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Texting Objectives
Its important to understand the objectives of texting before actually following through, otherwise you run the risk of not getting out for a day two.
Creating validation
Tith over the top compliments, which are actually not IOIs, since it would be obvious you use it for every girl, but nonetheless makes her feel good about herself, in the same way I like it when a girl calls me Handsome whilst I know she says it to everyone, I still like it.
Escalating properly
Never reply to static stuff, always be escalating. If during set it was sexual, ramp it up big time, if not dont start going all sexual via text, shell be scared to meet you.
Frame control
Ensure your agenda is leading the text exchange. Logistics for getting together etc.
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Texting concepts
This is how you should be acting when youre texting a girl. Its the mindset behind text game that makes it so much more powerful. So take it seriously!
Attraction spiking
Keep the line alive starting right after the day 1 all the way through, become part of her life immediately, can be done easily via small attraction spikes texts. On the other hand stop texting at a high note, get your message across and STOP, dont text her to death, she should always be wanting more. If you want to just stoke the re with a little spike, you can just re off a spike text, but if you target is for her to answer your text, ensure one question per text, always place questions at the end of text.
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Keep it short and sweet if you can and throw in a funny snippet of your life right now with an emotion attached.
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If she never xs you only x when shes been good. Choose a word she uses in her text and use it back, pick up on subtle writing styles, notice, does she use punctuation's at all, is there a gap between one sentence and another or does she write like this, without any gaps at all.
Establishing a concept
Our goal is to establish the concept that we are alike. In fact using we is very powerful. Whenever you can, its good to use we instead of you and I. It establishes a connection in a very powerful and subtle way. when can we get together? says something very different to when are you free? it assumes that we both are participating in mutual process of getting together. Shes not being asked out.
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Flaking Points
If a girl akes me, Ill tease her on it in a funny way. I never get angry or look genuinely upset about it. I never focus on reasoning with them logically. I also dont give up if a girl doesnt call back. At the same time, if they say theyll call back Ill just say OK cool. and give them the chance. But then if they dont call back when they said they will, Ill call back a bit later and just reinitiate the conversation as if I dont even remember that they didnt follow up. If you react to her aking with anything more than an I didnt even notice you aked reaction, than you are telling her: a) You lack emotional maturity, since you cant handle disappointment or changes in your rigid, structured little life. TRANSLATION: Youre about as fun as a stick in the eye. b) You must not go through this experience of being aked on very much or you would have gured it out by now. What, this is the rst time youve been aked on? Get over it. TRANSLATION: Youre a loser. c) If you HAVE been aked on before and STILL react this way, it tells her that insecure anger is where you react from, and she knows what THAT means about you. TRANSLATION: (I dont need to translate this one, do I?) After all, what kind of guy isnt even phased by a woman aking on him? ANSWER: A man who has other options in his life.
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If it comes close to the day two and she has not yet confirmed 100%?
Text her/call her, tell her a genuine thing that has come up and you working through your schedule and need a denite answer, etc. When there is a reason to believe she will be aking for a day two, there are three options: 1) Flake on them How about every HB that could possibly ake, ake on her instead. Its not different than all the other push pull moves that are played out in set, where you pull out their card before they get a chance to play it. They are supposed to resist your forwarding moves, you resist for them instead. oh we shouldn't move so fast. Her ake is actually her feeling the same thing, so do it for her, before she gets a chance. 2) Text them about being late Say something like: Im gonna be 15 min late, please let me know you got this message, so I know youll not be hanging about waiting. If there is no reply call and tell her since she has not replied you will not be there. 3) Call her Call with the same message, telling her you will be late, if she does not pick up, leave a message saying you wont be there as she seems to be otherwise occupied. What do I do if she akes just before the day two and offers another day? Accept or reject, accept with a hoop for her to jump through, make the hoop a DHV too combined with bringing her into your reality, your life is not only about meeting her, yeah you have this other thing planned, you can get her in there too, but on your terms.
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Like she says: Cannot meet today, but can meet on Wednesday?, you say, Wed is no problem, but I have to meet my aunt early evening, to help her prepare for this event, cooking etc, you can meet me afterward in that area, change the place or/and the time, from the previous plan.
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Texting Contents
This is what you NEED to be saying during your texts. It doesnt need to be verbatim, but as near as you can really.
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If you can think of something genuinely witty to say following one of her answers, then responding to what she says is ok, otherwise just keep on track. Ive tended to f**k up when Ive added stuff, so keeping it simple is probably better. Do NOT add cocky funny - ght the urge! Really! Lie down until it goes away! Every message should have a uff bit in it, responding to her hooks, drawing her in and using humour, its all a bit contrived without that. I like which night shall we go for... IM not asking YOU, WE are planning something weve both decided WE want to do.
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What she is saying is, I wanna meet up with you, but I dont have enough trust to come to your place, how about we meet outside somewhere. At that point I made the immediate smooth switch to a low pressure quick get together: I wrote: Greedy girl, actually Ive got a few dinner meetings this week, I sort of have to attend, I have an hour or so to spare at some point, lets grab a drink for half an hour, hows youre w/k looking? She wrote: Actually (notice how she uses the same term as me actually) Im quite busy this week (she is busy too.. ahaha..) but for a good glass of champagne I will nd an hour. I wrote: Taste for the ner things in life, huh? Meet me there and then. She wrote: Awh, I thought that you also have a taste for the ner things in life... I will be there.
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saying just this week people dont tend to lead interesting lives outside of work... so what do you do thats interesting? Or: Hey cutie, so random meeting you just now, are you always so friendly to strangers? Then I add some random question at the end.
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anymore, I just want to take care of you and help you get organised like a helpful big brother. OMG youve been kidnapped! Tell them Ill pay the ransom! X. p.s have they been feeding you properly? Ill bring chocolate! Plain or milk? We are sooooo getting divorced, call the lawyers, cite Irreconcilable differences, I want the cat back. The super alpha response to a ake, ohh something terrible must have happened, I hope all is ok with you and your family.
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Hi, How u doing naughty/funny girl? Im in my Jacuzzi with some aromatic candles listening to Mozart..;-) NO, Im not! Out wit sum mates having fun, wanted to say Hi! OMG I just saw a golfer walk straight into a SLIDING GLASS DOOR! It was funny till I realised that could have been me :-0
Sexual text
Follow up in text must be congruent with what happened in set. Validation... basically a text always has to make her feel good. If it was a comfort based set, sufce with some light endearments, if it was more a sexually charged interaction, stick in lots of hey sexy, or hey angel eyes in any event have lots of smileys :) winks ;) and kisses xx.
Escalating
So for instance, in the Golfer example above, she texts back: haha hope hes alright! where were you? Our natural reaction would be to agree with the humour haha... answer the questions he got up but was embarrassed, I was at a little cafe in Soho for a meeting... and then ask her out what are you up to later, wanna grab a bite? DO NOT DO THIS! Move on! She replies with some crap like that, you completely ignore and ESCALATE. What are you up to? Come get in to my bed. (They always say no, but they love it). Or if u want to be less sexual, you can C&F it trying to scout out all my favourite spots are ya? Either way though, the main point is, dont waste time replying to static rubbish. Once youre escalating and texting about corrupting each other, doing dirty things, thinking dirty thoughts, things will naturally progress to meeting up.
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But it will be mutual, rather than u saying hey want to meet up for _____ - it will be more like a mutual arranging of details. You: I now understand the TRUE meaning of freedom! Her: Why? You: Im not wearing any underwear! Those beautiful eyes... Those sexy lips... The smoothest walk... But enough about me, how are u doing? Whats going on in your fucked up world right now? When was the last time you got a proper seeing to I always tell them that I am in love with them when I rst meet them and that I cant wait to father their kids. How much do you love me today? What are we going to call our rst boy? What are you wearing? I want you naked in my bed right now
Conclusion
So thats it! Mostly everything you need to know about text game. This stuff is proven, it works and is being you RIGHT NOW so make sure you start implementing the advice given above. Speak to you soon,
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