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If youre hanging out with your husband, he probably wont understand when you kick the trashcan and scream because you peeled the last cucumber for your salad and then proceeded, inexplicably, to throw it in the trashcan. And, odds are, your pets wont get it either. Recently, I confused my dogs Beggin Strips with my breakfast, handing him my bacon while taking a bite of his strip. That was not a good experience for me, although the dog was thrilled and is no longer fooled by Beggin Strips.
Menopause brings all sorts of beautiful side-effects that are not easily resolved. For example, when you discuss the alarming expansion of your waist, those not going through menopause recommend diets and exercise. You try both, and nothing seems to stop the growth that matches the issue men have with their ears. Just this morning, I was laughing with my husband when I tried to button my pants. After days of dieting, of going to bed hungry and waking up hungry, I still couldnt get the button and the hole to meet. My laughter quickly turned from a good time to something much more sinister. What the hell is wrong with my body? I screamed. I dont care if its menopause, there are skinny menopausal women out there Ive seen them on television. Why am I turning into an apple? My husband tried to add a little humor to the already combustible situation. Well, if it helps, I think youre a Red Delicious apple, he said with a smile. Is that a joke? I replied, or some form of porn? What the hell do you mean by that? I cant get these pants buttoned, and theyre my fat pants. This is pure bullshit. He stood there, frozen in place, afraid to move lest he set me off again. Seriously? Are you just going to stand there and watch me struggle into these pants? This is humiliating enough, I dont need a freakin audience, I gasped as I tried, once again, to suck in my stomach. Finally, the button found the hole, and even though the rest of me formed a ridiculous muffin top I was happy. My mood turned, and I walked into the kitchen laughing again. My husband smiled the way that you might at your neighbors moody Rottweiler who has wandered into your yard. While those not experiencing menopause are still important members of our village, we have to accept the fact that they dont understand our situation. I remember being very judgmental of my menopausal mother when she suddenly decided to stop attending church. That was certainly her option, but since she was the ministers wife it was a little awkward. To try and maintain a semblance of sanity, women going through menopause
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Summer should be here by now, but in many parts of the world, its still not showing its face. Hang in there ladies, youll be wearing your bikinis pretty soon, just make sure you wear sun protection to ward off skin cancer.
Im pleased to welcome Donna Highfill who contributed our cover story for this issue. Donna is a published author, change consultant and a lover of all things chocolate. Shes my kind of gal. Donna believes that laughter is the only true medicine.
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Diana Fearis, a reader, submitted her take on how she hates this new technology of cellphones and iPads and wishes we could
The information set forth in this pamphlet is not in ANY way (either written or implied) to substitute for and/or give medical advice to any person who reads this. It is only intended to share the emotional aspect of going through menopause. The Publisher
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should invite others like themselves into their village. But not the ones who seem to be really peppy about the whole experience. They are the same women who made you feel horrible when you complained about having small children. They declare that menopause is the ride of their lives. I appreciate the positive attitude, but would like to question what other rides they have actually been on. Because I dont think watching my hair turn gray and kink up and out like Einsteins is especially fun. Nor do I find having to put down a towel in my bed every night to absorb the sweat much better. The rages can be cathartic, but its a little embarrassing when I have to apologize to a mother in a restaurant for blurting out a string of curse words that her toddler is now repeating. This is why I value my village those of us who allow the cursing, understand the sweating, and find thick waists incredibly attractive. We listen to each other, and we nod knowingly. We are like Dorothy with the Scarecrow, Tin Man, and Cowardly Lion. We know that this journey would be so lonely without each other. So, we link arms and skip down the yellow brick road. And, sometimes, we turn into the Wicked Witch of the West, but thats okay. Because, ultimately and together, we will find out new things about our strength. We will tap our collective ruby slippers and find our way home. Donna Highll is a published author, change consultant, and lover of all things chocolate. She confesses to a grown son and daughter, and a Boxer named Riggins. When not wri ng for the Hungton Post, Donna is helping businesses grow and women succeed all eorts supported by laughter. Because, as her blog DameNa onBlog contends, Donna believes that laughter is the only true medicine. Find Donna on Facebook at DameNa on, Twi er at DameDonna, Linkedln and Google+.
Explaining How Extra Virgin Olive Oil Protects Against Alzheimers Disease
By Science News March 2013
The mystery of exactly how consumption of extra virgin olive oil helps reduce the risk of Alzheimers disease (AD) may lie in one component of olive oil that helps shuttle the abnormal AD proteins out of the brain, scientists are reporting in a new study. It appears in the journal A CS Chemical Neuroscience. Amal Kaddoumi and colleagues note that AD affects about 30 million people worldwide, but the prevalence is lower in Mediterranean countries. Scientists once attributed it to the high concentration of healthful monounsaturated fats in olive oil consumed in large amounts in the Mediterranean diet. Newer research suggested that the actual protective agent might be a substance called oleocanthal, which has effects that protect nerve cells from the kind of damage that occurs in AD. Kaddoumis team sought evidence on whether oleocanthal helps decrease the accumulation of beta-amyloid (AB) in the brain, believed to be the culprit in AD. They describe tracking the effects of oleocanthal in the brains and cultured brain cells of laboratory mice used as stand-ins for humans in such research. In both instances, oleocanthal showed a consistent pattern in which it boosted production of two proteins and key enzymes believed to be critical in removing AB from the brain. Extra-virgin olive oil-derived oleocanthal associated with the consumption of Mediterranean diet has the potential to reduce the risk of AD or related neurodegenerative dementias,, the report concludes.
When my husband and I celebrated our 39th wedding anniversary I did a short post on Facebook. I got 100 or so likes! More than 50 people commented. I was stunned by the reaction, as all I said was this: 39 years ago today, I married a boy/man with some peach fuzz on his top lip, and with a special haircut for our special day (from beyond his shoulders to a nice conservative shoulder length cut). Why did I marry him? What was so special? Well, I have to tell you, I really cant remember. But I will say this: I still think hes hunky; Ive never been bored; weve laughed and cried together! Today we are celebrating because we love each others company, and yes, Arthur still makes me laugh. Its nice to be together, but also now, more than ever, we celebrate our individuality. Heres to you Arthur Norman Jones, heres to us and heres to the adventure of life! I was trying to say in this post, that we started our marriage with some ridiculous idea of love, so ridiculous now, that I find it difficult to even relate to my feelings on my wedding day. Weve had many good times, and many times when we hated each other, when we could have parted, but both of us were seekers, both of us for some reason managed to change, to compromise, to forgive, and to continue to work together, through thick and thin. Today, its hard to remember the bad, because Im so very grateful for the fact that I found me, inside of us, and Im a better person today, because we are together, not because I feel I have to be with him, but because I want to be with him. I dont often wear a wedding ring these days, as I feel it is irrelevant to who I am. My marriage is not a fairytale and it never has been, and it never will be. It is a story of two people whove raised children together, we both worked really hard as we wanted more for our children than we both had. In the same way that I cant even remember how I felt when my marriage started, because it was some immature idea of love out of a romance novel, I feel today that I do know what true love is. It is the love that I feel when I walk out onto the streets for everyone I meet. It is the love that I feel when I look at a baby, so precious, so beautiful, so wonderful, so innocent. It is that mothers love that would die to make a baby safe. It is the love that is so deep, so vast, so immense, that I love the bird that refuses to sing, mostly because Ive been that grumpy bird too, not wanting to join in and have fun, not wanting to work with people, because I feel hurt by them and dont want to let go of the pain. It is the love that I feel for the bird that is singing some jumbled up song, but loves singing nevertheless. It is the love that loves all our differences, even though sometimes I want to slap some people for being so darned grumpy and I feel frustrated, because no matter how hard I try, I cant get some people to crack out a smile! In my marriage, I made a decision a few years ago, to let go of resentment, to do things I wasnt crazy about with joy and to stop keeping a scorecard. Ive noticed since I started doing this, that our relationship has shifted subtly and become much more peaceful and harmonious. Id been trying to write a newsletter for ages and ages. Id written pages and pages, and never felt any of them were good enough to send out, because they were airing my resentments. In writing this, Ive realized that I need to let go of the resentments that I feel towards my neighbors, who created a Neighborhood Watch group, because some of the emails that have circulated made me feel afraid of them. I started feeling like visiting friends might be harassed, that discrimination might escalate, my pet duck might be hurt and Ive had this vague feeling of disquiet ever since the watch started. I havent actually been able to fully articulate how sad I feel that we have this watch. Ive been trying to focus on the meaning of the word neighborly, which is: helpful, friendly, honest, kind, generous, thoughtful, decent, cordial, supportive. Ive started trying to remember to watch myself and make sure that I smile more, engage people in conversation, wave at people whether I know them or not and to keep these qualities in my heart as I know that these are the principles that build trust, that will stitch up and heal the wounds that weve all felt. They will open doors, open our hearts, open our homes, bind us together, rather than tear us apart. So go in peace, be in peace and bring peace wherever you go.
Monica Jones is a Bermudian artist and writer. She paints in pastel, charcoal and encaustic. She lives in Bermuda with her husband Arthur (lifelong sweetheart and supporter) and two ducks. She has three children, two grandchildren, a son and daughter-in-law. She grew up in Paget, Bermuda Contact info: email runaway@northrock.bm Cell: 441-332-2753Website: www.monicajonesartist.com
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By Diana Fearis Being a bit of a rebellious teenager through high school and fighting the system for what I believed or didnt believe in (and trust me that wasnt hard to do being a Protestant in a mostly Catholic school taught entirely by Nuns in Habits! Kiss WHAT RING, I dont think so!) well it seems I still carry a bit of that rebellious nature with me through my middle age years in fact it seems to have gotten worse! I refuse to conform to things that I just dont agree with or have little interest in. So many things seem to irritate me on a daily basis, especially in this techy era and too permissive and accepting society we live in today.
I wont get into the too permissive and accepting society issues as this isnt the forum for that. What I can and will write about is the Good Old Days and Good Old Ways for those of us who have lived them and miss them. Topping my list of many techy irritations is the Cell Phone monster something I am happy to say that I dont own nor wish to own (and that goes for Blackberries, or Blueberries or whatever they want to call them, iPads, iPhones, or i anythings for that matter, all of which have become the latest social must-have addiction basically all and every electronic radiation-emitting device that was ever created this side of the computer (something else I dont own, nor wish to). Theres no way you can convince me that all that radiation coursing through the human body is harmless, no matter what the experts say. Over the years both of my adult children (and now my grandchildren) have tried to convince me that I just HAVE to have these devices (they even bought me cell phones but I returned them). I grew up without these gadgets and intend to grow old without them too. I dont like being forced into using or doing something that I dont like or have little interest in, and unlike my job/office where I have no choice in the matter, I do have a choice in my home and personal life. Call me an old fart and living in a time warp and to get with the times all you like it all goes in one ear and out the other. I like my old-fashioned home and lifestyle and look forward to retreating to my oasis of calmness and quiet time away from all the stress, machines and madness. The last thing I want to do when I get home from work is to log on to another computer! I have to confess, however, that our otherwise computer and gadget-free house has recently had the invasion of a Kindle Fire oh horrors It detracts from quiet time with my boyfriend as he uses it all the time with his earplugs. Okay, okay, I get where maybe these things are useful if you have family abroad, but thats about it on the pro list for me. Well, after a year of this new invasion, let me tell you I HATE HAVING IT IN THE HOUSE! I, on the other hand, enjoy, and always will, reading a book the normal (and I guess now considered old-fashioned!) way and will do my bit to keep not only the libraries, but bookstores still in business. Recently, while visiting, my 5-year old Grandson came crying to me all upset because his Daddy wouldnt give him his tablet to which I responded Sorry honey but Im all out of childrens aspirin and just have some grown-up Advil which I cant give you THAT was the day I discovered what a tablet was! I didnt know whether to laugh or cry. I really do worry about what long-term damage these things will do, but it all falls on deaf ears. Yup, at Grannys house we play outside, read or color, kick a ball, hula hoop, remember that, play hide and seek, or just take a walk, you know all the good old-fashioned stuff we did as kids. Society has created a whole lost generation of machine-addicted humans. And, heres another irritation Cameras, or digital anythings! It makes me happy to see my family and friends look through all my PHOTO ALBUMS to see real pictures remember them? Being born here in 1954 and growing up in the old Bermuda and the good old days I find myself reminiscing more and more and have many fond memories of the way things used to be. I sound like my parents now as I say to my children and grandchildren that when I was growing up this is how we did or didnt do it. and wishing things could be like that again. Thank you for letting me let off some steam about these things and perhaps I have some company out there and would love to hear from you. 236-4542 (NO CELL).
Weight Loss After 40: Why Its So Hard and What Works
Every year, it seems, the needle on the scale is a little harder to budge. You cut back on portion size, you say, No, thank you, to dessert; you sign up for an aerobics class and yet your jeans size goes up and your energy level goes down. Whats going on? Starting in our early 40s, our bodies go through a series of changes that affect the very core of our being. Thanks to hormonal and other changes, the very growth rate of our cells slows down. Some of these changes are the result of the natural aging process. Its just something we have to learn to work around. Seven Foods That Help You Lose Weight: Sometimes, though, somethings gotten off tr ack, metabolically speaking, and ther es an under lying medical issue that needs to be dealt with before the usual weight-loss measures will have any effect. Heres a ten-step plan for understanding the challenges that prevent weight loss over 40, and for learning how to overcome them. 1. Get to know your bodys new biological rhythms and adjust to them: In long-ago times, older didnt necessarily mean plumper. Think of those icons of the American prairie, the sinewy pitchfork-wielding farm couple pictured in A merican Gothic. But today, those of us over 40 face a twofold challenge. Were living longer, and were no longer out there pitching hay to the cows at 5 a.m. When it comes to burning calories, its a fairly simple equation. What goes in must be burned off, or it sticks to our ribs. Acquiring weight is absurdly easy eating just 100 extra calories a day (100 more than what your body burns) will lead to a nine to ten pound weight gain over the course of a year, experts say. How much is 100 calories? Not a lot. A can of Coke contains 155 calories, a chocolate bar more than 200. Of course, that cola or chocolate chip cookie is no problem if were walking or running it off. But after 40, our activity level tends to decline, too. So the challenge is to bring the two into balance. Look back over the past year, and think about when your weight seemed to be holding steady and when it seemed to be trending slowly upward. What were you doing during the good weeks? What sabotaged you the other times? Make a list of what works for you, and what throws you off. Your own healthy habits in the past are the ones most likely to work for you now. Eliminate underlying metabolic conditions: Would it sur pr ise you to know that thyr oid pr oblems str ike as many as one out of five adults over age 40? The most common of these is hypothyroidism an underactive thyroid and hypothyroidism is one of the primary reasons many people over 40 cant lose weight. The thyroid is a tiny gland that produces hormones that regulate metabolism, and when its underactive, so is everything else. Think of low thyroid as having your internal thermostat set too low. Symptoms include feeling cold all the time, poor circulation in the hands and feet, clammy hands, tiredness and lethargy, hair loss (including eyebrows and eyelashes), and weight gain despite real attempts to exercise and eat well. If you suspect an underactive thyroid may be undermining your metabolism, the first step is to call the doctor and ask for a thyroid test. But beware: The first line thyroid blood test, known as the TSH, is notoriously unreliable. And doctors are busy arguing about whats normal anyway. As of 2003, the American Association of Clinical Endocrinologists began recommending that the cutoff for normal TSH should be 3.0 versus the older standard of 5.5, but this news hasnt reached many labs or doctors. And lots of endocrinologists think having a TSH between 1 and 2 is ideal for maintaining normal body weight and function If your TSH result is above 3.0, make sure your doctor knows about the new recommendation. And ask for further testing; there are a number of additional tests that many experts believe give more accurate readings of thyroid function. Adjust your eating habits for maximum energy: Your goal at this stage in your life is to keep your self feeling full without succumbing to the temptation to eat like you could at age 20. One strategy recommended by internist Julie Taw, MD, of Englewood, New Jersey, is to eat more frequently but to consume less at each sitting. An added benefit of eating this way is that its easier to keep your blood sugar steady, so you dont have the peaks and valleys that contribute to fatigue. Heres the rule: Try eating five to six small meals a day, and dont go more than three or four hours without eating. For example, you might eat a healthy breakfast before you leave for work, then have a nonfat yogurt in the late morning. Then instead of eating a big pasta lunch and spending the afternoon in a stupor, eat a light lunch and spend the rest of your lunch break taking a brisk walk. An afternoon snack of trail mix and an apple keeps you from needing the 4 p.m. sweet treat and makes it easier to avoid overeating at dinner. Your goal is the opposite of the starvation approach to dieting you want to trick your body into feeling satisfied and well-fed at all times, though the total amount youre eating is less. Time your eating to take advantage of our bodys natural rhythms: Exper ts ar e sur e of one thing: Snack (or eat dinner ) after 9 p.m., and whatever you eat goes straight to your hips and stomach. Happily, the opposite is also true what you eat in the mornings, when your metabolism is revved up to its optimum operating speed, is much more likely to be expended efficiently. Dont like to eat breakfast? Sorry, but theres no way around this one, eating a good breakfast is one of the key habits experts have identified that keeps thin people thin. When members of the National Weight Control Registry (people who have maintained a weight loss of 30 pounds for between one and six years) were surveyed. 78 percent reported eating breakfast every day and almost 90 percent reported eating breakfast at least five days a week. This was one of the only factors researchers identified that those in the registry had in common! Trick your metabolism with fat-fighting foods: I know youve hear d it befor e, but its tr ue. Its r eally not just about how much you eat, but how much of which foods. There are plenty of healthy foods you can eat all you want of and no, that doesnt mean stuffing your
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fridge with celery sticks. 1970sstyle. Instead, make a few simple tweaks to your diet, incorporating foods that actually fight fat instead of those that trigger it. Then eat other foods in moderation, and you should be OK. 6. Make muscles an ally in your weight-loss campaign: Ther es one thing the exer cise gur us have gotten r ight. The mor e muscle mass you have, the more effectively your metabolism burns calories. But sad to say, a natural tendency of aging is to lose muscle, gradually replacing it with fat. So in order to enlist the calorie-burning abilities of muscle, we do have to work at it. A common misconception, though, is to mix up muscle-building with aerobic exercise. Both are good, but the aerobic part though it does burn calories isnt what were talking about here. What you really need to focus on for long term benefit is basic strength training. Buy some hand weights, a bar, and some stretch bands, and channel your high school gym teacher. Make it as pleasant as possible; work out while you watch the evening news or your favorite sit-com. Slowly and gradually build up those biceps, abs, deltoids, and glutes, and youll have some key allies in your fight to prevent agerelated weight gain. Get more sleep to burn more calories: As any per imenopausal woman can tell you, sleep gets even mor e elusive as you age. Its not just that were busier and more stressed. We also have multiple physical issues, from back pain to snoring to night sweats, any of which can interfere with getting a good nights sleep. Yet, paradoxically, getting a good nights sleep is one of the keys to losing weight, says neurologist David Simon of the Chopra Center in Carlsbad, California. In recent years, significant research has shown that lack of sleep is directly connected to weight gain because of the actions of two hormones, leptin and ghrelin, that control hunger and satiety, or feeling full. When youre sleep deprived, your ghrelin levels increase at the same time that your leptin levels decrease. The result is more craving, less feeling full. Add to that the fact that sleep-deprived people often crave energy foods, which tend to be sweet or salty, and you can see how small changes in your routine can add up to big weight gain. Lastly, there are tantalizing new studies demonstrating that our bodies are most metabolically active while we sleep. So the longer we sleep, the more we rev up our inner fat-burning engines. (You still shouldnt snack late at night, though. Researchers also believe that calories eaten late in the evening are processed less efficiently than those consumed during the day, no matter how active our nighttime metabolism.) Add these all together and you can see a pattern emerging: The older we are, the harder it is to get a good nights sleep and the less we sleep, the more likely it is well gain weight. What to do? Take steps to combat sleep problems and your waistline will benefit too. Strike up a healthy relationship with your sweet tooth: If your e dying for a sweet tr eat, give it to your self, savor ing it slowly so it r egisters fully with your brains pleasure sensors. A trick that many experts recommend: Cut the treat in half before you start eating, carefully wrapping the second half up to save for later. You may or may not want it sometimes if you eat the first half slowly and consciously enough, youll feel satisfied. But knowing its there if you do plays a nice trick on your brain, which tends to crave things it perceives as being in short supply. Also, dont try to substitute artificially flavored sweets. Researchers have recently discovered that artificial sweeteners fail to trigger the bodys natural satisfaction response. So eating that 100-calorie artificially sweetened cookie only adds to your problems, youll keep on wanting the real cookie, so the 100-calories you just ate were in vain. Forget dieting, instead, focus on your fuel-to-energy ratio: If, like most 40-somethings, youre packing some extra pounds, youve probably made plenty of resolutions to go on a diet. Youve also probably figured out by this point in your life that diets rarely work, and neither does suddenly embarking on a strenuous new exercise regimen. Theres a good reason that sudden, drastic changes dont lead to long-term weight loss, and may even lead to a rebound. Have you noticed that your weight tends to stay fairly constant week to week, even if one day you go on a junk food binge and the next day youre fairly good? Nature designed us with optimum abilities to maintain a steady metabolic rate, because it helps us weather food shortages and sudden demands on our energies. Unfortunately, this means that when youve gradually gained weight over time, your body has adapted to the new weight and now does its best to hold onto it. So heres what you do: You make slow, gradual adjustments to each end of the equation. And you and only you decide which end of the fuel-in, energy-out equation to emphasize and when.
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10. Make slow, realistic changes in tune with your lifestyle: Lets say you want to lose ten pounds. To do so r ight now, youd have to eat nothing at all for about 2 weeks, or jog for 51 hours, or walk for 126 hours. Not only would it be impossible, attempts like those would send your body into starvation-mode metabolic slowdown, sabotaging your efforts. But you could also, much more effectively, set out to lose one to two pounds a week for the next five to ten weeks. Remind yourself that you are the only one in charge of tuning up your metabolic engine. Decide whether you prefer to focus your energies on cutting down the number of calories youre consuming, or on upping the number youre burning. Most likely, youll strike a balance between the two that suits you. If adding three half-hour walks a week is relatively painless for you, thats a good choice. If going outdoors in ten-degree weather is singularly unappealing and you wouldnt be caught dead in a gym, then focus on dietary changes instead. Your primary goal should be making small, gradual lifestyle changes that you can incorporate into your daily routine and stick with over time. Thats the ultimate secret to combating over-40 weight gain.
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Caroles Corner
On the back burner for some time was my intention to enroll in the Learning Centre classes held at The Bermuda College. Not only are they inexpensive, diversified and close to home, but they take place in daylight hours and theres no parking problem! Although the full name is The Seniors Learning Centre, one becomes eligible at 55. This year I finally got it together and registered for four courses: computers, exercise, yoga and dancing. The 90-minute computer classes comprised three sections: beginner, intermediate and social media. Not exactly sure where my limited computer knowledge would place me in a computer class, I was most relieved to find myself one step ahead of the rest of the beginner class not surprising as it was clear I was also ten years their junior. This allowed me the opportunity to assist the other students with the confusion of new terminology and instructions. By the end of the third section we were all on Gmail, Facebook and trying our hands at booking airline tickets, trips and hotels. The one-hour exercise class is called Fit for Life. The teacher is amazing pleasant, professional, patient giving alternate suggestions for students with any sort of physical limitation. Her exercises can be done standing or sitting. I was happy to discover floor exercise was not necessary! Basically, this class is divided into two equal sections. The standing involves a small ball and light weights, if one wants to use them, plus a cool-down stretching ending. Yoga, a class of 90 minutes, is neither stressful nor too long. It begins with a centering section, followed by a standing, then sitting and finally, a relaxation section. The instructor is a professional, calm and gentle as one would expect to find in a disciple of this ancient practice. I found my knee problem improved after this class. The 90-minute dancing class is in the country and western style called line dancing. If you can walk, you can do this. The teacher is good-humoured, kind and patient with the new kids on the block. One just has to shuffle along until the movements work their way into the brain. There is no pressure. Some of the students have no desire to move up to the intermediate class they just enjoy doing the dances they have already learned! At least two students are 82 years young. With an age range of almost 30 years, ones level of expertise is really inconsequential. The organization Im referring to here was founded in 1990 and amazingly enough (in a country of 20 square miles) has about 800 members. Self-supporting and non-profit, it offers up to 28 varied classes, courses, lectures, outings and trips each semester embracing subjects as diverse as: current affairs, history, conversational French, home maintenance, mature beauty care really, its all over the map! Many older folks are happy enough volunteering their time, knowledge and retain the old work ethic of days gone by. It is a most affordable, enjoyable and healthy experience to get out and about with those both a decade older and a decade younger than yourself. They can teach you much. I know I am certainly having a good time with these gals! Wherever you may be located in this olde world (or at least in the newish world), there is likely a comparable group. In the States try www.osherfoundation.org.index.php?olli. In Canada: www.uregina.ca/cce/personal-enrichment/lifelong-learning.html. In the United Kingdom: www.u3a.org.uk. If you cant find a similar offering, how about if you start one? Perhaps something to think about for your goal list for . 2014? Introducon to our new Adverser Hayley J. Benne on Page 3 HayleyJ.Benne hasbeenawellbeingprac onerforthelastsevenyearsand isexcitedandpleasedtobringhernaturaltherapiestoBermuda. The main purpose of her treatments are to give her clients exactly what they need, therefore every treatment is tailored dierently. She can begin treat ments as a special oneo pamper in order to provide relief to a minor health issue. Alterna vely, she canwork regular sessions in order to help release many physical problems by really trea ng the symptoms at depth as well as working onmanystressesoflifeasawhole. If you would like to know more about how her wellbeing approach could help bringbalancetoyourlife,thenpleasegetintouchwithher. Contact:5318304orWebsite:h p://hbenne .wix.com/reexologyandnaet Contact Tracey Caswell to purchase these books at: Email: tracey@logic.bm