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Believe it or not, practices of BDSM - whipping, flagellations and other sadomasochistic activities - are shown in some of the oldest textual records in the world. The origin of the term is still unclear but is believed to be a compound initialism for bondage-discipline, dominancesubmission and sadism-masochism. Nevertheless, BDSM is a catch up phrase for numerous erotic activities. ccording to Asian Escorts Brisbane, people don!t realise that ever"bod"!s doing it, even normal couples. #hether it!s gentle biting, light to heav" span$ing, t"ing "ourself or "our partner, power pla" or aggressive sex % BDSM falls somewhere on those lines. THE ASPECTS OF BDSM Bondage and Discipline. The term &bondage! refers to the practice of ph"sical restraining in an erotic $ind of wa". 't!s binding "our sexual partner using handcuffs or ropes. (n the other hand, &discipline! refers to ps"chological restraining with the use of rules and punishment. Dominance and Submission. The set of behaviours, customs and rituals of &dominance and submission! focus more on the mental aspect of BDSM. The idea is giving and accepting control of one individual over another in an erotic context. 't involves elements such as care and devotion complementing one another. Sadism and Masochism. lso $nown as sadomasochism, the practice surrounds the idea of exchanging ph"sical and emotional pain. Sadism gets pleasure b" inflicting pain, degradation or humiliation while masochism en)o"s being hurt and suffering a humiliating scenario. WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW 1. It needs Trust *eople perceive BDSM as abusive and violent +whips and chains, but the truth is it!s all about the trust "ou give to each other. 't is arranged with clear, intimate communication to let trust trump over harm and get the erotic result both individuals are aiming for. 2. Aesthetics -or BDSM fans, the practice is an art of creating sensual beaut" which ma" be different from what others consider as sex" of arousing. *articipants en)o" a set of uni.ue aesthetics % the smell of leather, the sight welts on a bottom, the texture of rope, etc. 3. Safe words are used The context of abuse in BDSM is )ust a m"th. /ach scene is well-rehearsed, choreographed and &safe! words are agreed upon. These words are used either to stop or continue the action and are honoured to protect trust and the relationship. &0ed light! is commonl" used. . The sub is in charge 1ontrar" to public opinion, the one who!s in charge is not the dominant partner. 't!s alwa"s the sub who controls the show. The dominant!s )ob is to fulfil the sub!s needs, ma$e her feel safe and nurtured. The submissive can alwa"s invo$e the stop signal. !. It has a stor" More often than not, BDSM provides a narrative. The stories and roles often appeal to people who have extensive imagination. 2nli$e vanilla sex +sex without an" $in$s,, BDSM role pla"ing has an organised template but it still allows spontaneit".

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