The Daily Times-News WOMEN'S NEWS, LOCAL FEATURES AND GENERAL 3OB BURLINGTON, N.C. Virginia Graham Tries To Make New Apartment Seem 4 At Home' By DONALD MADDEN Wtnert News Service v\ : LOS ANGELES - Vibrant, vinckxu Virginia Graham bat a brand new nighttime national television "talk" show, that hw made her change her home base from New York to Los Angeles. "1 rented this apartment famished, but my family and penoul belongings are so Im- portant to me that I brought lots of my own things with me including my husband. "I own the apartment in New York, which we'll never give up. I go Twine* to New York every five weeks for ten days, to spend with my daughter and her babies. I'm very doge to my whole family, including, if you will believe it, my husband's five sisters. "I think that 'home* is wherever you happen to have to be at that time,' Home is when you can have people in, and have a home - cooked Ensconced in her newly rented Los Angles apartment, Virginia Graham has made the furnished apartment seem "at home", by surrounding herself with many rare porcelain and China pieces, (Dresden, Lonox, Rosenth- al, Cutbertsoo) that she has collected for years. (W NS photo by Max Eckert meal, so it doesn't make any difference where you are at the moment. Food "I happen to love food, but Fm a 'natural* cook. No added ersatz, like phony chemical bacon bits. But I don't know what's happened to people these days. They've dieted themselves right out of hospitality. "In this apartment, when people come by, every dish is filled with special things that I've searched for and found in little, off - the - beaten - track stores. But in most homes these, days, you're lucky you even get dinner. "This apartment, let's face it, is furnished Early Broad- way, but my apartment hi New York is a dream. And it's Just filled to the rafters with rare things I've collected over the years. You might call it a little French maison- ette, all done hi pastel colors. "And alt the paintings in the apartment are by one art- ist, a Hungarian named Fried Pal. I love his paintings be- cause they're so ethereal. I don't understand anything that isn't beautiful, like so many of the contemporary paintings 1 see in the galleries. "W hy, I have a huge paint- ing of Versailles in my New York bedroom. So, when peo- ple ask me where I'm going to go on my vacation, I just say 'to Versailles'." French Feminist Says Men Are Toison' .By BUS HABTMAN .Womee't News Service PARIS lien are poison. They poison women In multi- farious ways, enough ways to fill a book. To prove mis theory, Denlse Hubert 'has written an en- gaging vobane entitled "Les Homines - Poisons," or "Pois- on Men," which has Just been released by Ha c he t t e , France's largest book pub- lisher.. It is already a best - seller with ladies demanding total sexual equality. Mow. Hubert approaches W omen's liberation in a typically French way hi a per- sonal rather than political "Poison men? W hy do I call them that?" she asks. "The title says what it should. Poison is an ingredient that creeps, spreads and pene- trates until mabsorb JL* Hen, she insists, produce their poison automaficaDy, as snakes produce venom And mate poisoo has replaced mate tyranny. "There are tew real tyrants left," writes the vivacious Frenchwoman. "A tyrant was a man of action. He reached for bis six - shooter if you didn't kiss nan; he threw you out the window if you forgot the salt That took courage. But today's species is another breed. He is poisonous, and poison is the weapon of the. weak." Mme. Hubert is quick to point out that poison is gen- erally used by inferior beings. "The mosquito and not the tiger poisons us,*' she affirms. , "And when we see tigers transformed into mosojnitos, we can be sure that the wind has changed." Advocates of W omen's Lib- eration cannot be happy about this change, "W e are still the victims of die men, even if what they do to us is more sneaky," reported the authoress. The man of 1970 is antj- feminist, a species not to be confused with the misogynist. The misogynist shuns "women instinctively," whereas the anti - feminist's hatred is not in- stinctive, but deliberate. "This is war," proclaims Mme. Hubert. "Or you can call it counter - revofction." The anti - feminist, she ex- plains, likes women and even seeks their company. But woe to those who do not correspond with his idea of what a woman should be. "W oe to the non - submis- sive, the disobedient, the woman of independence!" ex-' claims the French lady. "W hat man hates about her is not that she tyrannizes him but that sfcttiB no looter will- ing to be tyrannized. Also, he is unsure of himself be- cause he knows that he is not moving with the times." W hen an anti - feminist meets a woman, he may chat with her, but it is just a stall "He can't even look at her except in the way that be regards a leg of iamb when be, is hungry," Mme. Hubert adds. "He is only waiting to see when it will be medium rare." Besides anti . feminists, "Poison Men" takes up mates who fall asleep as soon as their heads hit the pillow and their opposite types the sex obsessed wno tear up your favorite magazines and make. you read the K ama Sutra in- stead. The best - seller describes the poisons of the punster, the tease^ the pessimist, the man .passionate for c* fs, the conformist, the non - con- Red Cross* Shoes YatCtt walk happy inthese pretty contemporaries by Red* CrattShots. Thereto a social ease tailored to these. Clean, UuUered One*, Clever trims. 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