14 Things Positive People Dont Do

December 9 by Daniel Wallen in Communication, Motivation | 1!"# $hares

Positive people dont have a magical power that you dont possess. Instead of letting stress
control them, positive people take control of their life by managing stress and striving to
improve every day. Check out these things that positive people dont do, so you too can be
happy and successful.
1! They Dont %ssume the Worst!
Its amazing how many problems wouldnt exist if we didnt invent them. Positive people
know that leaping to conclusions is usually a bad idea. Instead of freaking out about an
unanswered text !"hat if they dont like me#$%, they go on with their day !hmm, they must
be busy&$%. 'efore they decide another person is untrustworthy, they make an honest effort to
find out more about them.
&! They Dont 'esist the Truth!
Its easy to live in a lie because lies can grow so strong that it can eventually make people
forget about the truth. Positive people know that they need to face the truth and live with it
because making excuses will never get a solution for what have gone wrong.
(! They Dont )ol* +n To 'esentment!
Positive people understand that resentment only causes pain in life over and over again, so
they let go of it. (hey choose to accept and forgive things happened in the past to move on
with what they have learned from the incidents.
4! They Dont ,orget the -ittle Things!
Is it easy to forget the little things# Certainly. 'ut positive people dont make a habit of it.
Instead, they express gratitude for every blessing, no matter how big or small. (hey know its
silly to think more stuff will make them feel better if they cant be happy about what they
have.
.! They Dont Pass the /uc0!
Positive people realize they are the C)* of their life and thus take full responsibility for how
things are. (hey didnt get !stuck in traffic$ + they were late. (hey didnt !have something
come up$ + they forgot. Positive people dont claim !they cant help it,$ because they can do
anything they set their mind to.
1! They Dont $ee Problems as 2Problems3!
(he word !problems$ is seen as !challenges$ for positive people. (hey believe that every
obstacle comes as an opportunity that is yet to be discovered. Positive people take the chance
to challenge themselves and improve their life.
! They Dont 'esign Themselves to 2'eality!3
(his !reality$ most people speak of sounds like a dreadful place where dreams go to die.
Positive people know that anything is possible with consistency and hustle, so they choose to
write their own reality.
"! They Dont 45pect $omething 6or 7othing!
Positive people dont fall for !lose weight fast$ or !get rich ,uick$ scams. (hey know that
anything worth having re,uires hard work often, lots of it%. Positive people are comfortable
with the fact that achieving success might take a bit longer than they would like but will be
so worth it%.
9! They Dont 8et /ore*!
'oredom is a place where creativity, inspiration, and productivity die. Positive people are
fascinated by everything around them. (hey explore the world with enthusiasm and curiosity,
asking as many ,uestions as they can. *n a similar note, fun fact- did you know you have
atoms in your body that were created in a star ./ billion years ago# (rue story so you dont
get to be bored%.
19! They Dont -et 7egative Thoughts )i:ac0 Their /rain!
Positive people dont sub0ect themselves to a chorus of self1defeating negative thoughts.
"hen a negative thought passes through their head, they remind themselves- if I wouldnt say
it about another person, I shouldnt think it about myself.
11! They Dont Ma0e Comparison With +thers!
Positive people understand that everyone is different and has his own progress, so they dont
compare themselves to other people. (hey are confident about what they have and what they
do. Instead of focusing on how others are doing, they pay attention on how to improve their
own life.
1&! They Dont %goni;e +ver 4very -ittle Mista0e!
Positive people dont look at failure as a terrible thing to avoid at all costs. (hey know that
failure is a possibility when it comes to trying anything new. 2eeing failure for what it is a
learning opportunity and nothing more% helps positive people achieve massive success as they
learn and grow.
1(! They Dont Thin0 -i6e <s Per6ect!
Positive people forget about perfection, because its 0ust not possible. "hen is the last time
you thought, !"ow, this is the perfect day to get in shape,$ or !3ou know what# (his is the
day I ,uit my 0ob, move to 2anta 4e, and pursue my real passion#$ *h, thats right- you
didnt, because there isnt a !perfect time$ to do anything. Positive people take action in the
here and now, perfection be damned.
14! They Dont )ang +ut =ith To5ic People!
Positive people dont let negative, toxic people drag them down. Instead, they surround
themselves with other positive people who are fun and inspiring to be with. "hy should a
positive person spend their time with a person who complains about everything and gossips
about everybody# Positive people know there is no good answer to that ,uestion.