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CONTENTS
SOUTHEAST WISCONSIN December 2014
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FEATURE STORY
Weaving a better life
How relationships heal
and make us stronger
ON THE COVER:
RICHARD HANHARDT, executive director of The Sacred Bond Center
in Wauwatosa, and his grandchildren, Hunter and June
Photography by Melissa Greenwood
DEPARTMENTS
10 HEALTHY PETS
Happy cats, happy home
14 HEALTHY KIDS
Teaching kids to give back
18 FIT BODIES
Move your spine with functional
Cat-Cow
22 HEALTHY FINANCES
Roasted Chicken
46 COMMUNITY PARTNERS
50 COMMUNITY CALENDAR
50 ADVERTISER DIRECTORY
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20 Understanding wellness
24 Excerpts on love, miracles and peace
30 Frankincense: a wise choice
33 Post-concussion syndrome
34 How to handle grief during the holidays
37 Lypossage: a chemical-free facelift
38 Painted finishes, naturally
42 Fight disease with polyphenols
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The holiday season is a wonderful time filled with friends, family and fun. But there
can be a downside: waste and we dont mean used wrapping paper. Unfortunately for our environment, most of the mass-produced gadgets and knick-knacks
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So this year, why not give a gift to the Earth, as well as your loved ones? Try
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USE SUSTAINABLE DECORATIONS
Instead of buying new garland, centerpieces, ornaments and other items that
cant be used for purposes outside of the holidays, why not create some decorations out of materials that can be recycled or reused? Check out our #sustainableholidays pins on Pinterest for some inspiration.
GIVE THE GIFT OF KNOWLEDGE
Offering advice and resources to someone in need can be a most powerful gift.
If youre not sure what info to pass on, you can always hand loved ones a copy
of Natures Pathways once youre finished reading! As youll see in the following
pages, our expert authors have plenty of great knowledge and tips to share.
SHOP SECONDHAND
Used bookstores offer a variety of interesting items not found anywhere else.
Consignment and thrift stores can be great resources for vintage furniture and decorative items, perfect gifts for that person who loves to stand out from the crowd.
You can even shop your own home. Scour your drawers for loose buttons
and unsalvageable clothing to create new accessories like ribbon bracelets,
button necklaces or bag embellishments.
GIVE HEALTHY, PERSONALIZED PRESENTS
A home-cooked meal can warm stomachs and hearts during the colder months.
Remember: leftovers are often the best part of the holidays, so feel free to pack
them up as to-go meals for guests.
Natural beauty products, like homemade sugar scrub cubes or lip balm are
easy and fun to make.
Spa or massage therapy gift certificates can help your loved ones ease their
holiday stress.
Even something as simple as lending an ear to a friend or family member can
make a world of difference. And doing so doesnt cost a thing.
Try some of these ideas and finish 2014 out on a green note. As you can see,
you can save on the waste you create and still give a truly personalized gift one
that will be remembered far longer than any popular gadget or toy.
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amilies with dogs can take advantage of dog parks, doggy day
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toys such as balls, pompoms and toys filled with catnip. Rotate
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catnip, store the toys in a sealed container with a sprinkle of dried
catnip to keep the scent fresh. Hide the toys around the cats space,
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Check all toys frequently to make sure your cat is not ingesting
parts that may lead to a medical emergency.
TAKE TIME TO PLAY WITH YOUR CAT! There may be nothing
more boring to your cat than a toy that doesnt move. Challenge
your cats natural hunting prowess with toys attached to a wand
or pole. Spend some quality time discovering Kittys preference
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ook around you right now. Where are you feeling that
heavy ache of something more? Where are you consistently making the same mistakes and creating unnecessary
unhappiness? What is your intuition (your heart) saying to you?
Lean into it and listen. It is the voice of destiny. Our destiny lies
right outside the comfort zone and patiently waits for the ache to
outweigh the fear. A courageous step forward is required, thrusting us out beyond what we know and into the wild unknown. And
the unknown can be terrifying.
We are so comfortable with what is familiar. Even when we have
outgrown that loathsome job, the stagnant relationship or selfsabotaging behavior pattern we tend to cling to what we know,
what we rely on to get us by. But we are here to not just get by. We
are here to evolve and grow.
As a professional astrologer, there are many ways to learn what
areas of life are habitual traps for self-undoing and self-sabotage.
They are the lunar nodes: the north and south nodes of the moon.
The south node shows our past conditioning or patterns, ultimately our comfort zone. This is where we tend to over-extend
ourselves, and give ourselves away. For example, for someone
who has their south node in the sign of Cancer, there may be an
over-involvement with family drama and hiding from the world
through caring for everyone except yourself. For someone who
has their south node in Aries, there may be a tendency to use
anger as a coping strategy and a refusal to let others into their
world. I dont need anybodys help; I can do it on my own.
All of these patterns become so ingrained that they become the
fabric of our comfort and security. We become tired and uninspired
when we keep repeating these old patterns and become stuck in the
past. Life becomes monotonous, boring and aimless. How do we stop?
How do we change our direction? The north node holds the key.
The north node is literally the opposite point of the south node
in every way in the sky as well as its deeper meaning and significance. It holds our mission and our purpose. It shows the vast
expanse that lies just beyond our comfort zone. It is the space that
calls most to us and yet scares us to our core. It is where we take
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two steps forward and one step backward. But if we take a risk
with that courageous step forward, eventually we will step into the
beyond and into our destiny.
Our north node is our ultimate compass. It is the direction
we are headed toward. It is where we finally release the past and
embrace what we came here to learn and experience. The south
node represents worn-out patterns and areas we resort to when
we are afraid. The north node represents the new, healthy patterns
we are called to create and develop. It is where and how we become
inspired to grow into our best self.
Without awareness, there can be no real change. Learn about
your north node and risk that courageous step out into the
unknown just beyond your comfort zone. Take a step. Your
destiny is waiting.
Below are general descriptions of the north node in each sign. (Please
see the sidebar to this article to discover which north node sign applies
to your birthdate.) Please keep in mind there are many other factors
involved. This is only a window into the vast world of astrology.
If your north node is in:
CAPRICORN: Your mission and purpose is to become the author-
ity of your life and build a business that is created with integrity,
hard work and perseverance; to stop caretaking as a way of avoiding
your own responsibilities. You are responsible for your own happiness. Your time is now and it is time to build your dream.
AQUARIUS: Your mission and purpose is to create in a unique and
soul and share your mission of love with the world; to learn the
difference between sacrifice and service; to know your soul.
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Locate your birth date to find the sign the north node is in for you. For example, if you were born on July 1, 1963,
your north node would be in Cancer. House positions play a role as well, but for now just focus on the sign.
May 25, 1941 to Nov. 21, 1942: Virgo
Nov. 22, 1942 to May 11, 1945: Leo
May 12, 1945 to Aug. 2, 1947: Gemini
Aug. 3, 1947 to Jan. 25, 1949: Taurus
Jan. 26, 1949 to July 26, 1950: Aries
July 27, 1950 to March 28, 1952: Pisces
March 29, 1952 to Oct. 9, 1953: Aquarius
Oct.10, 1953 to April 2, 1955: Capricorn
April 3, 1955 to Oct. 4, 1956: Sagittarius
Oct. 5, 1956 to June 16, 1958: Scorpio
June 17, 1958 to Dec. 15, 1959: Libra
Dec. 16, 1959 to June 10, 1961: Virgo
June 11, 1961 to Dec. 23, 1962: Leo
Dec. 24, 1962 to Aug. 25, 1964: Cancer
Aug. 26, 1964 to Feb. 19, 1966: Gemini
Feb. 20, 1966 to Aug. 19, 1967: Taurus
Aug. 20, 1967 to April 19, 1969: Aries
April 20, 1969 to Nov. 2, 1970: Pisces
Nov. 3, 1970 to April 27, 1972: Aquarius
April 28, 1972 to Oct. 27, 1973: Capricorn
Oct. 28, 1973 to July 10, 1975: Sagittarius
ARIES: Your mission and purpose is to learn independence and
with dramatic and artistic flair; to risk being seen for your creativity; to play, to let go and make peace with your inner child; to love
and be loved.
VIRGO: Your mission and purpose is to become more detail-
others and how to be in a relationship; to learn impartiality, equality and justice. Realize there are two sides and weighing out each
option before impulsively making judgments and decisions. Learn
how to create balance within yourself and your relationships.
SCORPIO: Your mission and purpose is to learn how to go
deeper, beneath the surface, and to seek out your highest truth
and souls calling; to let go of the resentments that are holding you
back from your purpose. Beyond the veil of hurt lies your greatest
mission. Risk vulnerability and evolve.
SAGITTARIUS: Your mission and purpose is to become a free
Lisa Anne is a professional astrologer and director/owner of Pathways of Light Wellness Center located in Delafield. She received
her degree in metaphysics at The American Institute of Theology.
She studied astrology with the American Federation of Astrologers as well as the Academy of Astro-Psychology. She teaches
advanced astrology classes, hosts a new moon group each month, and is dedicated to sharing the value of astrology and removing the stigma and mystery
that surrounds it. Please visit the centers website, www.pathwayswellness.org,
to learn the vast scope of wellness opportunities available or reach Lisa Anne
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fitBODIES
Cat-Cow strengthens the lower back and core muscles, in addition to lengthening the spine. This is often a prescribed pose for
lower back pain, but when done with a few tweaks this becomes a
powerful pose to help aid in releasing kyphosis of the upper back.
Those aging, struggling with a stiff body or those with shoulder
and lower back complaints should try this movement in a seated
position, in chair pose or standing with the hands on the thighs.
How to practice it
the belly, feeling the spine curve. Work to feel the movement
come from back to front.
3. Bending the elbows to release the shoulder girdle, traction
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the hands and arms back and move the sternum and heart
forward between the arms.
4. Now press up through the arms to stretch the tops of the
shoulders and lengthen the neck.
5. Gently look up without collapsing the back of the neck.
6. Exhale and round the spine upward toward the ceiling, pressing through the hands and shoulders, and lean slightly back
toward the feet.
7. Tuck the chin to the chest and tailbone between the legs and
activate the pelvic floor. Really work to feel the entire back
body open up.
8. Repeat several times for up to a minute.
Be very mindful not to force the very mobile areas of the spine to
take over; this should be a slow and very mindful movement. Focus
on feeling the movement rather than doing, as when we practice in
such a way we are able to truly tap into the areas that need the work.
Each time you move through this sequence you should feel
more and more alive and open. Do not expect the first two or
three rounds to be smooth and easy. Use several very mindful
rounds to cultivate the release your body is craving; move in the
areas you dont move.
Hope Zvara, The Real Deal, is a yoga teacher and owner of Copper
Tree Yoga Studio & Wellness Center, a trainer and expert specializing in the true art of yoga and Core Functional Fitness for students,
teachers and fitness professionals interested in practicing authentic
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Hope as she travels across the globe bringing true functional core work into everything
that you do. To book a workshop, training or retreat with Hope, call 262-670-6688,
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Understanding
wellness
By Patrick McCann, D.C.
from the brain to the body, keeping our brain healthy and happy.
Exercise also releases endorphins in the body, which is that
feel-good chemical acting as an analgesic. Endorphins also give
us tons of increased energy. In fact, a Duke University study has
shown that exercise can have just as good a benefit to those suffering with depression as taking an antidepressant, but with out the
potential side effects.
Do you have stinking thinking? Problems related to work,
family, finances and health are mental and emotional stresses that
we have all experienced at some point in our lives. Prolonged stress
can lead to anxiety, depression, digestive issues, heart disease and
sleep issues, etc. Mental/emotional stresses can often be the most
taxing to our health.
The most important part of a wellness lifestyle is all about function! How well is your body functioning? How would you know?
You see, it doesnt matter how well you eat, exercise or think if
your body isnt functioning at its optimum. This leads us to the
last component to living a healthy lifestyle: being well-adjusted.
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Chiropractic is not about neck and back pain, its all about function and specifically the function of your nervous system. The
nervous system controls and coordinates the function of every
cell, tissue and organ in the body. Think of the nervous system
as the telephone company of the body, coordinating the messages
from the brain to the body and from the body back to the brain,
making sure all messages are received and sent efficiently to their
proper destinations.
When the bones of the spine become misaligned this is called
a subluxation. Subluxation affects nerve signals from the brain to
the body, thereby decreasing the bodys ability to adapt to stress,
to heal and to function properly. When our body isnt adapting,
symptoms of sickness, aches and pains, and many other health
concerns can occur. By making sure your nervous system is free
and clear of subluxation, chiropractic can optimize the bodys
ability to function!
To live a true wellness lifestyle, put focus into how well you eat,
move, and think and, most importantly, make sure your nervous
system is functioning optimally by being well-adjusted.
Dr. Patrick McCann practices with his wife, Dr. Kate McCann, at
McCann Chiropractic, 17585 W. North Ave., Suite 130 in Brookfield. They specialize in whole-family care, and are proud and
excited about staying on the leading edge of chiropractic by offering
Torque Release Technique and COREscore. For more information, please visit http://mccannchiropractic.com or call 262-782-9700.
Reference: Study: Exercise Has Long-Lasting Effect on Depression. Duke
Today. Sept. 22, 2000. http://today.duke.edu/2000/09/exercise922.html.
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A gift for your inner
well-being
By Jill E. Greinke, MSW, LCSW, SAC
girlfriends, old friends. When the planes hit the Twin Towers, as far
as I know, none of the phone calls from the people on board were
messages of hate or revenge they were all messages of love. If you
look for it, Ive got a sneaking suspicion love actually is all around.
The character of the Prime Minster of Great Britain played
by Hugh Grant from the motion picture Love
Actually, written and directed by Richard Curtis.
Love
It is a major tenet of the five major religions: Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Islam and Judaism. Christmas the Christian
celebration of the birth of their spiritual savior, Jesus Christ is
one of the first winter celebrations.
Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will
conceive and give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel.
Isaiah 78:14, New International Version
Immanuel means God with us or God incarnate. Many also
believe that God is love. Others believe God is in everything and
everyone in other words, ever present and all around. My hope
for this article is to shed light on the divine love within each of us.
And this love is that of pure, highly vibrating energy, the kind that
can truly create peace and joy, as well as invoke miracles in, through
and around us if we allow ourselves to feel by surrendering to it.
Love is all around me, its everywhere I go.
Love is all around, by the Troggs
The Wall Street Journal reported that Malala Yousafzai was a
young Pakistani woman who was shot in the head at close range
by Taliban gunman. This was in retaliation for her high profile
campaign for educating and criticizing the Taliban. She survived
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Miracles
Many people believe in miracles. The New Testament of the Christian Bible has several accounts of miracles that Jesus performed.
But if we take the time, we can see miracles occurring all around
us. We can see them in everyday life and in the simple things.
We can see them in each other. They are the extraordinary things
found within the ordinary. In her book, Malala also stated, It was
a miracle I was alive, after he was shot at close range. This young
woman has taken a tragedy and miraculously created betterment
for her world from it.
Another young woman, Jewish in this case, Anne Frank, wrote
in The Diary of a Young Girl: I dont think of all the misery, but
of the beauty that still remains. It was miraculous she remained
so cheerful despite her circumstances as a teen in hiding with
her family during the Holocaust of World War II. Yet there is the
miracle of her life that illuminated inspiration and love. She chose
to see the beauty despite the darkness all around.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate
cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Wayne Dyer said, I am realistic I expect miracles. In other
words, we have a right to them. We just have to be open to receiving them. Love helps us to do so. Many believe the opposite to be
true. Perhaps this is the season to change any negative or embittered thoughts of darkness, deprivation, sense of lacking or hate,
to being open to and receiving abundant grace, love and peace.
Because it is our birthright!
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Weaving a
better life
How relationships
heal and make us stronger
By Rebecca Bentz
Everywhere you look, the brightness of the holidays shines. Glittering displays light store windows, cheerful music pipes through
any available speaker and smiles stretch across the faces of those
around you. Good cheer surrounds you. Yet try as you might, you
just dont feel the warmth of that brightness.
Youre not alone.
Many people experience a disparity between how the world
says theyre supposed to feel during the holidays happy, joyful,
celebratory and how they actually feel, explains Rich Hanhardt,
executive director of The Sacred Bond Center in Wauwatosa. The
holidays naturally summon up memories of family members who
are not with us, memories of childhoods that perhaps werent
so great, things that didnt turn out how we planned and recent
losses of personal relationships.
The first year going through the holidays after a loss, a death
in the family, divorce, or similar is the toughest time to go through
a holiday, Hanhardt acknowledges.
But there is hope. There are ways to heal from those losses,
and it starts with looking at how you connect with the world
around you. Taking a look at the kinds of relationships that
people have in their life is a critical self-examination for how to
begin the healing process, or how we might really celebrate even
in the midst of personal losses.
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Sagittarius
Beyond belief
Dates: Nov. 22 Dec. 21
Ruled by: Jupiter
Element: Fire
By Barry Kerr