Rebuttal

We still just cannot understand why you would want to keep abortion legal! Its ending all
these lives and youre saying lets kill more. Even though killing is wrong. Life begins at
conception. Thats when there is a beating heart, breathing lungs, and living human being.
They can feel all the pain. But you obviously dont care. Now when you
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Responding to common pro-choice arguments
BEATRICE FEDOR
Short reflections on pro-choice statements with simple responses (a non-exhaustive list).
"It's not a baby until it's born."
Scientists tell us that human life begins at fertilization. If the concept of 'nothingness until
birth' were true, it should apply to all babies, not just to the unplanned/unwanted. However,
during "wanted" pregnancies, no doctors or nurses are telling their patients: "what you are
carrying is not a baby". If they were, parents would be outraged. And why does the
government bother to publish pregnancy dos and don'ts with warnings about what is harmful
to the unborn baby?
"Forced pregnancy is a violation of human rights."
Of course and so is forced abortion. But when pro-life volunteers talk to a woman about
alternatives to abortion, pregnancy has already begun and they are not responsible for
fathering the child. Pro-life options are proposed and never imposed. Women are free to
have their abortion but if they are unsure or pressured to abort, we want to let them know
that help is available and that they have choices.

"Don't like abortion? Don't have one!"
This sarcastic statement misrepresents the tragic circumstances that lead women to abortion,
the gruesome procedures and post abortion physical and mental issues. I will never tell a pro-
choice person: "You like abortion? Go get one!" It would be absurd and assuming that the
issue is taken lightly. Besides, who likes abortion?
"It's part of the woman's body & My Body, my Choice."
Firstly, science makes it clear that there are two distinct DNA and bodies involved in a
pregnancy (see fertilization). Secondly, making an informed choice implies that women are
told about their baby's developmental stage, all of the other options, what the abortion
procedure actually does and the possible physical and psychological consequences. Women
should also be free from all forms of coercion. The heated debate about ultrasound laws,
research presented on the Unchoice website and Silent No More Awareness Campaign
testimonies suggest otherwise.
"You are shaming women."
Paying somebody to destroy one's baby before birth is not psychologically neutral, even for
the religion-free/dogma-free person. Women are not stupid and we shouldn't underestimate
their ability to feel, reflect on their actions and see abortion for what it is.
"You want to put women in jail."
There will always be those who are using abortion to make money or to serve the eugenics
agenda. These are the people who should be jailed, were abortion outlawed and were they to
continue to take advantage of women and unborn babies illegally.
Secondly, making an informed choice implies that women are told about their baby's
developmental stage, all of the other options, what the abortion procedure actually does and
the possible physical and psychological consequences.

"You love fetuses but you don't care about born people."
Some of us are adoptive families; others are supporting women through crisis pregnancy
centers (see Birthright), homes for unwed mothers and other programs including post
abortion care (see Rachel's Vineyard Retreat). We value all human life, born and unborn,
healthy and sick, young and old, even the lives of those who disagree with us. In the event of
serious illness, would you prefer to be treated by a physician who values human life or by one
who thinks that some lives are not worth living?

"Anti-choicers are violent."
In October 2012, Sean Kedzie was violently attacked by two Obama/Biden supporters over a
Romney/Ryan yard sign. However, no one is suggesting that the actions of these individuals
represent all Obama voters or the Democratic Party. Likewise, a few individuals do not
represent the pro-life movement. We denounce abortion as the violent taking of a life,
detrimental to women and we promote peaceful activism (see 40 Days For Life).
"Pro-lifers are pro-guns/pro-death penalty religious nuts who want to push their religion on
others."

We are a diverse movement, much like the pro-choice movement. Pro-abortion activist
Sunsara Taylor is anti-pornography and the organization "Clergy for Choice" is a group of pro-
abortion religious. But it doesn't mean that all pro-choicers are religious and opposed to
pornography. Likewise, there is no "one size-fits all" pro-lifer (see The Pro-Life Alliance of Gays
and Lesbians, Pro-Life Pagans, Secular Pro-Life and Pro-Life Socialists).