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Male Multiple Orgasm

by Ian Kessler

Copyright 2009 www.MaleMultiOrgasm.com

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Contents
Contents Part I: Basics Introduction Legal Disclaimer What is Male Multiple Orgasm? My Story What does a Non-Ejaculatory Orgasm feel like? The Difference between Orgasm and Ejaculation Male Sexuality and Men Is it safe? Who is it for? Why Strive for Male Multiple Orgasm? Commitment Practicing alone vs practising with a partner Part II: The Method A Quick Lesson in Anatomy The Nature of a Non-Ejaculatory Orgasm 25 27 28 31 11 14 16 17 19 24 10 1 4 5 6 7 8

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Finding Your PC Muscle About the PC Muscle Exercises A simple non-ejaculatory orgasm Trying for a proper non-ejaculatory orgasm Exercise 1: Short Contractions Dealing with a sore muscle About the exercises in general Exercise 2: Long Contractions Exercise 3: Very Long Contractions Excitement levels Point of No Return Arousal during Normal Sex Arousal during Multiorgasmic Sex Spasms and their role Practice makes perfect Exercise 4: Ascending and Descending Exercise 5: Walking on the Edge Going for Your First Non-ejaculatory Orgasm Aftermath Where to Go from Here? Trick: Breathing Trick: Eyes

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Trick: Look Up Trick: Abs Trick: PC Muscle Lock-In Male Multiple Orgasms Are All Different Part III: Further Topics The Use of Partial Ejaculation Total Release Orgasming without pausing Accelerating an ejaculation Importance of Changing Condoms Amplifying Orgasms Final words

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Introduction

Introduction
First of all, I would like to thank you for buying this ebook. In doing so, you have truly made a huge step towards improving your personal life. I value your time, so I wont waste it on useless babble and will try to get to the point as soon as possible. However, youll have to bear with me since there are quite a few topics that need to be covered before you can get to actual practicing. I will also be keeping the book as short and to-the-point as possible, because I know how daunting it may be to read a massive volume of text off the screen. I have written this book in such a way that you could easily cover it one evening or two and start practicing without further delay. If there is something you dont understand, I suggest you re-read the relevant sections at first and if that doesnt help, dont hesitate to contact me.

First of all, one important remark. This is a book about sexuality. As such, there will be a lot of talk about penises, vaginas, sexual intercourse, masturbation, ejaculation and all kinds of related topics. Im sure that, as an adult, you are entirely comfortable with reading about such things. Many activities described in this book may seem weird, because they involve unusual sexual practices.

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Should you encounter any mental discomfort in dealing with such practices due to their strange nature, it is in your own interest to somehow overcome it. I will be teaching you a great skill and sincerely hope that you stick with the material until you have successfully taken your sexual life to a whole new level. Unusual skills require unusual learning methods.

Good luck and lets go!

Legal Disclaimer
The author of this book does not claim to be a medical expert of any sorts nor is he qualified to give any type of medical advice. Any and all advice presented in this book is for informational purposes only and is provided to the reader based on the understanding that the reader is solely responsible for any consequences of using this information. The author cannot be held liable for any damage, whether bodily, psychological or otherwise, resulting from the use of the information provided in this book. If in any doubt at all, the reader is advised to consult their doctor or other qualified medical expert.

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What is Male Multiple Orgasm?

What is Male Multiple Orgasm?


I use the term male multiple orgasm in order to broadly refer to the ability (whether innate or acquired during the lifetime) of a man to have an orgasm, retain his erection and continue the physical stimulation until the next orgasm. In reality, there is a lot more to male multiple orgasm than just that and you will discover these things further in the book. A man who has the skill of male multiple orgasm, is then multiorgasmic.

Another very important term that I will be using repeatedly is non-ejaculatory orgasm. This is, as the name suggest, an orgasm during which one does not ejaculate. Since ejaculation and erection are closely interconnected, developing the ability to have non-ejaculatory orgasms is crucial in becoming multiorgasmic. Male multiple orgasm essentially consists, at least at the basic level, of a sequence of non-ejaculatory orgasms.

Also note that I am talking only about using your bodys natural capabilities to achieve male multiple orgasm. If a man uses medication or other artificial methods of keeping an erection throughout a sequence of orgasms, I would

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My Story

personally not consider him to be multiorgasmic. This book is about a no pills, no medical or mechanical intervention method of achieving multiple orgasms without losing erection or arousal.

My Story
I first came across the notion of male multiple orgasm (although it may have been called something different) in a book about sexuality I was looking through at a bookshop. That was some six or seven years ago and unfortunately I have forgotten both the author and the title of that book. At that time, the idea of a man being able to have an orgasm without ejaculating seemed a bit too out there and I put it aside.

However, I hadnt forgotten about the idea entirely and a few months later I decided to be open-minded about the possibility, so I started doing some research. After putting together the bits and pieces of information I could find on internet forums and in books on sexuality (primarily relating to Indian and Chinese practices) and also inventing a good deal of my own stuff, I started experimenting. It took me a few weeks of doing various exercises (I wasnt very diligent or consistent about it) before I managed to get my first non-ejaculatory orgasm. At

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first, I did all of this on my own, but soon enough, as I became more comfortable with my abilities, I started using them during actual sex. Sure, not everything worked and not every time, but I was fortunate enough to have a girlfriend at that time who was very open-minded and non-judgemental about sexuality, which gave me a lot of opportunity for experimentation. Ever since I started having multiorgasmic sex, Ive never looked back.

As I became more confident about my skills, I also occassionally started bringing it up in conversations with other men. I guess I was bragging more than giving practical advice, but it certainly wasnt a bad thing to brag about. As somebody once said, It aint bragging if you can do the thing. And obviously it created a lot of interest. Some guys didnt believe me (and I definitely wasnt going to give them a demonstration), but others started asking questions. While trying to explain these techniques to them I gradually gained a better understanding of the topic and formulated a universally applicable method for becoming a multiorgasmic man. The end result of the work I did back then is what constitutes the core of this book. In addition, I put a lot of stuff in here that is not directly necessary to become multiorgasmic but which Im sure you will find very useful.

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Some of these things have taken me years to understand and Im glad Im finally able to pass my knowledge to you in a concise and convenient form.

What does a Non-Ejaculatory Orgasm feel like?


This is a question that men often ask me when they first hear about male multiorgasmic abilities. And of course it is a question that is pretty difficult to answer.

Since most men have never experienced anything of this sort, theres nothing to compare it to. And besides, one non-ejaculatory orgasm can feel completely different to another non-ejaculatory orgasm. Essentially, an orgasm is still an orgasm, but this time youre not ejaculating while having one and you are also doing some additional work in order to prevent the ejaculation. This considerably changes the general feel of the orgasm.

For most men, it seems, as for myself, a non-ejaculatory orgasm is at least as pleasurable as an ordinary ejaculatory orgasm. An ordinary orgasm can also become significantly more pleasurable if it is preceded by one or more nonejaculatory ones.

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A non-ejaculatory orgasm can also have a very different profile when compared to a normal orgasm. Once you reach a normal orgasm, the whole thing spins out of your control your body pretty much takes you through the process of orgasming and ejaculating and in the meantime you get to enjoy it. With nonejaculatory orgasms, your level of control is much much higher. For instance, with sufficient practice you can learn to stretch out the orgasm, making the duration of physical pleasure significantly longer.

There you have it. Thats all I can really say about the way a non-ejaculatory orgasm feels. You will have to try it yourself in order to find out how it feels for you.

The Difference between Orgasm and Ejaculation


The reality of todays understanding of sexuality is that most people think that male ejaculation is inevitably linked to male orgasm which then quickly leads to a significant loss of arousal and weakening of the erection. This notion is so

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intergrated in peoples minds that even mentioning the possibilty of male multiple orgasm usually creates a load of huh, what? type of reactions.

Its not difficult to understand why almost all men (and women) have this sort of understanding in regards to male sexuality. As kids or teenagers, men discover masturbation and learn about their sexuality by experimenting with it on their own. Ejaculation and the pleasurable sensations of an orgasm always occur simultaneously and they never realise that these two could actually be separate. What I personally find more puzzling, is that modern medicine seems to know absolutely nothing about this. The possibility of a man holding back his ejaculation, having an orgasm and also keeping his erection, seems to be regarded no more than a peculiarity that some men possess naturally and which can perhaps be developed by some men through some strange esoteric practices. Why this seems to be the case with modern Western medicine, I personally have no idea.

The single most important thing you have to understand before you can progress towards achieving multiorgasmic abilities, is that ejaculation and orgasm are not the same, nor do they necessarily have to occur together nor does the loss of

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arousal and erection necessarily have to follow either of them. What you will discover by the end of this book and what you will personally get to experience if you take the time to actually implement the advice provided and to become a multiorgasmic man, is that you can have an orgasm without ejaculating. You can have an orgasm while retaining both your level of sexual excitement and your erection.

But, in fact, it is also possible to have an ejaculation without having an orgasm. This is what I refer to as a lost orgasm. I wont be teaching you this, because, as you can imagine, its pretty pointless you ejaculate, perhaps lose your erection, but get no pleasure from it. I do mention it here however simply so that you know it can happen. It can sometimes happen when you are practicing your multiorgasmic abilities and something doesnt go quite right. Dont worry however, it is a fairly rare occurrence and you probably wont lose too many orgasms.

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Male Sexuality and Men


Most men discover masturbation at some point in their early teens or even earlier. They notice that physically stimulating their erect penis leads to a very pleasurable (albeit messy) end result. At this point they also usually think that this is a pretty damn weird thing to be doing and so they keep this activity to themselves. They may even expect that their parents will be angry at them if they find out. This leads men to be pretty secretive about their sexuality. Although there are plenty of outwardly sexual men who are completely comfortable with talking about their sexual adventures, very few of them are actually comfortable with talking about the details of sexuality, especially male sexuality. Vagina and breast talk is abundant in mens conversations, but penises are taboo.

Perhaps it is the teenage years of male development that are responsible for many men being inept at sex. Since the discussion of male sexuality is very limited in mens circles, information about abilities such as the male multiple orgasm simply doesnt spread. It is amazing how few men have heard of it. And not just ordinary men, but even urologists and sexologists, who are supposed to be experts in the area of sexuality, have almost no idea about these possibilities.

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Even if they are aware of the existence of male multiple orgasm, doctors are likely to dismiss it as either some esoteric ancient Indian or Chinese practice or as some skill that is only available to a few freaks of nature who happen to be born with it. This is very sad. Almost nobody recognises the fact that there is nothing freakish about such abilities and that they can be acquired by pretty much anyone with a little practice.

Due to the secrecy surrounding male sexuality, very many men grow up viewing sex as something overly simplistic. Although they usually dont realise it, many men tend to see sex as a sort of an extension of masturbation a short period of physical stimulation followed by a squirt, some pleasure and a release of tension. The only difference is that this time they are not masturbating with their hand, instead they are masturbating into a woman. This often leaves both partners only halfway satisfied with sex.

If you in any way identify with these ideas, please dont take them too personally and dont be offended by them. The purpose of this book is to open you to new concepts in sexuality, some of which you may never have heard before. Hopefully you will find these concepts useful in expanding your sexual horizons.

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Is it safe?
The short answer is, yes. Many thousands of men have acquired multiorgasmic abilities through practices such as or similar to the ones described in the book you are reading and have been living a much happier personal life since. I have been multiorgasmic for years now and havent had any sort of problems in relation to this skill. I have also personally taught loads and loads of men the art of multiple orgasm and have received only positive feedback.

If you are still not convinced about the safety of the practice, I suggest that you read through the rest of this book and see for yourself that everything I suggest in the book are applications of the natural capabilities of your body and extensions of practices that you are probably quite comfortable with already. Essentially, the practice of male multiple orgasms is about as dangerous as working out in the gym or having sex. This is because thats what developing multiorgasmic abilities primarily consists of: workout and sex.

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As I mentioned earlier, there are no pills, medical interventions or any other external or unnatural factors involved. You will not be subjecting your body to anything outside of its own capabilities.

Who is it for?
This book is for any man who wants to become multiorgasmic. Of course, you have to be male in order to put the advice described in this book to practical use.

If you are a woman who bought this ebook for your man, you will still have to give the ebook to him to read. Unfortunately, you cant teach these abilities to your man in secret, because they are mostly about conscious workout and practice. You dont give your man multiple orgasms the same way a man can give orgasms to his woman. He has to work on them in person.

For the purpose of this book, I will assume that you (the reader) are a heterosexual man and that your sexual partner (if any) is female. This is in no way to imply that the methods described in this book cannot be used by homosexual or bisexual men and their male partners. If you are a homosexual or a bisexual

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man, then by all means, use these principles and perhaps even teach them to your partners and enjoy a better personal life. Unfortunately, I have personal experience of teaching only heterosexual men to be multiorgasmic. However, almost none of the exercises and techniques in this guide actually require the presence of a partner, and therefore, for the most part I think that, homosexual and bisexual men should find it fairly straightforward to apply the material taught.

Whether you have a sexual partner or not, I will be assuming that you are a sexually active man, or are at least planning to become such at some point in the future. Otherwise, why would you be reading a book on multiorgasmic abilities? By sexually active I mean that you regularly receive some sort of physical stimulation that leads to orgasm. I know the previous sentence sounds weird, but in reality, I dont really care where that stimulation comes from your partner, your hand, some sexual toy or whatever. If you are a man and you orgasm every now and then, the principles described in this book are applicable to you.

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Why Strive for Male Multiple Orgasm?

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Why Strive for Male Multiple Orgasm?


I hope that I will be doing excessive work by telling you why you should read this book and follow my advice - the benefits of being multiorgasmic are great and numerous. After you have taken time and effort to become multiorgasmic, I cannot possibly imagine you feeling any sort of regret about it. The advantages may be fairly obvious, but I will list them anyway, just so you clearly see and know what you are striving for.

First of all, you will last much longer in bed. In fact, you will last as long as you want to and wont be limited by your physiological need for sexual release through orgasm and ejaculation. Sex will stop being a 10 minute (if even that) activity that often leaves both partners feeling like they have missed out on something. Sex will suddenly become an act of love that can last for hours. Of course, you wont be deprived of the possibility to have quickies either the duration of sex will be entirely in your hands.

Your woman will be extremely grateful to you for your ability to last longer. It is well known that women often take significantly longer to climax than men. If you currently have problems with giving your woman an orgasm through intercourse,

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then after you become multiorgasmic, you will finally be able to last as long as you need to for your woman to reach her orgasm. Women are by nature multiorgasmic and now you wont even be limited anymore in the number of orgasms you can give your woman you might even be able to synchronise your orgasms and climax together, over and over again.

It is very likely that your partner will also feel more loved because of your effort to achieve male multiple orgasm and therefore to become a better lover. A woman who is happy in bed is a happier woman in general and you are almost certain to see and feel an improvement in your personal and intimate life.

It is incredible how binding, emotionally and physically, multiorgasmic sex can be. When two people regularly have sex lasting for hours on end, sharing orgasm after orgasm, their relationship is certain to become stronger and closer. If you have a monogamous relationship with your intimate partner, both of you will feel much more satisfied by the sex life between the two of you. If you have multiple partners or have many short-term monogamous relationships, the better sex will certainly keep your women coming back for more and perhaps even bragging to their girlfriends about you... Ill let you make your own conclusions here.

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You, as a man, will also feel much more satisfied by the sex you have with your partner or partners. Sex will no longer be a quick session whose sole purpose is to release some tension in your genitals and aid your subsequent sleep. The average man tends to view sex as a race towards, or more often as a desperate attempt to hold off the ejaculation and the inevitable loss of erection and arousal. The multiorgasmic male views sex as a process of sharing intimate love with his partner, which can end with a full final ejaculation whenever he so chooses. As a matter of fact, it doesnt even have to end with an ejaculation it is entirely up to the man to decide.

The physical pleasure you yourself will get from sex will increase immensely instead of one single and often sloppy orgasm you will be having loads of them. The orgasms themselves will, perhaps counter-intuitively, become much more powerful and profound. You will also develop the ability to surf right on the borderline between a high state of arousal and a full orgasm the state I call the point of no return thus giving yourself absolutely insane amounts of physical pleasure.

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If you have had problems with premature ejaculation, then those will also be history. You may get aroused very fast, you may even have your first orgasm within a minute or two of starting intercourse, but that doesnt matter you will retain your erection and your arousal and you still have plenty of orgasms to go before you call it a night. So, no more embarrassement or apologies you are enjoying sex from the very start and enjoying it all the way and so is your partner.

Even if you dont have a sexual partner at the moment, it makes perfect sense to work on achieving multiple orgasms once you have a partner, you will feel much more confident knowing that there will be no embarrassement in bed and that you will be able to satisfy her sexually. Even as long as you are single, the ability to control your orgasms will provide you with much greater pleasure in other sexual activities, like masturbation, for example. Please do not think that this book is only for people who live an active sexual life single men can benefit from this advice just as much.

The exercises that accompany multiorgasmic skills and the multiorgasmic practices themselves have a tendency to give men the ability to have stronger erections than usual. So, if you have had problems with weak erections, then that

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is definitely not a reason to avoid acquiring multiorgasmic skills. Quite the contrary its a reason to be pursuing them. Many men have also reported actual increase in penis length after a period of living a multiorgasmic lifestyle. I am not giving any guarantees here, but if you happen to think your penis is too short, stick with the exercises and they might actually help you. Also, if you happen to care about such things, then as a little bonus, with multiple orgasms also often comes the ability to have much more powerful ejaculations and to shoot much further. Make sure you warn your woman.

I would also mention the health benefits of leading a multiorgasmic lifestyle. It is a well-known fact that sex is a great physical exercise that is in many ways equivalent to doing sport. Multiple orgasms allow you to have sex for so long that it adds up to quite a workout. The physical satisfaction after multiorgasmic sex is enormous and fulfilling in many ways. Frequent sexual activity has also been associated with a healthier prostate gland and a decreased risk of prostate cancer.

As you can see, multiorgasmic abilities to a certain extent help with nearly every major issue in life sex, relationships, health. (Perhaps they wont solve financial

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problems, but who knows...) For the really minimal amount of time and effort it takes to become multiorgasmic, it is probably one of the best commitments to personal improvement that you can make in life, so do take hold of the opportunity.

Commitment
Its important that you understand that multiorgasmic abilities will not come to you overnight. It may take several weeks or maybe even months before you achieve your first multiple orgasm. Although, If you are lucky and happened to have a natural predisposition for multiple orgasms, you may develop the basic multiorgasmic abilities within a few days. By basic multiorgasmic abilities I mean the ability to have an orgasm without ejaculating and without losing erection. However, once you reach that level, do not think that your development in this area is over. There is so much more to being multiorgasmic than simply sustaining an erection. Later in this book, I will cover advanced topics and techniques that you could work on once you become a multiorgasmic man. But first, we need to

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get you to your first multiple orgasm and, as you can imagine, this will require quite a bit of commitment on your part.

At this point, you need to make sure that you have enough will to go through the exercises that I will teach you and to keep doing them until you achieve your first non-ejaculatory orgasm. I can tell you what you should do and I can give you the exercises and techniques, but I cannot give you the willpower to go through with them. Therefore, I suggest that you make a commitment right now to keep working on the exercises until you become truly multiorgasmic. The learning process may be difficult and perhaps even discouraging at times, especially if you fail at achieving your first non-ejaculatory orgasm many times in a row, but keep in mind that the goal is well worth the effort and that you will be grateful to yourself once you're there.

Practicing alone vs practising with a partner


You will have to decide how you want to do the exercises on your own or involving your partner. Some exercises can only be practiced alone, but there are

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others which can be done either way. Where appropriate, I will discuss variations of the exercises both for single and couple practice.

Most men choose to do most of the exercises alone, at least at first, and that is perfectly understandable it can be difficult to explain to your partner what youre doing if you have never done it before yourself. When practicing alone, there is also no fear of judgement or other psychological obstacles you might encounter when doing the exercises with your woman. How you choose to do the exercises is entirely up to you. If you choose to practice on your own, make sure you can do so undisturbed. If you choose to involve your partner, make sure she is completely supportive and understanding of what youre trying to achieve.

If you are going to talk to your partner about your aspirations to become multiorgasmic, it is a good idea to explain that this is not solely for your own benefit and that your (as a couple) sex life is going to improve tremendously once you become a multiorgasmic man.

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