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Actually, God Hates The Way We Relate Paul B. Bailey 10 Are we not all children of the same Father? Are we not all created by the same God? Then why do we betray each other, violating the covenant of our ancestors?
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Judah has been unfaithful, and a detestable thing has been done in Israel and in Jerusalem. The men of Judah have defiled the Lords beloved sanctuary by marrying women who worship idols. 12 May the Lord cut off from the nation of Israel every last man who has done this and yet brings an offering to the Lord of Heavens Armies.
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Here is another thing you do. You cover the Lords altar with tears, weeping and groaning because he pays no attention to your offerings and doesnt accept them with pleasure. 14 You cry out, Why doesnt the Lord accept my worship? Ill tell you why! Because the Lord witnessed the vows you and your wife made when you were young. But you have been unfaithful to her, though she remained your faithful partner, the wife of your marriage vows.
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Didnt the Lord make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his. And what does he want? Godly children from your union. So guard your heart; remain loyal to the wife of your youth. 16 For I hate divorce! says the Lord, the God of Israel. To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty, says the Lord of Heavens Armies. So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife. Malachi 2.10-16, NLT It seems to me that prophets have internal radar that moves into over drive when they sense oppression. Prophets are not silent bystanders they boil over (Nabi) with a holy anger and cannot help but get involved. Malachi is a prophet who is sick and tired of the various forms of oppression that he witnesses on a daily basis played out on the macro scale of the geo-political and socioeconomic world of Israel and the ancient near East and on the micro-scale of family and relationship. Malachi is a prophet who bubbles or boils over with a word that is designed to challenge and transform the way we relate to each other on both a macro scale (international politics and economics) and a micro scale (family and social relationships). At the time Malachi writes the people are trapped in a morass of priestly corruption, oppressive labour practices, economic and social injustices that feed poverty, marital breakdown, violence, and widespread sexual immorality (3 :5). These conditions have come about because the people, led by errant priests, have broken the Deuteronomic covenant. 1 The passage we have read is about Gods attitude towards oppression in relationships, specifically how divorce is used by men, in Malachis time, to oppress women. It must be said that the translation of the passage, especially verse 16, from Hebrew to English is problematic because how you choose to translate the first clause determines the shade of meaning given to the passage. For example the NIV renders verse 16 as: 16 The man who hates and divorces his wife, says the Lord, the God of Israel, does violence to the one he should protect, says the Lord Almighty.
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Elaine A. Health, DIVORCE AND VIOLENCE: SYNONYMOUS PARALLELISM IN MALACHI 2:16, Ashland Theological Journal 28 (1996) p. 2 1|P a g e
For I hate divorce! says the Lord, the God of Israel. To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty, says the Lord of Heavens Armies. So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife. There are good arguments for either translation; however, in my view the context of the passage makes the NLT and KJV the most likely translation. Firstly, Gods concern in the passage is faithfulness; the prophets concern in the entire writing is Gods pursuit of justice in the face of oppression. Secondly, the YHWHs concern in the entire passage is oppressive treatment of women who were being oppressed first by unfaithfulness to their marriage vows by violent treatment and marital infidelity, finally by divorce. For example, in verses 13-14, YHWHs contention is the betrayal of the marriage vows:
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Here is another thing you do. You cover the Lords altar with tears, weeping and groaning because he pays no attention to your offerings and doesnt accept them with pleasure. 14 You cry out, Why doesnt the Lord accept my worship? Ill tell you why! Because the Lord witnessed the vows you and your wife made when you were young. But you have been unfaithful to her, though she remained your faithful partner, the wife of your marriage vows. The key word here is the word unfaithful from the Hebrew, bagad which comes from a root word which means to cover-up or to act covertly, the word means to act treacherously, deceitfully, deal treacherously. Verse 16 is an example of Hebrew parallelism, which is where the same thought is expressed in different ways in the (a) and the (b) clause of a particular verse. For example (a) The earth is the Lords (b) And the fullness thereof Verse 16 says, (a) For I hate divorce! says the Lord, the God of Israel. (b) To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty, says the Lord of Heavens Armies In other words, the single thought flowing through verse 16 is that divorce, has it was being practiced in Malachis day, was the final act in a series of violent and treacherous actions which men used to oppress women in marriage. In Ancient Israel and in Jewish and Islamic law today, men divorced women and not vice-versa; to divorce a woman was to place her at a social and economic disadvantage. In the Ancient Near East, relationships were governed by the Hammurabi Code. The code provided that women were no more than chattel, to be bought and sold, the code considered women to be lesser beings. Under the code a woman was considered to be a maidservant to her husband and under certain conditions,
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B.R., Hammurabi's Code: Did It Enforce Laws Against Women's Rights and Independence?, http://voices.yahoo.com/hammurabis-code-did-enforce-laws-against-womens-24408.html?cat=37, accessed th 25 November 2012 3 Elaine A. Health, DIVORCE AND VIOLENCE: SYNONYMOUS PARALLELISM IN MALACHI 2:16, Ashland Theological Journal 28 (1996) 1-8 4 http://www.womensaid.org.uk/domestic_violence accessed 25th November 2012 3|P a g e
Controlling behaviour is: a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour. Coercive behaviour is: an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim.5 Heath notes that, Abuse of all kinds is an on-going abandonment and betrayal by the abusive partner. What the church needs to hear and to tell those who are broken by domestic violence, is that God hates domestic violence as much as he hates divorce. Furthermore, when wounded Christians face a choice between divorce or continued victimization at the hands of an unrepentant, violent spouse, they need to know that God is their helper in the painful, life-saving process of ending the marriage. God's judgment rests against the oppressor and on behalf of the oppressed in such a case.6 When the Bible says, God hates divorce it is making a statement about oppression, specifically the patriarchal oppression of women by men who use and abuse women as no more that things in relationship. When Malachi tells us that God hates divorce he is speaking about a social economic reality in relationships where women were routine abused and then abandoned without protection and recourse to the law. God stands up and the prophet boils over and says Stop! This is not right! This passage is a statement not against divorce itself, but against how a patriarchal system used divorce to exploit and oppress women. Throughout this passage there is a great concern for faithfulness in relationships; a real press for us to keep our vows. At a most basic level faithfulness means not to betray the marriage covenant by sexual infidelity; however, this passage goes further. Malachi tells us that faithfulness to our marriage vows includes our on-going commitment to treat our spouse with honour and fairness; it is a commitment to honour and adore our spouse. According to Malachi, a man is unfaithful if he mistreats or abuses her in any way.
Home Office http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/crime/violence-against-women-girls/domestic-violence/ th accessed 25 November 2012 6 Elaine A. Health, DIVORCE AND VIOLENCE: SYNONYMOUS PARALLELISM IN MALACHI 2:16, Ashland Theological Journal 28 (1996) p.1 4|P a g e