Whoever loves becomes humble.Those who love have, so to speak, pawned a part of their narcissism.

Sigmund Freud

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. (I Corinthians 13:4)

Psychology describes the love as a phenomena social-cognitive.The psychologist Robert Sternberg has created a love triangle and stated that love has three different parts : intimity, engagement and passion.Intimity is the way that two persons can share their secrets and a lot of details about their private lifes.Intimity ussualy appears in love and friendship.On the other side, engagement is the expectance of unfinished relationship.The last but not least is passion.Passionate love is expressed in romantic moments. Sternberg claims that two components built relationships are stronger than those who are one component based.In this way, Sternberg introduced the perfect love term, describing it as a combination of intimity, engagement and passion.that does not destroy as the time passes. On the other point of view, prof. Gavreliuc believes that love includes a fusion of emotions, cognitions and behaviours, but being mysterious it remains impossible to be defined properly.A

lot of studies shows that love has a major importance and a big social impact on finding out about the way the participants are. Robert Baron and Donn Byrne think that love is the friendship between a man and a woman, rebuilt as a progressive interpersonal closeness relationship, in which the two parteners become to think of each other as a possible sexual parteners. There are a lot of symptoms that suggest the presence of love, and the psychologists claim that in such situation we should express strongly our emotions in front of the person we love. When standing beside the one we feel attraction for, we feel our heart beating fast and appear butterflies in your stomach. When you really love someone you start thinking and caring more about the other than yourself.All the things you do, its only for the one you care about.Love is when you give your heart without asking too much instead.Love is when you put the others happiness in front of your interests. Love is when you dont feel the need to dominate and to limit the ones will, when you accept him even if you dont totally understand, when you dont want to change the person ad you like him just the way he is. When you love someone you'll do anything,you'll do all the crazy things that you can't explain..When you love someone you'll feel it deep inside and nothin else can ever change your mind. When you love someone you'll sacrifice you'd give it everything you got and you won't think twice, you'd risk t all no matter what my come. Love is when you fight for the one you love, when you dont need hundred words to say that you really love him.You simply renounce to a part of your narcissism and you offer your soul.When you love become humble, give everything, dont betrade, and forgive with all your heart. To love is to live the others life.Love means to forget about yourself and to give all you have without asking for something instead.This is the real love who rises you up.When you ask for something when giving your heart it means that you havent cross over your ego.

Love is the most incredible pur and natural feeling in human being life.Love means that you will give all you have to the other and feel mutual happiness.Love expresses our deep personality side.Love is like a smile but has no value if you dont give it. When you really love and you are not together, you feel that the time has suddenly stopped.You feel that a minute is like a hour and you want the moment to see eachother to come as fast as it is possible. To love means to stop live for you, and make all the feelings like pain, hope, pleasure, fear an happiness depends by the other. Love is when you find yourself smiling without reason.Love is when you decide to spend rest of the life with him. Love is when he becomes your first priority and he is the only reason of your happiness or grief, when you respect his feeling,and when you feel complete with him. Love is when you shed a tear and still want him, it's when he ignores you and you still love him, it's when he loves another girl but you still smile and say I'm happy for you, when all you really do is cry. In my opinion, whoever loves becomes humble and those who love have pawned a part of their narcissism.I agree with this quote because I have met love recently and it has the characteristics I mentioned.

Bibliography : Gavreliuc A., De la relatiile interpersonal la comuncarea sociala, Polirom, 2007, p.126-130