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Males and females are polar opposites. They are as up is to down as night is to day.

One thing that is common to all opposites is that by the very nature of being opposite, they must be equal. If they were not equal, it would be impossible for them to be opposite. In any given year, at any spot on earth, there are an exactly equal amount of daytime hours and nighttime hours. The same is true of males and females; they are polar opposites and therefore are equal. However, we are not talking about legal equality here, but rather the essence that makes male and female has equality unique unto itself.

INTELLIGENCE
In terms of intelligence, men and women are equal in that the average IQ of all males is equal to the average IQ of all females. There is a difference in how these equal intelligences are arrived at however. Female intelligence is clustered around the mean far more than male intelligence. There is far less

variation in female intelligence. To put it more simply, the female populations intelligence
tends to be concentrated in greater numbers around the average IQ of 100, while the male population has a greater range on both the high and low IQ scale. A far greater percentage of female IQs reside between 90 to 110 than males, while conversely, males inhabit the extremes of IQ between 70 to 130 in far greater percentage than females. The more you go to the extremes, the more it becomes virtually all male, in both high and low. When one takes all of the IQs of the female population into account to find an average IQ, and then takes all of the IQs of the male population to find their average, the collective IQs of the two sexes are virtually identical, even though there are vast differences in their variability.

HAPPINESS
When one looks at happiness, we find the same thing as we find in intelligence. Researchers have discovered that when they ask men to rate the periods of their lives where they feel satisfied or dissatisfied, they find that men have a major spike of dissatisfaction commonly known as Mid-Life Crisis. When asking the females, what they find is that women do not have a major mid-life crisis like

men; however, they have several mini mid-life crises that occur at various times in their cycle of life.
When the researchers total up all of the time in a males life to find his average happiness and compare it to the females average happiness throughout her life, what they find is that both males and females have almost the identical average amount of happiness in their respective lives. However, the

males midlife crisis is far more intense than anything the typical female will ever experience but, he only goes through it once:

AGGRESSION
If we look at sin, or good and evil, what would you expect to find except again the same phenomenon?

When a boy is bad it is very noticeable and often in the form of an outburst or some form of physical aggression. It is very hard to miss a males evil because its nature is overt and it occurs as a
spike. Male aggression is stereotypically to hit, kick, shout or destroy something. The boy may go through long periods of nothing followed by a spike that is hard to ignore.

A girl, on the other hand, uses covert aggression. More commonly this is known as Social Aggression or Relational Aggression and it is stereotypically a female form of aggression. Its nature is to use gossip or social manipulation to hurt the targeted party, and this necessarily occurs over a longer period of time and is less visible than the males aggression.
What we end up seeing is that male aggression occurs as a noticeable spike that lasts only a short time while female aggression is less intense but lasts over a longer period of time. When we average out the two forms of aggression, we again will find that both male and female are equal, but different.

The essence of maleness is that things occur with infrequent but large spikes while the essence of femaleness is that things occur with more frequent but less identifiable rhythms. When one averages them out, men and women are equal yet they have gotten to their equal averages by different means.

SEXUAL BEHAVIOR
Now, to the point of equal but different, it must also be noted that male and female sex drives are equal but different in the same manner as the above examples. Jack Kammer, in his online book, If Men Have All The Power, How Come Women Make The Rules? said it best, so I will steal his example: Male sexuality is like a pushy door to door salesman; it picks one target and gets in your face so much that you simply cannot ignore it. Female sexuality, however, is like annoying junk mail. It is everywhere and steadily drones on and on at everybody, whether they are the intended target or not. While males may think about the sex act itself more than women, the equal opposite is that women think about being sexy to the same degree.

. Males and females both have equal sex drives, but they work in different ways. Even physically, men and women are equally sexual. Men have fewer but far more intense erogenous zones, while women have erogenous zones located all over their bodies. In fact, it is fair to say that a womans entire body is an erogenous zone that is dispersed with lowered sexual sensitivity but over a greater area, making it equal to the mans. This is why women are so much more into intimacy and the mental aspects of sex. Her entire body is involved in having sex whereas only certain, but more intense, parts of the males body are. In the end of it all, men and women both have equal desires to have sex and to be sexual creatures, although they are expressed in different ways. Women have their biological clocks and get baby rabies that demand of them to go out and get impregnated with the same intense irrationalness that men display when they are willing to do anything to copulate with a female, including the willingness to

commit treason or sell out ones own mother. It is horribly inaccurate for one to say that only men want sex. It is far more accurate to say that both men and women want sex equally. In fact, the only imperatives of all living things is to: 1). Survive, so that one can: 2). Reproduce. All other things are in support of these two imperatives that are universal to all living things. Males and females both have an equal desire to do this. Sex is the core of existence itself. We may think that we humans are smarter than animals, but when it comes to sexual instinct we are animals that follow the same mating patterns as most other species in the animal kingdom. This has become even more evident since the sexual revolution arrived and women became free from pregnancy via the pill, and free from the social stigmas associated with being a loose woman. One needs only to look at studies of sexually transmitted disease by gender to see that STDs affect a far greater percentage of the female population than the male population. There is a reason for

this: 80% of the females are sleeping with 20% of the males, and those males are the alpha males in society. Humans have reverted back to the mating instincts
found in most of the animal kingdom where the alpha males breed most of the females, while the beta males breed with none.

Again, you can see that male sexuality and female sexuality are equal yet opposite. This equal-opposite aspect of sexuality is essential in understanding patriarchy and why things were set up in certain ways, which I will attempt to describe and explain in my next post.

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