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Monthly Newsletter
April 2009
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In This Issue
NYC burger staple
Easter Party full of activities
now in SP By Kim Beecheno, staff writer
Page 3: Board Member Jacques Vaney
thinks Brazil now has the definitive, For the child in all of us, Easter is one of the
authentic Grade-A U.S. burger, offered most enjoyable holidays of the year. We find
Easter around the world
in Itaim Bibi at P.J. Clarke’s. Check out chocolates and painted eggs around the house and
his raving review, and photos. l In Bermuda, traditional
garden, make a mess of the fake grass in our baskets, kites are flown to symbolize
and get the chance to finally meet the big Bunny and
Attorneys provided pull its tail when mom isn’t looking.
Christ’s ascent.
by Consulate? On April 5 from 3-5 p.m. at Chapel School, AmSoc l In Belgium and France,
Page 4: Learn the answer to this and will hold its annual Easter Party. Tickets for members churchbells are silent for
other common questions Americans are R$30 per child or R$60 per family, and for non- Maundy Thursday, as a
have posed to the U.S. Consulate, members R$50 per child and R$90 per family. sign of mourning. It’s said
regarding help when they’re caught in a “It’s a great, American traditional Easter Party, remi- the bells depart for Rome
legal bind in Brazil. niscent of the ones I attended in the U.S. as a child,” said and return on Easter
Felicia Smith, organizer of this year’s event. “The kids Day bringing eggs with
Companies help simply love it.” them to drop during
AmSoc succeed All the children will receive an Easter basket, and ac- their passage together
Page 5: Corporate donations make up
tivities will include egg decorating, a mini petting zoo with with the Easter Bunny.
55 percent of AmSoc’s annual revenue, ducks and rabbits, an Easter Egg hunt, and most importantly
playing a big role in allowing our non- a meet-and-greet with the Easter Bunny itself. l In Norway it’s a
profit organization to aid local charities. The Easter Bunny has its origin in pre-Christian fertility contemporary tradition
lore, mentioned as early as the 1600s in German literature. to solve murder mys-
Culture shock advice The Hare and the Rabbit were the most fertile animals teries at Easter. All the
known, and served as symbols of the new life during Spring. major television chan-
Page 10: Psychologist Heloisa Garman The Easter Bunny was introduced to American folklore by
discusses the common phases of mental nels show crime and
the German settlers who arrived in Penn- (Continued on page 7) detective stories and
adjustment that ex-pats experience
abroad, and how to avoid pitfalls in magazines print stories
your personal and professional lives. for readers to solve.
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Member Tip
Great burgers and taste of NY at P.J. Clarke’s By Jacques Vaney, AmSoc board member
F
or Americans living abroad in any
country, getting a decent burger is
a real challenge.
The first burgers I sampled in Brazil
tasted more like sausage patties than
ground beef. Over the past few years the
burgers have improved a lot in São Paulo,
and a number of new restaurants have
opened and even expanded into good
chains. But some strange burger-traits
remain, particularly the ubiquitous green
mayonnaise, funny retro waiter uniforms,
and serving them in a paper wrapper even
while inside the restaurant.
Now Brazil has the definitive, authen-
tic Grade-A U.S. burger, offered in Itaim
Bibi at P.J. Clarke’s. For those of you
who’ve lived in New York City, the name
will be familiar. Since 1884, P.J. Clarke’s
has been serving the finest burgers in
Manhattan, as well as ample beer, drinks
and assorted American dessert classics Maria Rita Pikielny Marracini, at the bar of P.J. Clarke’s in São Paulo, with a dish of warm apple pie and
from its landmark location on the corner vanilla ice cream.
of 55th Street and Third Avenue.
Completely surrounded by skyscrap- a loyal Brazilian clientele. According to of opening a restaurant in Brazil. The
ers and high-rise apartment buildings, the restaurant’s founder in São Paulo, manager called owner Phil Scotti, who
the original P.J. Clarke’s has defied Maria Rita Pikielny Marracini, every day was at his weekend home in upstate New
modernization, serving New York from from 3-5 p.m. P.J. Clarke’s in Manhattan York and couldn’t get back until Monday
an ancient two-story building manned is filled with Brazilians. This has been morning. Maria Rita had to leave that
by Irish barmen, filled with old photos, going on for many years, as Brazilian Sunday night, but in classic New York
memorabilia and a distinct old Manhat- tourists, who generally stay in Midtown style Scotti had a creative solution, and
tan ambiance. and enjoy a late lunch, have consistently sent a limo for Maria Rita on Sunday to
Apparently, over the years P.J. Clarke’s gathered there in the late afternoon. bring her to his summer house for a lunch
developed an interesting relationship with Maria Rita, who has been traveling to meeting. As fate would have it, Scotti had
the U.S. for over 20 years, was no excep- been planning to expand his restaurant
tion. Every time she passed through beyond its original location, but never
New York, she always stopped there could have imagined that the push would
to enjoy her favorite burger and la- come from Brazil. After one meeting,
ment that the offering in São Paulo they decided to pursue the project.
just wasn’t up to snuff. In March 2007, A 20-year-veteran of the food industry
Maria Rita decided to do something and recent franchisee in Brazil, Maria
about it. Rita made a highly-detailed business plan
After arriving one morning from for the restaurant project, and convinced
Brazil and having to wait for her ho- owner Scottie to not only bring his res-
tel room to be ready, she went to P.J. taurant to Brazil, but invest as a majority
Clarke’s for an early lunch. She asked joint-venture partner. From the outset, the
to speak with the owner about the idea New York /São Paulo (Continued on page 6)
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counsel by consul
The Consulate receives regular inquiries the return trip to the U.S. and a new pass- Keep your doors locked and your
about emergency services available to port for further travel will not be issued windows rolled up – at all times.
Americans. Here are some frequently- until the loan is satisfied. Be aware of your surrounding as you
asked questions. depart and arrive at your residence. If you
Donations for Americans in see something suspicious, drive away and
If I am arrested, will the U.S. Prison in Brazil call the Police (190).
Consulate provide an attor- Consular officers visit all U.S. citizens Avoid walking along poorly lit streets
ney? imprisoned in Brazil on a quarterly basis. and parks – drive or take a taxi.
No. The Consulate will neither provide When possible, we give out personal hy- Try to be with at least one other person
an attorney nor legal advice. We can pro- giene products, American magazines, vi- – especially at night.
vide a list of attorneys within the consular tamins, food, and pens/paper during these Avoid flashing bank and credit cards
district that are available for hire at your visits. If you’re interested in contributing in public.
expense. This list includes attorneys that to the effort, we would be happy to send Always be aware of your surround-
have indicated that they speak English. you a list of allowable items. Contact ings.
The type of law practice is included (ex: American Citizen Services for more in- When using a bank or an ATM, make
family, immigration, criminal law, etc.) formation at (11) 5186-5315 or via e-mail sure that you are not being followed and
as well as contact information. Consulate at acsinfosaopaulo@state.gov. that it is in a public, well-lit place.
staff will not recommend one attorney Avoid carrying all your bank and
over another but merely provides the list Quicknappings on the credit cards. Make copies and leave in
as a service. Should the consulate receive Rise your office/home.
verifiable complaints about a particular Like other forms of crime, “sequestro Do not flash large amounts of money
law practice, that attorney is removed relâmpago” or “quicknapping” is on the in public. Before you leave home, set
from the list. Note that Americans ar- rise in Brazil. Quicknappings are gener- some money aside, just for small ex-
rested in Brazil are subject to Brazilian ally committed against random targets penses.
law; however, the officials must alert who are either taken to an ATM machine
the Consulate promptly of arrest of our to withdraw cash for their captors, or Most common places
nationals under the Vienna Convention. forced to provide ATM passwords or In your vehicle
other valuables. Victims are generally When you are entering your vehicle –
Can the Consulate pay not harmed and are released quickly especially in non-public places that are
for me to get back to the or left in a remote area. The increase not well-lit or coming from an ATM.
United States? in this type of crime is not restricted to At traffic lights – especially at
In rare instances, the State Department any certain location. The Consulate’s night when there are no other vehicles
will provide repatriation loans to cover Regional Security Officer urges people around.
the cost of travel for American citizens to to be aware of this danger and take ap- Arriving or departing your residence
return to the U.S. To be eligible, you must propriate precautions. – especially when you are getting in or
be a U.S. citizen, destitute, and would out of your car.
experience hardship if not returned to the How to Avoid When you are involved in a “minor”
U.S. In addition, the applicant is required Avoid attracting attention. Do not wear collision. Criminals sometimes bump
to provide contact information for three flashy jewelry or flash money in public. your car in order to get you to park and
people who might be able to assist – usu- Use public parking lots that are full of get out of your car.
ally family and friends. A consular officer people and cars and are well lit. While walking
will call these people to ask whether they Vary your routes and times. Do not When you are walking – especially
can provide financial assistance for the keep to the same routine. when you are by yourself.
applicant to return home. If they can’t, Be careful at traffic lights and keep When returning to your residence –
the State Department may provide a loan alert to pedestrians approaching your especially if there are unfamiliar people
for the transportation. The Consulate will vehicle. in your neighborhood.
purchase the ticket home, but the loan Avoid stopping too close to the vehicle When making withdrawals at ATMs
must be repaid. The recipient is provided ahead of you at traffic lights – leave room – especially if you are not aware of your
with a limited validity passport good for to maneuver. surroundings.
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others with such kindness,” said Sister This year, AmSoc aims to raise at Analysis includes:
Angela Mary Carey. Many institutions least R$125,000 through corporate
are also helped with specific projects, donations, and over the last four ü Strengths
such as raising money for new class- years it has distributed, directly ü Weaknesses
rooms, recreational facilities and basic and indirectly, over R$1 million in ü Recommendations
sanitation improvements. community assistance programs. ü Treatment proposal
“These aren’t entitlement programs, Companies interested in making a
they empower people to become donation should call the AmSoc office Wendy M. Smith, Ed.D. (11) 3885.7256
on (11) 5182-2074. Learning Specialist (11) 9236.5267
productive in society,” said Tim Altaffer,
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Pet Profile Member Tip
Every month we feature a local pet
Great burgers and taste of NY at P.J. Clarke’s
that one of our AmSoc members
knows is in need of a good home. (Continued from page 3) duo hit if off very
Take a look at this guy: well together, and over the next 18
months they set about making P.J.
Clarke’s in São Paulo a reality.
Maria Rita’s personality and
business style define “attention to
detail,” and it’s visible from every
angle in her restaurant. She’s nailed the
ambiance, and most importantly the
culinary accuracy, of the original P.J.
Clarke’s. Her success is in the details:
Many dishes at P.J. Clarke’s will remind you of
from easy aspects like checkered table New York City, but few match the restaurant’s
cloths and memorabilia, to obscure thick, juicy hamburgers, this one layered in
details like the N.Y.-restaurant’s old mussarella and onion.
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Children enjoy the petting zoo activities at last year’s AmSoc Easter Party.
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travel
Búzios: A seaside resort in Rio de Janeiro state
By Bill Hinchberger, AmSoc member
A
visit by Brigitte Bardot in 1964 They get up late, around 11 a.m., and
sparked the transformation of have breakfast. Then they hit the beach
Armação de Búzios (its official for the afternoon, maybe partaking in
name) from an isolated fishing village water sports or a pick-up soccer game,
into the St. Tropez of South America. but always having a couple of beers or
A better comparison perhaps might be caipirinhas and snacking on fried squid or
with the Spanish island Ibiza, but in shrimp at one of the numerous beachside
any case the ambiance on this amoeba- kiosks. Then back to the hotel or B&B
shaped peninsula is more reminiscent of for a shower and maybe a nap. In the
the Mediterranean than anywhere else evening it is off to the Rua das Pedras
in Brazil. for some window shopping and a drink Visitors to Búzios frequent the sand and surf, in
First a joke: “The history books say at one of the bars. Then comes dinner at addition to other nature-based attractions, shopping
that the Portuguese discovered Búzios a restaurant in the downtown area. Then and nightlife.
in the 16th century, but in fact it was back to a bar and perhaps to a nightclub
discovered by the French explorer for some dancing. Late to bed – and of schooners with their scripted itineraries.
Brigitte Bardot in 1964.” Armação de course late to rise the next day. Though Hire a local fisherman to take you where
Búzios (its official name) was an isolated most people don’t take advantage of you want to go on your own schedule.
fishing village when Bardot fled there them, there are other options – many of Most boats can be hired by the hour for
from the paparazzi in Rio de Janeiro. them nature related. as long as you want and leave from the
Her visit sparked a juggernaut of tourism Búzios Trolley – If you don’t have Porto dos Pescadores at Armação Beach.
development that transformed the little a car, this two hour tour of 12 beaches Additional information by telephone:
town into the St. Tropez of South America. and two vista points will give you a good +(55-22) 2620-8020. Or make a reserva-
A better comparison perhaps would be overview. Passengers sit in on benches tion at the Colônia dos Pescadores, the
with the Spanish island Ibiza, but in in the adapted bed of a truck. A roof fishermen’s cooperative, on the Rua das
any case the ambiance on this amoeba- keeps them in the shade. There are three Pedras. Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-4515
shaped peninsula is more reminiscent departures daily and the price is about or +(55-22) 9211-4723.
of the Mediterranean than anywhere US$25. Juice, water, fruit and crackers Tauá Ecological Reserve – This
else in Brazil. A babble of languages are provided. Most hotels and B&Bs will 100,000 square meter privately-owned
float through the air. Many commercial help you reserve a seat. Avenida José and operated nature reserve has been
establishments are owned by expatriates, Ribeiro Dantas, 550. Telephone: +(55- reforested. It offers numerous walking
and during peak periods prices approach 22) 2623-4733. trails and is rich in bromeliads: experts
continental levels. Of course there are Búzios Golf Club & Resort – No estimate that 40% of the 1,300 species
plenty of Brazilians sprinkled among the internationally acclaimed resort town of bromeliads in Brazil can be seen here.
foreigners. They include many of Rio de worth a hoot can be without its golf Wildlife includes raccoons, capuchin
Janeiro’s rich and/or famous; soccer stars, course, and Búzios is no exception. monkeys, agoutis and armadillos. Estra-
actors and other social-column regulars Claiming to be one of the best in Latin da Búzios-Cabo Frio, kilometer 5, Cabo
keep beach houses in Búzios. Despite America, the course was designed by Frio. Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-2200.
overdevelopment that even patron saint Pete and Perry Dye of Dye Designs in Scuba Diving – One of the best spots
Bardot lamented in her autobiography, Colorado. The course spans out over is Âncora Island, about nine kilometers
Búzios’ officials have avoided the worst 1,000,000 square meters of greenery, offshore. On average visibility is about 12
sins committed elsewhere – for instance, running through valleys and hills astride meters but can reach 25 during the sum-
they haven’t authorized high-rise hotels a series of lakes. The 17th hole includes mer. Only in May, when the winds pick
smack dab on the sand. If cosmopolitan, a Dye-trademark island-green, and hole up, is visibility sometimes a problem.
Búzios has remained relatively small and 18 is the most challenging. One day Three leading companies offer lessons
definitely exclusive. and seven-day package green fees are and outings: Casamar (Rua das Pedras,
available to visitors. Telephone: +(55- 242; Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-2441;
Búzios Things to Do 22) 2629-1240. Mar Azul (Rua das Pedras, 275 - loja
Coastal Tour in a Native Fishing 4; Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-4354);
Here’s what most people do in Búzios. Boat – Leave the huddled masses to the and True Blue (Rua (Continued on the next page)
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Turibio de Farias 127; Telephone: +(55- specialty. Seafood dominates the menu Chez Michou – Technically specialized
22) 2623-6226). and is clearly the best choice. After a in crepes, this place has been a hangout
decade on the Orla Bardot, Sawasdee for the younger crowd for two decades.
Búzios Hotels has opened a branch in Rio de Janeiro The music is loud and the clientele tanned
proper. Expensive. Avenida José Bento and buffed. Avenida José Bento Ribeiro
Pousada Corsário Búzios – Located Ribeiro Dantas, 422. Telephone: +(55- Dantas, 90. Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-
on Ossos Beach, five kilometers from the 22) 2623-4644. Website: 2169.
downtown nightlife – just close enough Bar do Zé – The fare in this little place Patio Havana – There are five different
for comfort. There are 32 nicely appointed is contemporary fusion, featuring grouper environments: a Cuban-themed patio, a
apartments, adult and kids swimming with passion fruit sauce, cerviche and bistro with an ocean view, a cigar bar, a
pools, a beauty farm, sauna and game Brazilian rumpsteak with Thai sauces. whisky bar with pool tables, and a wine
room. Rua Agripino de Souza, 50. Tele- The food is served at candlelit tables. tasting area. Live music nightly. Patio
phone: +(55-22) 2623-4582. Expensive. Orla Bardot, 382. Telephone: Havana is the anchor venue for the Búzios
Hotel Galápagos – Set above the +(55-22) 2623-4986. Jazz and Blues Festival in July. Rua das
Fernandinho Beach, this property of- Quintal – The waiting list is long Pedras, 101, Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-
fers 37 rooms, including two master for the private group dinners hosted by 2169.
suites. The Galápagos prides itself on gourmet Nelson Ramos Filho, who has Zapata – Opened in 1994, this
its nice views, attractive architecture, catered for Brazilian presidents. Groups Mexican-themed discothèque is the “old-
the privacy of its guests, and top-notch are limited to 30 guests who distribute timer” of the Búzios scene. Located on
service. The Galápagos is a member themselves among five tables on a deck the Orla Bardot, just beyond the Rua das
of the exclusive Roteiros de Charme, with an ocean view. Nelsinho, as the Pedras, capacity is 600. Be prepared for
Brazil’s version of Relais & Châteaux. chef and owner is known, might serve the line outside at peak times. Avenida
João Fernandinho Beach. Telephone: his “presidential gnocchi,” “Ramos cod José Bento Ribeiro Dantas, 352. Tele-
+(55-22) 2623-2245. fish,” or another of his contemporary phone: +(55-22) 9205-2663. Website:
Pérola Búzios – This self-styled de- inventions. Expensive. Estrada Ponta de Privilège – Located on the Orla Bar-
sign hotel is set close to the hubbub of Sapata, 208, Manguinhos. Telephone: dot just steps away from the Rua das
the Rua das Pedras nightlife - perhaps +(55-22) 2623-1934. Pedras. Designed by Búzios’ architect of
too close since the inauguration of the Boom – Pay-by-weight buffets are choice, Helio Pellegrino, this nightclub
popular buy noisy discothèque Privilège. popular throughout urban Brazil for attracts celebrities, models, rich kids and
All 60 of the spacious rooms feature quick and cheap lunches for executives others whose names frequently land in
widescreen televisions and nine have pri- and office workers on the go. In this the social columns. With a capacity of
vate whirlpools. Use of a well-equipped spot with the funky design by architect 1,200, there’s room for some regular
gym and yoga classes are included in the Helio Pellegrino, they take the food up folks as well. There are occasional live
rate. Av. José Bento Ribeiro Dantas, 222. a notch. Rua Manoel Turíbio de Farias, shows by name acts. The music goes on
Telephone: +(55-22) 2620-8507. 110. Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-6254. until dawn. Avenida José Bento Ribeiro
Pousada Casas Brancas – Set atop Brigitta’s – Brigitta Andes was born Dantas, 550. Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-
Humaitá hill, with an impressive view in the former Czechoslovakia and went 0150.
of the bay and Ossos Beach, this bou- at least half-way around the world Gran Cine Bardot – In a town
tique hotel boasts a multilingual staff before settling down in Búzios. The inspired by a film star, this is the only
and a refined yet laid-back atmosphere. idiosyncratic menu includes shrimp, movie theater. The Gran Cine Bardot
The sunset as viewed from the pool lobster, T-bone steaks and of course an offers four screenings a day, with a mix
is spectacular. Morro de Humaitá, 10. authentic goulash. Moderately priced. of commercial movies and art films. Its
Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-1458. Rua das Pedras, 131. Telephone: +(55- adjacent café is a favorite hangout for
Pousada Pedra da Laguna – On the 22) 2623-2940. intellectuals. Travessa dos Pescadores,
exclusive Ferradura Beach, this pastel- 80. Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-1466.
painted inn resembles a villa. Ask for the Búzios Nightlife
room with the whirlpool on the veranda Búzios Day Trips
with the ocean view. Praia da Ferradura. Búzios is a true city of night. People
Telephone: +(55-22) 2623-1965. rise late and remain in the bars and clubs Most of the places near Búzios offer
until 3 a.m. or even later. If you plan to similar attractions: sun, sand, nature and
Búzios Restaurants go out dancing, there’s not much point a bit of nightlife. Some of them are less
in arriving at the club before midnight. expensive. Some are less raucous. Some
Sawasdee – This Thai place is the Nightlife is concentrated along the two are more relaxed. But if you wanted
hands down consensus choice as the adjacent main drags, Rua das Pedras and cheap or tranquil or down-to-earth, you
best restaurant in Búzios, independent of the Orla Bardot. wouldn’t have come (Continued on page 13)
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The challenge of culture shock
Having to live in a to implicit and explicit rules. Over time, typically around six months
very different culture Lacking a way of interpreting the new in their stay, ex-pats gradually begin to
from our own is a far culture, we tend to use our own cultural feel oriented, are more able to interpret
greater challenge than interpretive system, and that is not only the subtle cultural cues and become more
we think at first. The ineffective but can lead to terrible mis- familiar and comfortable in their environ-
initial excitement of understandings that in turn make us feel ment. Their self-confidence increases,
being in a different even more isolated. and the negative feelings of the previous
By Heloisa Garman, environment soon be- Common reactions during that phase phase subside.
AmSoc member
comes overwhelming. are physical symptoms, boredom, irrita- Although this model suggests predict-
Nothing works like at home, and the sim- tion, homesickness, withdrawal (only able stages of adaptation to a new culture,
plest tasks such as mailing a letter or even seeing other Americans and avoiding individual reactions may vary depending
getting things fixed can become a hurdle. contact with Brazilians), stereotyping or on feelings towards the move and access
On top of if all, our usual ways of acting even feeling hostile towards local people. to support networks.
don’t usually get the expected responses. One can easily get judgmental and even Despite the difficulties and negative
Does this sound familiar? Don’t be dis- develop a strong dislike for certain ele- symptoms of culture shock, this experi-
couraged, culture shock happens to most ments of the different culture. ence can be an extraordinary period of
ex-pats, but it can also become a window Fortunately, most of us only experience growth. It’s an opportunity to acquire new
of opportunity for growth. a few of those reactions. It is, however, information and understand diverse ways
The shock of moving to a foreign helpful to be aware of them so we can of living. One can acquire a multicultural
country has been described in psychol- understand and cope with them better. perspective and a greater flexibility to-
ogy literature as comprising three distinct I had a few clients that said they didn’t wards understanding others.
phases. feel free to discuss their feelings with Here are some suggestions to better
During the first, an Overcompensating their fellow Americans, because they felt deal with culture shock:
or Honeymoon period, most things are ashamed and thought they’d be judged as n Talk with someone who understands
seen from a romantic view. Everything weak and ineffective. U.S. and Brazilian cultures.
is new and exciting -- smells, foods, Sometimes spouses do not discuss n Talk openly with your family to avoid
people’s habits and pace of life. During those feelings, leading to misunderstand- harboring feelings of guilt and resent-
this time, we aren’t aware of the stresses ing. A lack of communication can drive a ment and gain the needed emotional
related to the transition, and conflicts tend wedge between a couple. When a family support from each other.
to remain dormant. relocates, some couples may develop a n If you develop physical symptoms or
After some time, (two to three months), split. One member, (usually the man) negative emotional reactions, these
however, the struggle of having to com- through his work develops activities that may be signs of stress. Discuss your
municate in a different language and deal- entail a connection with the current envi- problems with a counselor or a doc-
ing with cultural differences on a daily ronment and the development of contacts tor.
basis becomes quite tiring. Things we with others. The other member (usually n Develop a network of friends to find
initially were curious about start annoying the woman) usually centers on activities the needed emotional and practical
us, and we long for the conveniences of associated with raising her children and support.
home. This is the beginning of the second, running the household. She now sees n Learn the language.
Decompensating or Crisis period. herself as facing language and cultural n Even if you do not plan to stay long
Excitement gives way to feelings of barriers when trying to communicate in Brazil, view São Paulo as your
isolation and depression. Minor nuisances with maids, shopping or going to the home and not just a temporary place
and irritations lead to serious distress. A supermarket. to stay.
client once said, “Living in São Paulo is She no longer feels safe and competent n Take it easy on yourself, and set time
just like trying to run a marathon with as she did at home and sees herself very aside each day to do something special
heavy weights attached to your ankles … much alone. I found women to experience and meaningful to you.
nothing works.” more difficulties, for their sense of loss is
At that point we tend to lose our abili- more pronounced. The man being more Heloisa Garman, Psy.D. U.S.-Licensed clini-
ties to work as effectively as we did at in the world feels more autonomous, and cal psychologist, has practiced with adults,
home, and we feel disoriented. In order in comparison, the woman who is home couples and family for 25 years in the U.S.
to understand this state of mind, we must alone can feel even more isolated. When and Brazil. Fo more information about her
remind ourselves that our ability to func- these differences of roles are not dis- practice and credentials call : 3898-2330;
tion in the world depends on our under- cussed and understood, couples may not 7179-9723, or write hcbgarman@aol.com
standing of subtle cues and our response find the needed support from each other.
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Members urged to meet in May Member wins
By Kim Beecheno, staff writer
award
“Good food, great company, a lovely Entertainment, Fundraising or Sports,
atmosphere…” These are just some of among others. AmSoc would love to AmSoc member Katleen Felix
the words AmSoc members have used hear from members who are interested in Ranger won both the Young Profes-
to describe the Annual General Meeting, volunteering and have time or experience sional and People’s Choice awards
which takes place this year on May 12 at to share. at the 2009 Jeune Chambre de
the Consul General’s residence. The meeting takes no longer than 30 Commerce Haitienne Excellence
The AGM, held in the form of a cock- minutes, and for longstanding members Gala, held in Montreal, Canada,
tail party, is an excellent opportunity for and new members alike, it’s a chance to on Feb. 28.
AmSoc members to share their ideas with socialise, make new friends and catch up Ranger, who was featured in the
the board and learn more about AmSoc’s with old ones. Newcomer Profile in the March is-
activities, while doing the important work “We like to avoid boring meetings and sue of Forum, was born and raised
of voting in a new president for the next tone down the formal part,” Street said. in Montreal, thought spent the past
two years, approving the financial state- Debbie Riveros, who has organised the six years living in New York before
ment and voting in new board members. event on many occasions, described it
moving to São Paulo in August
The AGM is a time to get to know as “a social event with a meeting in the
2008.
those responsible for all the events that middle.”
With about 15 years in corporate
AmSoc organises. For those interested, All members will receive an invite to
it’s a chance to discover how to take the event, and it’s essential they RSVP. finance, Ranger is now the director
part more actively in AmSoc’s work, the of projects for the largest microfi-
community assistance programs or even Who can come? nance institution in Haiti.
become a board member.
“People are welcome in any position, AGM is free and for members only,
wherever they feel comfortable,” said space is limited so please contact the
Eric Street, former president and current office at amsoc@amsoc.com.br or (11)
board member. 5182-2074 to confirm. Be sure to bring
AmSoc is always looking for volun- your passport or RNE to the meeting,
teers who are willing to help with the as identification will be checked on the
various committees, such as Charity, door.
We’re in the early stages of planning dations, city tour, shopping, lunch and
TRAIN AT THE BEST!
a four-day trip to Buenos Aires, from dinner at fine restaurants, shows, a day Improve David’s Tennis and Squash School
June 11-14. trip for the kids, and Portuguese and your
game. Lessons l One-on-one (all levels)
Organizers are taking a poll of mem- English-speaking guides. l Group lessons
bers to know if this date is can draw up Please e-mail or call the office if l Junior’s for competition
l Mini-tennis for tinytots
to 45 members (adults and children), you’d be interested in these dates,
since the dates are very close to school and if there’s enough interest, we’ll Social l Clinics - Parties with churrasco
Play l Tournaments
vacation break and we want to verify if be publishing an article in the May at l Fitness by Mario’s
most of you would be in Brazil during Forum providing more details. Your David´s
that period. e-mail will also serve as a reservation
The trip would include air travel, list. Write to amsoc1@americansoci- São Benedito, 2575 l Alto da Boa Vista
Alves Pontual, 437 l Granja Julieta
airport transportation, hotel accommo- ety.com.br or call 5182-2074. Phones: 5686-6848 / 5546-0226
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classifieds
H ousing schedule a visit, call Regina CRECI: 83892
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Expats
House for rent in Jardins Math and Science Tutor
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and air conditioning. For information and to professional growth, woman’s’ issues, adjust- & II, AP and Brazilian (Continued on the next page)
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The American Society
calendar of São Paulo
For more information about this month’s AmSoc events (highlighted), visit www.amsoc.com.br.
Important Dates: 5 Palm Sunday | 8 First Passover Seder | 9 Second Passover Seder | 10 Good Friday | 12 Easter | 16 Last
April 2009 day of Passover and Yizkor services | 21 Tiradentes | 22 Earth Day
1 Wednesday INC Monthly Cofee 9 a.m.-12 p.m. For more information, visit www.newcomers-sp.com.br
3 Friday INC Vegan Cooking Class Chef Diogo Miranda leads a group of up to 10 INC members to teach
sophisticated vegan recipes. For more information, visit www.newcomers-
sp.com.br
5 Sunday AMSOC Easter Party for Check out our Web site for more information: www.amsoc.com.br
Kids
5 Sunday Sampa Community Church Join us any Sunday at 10:55 a.m. Directions at www.sampacommunity.
com
6 Wednesday St. Andrew’s Scottish At the BBC, 8 p.m. More information at www.standrews.com.br
Country Dancing
8 Wednesday INC Red Rose For more information, visit www.newcomers-sp.com.br
12 Sunday Sampa Community Church Join us any Sunday at 10:55 a.m. Directions at www.sampacommunity.
com
18 Saturday Concert at Fellowship A series of concerts of chamber music in a beautiful and calm atmosphere
as found in the sanctuary of Fellowship. 4 p.m. at Rua Carlos Sampaio
107
19 Sunday Sampa Community Church Join us any Sunday at 5:25 p.m. for some timeless and clear directions for
financial decisions -- personal and global. Directions at www.sampacom-
munity.com
vestibular. Elementary and middle school Relocation - Assistance for Expats Taylor Real Estate
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Call Fernando Knijnik at (11) 2533-3965 or Visa; Documentation; Familiarization Visit; Luxury spacious houses, apartments and
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uals or groups. Sessions in English, Spanish, www.angels-expatcare.com (MariaElisa).
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contact Daniela Franco at (11) 9739-6191 or Selling Up A classified of up to 50 words costs R$40
dsf29@hotmail.com. for AmSoc members and R$75 for non-
Classified
Place a
fee of $24 US dollars! For more information: an e-mail to meredithsales@zaquie.com appearing in this newsletter. We urge you
or zaquie@zaquie.com or call (11) 5908- to use these services; however, thoroughly
Email: customer@bravoz.net or call +55
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any service or purchase agreement.
BravoZ.net Meredith.
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book of the month
In this occasional section, Forum recommends ministers with the ferocity of an Amazon is slowly overcoming its legacy of dicta-
books in English that will improve your under- piranha. torship and slavery to become a modern,
standing of Brazil. This was just one of the turns in a large- powerful and vibrant society.
ly unscripted and sometimes unwanted
political career. In exile during the harsh- An excerpt…
This Month’s Pick: est period of the junta that ruled Brazil for
twenty years, Cardoso started his political The most fantastic bedtime stories of my
The Accidental life with a tentative run for the Federal
Senate in 1978. Within fifteen years, and
youth were about the Amazon, where my
mother was born.
President of Brazil: despite himself, this former sociologist
was running the country.
It is for many Brazilian children a
magical land of treasure, snakes, rainbow-
A Memoir And what a country! Brazil, it is often
said, is on the edge of modernity, striding
colored fish flying across the water and
monstrously tall trees. When I later visited
with one foot in mid-air towards the future, as a supposedly more rational adult, I was
the other still rooted deep in a traditional awestruck by one thing: the darkness. The
past. It is a land of sophisticated music forest canopy mutes midday into dusk, and
and brutal gold-digging, of the next global nighttime is bereft of all light. There are no
superpower and the last old-time coffee stars, no moon; only the pitch darkness and
plantations. It is gloriously ungovernable, the primal screams of the deep jungle.
irrepressibly attractive, and home to the So the childhood fantasy was not that
family, friends and extraordinary life of different from reality, which I learned
Fernando Henrique Cardoso. This is his the hard way as president. I liked to take
story and his love song to his country. visiting foreign dignitaries to the Amazon
Fernando Henrique Cardoso was President for tours. On a visit by Manuel Castells,
of the Federative Republic of Brazil for a Spanish sociologist and friend of mine,
two consecutive terms, from January 1995 we set out with our wives on the river one
to December 2002. Born in Rio de Janeiro night in small boats. We were just pulling
in 1931, he is married, with three children, into shore when all power went out. That
and lives in São Paulo. same overwhelming darkness enveloped
us like a shroud. We grappled for flash-
A note from the author lights, and when we shone them upon the
river surface we saw hundreds upon hun-
This book is both a memoir, particularly dreds of beady little crocodile eyes peering
of my years in public life, and an attempt back at us. Tiny, vicious, stinging insects
By Fernando Henrique Cardoso, to convey to foreign readers my vision of began to creep into the boat. I thought to
with preface by Bill Clinton Brazil. myself, only half-jokingly: Here I am, the
PublicAffairs Book © 2006 president of the world’s fifth-largest coun-
304 pages
My family’s story and my own have
been inextricably connected to Brazil’s try, struggling to earn respect in the world,
over the last century. I was an influential about to be eaten alive in the Amazon....
sociologist who fought for the return of
Summary democracy, finally achieved in 1985.
And then, thanks to a somewhat un-
Fernando Henrique planned series of events, I became the
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