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On October 9, a sold-out
Fashioned For Freedom event
raised funds to sponsor the
care for girls rescued from
the sex trafficking industry
in Cebu, Phillippines at IBC
partner My Refuge House.
The next day, IBC global
partner Hosean International
Ministry celebrated 30 years
of ministry in Haiti with a fundraising dinner at IBC.
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The thing about Band Aids is that they remind you about a boo-boo even if the boo-boo doesnt
hurt and even if the boo-boo is completely healed. They protect and heal, but they also remind. My daughter wears hers as badges of great valor. These were her wounds from a smoky war, and she emerged the
princess. If Im honest, sometimes its nice to have a visible Band Aid every once in a while too, whether
its an actual Band Aid or some other outward symbol of the courage and effort with which I am engaging
life. Look at her, people would say, look at her being so awesome despite that paper cut.
The bigger the self, the bigger the fear. The bigger
the pride, the bigger the weakness.
Henry Ward Beecher, the famous abolitionist
and clergyman of the 19th century, wrote, The
sun does not shine for a few trees and flowers,
but for the wide worlds joy. If youre being asked
to complete a daunting assignment, it might be
a comfort to remember that God grants strength
and courage not only for our own solace but also
because theres a greater redemption narrative
in play. His reputation, his glory, his renown are
up for universal review, and the joy of the world
hangs in the balance. Its about big beauty, not
brave little efforts.
How do we begin to let him do this? How does
God overcome our wounds and weaknesses to
complete the work?
Im not sure I know, exactly, but I think it has to
do with little steps, one rocky shoreline at a time.
We pick our way gingerly and with great surrender,
and then little joys, little victories, maybe a few
big ones, until the Promised Land.
C HAT TE R FA C T I CON K EY
CULTURE
LANGUAGE
FOOD
LIFE
GENERAL
SCIENCE
GEOGRAPHY
TOMFOOLERY
HISTORY
The Band-Aid was invented in 1920 by
Johnson & Johnson employee Earle Dickson for his wife Josephine, who frequently
cut and burned herself while cooking.
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Cristian Barbosu
A CHURCH
FOR THE HARVEST
Cristian Barbosu and the fight for hearts in Romania
ven from blocks away, we heard the horrible sound. The wandering group of singing drunkards had us running outside at
midnight to see what was worthy of such
an off-key hullabaloo. IBC Missions Pastor,
Brent McKinney, and I had been in Romania
just a few hours. We were visiting (and staying
with) IBCs long-term mission partners, the
Barbosu family. We knew ministry in Romania
was difficult, but we never expected meandering inebriated gypsies to be part of the
challenge. When we saw that the group had
broken into the Barbosus yard, we both froze
in trepidation.
We cautiously crept around the house. Twenty
of the singers stood like a makeshift choir
facing a shocked Barbosu family. They wore
hats, tooted on horns, rang cowbells and carried an ample supply of foodstuff. As they
broke into Happy Birthday in Romanian, we
knew this was no ordinary crowd.
The elders and wives of Harvest Metanoia
Church had arrived to celebrate the birthday of
their beloved pastor, Cristian. As the cake and
head cheese sausage (you dont want to know)
was passed around, we started to understand
the spirit of this extraordinary church community. But to fully understand Harvest Metanoia, you must know the unbelievable story of
Cristian Barbosu.
Cristian was born during the reign of one
of the modern worlds bloodiest dictators,
Nicolae Ceauescu. As General Secretary of
the Romanian Communist Party (1967 1989)
Ceauescu ruled with an iron fist. His brutality
knew no limits. Under Ceauescus ego-driven
reign, Romania suffered dire food and fuel
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The original Berlin Wall was a 100mile long wire fence put up in less
than 24 hours. It stood for 3 years.
This year marks the U.K.s third largest wheat harvest on record.
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Whenever someone asks me about our trip to Congo, even six months later, I still
find myself speechless in that moment. Its been a challenge to put the trip into
words, but as we enter into the season of Thanksgiving, I realize how much my first
trip to Africa has left me with deep gratefulness and a new way of seeing the world.
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Womens
CHRISTMAS
Dinner
TUESDAY,
DECEMBER 2, 69 P.M.
recording artist,
Meredith Andrews
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A BAPTISM BACKSTORY
Over the past year at IBC, over 64 men,
women, teens and children have been
baptized. Baptism is an outward symbol of
the inner reality that a person has placed
his or her faith in Jesus death on the cross
and resurrection from the dead. Baptism is
an important step in the Christian life, one
that serves as a persons public profession
of faith. Everyone who gets baptized at IBC
has a personal testimony of faith to share.
Here is one of many.
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B U ZZ M O O DY
Recently I sat down over coffee with Buzz, a member of IBC who also knows
what it is like to care for a mentally ill family member. When her daughter was
diagnosed with Schizoaffective Disorder (Schizophrenia plus Bipolar Disorder)
and Anxiety Disorder as a teenager, Buzz became an advocate for her, researching facilities, medications, treatment options and asking questions to get her the
proper care she needed. For the past 12 years, Buzz has taught others how to care
for their family members affected by mental illness through NAMI classes and
Grace Groups at IBC.
I am currently teaching a Family Grace Group at IBC that meets every other
week. The group is designed to be educational. We teach practical tools to improve relationships with our loved ones living with a mental illness.
STEPHANIE SUIRE Buzz, you started teaching NAMI at IBC 12 years ago.
Tell me a little more about why you got involved with NAMI, what the class
involves and how it has affected you.
from attending NAMI (nami.org) that I decided to get certified to teach the
course. NAMI is a detailed, in-depth educational course taught by family
members of those dealing with mental illness. We learn about different types
of mental illness, medications, possible side effects and treatment options. The
class is actually difficult and time consuming to prepare and to teach; and after
being committed to teaching this 12-week course every year, twice a year, I
began to get overloaded and overwhelmed with emails and phone calls in addition to teaching. I began to pray about a way I could still help people and not be
so overloaded.
SS It sounds like a very difficult time. What was on your heart and what did you
want for the future of NAMI?
BM The NAMI class involves a lot of studying, reading, and weekly meetings that last about two hours long. Even though it is mostly being taught in
churches, it is NOT Bible-based. I wanted to expand the curriculum to something Christ-centered, but there was no room in the already busy class and an
alternate curriculum was not available. I knew we needed more leaders. So, I
went to St. Louis for a 4-day weekend and took the course to train more NAMI
teachers. I have trained around 50 more teachers in the metroplex in the last 7
years. We now have 8 or so trained teachers at IBC.
SS How did you get involved with Mental Health Grace Alliance?
BM My friend, Joe Padilla, was doing research and working with Dr. Matt
Stanford to treat mental illness that affected his own family. In 2010, they
the mental, physical and relational approach to recovery. The Grace Groups
add extra support and are Christ-centered, adding the spiritual dimension of
a person identity with Christ, spiritual growth, and prayer. One of the most
wonderful things I see is that prayer is making a big difference in the lives of
these families. It is amazing! We are creating new believers, strengthening the
faith of believers and supporting each other through a weekly email
prayer chain.
SS I have to ask, how is your daughter? Has she been making any progress with
her treatment?
BM My daughter has been doing very well this past year and is in what mental
health professionals refer to as recovery. She attended one of the Grace Alliance seminars at IBC about a year ago, which was one of the turning points in
her recovery. After the seminar she started attending one of the Living Grace
Groups and now attends IBC worship services regularly. She also lives on her
own and is working towards getting a job. It has been a good year.
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I drew Jesus
he is a tiger!
Elizabeth Nims
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bald! My Jesus ha
blue eyes. He likes
airplanes.
Carson Philipp
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On a typical Sunday,
IBC serves about 125
pre-k children with
50-60 volunteers.
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do & be:
This is a busy time of year. So much to do. So much to be. To help organize
your iCal and tenderize your soul, weve compiled a run-down of everything at IBC during Thanksgiving and Advent. And dont forget to stop
and smell the pumpkin spice lattes every now and then.
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November 2-16
thanksgiving breakfast
If youre alone at Thanksgiving this year, or just want to get your people
together with the IBC family, join us for a great meal as we reflect on
Gods goodness together.
Contact Rod or Karen with questions at (214) 513-2589.
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visit
give
Partner Pines
Take time to bless IBCs local and global partners and missionaries
through Christmas giving. On Sunday December 7, ornaments will be
available on trees around Town Square representing needs of each
organization. Please take one (or more), fulfill the request, then return
your gift on the following Sunday, December 14. We will deliver the gifts
the following week.
Cards will also be available if you would like to write a letter of
encouragement to any of our IBC missionaries.
Questions? Contact mission@irvingbible.org.
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Advent Kickoff
sing
Advent Live
gather
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UPC O M I N G
November
December
NOVEMBER 1
NOVEMBER 1415
DECEMBER 2
recognize God in the midst of your story. Visit irvingbible.org/women for more info.
DECEMBER 7
NOVEMBER 15
NOVEMBER 216
Thanksgiving Meals
(972) 560-4653.
NOVEMBER 3
NOVEMBER 23
Marriage at IBC with Debby Wade
9 a.m. High School Room
DECEMBER 11
Advent LIVE 7 p.m.
See ad below.
irvingbible.org/advent
NOVEMBER 27
DECEMBER 13
NOVEMBER 79
Middle School Fall Retreat
NOVEMBER 13
The Gathering 7 p.m.
The Commons
NOVEMBER 30
cspalding@irvingbible.org.
NOVEMBER 14
Young Adults Family Dinner 7 p.m.
Join us for our Thanksgiving Family Dinner. Visit
irvingbible.org/youngadults for details and sign up.
SEX
MATTERS
November 23, 9 a.m.
in the High School Room
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ON G OI N G
BIBLE COMMUNITIES
Groups on Sunday
Synergy
9 a.m. The Alcove
Multi-generational
The Tree
9 a.m. West D
20s & 30s, married & young families
November: A study on the book
of Hosea.
Crossroads
10:45 a.m. West C
Couples & Families late 20s to 40s
Journey
10:45 a.m. The Alcove
All Welcome
On Track
10:45 a.m. Conference Room
Single Parents
Thrive
10:45 a.m. West D
Singles in their 30s & 40s
Renew
10:45 a.m. Training Center
Diverse, all ages and stages.
November: The Last Days According to Jesus by R.C. Sproul.
Legacy Builders
6:45 p.m. West A
All Welcome
CHILDREN
MyZone
Wednesdays, 6:308:15 p.m.
The Zone
Activities, friends, conversations,
and slime. No registration required.
MEALS
SPECIAL NEEDS
MARRIAGE
Growing Together
Pre-Marriage Mentoring
Visit irvingbible.org/marriage.
Contact specialneeds@irvingbible.
org for more info.
STUDENTS
WEDNESDAY
MIDWEEK MEALS
56:20 P.M.
First Watch
Fridays, 6:22 a.m. The Commons
Questions? Contact Jason at
jstein@irvingbible.org.
2435 KINWEST
IBC Choir
Wednesdays, 78:30 p.m.
IBC Worship Center
Contact Crystal at celwell@irvingbible.org.
MEN
MISSION
Recovery at IBC
Thursdays, 6:308:30 p.m.
West Wing Youth Lounge
A group for hurts, habits, and
hangups. irvingbible.org/recovery.
The Table
Starts November 30
The Living Room
A place to explore Christianity.
irvingbible.org/thetable
Community Care
Respite Care
November 22
SUNDAY
COMMUNITY
MEALS
SINGLE PARENT
Visit 2435kinwest.org.
Camp KidJam:
Book your spot now!
Camp KidJam is an unforgettable summer getaway for
older elementary students and their Sunday small group
leaders. Dont lose track of time. Sign up early!
Who: Current 2nd-5th graders
Dates: July 22-25
Registration Deadline: March 1, 2015
Cost: $300 (Payment plan available, contact Adrienne at asiefers@irvingbible.org)
Camp KidJam makes a great Christmas present!
Register at irvingbible.org/campkidjam.
Everyones
flocking to
small groups.
Small Groups at IBC exist to cultivate deep relationships that advance the kingdom of God in dark places
dark places in our world, in our relationships
and in our hearts. Groups meet weekly in homes to
eat, pray, and learn. The curriculum, based on each
Sundays sermon, invites members to dig deeper into
Scripture and share viewpoints and life experiences.
Group sessions run ten weeks.
Sign-up deadline is December 7.
Session will begin January 4.
For more information, contact Katie Geurin at
kgeurin@irvingbible.org. Register by December 7
at irvingbible.org/smallgroups.
CONNECT
WITH US
THIS FALL.
for kids in
single-parent families
Saturday, December 13
9 a.m. 12 p.m. in The Commons
An annual tradition, the IBC Christmas
Mall is an event where kids in single-parent
families prepare for Christmas! Kids enjoy
a fabulous breakfast, shop for their parents,
wrap gifts, decorate cards and cookies, and
make an unforgettable Christmas memory.
Everything is free.
HIGH SCHOOL
WINTER RETREAT
FEBRUARY 1315 | SKY RANCH
irvingbible.org/youngadults.)
CHRISTMAS PARTY December 11 (For details visit
irvingbible.org/youngadults.)
HOW DO I GIVE?
NEW TO IBC?
Start
See that nice person handing out little cards before the
service starts? Yep, shes the one. Grab a worship folder
and find the page with blanks. Tell us a little about yourself
and let us know where youre coming from and how we
can engage with you. Somebody will reach out to you
this week.
Safety Team
Do you have a desire to serve and protect others?
Contact Chris Rose at crose@irvingbible.org. Please
include any credentials and relevant experience.
Mentor Kids in Single-Parent Families
Men and women are needed for gender-specific
mentoring of children from single parent families.
Contact Marsha at mtribbett@irvingbible.org.
Meal Team Volunteers
IBC makes meals available both Sunday and
Wednesday nights. These fun teams could use
some additional volunteers to serve together. For
Sundays contact sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org.
For Wednesdays, contact bdowney@irvingbible.org.
My Resources
CONSIDER MEMBERSHIP
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Advice
DEAR
DEXTER
SYNDICATED
COLUMNIST
turkey thaw?
never find a velvet painting of turkeys playing poker being sold from
the back of an old Econoline behind
the Stripes gas station. My fellow
members of Meleagris gallopavo are
notoriously aloof. Cold. Frigid to family and stranger alike. The best way to
crack their frosty-feathered shells of
solitude is to slowly integrate them
into the daily routine of your family.
Give them a seat at the dinner table.
Include them in family Boggle night.
Entrust them with the care of your infant triplets whilst you and your dear
hubs enjoy a well-deserved night at the
Olive Garden. Soon your noble guest
will be as warm and delightful as your
Pomeranian used to be before the turkey arrived and pecked his way up the
pecking order.
*
casserole?
Butterball?
DEAR DEXTER For the second time in three years, we yield the Idle
Chatter floor to the fowl-based wisdom the honorable Dexter P. Turklesworth. Mr. Turklesworth, who comes from a line of turkey both literal and
metaphorical dating back to colonial times, will answer questions regarding Thanksgiving, avian preparedness and geopolitics.
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