, if left untreated, can move into your leg, Goldstein says. These bacterial infections can happen as quickly as a week in someone who has a weak immune system. People with diabetes are also more susceptible to the bacterial infections. Typically, the fungus does not become infected but can be
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Photo illustration by Adam Vossen Fungus among us: The warm, dark and moist environment present in dirty socks and shoes can become a breeding ground for fungal and bacterial infections after just 24 hours of wearing.
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Contributed Photo Spouting sonnets: Shakespeares work is exhibited through one mans presentation at the Hall Center.
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Roll tape: Recording your own movie may sound intimidating, but using resources such as KU Filmworks and KUTV can help take off the pressure to film a Best Picture nominee. Becoming a member of these or similar organizations also gives you access to helpful tools such as high-quality cameras, lighting equipment, grip equipment and editing software to package your film.
CINEMATIC ACHIEVEMENT
Being a member of KU Filmworks will also introduce you to a community of people passionate about filmmaking. Filmmaking is a collaborative effort. You cannot do it alone, Emilie Newell, Kansas City, Mo., sophomore, says. Newell holds the media relations position for KU Filmworks and she specializes in art direction for Filmworks productions. Art direction focuses on the presentation of what is being filmed, such as scenery, makeup and lighting. The most common mistake I see in student films is no lighting and no art direction, Newell says. But she says it is okay if you arent that savvy in filmmaking knowledge. Dont wait until you know everything about it, just do it and learn from your experience. Good editing is crucial for quality videos. KU Filmworks has a computer available in the Kansas Union for members that is equipped with editing software such as Final Cut Pro and Adobe After Effects. It has everything you need from preproduction to post-production. It has industrystandard software that you can get familiarized
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ou and your friends burst out laughing at the last joke someone said. Hilarious scenarios blossom in your mind and you utter words of excitement through a restrained laugh, We should totally make a video of that! As soon as you suggest it, you think that there is no way you could pull it off, or you wouldnt even know where to start. Creating your own video content can be tricky and daunting, but there are plenty of resources that can help make your ideas into reality. Video creation can be a fun process that will let you make friends, express your creativity and fulfill your aspirations. Peers who make movies are a great resource for help on your own project. KU Filmworks is an organization made up mostly of students student that meets at 7 p.m. on Sunday nights in Oldfather Studios. Becoming a member by attending meetings and paying $20 dues allows you to use their equipment. KU Filmworks has access to high-quality cameras, lighting equipment, grip equipment and other helpful tools.
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with, Nate Selee, Garden City junior, says. Selee is the media relations officer for KUTV. KUTV is the sister organization of KU Filmworks that works on shorter, sometimes sequential projects. KUTV meets at 4 p.m. on Fridays in Alcove G in the Kansas Union. Editing video consumes time and the programs take awhile to learn. Performing even basic editing on Final Cut Pro can be intimidating once a plethora of options arises in the menus. If you want to know how to edit and learn programs, we will teach you, Selee says. Selee recommends starting small and working on simpler ideas to get the basics down. If you start with something that is two to three minutes long, you have the ability to build your skill set and still be ambitious, he says. Creating solid video content requires plenty of planning. Once you know what resources are available to you, it would be wise to do some research. Watch a lot of projects and try to come up with ideas that would be uniquely yours, but examine similar projects so that you can use them
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PROGRESSIVE VS. INTERLACED These terms are more commonly abbreviated after definition qualities such as 720p or 1080i. Progressive consumes more bandwidth, but interlaced can cause twittering, which is the flickering that you normally see when people wear clothes with fine details.
Roll tape: Recording your own movie may sound intimidating, but using resources such as KU Filmworks and KUTV can help take off the pressure to film a Best Picture nominee. Becoming a member of these or similar organizations also gives you access to helpful tools such as high-quality cameras, lighting equipment, grip equipment and editing software to package your film.
CINEMATIC ACHIEVEMENT
Being a member of KU Filmworks will also introduce you to a community of people passionate about filmmaking. Filmmaking is a collaborative effort. You cannot do it alone, Emilie Newell, Kansas City, Mo., sophomore, says. Newell holds the media relations position for KU Filmworks and she specializes in art direction for Filmworks productions. Art direction focuses on the presentation of what is being filmed, such as scenery, makeup and lighting. The most common mistake I see in student films is no lighting and no art direction, Newell says. But she says it is okay if you arent that savvy in filmmaking knowledge. Dont wait until you know everything about it, just do it and learn from your experience. Good editing is crucial for quality videos. KU Filmworks has a computer available in the Kansas Union for members that is equipped with editing software such as Final Cut Pro and Adobe After Effects. It has everything you need from preproduction to post-production. It has industrystandard software that you can get familiarized
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FRAME RATES The frame rate at which a camera records determines how the video looks. Most cameras shoot at a frame rate of 30 frames per second, but 24 frames per second can have a more cinematic look, Ontiveros says.
ou and your friends burst out laughing at the last joke someone said. Hilarious scenarios blossom in your mind and you utter words of excitement through a restrained laugh, We should totally make a video of that! As soon as you suggest it, you think that there is no way you could pull it off, or you wouldnt even know where to start. Creating your own video content can be tricky and daunting, but there are plenty of resources that can help make your ideas into reality. Video creation can be a fun process that will let you make friends, express your creativity and fulfill your aspirations. Peers who make movies are a great resource for help on your own project. KU Filmworks is an organization made up mostly of students student that meets at 7 p.m. on Sunday nights in Oldfather Studios. Becoming a member by attending meetings and paying $20 dues allows you to use their equipment. KU Filmworks has access to high-quality cameras, lighting equipment, grip equipment and other helpful tools.
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with, Nate Selee, Garden City junior, says. Selee is the media relations officer for KUTV. KUTV is the sister organization of KU Filmworks that works on shorter, sometimes sequential projects. KUTV meets at 4 p.m. on Fridays in Alcove G in the Kansas Union. Editing video consumes time and the programs take awhile to learn. Performing even basic editing on Final Cut Pro can be intimidating once a plethora of options arises in the menus. If you want to know how to edit and learn programs, we will teach you, Selee says. Selee recommends starting small and working on simpler ideas to get the basics down. If you start with something that is two to three minutes long, you have the ability to build your skill set and still be ambitious, he says. Creating solid video content requires plenty of planning. Once you know what resources are available to you, it would be wise to do some research. Watch a lot of projects and try to come up with ideas that would be uniquely yours, but examine similar projects so that you can use them
as a template, says Matt Jacobson, associate professor in the Department of Film and Media Studies. Jacobson also recommends performing research after the project has been made. He suggests getting many people who you do and dont know to view your video and give you feedback. You can then change your content to match the criticism and improve it. Jacobson reminds that its normal for drafts to be revised and that its okay to add something that might be missing or even reshoot shots that didnt turn out the way you planned. Making your own videos can let you explore your creative side and give you perspective. Once you set to the task of envisioning your ideas it can be a difficult process. Start small and dont be afraid to use the resources KU has to offer. Once you complete even a short, well thought-out project, you will have the satisfaction of fulfilling an aspiration and showing the world something you are proud of. Jp
Thats a wrap: Putting together a final project can be tedious, but cutting-edge video software can aid the process. KUTV uses programs such as Final Cut Pro, and will teach you how to edit with the programs.
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ABILITY TO SHOOT IN HD High-Definition is an increasingly popular format as television and movie screens accommodate it. Consider if high-definition is important to you and how you can use it. TAPE VS. TAPELESS Tapeless cameras automatically record your video as digital files. Though this may be convenient, Ontiveros says to frequently make backup copies of your files in case of hardware problems.
PROGRESSIVE VS. INTERLACED These terms are more commonly abbreviated after definition qualities such as 720p or 1080i. Progressive consumes more bandwidth, but interlaced can cause twittering, which is the flickering that you normally see when people wear clothes with fine details.
FRAME RATES The frame rate at which a camera records determines how the video looks. Most cameras shoot at a frame rate of 30 frames per second, but 24 frames per second can have a more cinematic look, Ontiveros says.
as a template, says Matt Jacobson, associate professor in the Department of Film and Media Studies. Jacobson also recommends performing research after the project has been made. He suggests getting many people who you do and dont know to view your video and give you feedback. You can then change your content to match the criticism and improve it. Jacobson reminds that its normal for drafts to be revised and that its okay to add something that might be missing or even reshoot shots that didnt turn out the way you planned. Making your own videos can let you explore your creative side and give you perspective. Once you set to the task of envisioning your ideas it can be a difficult process. Start small and dont be afraid to use the resources KU has to offer. Once you complete even a short, well thought-out project, you will have the satisfaction of fulfilling an aspiration and showing the world something you are proud of. Jp
Thats a wrap: Putting together a final project can be tedious, but cutting-edge video software can aid the process. KUTV uses programs such as Final Cut Pro, and will teach you how to edit with the programs.
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Ideal date: Something casual where we can throw off the pretense of pretending to be people were not. Id love to do something active like tennis, hiking or playing disc golf. Plus, if the girl doesnt like me she can just smash a ball at my face.
Getaway: Id love to go back in time and hang Interests: Boats, bars, beaches, beers, beards, out with the dinosaurs. But if Mr. Fusion isnt bears and pirates. working, then backpacking across Europe sounds like a swell alternative! Favorite quote: Be who you are and say what // LINDSAY CLEEK you feel, because those who mind dont matter Are you a catch of the week? Or do you know and those who matter dont mind. Dr. any good catches? E-mail us at jayplay10@ Seuss gmail.com.
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Mike Anderson, Dellwood, Minn., graduate student, is the host of Kansas in Heat, a talk show about sex and relationships that airs Thursdays at 7 p.m. on KJHK, 90.7fm and at kjhk.org. *THE OPINIONS OF THIS COLUMNIST DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF JAYPLAY. KANSAS IN HEAT IS NOT TO BE CONSIDERED AS A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL HELP.
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Contributed photo On a mission: Brian Giebink, Rolla, Mo., senior, met his girlfriend of three years, Erin Anderson, Overland Park senior, during a church-organized trip to New Orleans to help rebuild houses following Hurricane Katrina.
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Photo illustrations by Jerry Wang Online dating gets a Facelift: The prevalence of social networking sites such as Facebook among college-age singles has led to an increased acceptability for online dating, says relationship expert Laurie Davis. Singles sites such as Zoosk.com connect directly to social networking sites, lessening the stigma of online dating and changing online dating sites target demographic.
Although Amanda Heather had done this before, she was beginning to get cold feet about her first date with J.L. She had spent a month talking to him through e-mails and over the phone, but was beginning to fear J.L. wouldnt be the guy she fell for on the internet. She still thought that at age 22, she could meet a guy as good as J.L. in a more conventional way. Online dating is a phenomenon that has been around since at least 1995, the year Match.com made its debut. When the trend started, older singles seemed to be the target market for the site. However, 15 years later, the popularity of online dating is steadily increasing nationwide for all ages thanks to the increased role of social networking. Although young singles such as Heather, 2006 graduate, sometimes feel they shouldnt need online dating, the fact is that through social networking sites such as Facebook and MySpace, the college-aged generation is becoming more prone to using the internet to connect with people. In a study done by the Pew Internet & American
Life Project in December 2009, 93 percent of the 18-29-year-old group was reported as internet users. The study also showed that younger adults age 18-24 make up 28 percent of the entire social networking population. According to Laurie Davis, host of LoveNation, a weekly web show that covers emerging trends in the dating world, social networking and new technology are allowing more people to be digitally connected romantically through a process she terms as micro-dating. Micro-dating and mobile dating are allowing younger singles to connect faster and more deliberately than the more traditional styles of dating, Davis says. Online dating applications are being added directly to social networking sites to appeal to more young adults. Zoosk.com is one of the many companies doing just this, creating a paradigm in online dating. By allowing singles to connect through a site such as Facebook, the founders of Zoosk.com hope to make the online dating process effortless by incorporating it with an everyday activity. We cater to an audience so that they dont
have to actively think about dating, says Alex Mehr, co-founder of Zoosk.com. As a result, we integrate online dating into social networking. Cell phone applications for online dating are also becoming popular. Skout is an iPhone app that uses the iPhones GPS to offer a real-time location-based service for online daters. With this app, a single could view profiles based on location. This allows singles to reach out to people at the same bar as them with less anxiety. The truth of the matter is that social networking is becoming the new face of how young adults are meeting for friendship, love and even sex. Social networking users are becoming much more relaxed about uploading information and photos onto the web and as a result, creating more couples. After meeting J.L. though an online dating site when she was a senior in 2006, Heather dated him for a year, married him five months later and theyve been together ever since. Jp
Statistics of Singles
1. Eighty-three million Americans between the ages of 19 and 45 are singles and 40 million of them use online dating services. 2. Fourty-four percent of the adult American population is single. Thats more than 100 million people, making your odds much better than you think. 3. On average, there are 86 single men to every 100 single women in America. So, the odds are slightly in favor of men finding a mate. 4. Only 2 percent of men find relationships from a barstool. This number only goes up to 9 percent for women. 5. The online dating industry generates $1.8 billion in revenue annually and the dating coach/matchmaker industry generates $260 million Source: Online News
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Sexting, or sending sexy text messages or video, can grab // LESLIE KINSMAN more attention than you may like.
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ake Moffitt says he was more than shocked at the picture message he received from a girl he had never even met. I was MySpace friends with her and I gave her my number for some reason. One day I was on a Greyhound bus and she sent me a nude picture of her, without us even having a previous conversation. I thought it was pretty funny. The person sitting next to me and I had a good laugh, Moffitt, Wichita junior, says. As technology continues expanding the virtual world by the minute, sexting, or sending sexy or promiscuous pictures or text messages to recipients via cell phone, is a spreading phenomenon for teens and college students alike. Three out of 10 people ages 14 to 24 have sent or received nude photos on their phones or online, according to a collaborative Associated Press and MTV poll. A similar study done by The Pew Charitable Trusts claims that about 15 percent of American teenagers have received sexually explicit photos on their cell phones and that percentage doubles as teens get older. The teens attended focus groups and found that sexts often occur between two people already in a romantic relationship and people who are not yet in a relationship, but hope to be. Moffitt says he is not a sexting participant, but the concept is similar to cyber sex, reminiscent of when AOL instant messenger gained popularity. Its a weird fad and another way to show how
than a photo text, says Harlan Cohen, author of The Naked Roommate and 107 Other Issues You Might Run Into in College. Before sending a sext, think about what that picture or video would look like in a movie theater or at the IMAX, he says. Just assume that the world is going to see it because that is the real risk you take by sending a sext. Cohen says he doesnt encourage sexting, but says that precautions should be taken if you have to sext. Im not encouraging it. A sext is literally a billboard. Its advertising yourself, Cohen says. If you have to do it, dont include your face. Cohen also says that more is at risk than people generally consider when sending sext messages. It seems like nothing when you send it, but if you want to find a job outside of the pornography industry, the last thing you want is a picture or video like that in someone elses hands. Today, a picture or video is forever and its virtually impossible to detach your name from it once its Harlan Cohen, author of The Naked sent out there, he says. Roommate and 107 Other Issues You Might Cohen says safe sexting is possible, but only in Run Into in College certain circumstances and relationships. There are some relationships where it could work: Im sure its a factor. Liquid confidence could loving, respectable relationships, he says. But remember, one day that person can be blur the line between being sure of yourself and your ex. Jp just being sloppy and horny, Marzette says. There are many ways to express sexiness other
people are fading farther away from human interaction, even with sex, Moffitt says. Elizabeth, New York senior who asked her full name not be used, says she has been guilty of a sext or two, but only with people she has or is currently involved in a relationship with. My boyfriend and I long-distance dated and used to send pictures of ourselves to each other, she says. We used to send text messages to each other, like what we wanted to do each other and how we felt, too. Jon Marzette, Lawrence sophomore, says he thinks sexting can go hand in hand with being under the influence.
Contributed photo Lets talk dirty: Sending sexy texts to your partner could spice things up, however, be cautious of the reprecussions that could result from a nasty breakup.
If lust dictates you must, consider the three Ms of sexting manners, morning and mother.
1. Manners Consider how you mind your manners when youre face to face with this person. 2. Morning If youre sexting at night, and youve had a drink or five, consider how youll feel in the morning after sending this sext. Will you regret it? 3. Mother Imagine if your mother somehow got a hold of this sext message? Is it worth it?
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Josh Nathan (right in photo), Moundridge senior, is a film major and human sexuality minor.
The golden rule do unto others as youd like to be treated. And dont settle. Be creatively successful. Id choose the where Im living now and what Im doing now. Id like to be more successful and then turn around and do something good with my money. The Biggest Loser! I like watching people helping themselves and romantic comedies, like Definitely, Maybe. Escape by Rupert Holmes and Since Youve Been Gone by Kelly Clarkson My parents because theyve been so supportive of the life Ive chosen, even though there are uncertainties a career in acting. I also watch a lot of movies, which all keep me motivated.
WHAT ARE SOME WORDS OF WISDOM YOU LIVE BY? IF YOU COULD LIVE ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD AND BE ANYTHING YOU WANTED, WHAT PATH WOULD YOU CHOSE? WHAT ARE YOU GUILTY PLEASURES? ANYTHING YOU CANT LIVE WITHOUT? WHAT IS ONE OF YOU FAVORITE SONGS THAT YOU WOULDNT LIKE TO ADMIT?
So it goes. Kurt Vonnegut I would live in San Francisco and be a well-to-do actor.
Dancing in my room (I cant dance) and watching bad movies. I also like Creme Brulee. Summer Girls by LFO.
I think people always feel obligated to answer this question by saying their family (or a member of their family), however, in my case it really is true. I have learned from my family how to always have an open mind, to be kind, compassionate, hard-working, and above all, how to be ethical. An inspirational non-relative is a youth baseball coach of mine, Mike Schrag.
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