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Anth stay in
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So it goes,
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when you’re single the
for love along
five guys, looking
This is the story of e Beaumont singles scene is “one
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Neches. If you thin ntlemen would like a word with yo
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photography by SILVIA C. MCCLAIN
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SCOPING THE LA gles scene?” said Ja
son David Lindenm
ribe the sin
“One word to desc re marketer who moonlights uth
alth ca
Richards, 28, a he r. “I’d have to say interesting.”
as an assistant pasto ewing the
ds ke eps thin gs interesting by esch hods — din-
Richar l met
of more traditiona
club scene, in favor o of wine. As a man of faith, he’s
tw
ner out, a glass or that shares his values, as well as a
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looking for someo e of humor and sparkling conversa-
woman with a sens lem, right?
tion skills. No prob ear-old Anthony Cox, an account
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t
All the Single Ladies
text by HALEY STRAHAN
hey say that the grass is always

greener from the other side.
People with straight hair want
curly, brunettes yearn to be
blonde, tall girls wish they were
petite, married people wish they
could have a bit more of that
single freedom, and singles long
to be married. Except that they
don’t. At least not right now. If
there is one trait in common among
the young
women VIP interviewed about bei
ng single in
Southeast Texas, it is this: they are
in no hurry
to march down the aisle.
THE SINGLES SCENE
Shannon Goff, a 28-year- old commer
from Colorado, said that relocating cial real estate agent
to Southeast Texas was
a bit of a culture shock after growing
up in the large city of
Denver. “The best thing about Bea
umont, but the thing that
took me awhile to adjust to, is the
sma
explained. “What you really have to ll town feel,” Goff
know is that everyone
knows everyone else. I learned that
the hard way!” she
laughed.
“Once you have been to the bars a
that’s it’s the same people out ever few times, you realize
ywhere, every time,”
agreed Amber Clark, 26, who has a
Mas
Work and works for Hospice of Texa ter’s Degree in Social
s.
Southeast Texas, Clark stressed the Born and raised in Cortn
importance of finding
activities besides going out to club
s as
“I met a new group of people recently a way to meet people.
ey Br
adfor
kickball team. A lot of my friends and we formed a
have gotten married, so I d
needed to find a new group of sing
le friends,” she said.
Haley Dickerson, 22, a recent grad
sity with a Bachelor’s Degree in Diet uate of Lamar Univer-
etics, is looking for that
new group of single friends. “A lot
of my friends are getting
see LADIES p.12
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SINGLE MEN CONT. for an “limited.” Despite this, he still SINGLE LADIES CONT. mar- go out in a group to have fun,”
“easier” kind of love. Cox laments manages to find cool locales that ried and starting families, so said Goff. “Everyone’s just out
the high levels of “plastic” that treat him (and his dates) right. “A I’d love to meet a new group of to have a good time.” And as for
abound in Southeast Texas. “I couple of good places to socialize people here,” she said. “I know the guys looking to “score” with
want someone who can get ready and meet people in this area are there’s a huge group of people I a smooth line? “Girls know that
in five to 10 minutes,” he said, Star Bar on Crockett Street and don’t know hidden somewhere, most guys aren’t there looking
“A woman who can go without Madison’s in Beaumont,” he said. I just don’t know where they are for a relationship,” Goff said.
makeup and still get attention.” “The owners of both places are yet!” she laughed. “Girls have figured out how to
And why not, since his idea young individuals and in tune The small town feel of play the games just as well as the
of a first date is more competition with what people out here like.” Southeast Texas suits Cortney guys. And even better. I know
than inebriation. Cox favors an As for Ricks, he works hard Bradford, a 28-year-old recy- girls who go out every weekend
“outdoorsy” connection; a game and plays even harder. His sched- cling sales representative, just and never pay for a drink.”
of tennis or a day of 4-wheelin’ ule is a bit more clockwork than fine. “I like the fact that I know While the singles scene is an
with some buddies. “We’re sweat- our other singles. Depending on most of the people I see,” she environment in which casual
ing our butts off, but it’s a great the day, his social calendar moves said. “It helps when you meet hook-ups often happen, “I think
icebreaker.” from one Beaumont water- someone and you already know people my age are
David Lindenmuth, a 34-year- ing hole to the next with a fair some of the same people.” more responsible
old lawyer and our only bachelor degree of regularity; Carrabba’s, overall,” Goff
dad, thinks that the scene Tokyo and one of Beaumont’s MEETING MEN said. “People
here in Southeast newest hotspots, Goodfella’s. He realize there
Texas is even takes some dates to Hous- When they do go out, these are conse-
ton, where he can crank up the professional twenty-somethings quences,
“wow” factor. prefer dinner with friends, and >>
Is he a “player?” One waitress a live music venue, or small
called him that, but he demurs. hole-in-the-walls instead of
“I’m picky, but I wouldn’t say big clubs, which they say
my standards are ridiculous.” typically cater to the
college crowd. “The
YOUR KISS IS ON great thing about
Southeast Texas is y Ricks
MY LIST
there is something Tre
When reflecting on who to do every night
in his social circle have of the week,”
dated, Ricks smirked. Goff said. “You
“There are a lot of just have to
connections. A friend find the places
of mine and I created a you like.”
flowchart on a napkin All the
just the other night.” women
Confusing? Not really, agree that
Amber Clark but Ricks does seem to
think that secrets don’t
they don’t
really hope
stay buried very long. to meet their
“There’s a lot of kiss- future hus-
ing and telling ’round band at a bar.
here.” Still, “I think girls
Ricks
main-
tains
that
his >>
n Goff FELICIA JETER

photography by LEE E. STINSON
no
Shan photography by JUDY STOKELY

SINGLE MEN CONT. rules mean SINGLE LADIES CONT. some of
being a gentleman — pulling out chairs, those might be professionally.”
opening doors, picking up the tab. Meeting someone through a
Mike Knobloch, a 34-year-old person they trust, all the women
medical tech, definitely doesn’t kiss agree, is the best way to start dat-
and tell. Unlike some of our other ing someone. “If they get along
singles, Knobloch prefers to keep a with your friends or someone
lower profile. “When I was young- who know you, you already as-
er, I used to go to bars and clubs to sume you will have some things
meet women, but I never had much in common,” Clark said. “In
luck with those places. I focus on college, as long as someone is
what I want to do, my work, and in school or has some kind of
my interests, and meet women that job, you assume they’re OK. But
way.” How’s that working for him? now, you think about things like
So far, so good. Although he did say what kind of job he has, what his
that the Beaumont scene could use ambitions are. You are more cau-
some “improvement.” tious before seeing someone.”
Knobloch said his best recent
date was a trip to the South Texas MAKING IT ON THEIR OWN
State Fair. “We had a great time.
Of course, being single at
Afterwards, we walked around for
an age when many people are
hours at a local park, talking and
getting married does have its
kissing!”
downside. “It’s never fun being
YOU BETTER SHOP alone on Valentine’s Day, not
having someone to kiss on New
AROUND Year’s Eve, or going home for
Ricks had a date set up for the the holidays and everyone asks
very evening we had our conver- why you don’t have a boyfriend,”
sation. All told, he cops to about Dickerson said.
one date per month (although we Bradford agrees. “I’m the last
suspect he’s fudging). As for Kno- one standing among my friends,”
bloch and Cox, they admit to half she said. “And I do feel that pres-
that number, although Cox’s worst sure to find the right person.” But
recent date was a doozy. “This girl overall, these women are making
I dated had a hot temper. She was the most of their time alone. They
eye candy. We were driving and are building rewarding careers,
got into it and she wouldn’t stop. I traveling the world, and forging
finally jumped out of the moving close friendships. “I think I will
car. We were only going about 10 look back and be glad I had a time
mph or so.” Now that’s a bad date. when I’m on my own, making my
He must’ve ended it right there? own way,” said Clark.
Not exactly. “We went out again, If you turned on the radio late-
but it fizzled.” ly, you know it was their year. As
All of our swinging singles — anthems go, theirs is fun, smart
except for Lindenmuth — decline and relentlessly catchy; everyone
surprise nights out with blind dates. has been bopping around town
What about Valentine’s Day? Most of humming the praises of “all the
them say it’s great if you’re in a rela- single ladies.” In fact, Beyonce’s
tionship, but not a big deal if you’re song and video, with its cheeky
not. Knobloch is more blasé. “It does grrrl power message, makes being
not bother me at all if I don’t have a a single girl seem pretty cool right
date for Valentine’s Day,” he assured. now. The traditional rounding
And why should it? As Cox up of single girlfriends for a new
said about Southeast Texas (and bride’s bouquet toss, once consid-
most of our bachelors agree), ered cruel and unusual punish-
“I’ve travelled a lot and I don’t ment, suddenly seems rather fun
know what it is, but this area has as you watch smiling, confident
the most beautiful girls. Must be women shimmy to their favorite
something in the water.” song. Who cares about the bou-
Or proximity to water? Who quet? If he liked it then he should
knows? For Richards, he’s hoping have put a ring on it. VIP
that the old cliché about nice guys
doesn’t pertain to him. “Do we fin-
ish last? I sure hope not.” VIP

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T
he royalty promenade across the stage in
extravagant apparel woven from the finest fabrics.
Diadems adorn their heads. The noblewomen Make a date
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2010 Mardi Gras
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Costume designer Paul Oliver at work

sunrise over Sabine Lake and named the town Aurora. With hundreds
of members, the krewe’s main purpose is to promote and celebrate the
Mardi Gras season in Southeast Texas.
Paul Oliver is the krewe’s new costume and back-piece designer,
although he’s had a seven-year relationship with the group as a parade-
float designer. He works closely with Marie Broussard, who has been
the krewe’s seamstress for 10 years. The theme this year is “Games
People Play,” so board games and playing cards will be incorporated into
the colorful costumes.
The process goes like this: While preparing for the current Mardi
Gras celebration, the krewe members brainstorm ideas for the next year’s
theme and the ball captain makes the final decision. A marketing poster
is created and the costume designer then sketches ensembles based on the
theme. After the designs are approved, usually by June, members of the
krewe’s royal court draw numbers to determine the order in which they
can make their selections. Once the couples have chosen their designs and
fabrics, Broussard takes their measurements and gets started. “Everything is
custom work,” she said. Once the outfits have been sewn and perfectly fitted
to each court member, they are taken to other krewe members, including
Vickey Roccaforte, co-ball captain, for decoration. “They bling them up,”
Broussard said of the sequins, feathers, rhinestones and glitter added to the
garments.
Aurora invites all krewe members and sponsors to become royalty, which is
limited to 12 couples. If the court is full, names will be added to the following
year’s list of courtiers. The king and queen are chosen by drawing names from
a hat on the night of the ball. All royalty who have not been king and queen are
eligible and the number of years that they have participated in the royal court is
the number of times their names go into the hat.
One ensemble can take 40 to 60 hours to complete and there are 24 to
make. That’s 960 to 1,440 hours! And how much does one of these lavish,
labor-intensive costumes cost? Oliver won’t be specific. “I will say this,” he
said. “It’s not cheap.” Laura Childress, Aurora’s captain, won’t give an exact
price either, but says that each is worth several thousand dollars.
The huge, custom-made back-pieces are a big part of the expense but the
ladies-in-waiting wouldn’t dream of going without them. The back-piece
effect could be described as a combination peacock, Vegas show girl and hu-
man parade float. “These things are pretty elaborate,” Oliver said. They are
about 7 feet wide and 8 feet high and weigh about 25 pounds. (Oliver light-
ened the load by several pounds from last year’s design.) They are made of
foam decorated with feathers, rhinestones and glitter and mounted on an
aluminum frame. They are strapped on to the noble (and strong) ladies of
the court, who wear them proudly for close to three hours.
The completed costumes are cloaked in secrecy until the dress re-
hearsal the night before the ball, which heightens the anticipation and
“wow factor,” Broussard said. “After 10 years, I’m still amazed.”
The ensembles are never reused. The back-pieces and headdresses
are disassembled and only the feathers are recycled. “It’s a one-time
deal,” Oliver said.
That uniqueness is what makes the krewe so grand, according to
Childress. “Every year, Aurora delivers a quality, top-notch, over-the-
top production,” she said, adding that the money raised by the krewe
at Mardi Gras benefits nonprofit community groups.
Can a Mardi Gras costume be too outrageous? Is there such a thing
as too much bling? “No,” Oliver said. “More is better.” VIP
The krewe’s costumes are cloaked in secrecy until the dress

rehearsal the night before the ball. These sketches are from last
year, but give a sense of the extravagance of these ensembles.

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Wicked winter winds and bone-chilling temperatures not only painful, but downright unsightly. Repair, replen-
can suck the moisture right out of your lips, leaving your ish and protect your lips with these minimal mainte-
kisser in terrible shape. Dry, cracked, peeling lips are nance steps. >>
REPAIR 2010 LIP COLOR AND STYLE Tips for Full Lips
Exfoliate Rub chapped What’s Hot It appears 2010 will ring in nude
lips softly with a tooth- and subdued shades, for a sultry, shimmery, yet For a full pouty-appeal,
brush, or with sugar, to natural look. Estée Lauder representative
gently slough off dead Annette Coward made the
skin. Smooth over with a
lip moisturizer. following recommendations:
• Apply liner and a lighter
REPLENISH color for a full look. Darker
Hydrate Drink plenty of colors make lips look smaller.
water for ultimate lip replen-
ishment. Also, apply a cool, • Line on the perimeter of
wet cloth to lips, and use lip lips only, not on the inside.
balm to lock in moisture. • Use more color after
Intake Multi-Vitamins 5p.m., and a more natural
Daily intake of vitamins look during the day.
B, A, and Iron, whether
through diet or pill, will
replenish overall skin health.

PROTECT
Protect lips with moisturizers and avoid lip lick-
ing, which further dehydrates, and can lead to
biting delicate skin, flushing your lip care down
the drain.
SOFT AND
SMOOTH “The colors are pink and taupe, with shim-
Get help from lip care mery eyes and a shimmer on the face, but all
products such as very natural,” Coward said.
Estée Lauder’s Lip Con- What’s Your Shade? Pink Lady, Beige Coral,
ditioner, which hydrates, Nude Attitude. With a seemingly endless
smoothes, comforts and array of options, how do you choose
protects lips. This lip- the perfect color?
caring formula contains According to Coward, choosing
SPF 15 and vitamins C lip color is based on skin un-
and E, shea butter and dertones. “People either have a
other natural moisturizers. golden-yellow-olive undertone or
According to Annette Coward, Estée Lauder a pink undertone,” she said. “Lipstick colors are Guys, sexy lips apply to both gen-
Business Manager at Dillard’s at Parkdale Mall, categorized as either warm or cool tones. For ders. Keep your lips primed with
clients should apply the Lip Conditioner before a more natural look, you would match warm these Jack Black intense, non-
lining and before bed, so lips can be hydrated undertones with warm colors. If you wanted to greasy balms. $21 for set of three.
throughout the night. pump it up, you would do the opposite.” Mint is our favorite! Available at
Daina Lowrance, the owner of Merle Norman Coward also recommends not ruling out colors. Butch Hoffer’s, 409.892.9311
Cosmetic Studio and Pink Flamingo Boutique in “Some people say they can’t wear a certain color,
Winnie, recommends exfoliating and moistur- like red,” she said. “But everyone can wear every
izing lips, as well as choosing lip products that
will protect, and not just add color. “Use lipstick
color. You just have to find your shade.” Color That Lasts
Lowrance said lip color selection has to do with
for lips the same way you use foundation for what the client is accustomed to, in addition
your face,” Lowrance said, “Not just for cosmetic An alternative to reapplying
to color theory. “Lipstick selection is not just
purposes, but to protect your skin as well.” about the color you’re applying, but how your is tattooing your lip color on
She warned that long-wearing lip color is drying, undertone will affect it. One color looks entirely permanently.
and can dehydrate. “I recommend cleansing your different on two people. Think of it as combining
lips when washing your face at night, and apply- blue and yellow to get green. You’re adding skin
ing a moisturizer,” she said. “Keep in mind that color to lip color to achieve the end Daina Lowrance says tattooed
regular face moisturizers are not made for lips. result.” lip color ensures makeup
You should use specific lip moisturizers, such as If you’re still stuck with dry, stays put, and can last any-
Merle Norman’s LUXIVA Lip Revive, which is an cracked lips, get to work on where from two to 10 years.
exfoliator and conditioner for lips.” repairing and replenishing! “The longevity of permanent
Healthy lips locked and loaded with moisture Spring is right around the cosmetics is dependent upon
and vitamins, are ready for stylin’ and applyin’. corner, and you need
all your
sun exposure, skin care prod-
features ucts, and natural exfoliation,”
in tip-top she said. “Permanent lip color
“It appears 2010 will ring in nude shape must be applied at least twice,
for that
and subdued shades, for a sultry, sultry,
and for some clients, even a
third time. Permanent liner is
shimmery,
shimmery, yet natural look.” yet natural available, but the majority of
look. VIP my clients prefer full lip color.”
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n an iconic scene from the movie “An- Spend the Time
Sometimes the constant expectation of sex can put a damper on
nie Hall,” Woody Allen’s character tells intimacy. Spend time touching each other without the specific goal
his psychiatrist, “She never wants sex, of intercourse. Try giving your partner a massage, taking a bubble
bath together, or just holding hands while watching a movie. Tak-
only about three times a week.” Cut to ing the focus off the endgame will help you and your partner enjoy
just being with one another. Make sure you spend time talking and
Diane Keaton’s character, lying on her doing things together you both enjoy. Both partners need to feel
shrink’s couch, saying “He always wants sex, valued in and outside the bedroom.
about three times a week.” This difference Take Care of Yourself
of libido level is common, but can strain a Dr. Brent Bost, a Beaumont physician and author of “The Hur-
ried Woman Syndrome,” identifies three symptoms that indicate
relationship. Sex is the best way for partners a woman is suffering from this syndrome. If you have experienced
weight gain, fatigue and loss of libido, it may indicate that you
to reconnect after a stressful day and cement need to evaluate the stress in your life. By maintaining a balanced
the relationship. If your libido needs a little diet, exercising and talking to someone about your problems, you
can take back control of your life and let yourself enjoy the little
lift, here are some tips to get you feeling pleasures. If you are experiencing a temporary loss of sex drive,
in the mood. pamper yourself with a massage, a bubble bath, new lingerie >>

and a glass of wine. (But no more than one glass, as alcohol can
LOVE IS IN THE AIR

depress the libido.)
Set the Stage

Nothing kills the mood like dirty laundry piled next to the bed
and a sitcom blaring in the background. To get in the mood and in
the moment, create a serene atmosphere conducive to relaxed inti-
macy. Clear away the clutter, dim the lights, and light some scented
candles, and you will forget your worries and truly enjoy some
stress-free quality time with the one you love.
Try Different Positions

You wouldn’t eat the same thing for dinner every night, so why
have the same old sex?
Spice it Up
Sometimes all it takes to inject some passion into your love life is
a little something out of the ordinary. With Internet access and many
websites offering discreet delivery, it’s possible to try out movies
and toys without blushing your way through a checkout line. Dawn
Montez, manager of Cindie’s Adult Products, recommends herbal
libido lifters for those whose sex drive is depressed. “There are
products that we recommend to younger women, as well as those go-
ing through menopause,” she said. “They are basically aphrodisiacs
that help boost the making of certain hormones.” Cindie’s also stocks
libido enhancers for men. Speak with a doctor before taking any
herbal pills because they can increase heart rate.
Make it a Priority
Not only is sex vital to a healthy relationship, research repeat-
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simplifying cooking with The Main Dish Studio Kitchen.
text by HOLLI PETERSEN
Tabetha’s Words
to Eat By:
“Super Bowl food should be simple!
You’re eating in front of a T.V. Don’t
bother making it complicated!”
“Fan or not, women don’t want to
be stuck in the kitchen the whole
time. Plan ahead and make ahead.”
“It’s really up to your crowd if you
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“Half-time is a great opportunity
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Be prepared, the guests are usually
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This ain’t Emeril Lagasse’s house so We begged.
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Tabetha suggests simplifying your spread by sticking to a
We pleaded.
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low dough and less stress:
Nacho Bar. Throw together some tortilla chips, nacho cheese
and a selection of toppings and you’ve got one queso-loco party!
We succeeded.
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Chili Bar. We, the Texans, MUST have chili. Pull out
those crockpots, get some varieties of chili cook-
SWEET & SAUCY KABOBS (Appetizer portion)
ing, throw together some fantastic fixings, and 8 servings- 1 kabob each (can multiply quanti-
you’re ready to “chili out” with your bud- ties to increase servings) If this is the only
dies. Tabetha’s top three chili choices appetizer served, 2 kabobs per person = 1
are White Chicken Chili, Turkey Chili serving.
(for those few souls still sticking
to their New Year’s diets), and a 32 frozen 1-inch meatballs (thawed)
Hearty Texas Chili. 1 red bell pepper (cut into 1-inch squares)
Cute & (un)Complicated 1 green bell pepper (cut into 1-inch squares)
Desserts. Make your guests ¼ cup apricot preserves
think you went to lots of effort ¼ cup BBQ sauce
without the fuss. Brownies
topped with a light coating of Heat grill or broiler. Thread
green frosting and white frosting meatballs and peppers alternately
“yard lines” transform the aver- onto 8 skewers.
age Betty Crocker mix into a deli- Microwave apricot preserves in a
cious, faux football field. Tabetha small bowl for 15 seconds. Stir in
also suggests making Rice Krispies BBQ sauce until combined. Brush
treats with Cocoa Rice Krispies and half onto kabobs.
molding into football shapes. Wow
factor without the worry! Grill 8-10 minutes or until meatballs are
heated throughout, turning occasionally
and brush with remaining sauce the
last 2 minutes.
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These can be threaded ahead of time and then

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1 ⁄3 cup canned green chiles
½ T cumin
½ T oregano
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step down to enter politics. I just might blurt out the truth.”
Friedman has been described many ways: as a humorist,
a satirist, a modern day Will Rogers, the Frank Zappa of
country music and, lately, a political candidate.
In December, Friedman threw his black hat into the ring for
the Democratic nomination for agriculture commissioner,
a race to be determined by the March 2 statewide primary.
Though serious about the political race, many of Friedman’s songs, such as lam-
Friedman continues to do the things he pooning bigotry or hauntingly recalling
enjoys best — writing, making music and the Holocaust.
meeting people. “I’m not going to let poli- Though he may not have been writing
tics get in the way of it,” he said firmly. songs lately, Friedman’s pen is rarely still.
“It’s called making a living and not being A frequent magazine contributor and the
a lobbyist.” author of 28 books, he’s currently work-
ing on a deal for number 29 about the agricultural commissioner from 1982 to
WITTY AND PROLIFIC Peace Corps, what he calls an “autobio- 1991. Hightower suggested to Friedman
Friedman and members of his Texas graphical novel.” (In his mystery series that you really know a person by his or
Jewboys band are playing sets again, — with titles such as “Armadillos & Old her heroes.
though he hasn’t written any new songs Lace”— the lead character is a fictional- “I searched my soul and came up with
lately. Some of his classics include “The ized version of himself.) Friedman was 23 of them,” Friedman said. “They are
Ballad of Charles Whitman,” “They Ain’t in the Peace Corps for two years, serving what made Texas great.” His literary
Makin’ Jews Like Jesus Anymore” and in Borneo in Malaysia. His training and essays include Barbara Jordan, Audie
“Get Your Biscuits in the Oven and Your Borneo experience was agriculture-based. Murphy, Willie Nelson, Davy Crockett
Buns in the Bed.” “I was an ag extension director. The train- and Sam Houston. “This book is for the
“Songwriting is poetry; you’ve got to be ing and the techniques were good, though young people. It was a pleasure writing
miserable because if you’re too happy, you handling water buffalo may not apply to it.”
can’t do it,” Friedman said. “People al- Texas.”
ways say I’m a musician — Barry Manilow IT’S A DIRTY JOB…
is a musician! I try to write things that HIS HEROES HAVE ALWAYS BEEN COWBOYS Friedman ran for governor of Texas
make you think. Of course, he makes a lot (AND GIRLS) in 2006 with the slogans “Why the Hell
more money than I do.” Friedman’s recent book, “Heroes of a Not?,” “How Hard Could It Be?,” “My
Frequently irreverent and politically Texas Childhood,” was inspired by his Governor is a Jewish Cowboy” and “He
incorrect, there is also a deeper edge to political mentor, Jim Hightower, the Texas ain’t Kinky, he’s my Governor.” With >>
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Of course, he makes a lot
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Jew, but that’s who you heard it from the that. I need to make it significant.”
first time,” he quips, but he’s not kidding.
Friedman strongly believes a Texas ANIMAL HUSBANDRY
public defender service to provide poor Friedman has long been an animal-
defendants with adequate legal counsel rights activist, opening the Utopia Animal
is needed, as well as across-the-board Rescue Ranch in 1998 with two friends.
raises for teachers. Though he recognizes One of his campaign goals is to establish
that these are goals beyond the power of a “no kill” shelter in every community,
an agriculture commissioner, Friedman modeled on Utopia.
believes he can pursue some of his other “We encourage outdoor natural pens
ideas for Texas through the position, such and we operate on a very low budget,”
as supporting farmer co-ops, encouraging Friedman said of Utopia. People come
bio-diesel and alternative energy options to the ranch from all over the country to
and providing outreach and internships to adopt pets or bring an animal that needs
young people to learn about agriculture. protection, he reported. One hundred
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Challenged about whether the average percent of the sales of his celebrity brand
Texan will be interested in the election, salsa supports the ranch.
Friedman said, “With Kinky in the race, I Friedman has had a menagerie of his
think a lot of them will care. In this office, own over the years, though the recent loss
you can be just a bureaucrat or you can of two long-time pet mutts still grieves
use it as a stepping stone. I’m too old for him. “My family’s been decimated,” he
endorsements from musical icons Wil- said wistfully. “It’s a heartbreaker. I still
lie Nelson and Jimmy Buffett, the Kinky have (dogs) Brownie and Chumley, and
campaign trail was whimsical. He finished Dilly the armadillo makes the occasional
fourth out of six in the election, receiving appearance.”
13 percent of the vote. Knowing the influence of pets led him
Friedman dipped a toe in the gubernato- to write another recent book, “Kinky’s
rial election waters again last fall, chang-
ing strategies from an Independent to a
Democratic candidate, and setting a more
serious tone. Though his initial poll-
ing numbers were strong, he decided to
change races when Bill White, Houston’s
former mayor, entered the challenge.
“As a child, I didn’t dream of growing up
to be ag commissioner, but I did dream of
making a difference,” Friedman said. “I’m
an advocate for rural Texas. I think I could
do a lot for Texas from the ag commission
office. This is a race I think I can win, and
where they don’t spit at you.”
Though no longer in the governor’s race,
Friedman remains passionate about issues
spotlighted in his brief campaign, the
death penalty and teacher’s pay.
“Getting rid of the death penalty is the
right thing to do,” Friedman said. His con-
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Celebrity Pet Files.” Friedman I do still, what’s left of it,” he
described it as “a backstage said ruefully. “With a name
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and dead, and how important
animals are (or were) in their
lives, whether you’re talking
famous or it’s a social embar-
rassment. I never thought it
would stick for so long.”
“I am having trouble
paying my bill. How can
about author Tom Robbins or Friedman recently celebrat-
Winston Churchill.” ed his 65th birthday. “I can
no longer say I’m too young
Old SchOOl for Medicare and too old for
Though he was born in
Chicago, Friedman very much
considers himself a Texan. His
women to care.”
Though he spends much
of his time travelling, par-
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“I don’t want to be more of ing Guinness or Jameson’s and
a cowboy than thou,” Fried- reading. Asked about recent
man said. “My home is an old reading material, Friedman
lodge. We have horses, don- said he was enjoying a biog-
keys, a small herd of cattle.” raphy of Charles Bukowski,
Friedman attended the the poet. He was also reading
University of Texas, a student “The Time it Never Rained”
in the Plan II Honors pro- by Elmer Kelton, about the
gram, which he described as independent, cantanker-
“a highly advanced liberal arts ous spirit of the East Texas
program which prepares you people during a drought in
only for becoming ag com- the 1950s. “They didn’t want
missioner or to sleep under a to take handouts,” Fried-
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Mastering ballet
against the odds
text by HOLLI PETERSEN
cant challenges. By the age of 10, most

of her peers had the advantages of more
experience and technique. Additionally,
she had to retrain her body on how to
move to music. “It definitely didn’t come
naturally to me,” she recalled. “I was
behind and I really had to work at it. I
had the flexibility, but I didn’t know how
to turn out my hips and feet.”
In Anderson’s favor, she thrived under
the strict discipline, and shortly devel-
oped a staunch determination to achieve
all her dancing goals.
A
That determination proved to be the
key to her future in ballet, particularly
after a diagnosis of scoliosis at the age
of 15 threatened to destroy all her hard
t the heart of work and accomplishments. After years
ballet is the of developing the proper technique,
task of tak- Anderson now had to adjust to rods in
ing extreme- her back and the trauma of surgery. She
ly difficult, realized she was incapable of performing
uncomfort- the most basic of ballet movements. It
able move- was in that moment that she learned to
ments and rely on her resolute spirit, rather than
performing the limitations of her body.
them with “I couldn’t do an arabesque anymore,”
such a polished grace and elegance that she explained. “I couldn’t bend my back.
they then appear effortless. This prin- My doctor kept saying I couldn’t dance
ciple is one which Beaumont resident anymore, but I was determined to make
Megan Forgas Anderson has applied to it work. I guess I’m hard-headed. I just
her life — overcoming challenges with a stuck with it.”
graceful refinement. Despite all the challenges Megan was
It was a leap of faith that inspired facing, she moved forward and unbe-
Anderson at the age of ten to replace lievably had an award-winning year of
gymnastics, a sport she excelled in, with dance. The same year of her diagnosis,
ballet, an unfamiliar, highly disciplined Anderson decided to choreograph her
art form. own ballet. Her five-person choreogra-
“I was once told that I should try phy, “Gaelic Airs,” went on to win an
ballet,” Anderson remembers. “Imme- award at the regional Emerging Choreog-
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ficult, it also teaches you to be a better ing me how to adjust and overcome
person. So, I auditioned for Beaumont challenges in life,” she explained. “I’ve
Student Ballet and quit gymnastics.” learned to love a challenge.”
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Hervy Hiner Jr. text by CATHLEEN COLE
I
t’s a busy Saturday night at
Suga’s Deep South Cuisine
and Jazz Bar in downtown
Beaumont. Relaxed patrons
enjoy dessert and after-
dinner drinks as the jazz
singer croons. The manager
mingles with customers
as the waitstaff attends to
their culinary desires. Is the
proprietor available? No, he’s at home
eating ice cream and enjoying his solitude.
Hervy Hiner Jr. is not an outgoing man.
He likes peace and quiet and considers
himself a loner. Growing up on the fam-
ily ranch in Pittsburg, Texas, he helped his
father raise Hereford cattle and was active
in the local 4-H chapter. There weren’t a lot
of African-American cowboys back then,
but his father also taught agriculture classes
at the local high school, so it seemed like a
natural fit. Aspiring to become a veterinar-
ian also seemed a logical choice. “It’s what I
knew,” he said. But an aunt talked him into
becoming a medical doctor, so he hung up
his chaps and spurs and headed to college.
He graduated in 1979 from the Baylor Col-
lege of Medicine as an internal medicine
doctor specializing in nephrology and came
to Port Arthur in the late ’80s.
Collecting art was not a planned hobby.
In the ’90s, he was thinking of building a
home and perusing issues of Architectural
Digest for ideas when he saw an advertise-
ment for Galerie Royale in New Orleans
featuring a painting by African-American
artist William Tolliver. Intrigued by the
work, he contacted the gallery and soon was
photography by JUDY STOKELY
the proud owner of Tolliver’s “Purple Lady.”

That was the beginning of his interest in
African-American artists and their work.
Today his numerous paintings adorn the
walls of his home, office and restaurant. He’s
not an auction hound — rather, he keeps in
touch with several gallery owners who know
his tastes. He won’t purchase a painting just
because it’s thought to be a good invest-
ment. “It comes down to what you see in the
picture,” he said. “You always buy what you
like.”
Accompanying his taste for fine art are
tastes for good food and music. However,
opening an upscale restaurant and jazz club and contemporary jazz, and he already ice cream, opened in December 2005.
came as a shock to family members since owned the historic Coale Building, so why “It’s also a term of endearment,” Hiner
they saw the business as a venture for an not? “Originally, the idea started as an ice said of the name, which seems appropri-
extroverted entrepreneur, not an introverted cream shop and grew from there,” he said. ate since the restaurant, and the trea-
physician. But Hiner likes Southern cuisine Thus, Suga’s, with its signature homemade sures it holds, are dear to his heart. VIP

Are you an artist or an Whom do you admire and why?
aspiring artist? My father, Hervy Hiner Sr. No matter what goes
No, I appreciate art. down, he always smiles.
Why did you start What do you do

collecting art? to relax?
I always liked art and architecture. When I’m out of town for a meeting, I like to hit the
art museums. I also like to dine at local restaurants
What’s the and try different wines.
best one
that got away? Significant other?
“Earth Mother” by Rosalind Hall. She’s the director of operations at the
Charles Alston. I had restaurant.
the chance to buy it
and I turned it down. Kids?
I regret it now. Jordon, Nikki and Harrison.
Has any piece What is something most people

of art moved don’t know about you?
you to tears? I’m not very outgoing so most people don’t know
No, but some give much about me to begin with. I seek seclusion.
you a sense of
peace. Some can Advice for good health?
make you sad, se- When you eat, eat good food. Make it count.
rene or thoughtful.
What words
Favorite artist? describe you?
I don’t have one favorite. I like Dean Mitchell, Jacob Optimist, admirer of creativity, driven.
Lawrence, Charles Alston and John Biggers.
A fun evening for me …
Hobbies besides is getting home on time and enjoying a moment of
collecting art? peace.
I like fishing, but I don’t have the time. My hobbies
kind of rotate. I like growing things. I have a passion
for food and like going to unique restaurants.
Suga’s specializes in a large array

of Southern-style dishes and
live jazz entertainment.
Why did you choose
this type of restaurant?
I’ve always liked Southern food. It’s quite expan-
sive – Low Country (Carolinas and Southeastern
Georgia), Caribbean influence (Florida), Mid-South
(Georgia, Alabama,
Mississippi) Cajun
and Creole (Louisi-
ana) and the Mexican
influence of Tex Mex.
And I like music,
particularly contem-
porary jazz.
Comfort food?
Ice cream and milk-
shakes.
Are you an
aspiring chef?
I play around. I try
things, go through Do you art?
recipes. I’ll take it to the restaurant for the chef to
critique and possibly try with his own spin. • View selections from Hiner’s art collection at
AMSET, currently on exhibit through April 11.
Favorite musical
artists? • Suga’s is the location for the Heart for the
Natalie Cole, Sly and the Family Stone, Santana and Arts Awards Evening on Feb. 14 to support the
Kenny G. Southeast Texas Arts Council.

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In conjunction with the Beaumont
Chamber of Commerce. Come for Heart for the Arts Awards Evening
networking and an inside look at The Southeast Texas Arts Council
the area’s greenest builders. 4:30- will announce the winners of the
6:30p.m. 409.838.6581 2010 outstanding achievement in
the arts and humanities. Suga’s Deep
Julie Rogers “Gift of Life” South Cuisine and Jazz Bar. Tickets:
Survivors Celebration $25. setac.org, 409.835.2787
FeBRUaRY 6 A salute to breast and prostate cancer
survivors held at Parkdale Mall. Lunar New Year Celebration– 2010
Symphony League Ball
{ February } “Tango Argentina.” Dinner, dancing Mardi Gras of Southeast Texas
Year of the Tiger
Fireworks, bells, incense are all
and entertainment including Activities run from Feb. 11 to Feb. 14 part of the excitement. Performance
the Doppelganger band from
FeBRUaRY 1 Houston, salsa lessons and tango
in downtown Port Arthur. Parades, by Dragon Dance Troupe. Begins
concerts, rides. 409.721.8717 at midnight, Buu Mon Buddhist
African-American Art: Highlights demonstrations. The eighth grade Temple. 409.982.9319
from the Dr. Hervy Hiner Collection Symphony Belles will be presented. An Evening with Horton Foote
Presented by Lamar Theatre
The Art Museum of Southeast $300 per couple, $150 individual.
Department. Studio Theater. Feb.
FeBRUaRY 16
Texas presents an exhibit focusing Beaumont Civic Center. 6:30p.m.-
specifically on the extraordinary art Midnight. sost.org 11-16. 8pm, 2pm matinee Sunday. President’s Day
collection of local nephrologist and 409.880.2250
“pARTy-cipation” Fat Tuesday Mardi Gras Party
entrepreneur, Dr. Hervy Hiner. This
exhibition will comprise works in a
A free and fun art workshop for all FeBRUaRY 12 The final party ending the Mardi
ages – families welcome. Participants Gras season. 6:30p.m. $10
variety of mediums by some of the 2010 Golden Triangle New York, New
will make art with four local artists admission, $1 fee for BYOB. Bob
great African-American artists of the York! Heart Ball
(Andy Ledesma, Xenia Fedorchenko, Bowers Civic Center, Port Arthur.
19th and 20th centuries. Exhibit runs With a New York style theme, the
Terri Fox and Andy Coughlan). By 409.962.9860
through April 11. amset.org local American Heart Association
the end of the workshop, participants
honors 2010 J.C. Crager award 27th Annual Taste of the Triangle
Hans Molzberger: RETURN / RÜCKKEHR will have four different pieces of art.
Sabine Area Restaurant Association
The Art Museum of Southeast The Art Studio, Inc. 10a.m.-3p.m. recipients, Dr. R. Leldon Sweet and
Walter Umphrey. Tickets $150 per annual fundraiser featuring samplings
Texas presents an exhibit featuring Gallery opening to follow, 7-10p.m.
person. Holiday Inn Beaumont Plaza. from more than 60 area restaurant &
several of German artist and Exhibit runs through Feb. 27.
7p.m. 409.980.8800 beverage companies. Tickets $15 in
Houston resident Hans Molzberger’s 409.838.5393, artstudio.org
advance, $20 day of at the box office.
large-scale, ceramic sculpture The Krewe of Quilts Quilt Show
Harlem Ambassadors Ford Park. 6:30-9:00p.m. 409.951.5400
installations inspired by Displays presented by the Golden
As a fundraiser for the Veteran’s
environmental, political and Triangle Quilt Guild. Feb. 12 and Leading Ladies
Memorial Park, the Lions Club is
social themes. Exhibit runs 13. 10a.m.-5p.m. $5 per person. The Montana Repertory Theaters
sponsoring this basketball event,
through April 11. amset.org Beaumont Civic Center. 409.838.3435 performs a hilarious comedy about
perfect for family entertainment.
two English Shakespearean actors
Boot Scootin’ Legends: Images Tickets are $5, kids under Livingston Trade Days who find themselves down on their
of Classic Country Opening 4 free. 7p.m.Vidor High Feb. 12-14. Hwy 59 North in luck. Lutcher Theater. 7:30p.m.
Reception School. 409.769.9799 Livingston. Free admission and Tickets: $40-$65. 800.828.5535
Temporary exhibit parking. 1.877.UBHOOKD
through March 21. FeBRUaRY 7 FeBRUaRY 17
Museum of the Gulf
Super Bowl XLIV FeBRUaRY 13
Coast. 409.982.7000 Gabriel Iglesias “The Fluffy Shop” Tour
Half time performance Annual Lamar Baseball Dinner Comedian Gabriel “I’m not fat, I’m
by The Who.
FeBRUaRY 4 Entertainment by Phil Johnson, of fluffy” Iglesias brings his hilarious
whom Coach Jim Gilligan says, “He storytelling and clean comedy style
Artwork by Anne Nelson Sweat FeBRUaRY 10 makes Barry White sound like a to the Jefferson Theatre. Tickets
Exhibit through May 2 in Café Arts at sissy.” Tickets: $75-$100 individual, $33.50. 8p.m. 409.838.3435 x1
Save Our Children
The Art Museum of Southeast Texas. $500-$1000 tables. Silent auction
(SOC) Appreciation
amset.org
Dinner begins at 6p.m. Banquet 7-9p.m. FeBRUaRY 20
Harlem Globetrotters’ A fundraiser MCM Elegante. 409.880.8315
NAACP 27th Annual Freedom
“Magical Memories” Tour including a “Set Your Sails for AMSET!” Fund & Award Banquet
Family entertainment by the silent auction Family Arts Day Banquet and fundraiser,
humorous ball-handling wizards. and dinner Guests can make boat-related art proceeds benefit scholarship
Ford Arena. 7p.m. Tickets start at with activities including making small fund. Recognition of individuals,
$17. 800.745.3000 or ticketmaster. guest workable boats, decorating sails and businesses and organizations that
com, fordparktx.com drawing boats. 10a.m.-2p.m. Free. have made invaluable contributions
amset.org

Tickets $23 adults,
$11 kids 2-12.
fordparktx.com
Groovaloo
Award-winning
dance troupe’s
performance
in the spirit of
“A Chorus Line” and
“Stomp.” Hip hop, agility, For the Seasoned Diner
poetry and vibrant musical score.
Celebrate
Winners of NBC’s recent “Superstars
of Dance.” Tickets $25-$50. Lutcher
to the community. Beaumont Civic Theater. 7:30p.m. lutcher.org
Center. 409.842.0294
FeBRUaRY 21 Any Occasion

Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs Ballet
Beaumont Civic Ballet will perform a with
D.J.’s Boudain!
new production based on the favorite
fairytale. Tickets: $5-$15. Julie Rogers
Theatre, 5p.m.
FeBRUaRY 25 D.J.’s is your hometown supplier

Once Upon A Mattress of boudain and rice dressing.
Port Arthur Little Theater presents
the musical comedy Feb. 25-28, Look for it at any one
7:30p.m. palt.org FeBRUaRY 27 of your local grocery stores.
“Increasing Your Personal Symphony of Southeast Texas Concert
Productivity” Training Session Performance by Mariangela Vacatello,
Sponsored by the Better Business finalist from the 2009 Van Cliburn
Bureau, an hour of fast-paced learning International Piano Competition.
and professional development. $40, Julie Rogers Theatre. 7:30p.m.Tickets
includes lunch and training materials. available on line or at the box office
Advance registration required. MCM concert night. 409.892.2257, sost.org
Elegante. 11:30a.m. 409.835.5951 x 117
19th Annual Coastwind Cat Club Cat Show
FeBRUaRY 26 CFA Licensed Championship Show.
Beaumont Civic Center. 9a.m.-6p.m.
Monster Nation 409.838.3435
Monster trucks and Motorcross.
Mr. Habitat for Humanity 2010
Racing, freestyle and stunts to wow
Dinner, cash bar, silent auction, and
the crowd. Ford Park. Friday, 8p.m.
loads of entertainment. Holiday Inn
Also Feb. 27 and Feb. 28 at 3p.m.
Beaumont Plaza. 6p.m. 409.832.5853
March Preview
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MARCH 2
Magnolia Garden Club of Beaumont Presents Starstruck The 2010
Garden Club of America Flower Show. Categories in the garden club
show include flower arranging, horticulture, conservation/education,
photography, and botanical jewelry and embellishments. Free. 2-5p.m. on
March 2, 9a.m.-3 p.m. on March 3. Julie Rogers Theatre. 409.892.5370
* The Garden Club will host a reception and special showing from 6-7:30
p.m. March 2 in conjunction with the Lamarissmo! Jazz Concert. This pre-
performance event, featuring hors d’oeuvres and a cash bar, will be open
to holders of season or individual tickets to Lamarissimo!
Lamarissimo! Jazz Concert Lamar University’s acclaimed series of off-
campus performances shine the spotlight on the best and brightest in
student and faculty talent. Season ticket holders or individual tickets for $15
available at the box office. 7:30p.m. Julie Rogers Theatre. 409.880.8144 VIP

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g u e s t c o l u m n
A The books
s Valentine’s
Day approaches,
I ponder this
important
question: Why are
of love
photography by SILVIA C. MCCLAIN
there so many single women,
despite the fact that there are
thousands of books on the
market to teach us how to get
a man? text by MICHELLE MCCALOPE
There’s “The Rules“by dating
coaches Ellen Fein and Sherrie
Schneider. To make the catch,
this book says all you have to do
is use your feminine wiles to lure
him in, such as dressing sexy,
Does a marketing plan
playing hard to get, and letting
him pursue the chase. Have you
tried this?
replace the fairy tale?
Then there’s the infamous
“He’s Just Not That into You”
by comedian Greg Behrendt you follow the book’s 15-step recommends Internet dating. solution is just a page away.
and former “Sex in the City” program, you will get hitched, or The web is the fastest and easi-
writer Liz Tucillo, which was so the author says. The program est way to meet new people or as Michelle McCalope is an
recently made into a movie. The teaches you how to use market- she says, “cast a wider net.” award-winning journalist and
book urges women to raise their ing tools to sell yourself because So if you’re still single, get president of McCalope Media,
standards and stick to them. If you are the “product.” What an to the nearest bookstore or the a public relations and communica-
he’s not treating you like the interesting concept--a business closest library. After all, the tions company in Beaumont. VIP
queen that you are (asking you approach to love. It’s not very
out, making sure he doesn’t sexy, but certainly very interest-
disappoint you, and trying to get ing.
along with your family), then Greenwald, who as sug-
you need to move on until your gested, earned an MBA from
king arrives. The notion here is Harvard, says just as with any
that he will arrive. Are you still new product, you must deal with
waiting? publicity, packaging and mass
Comedian Steve Harvey’s marketing.
book, “Act Like a Lady and When it comes to packag-
Think Like a Man” is a best ing, you must be attractive in
seller. (What’s with comedians order to get someone interested
suddenly becoming relationship in buying. This doesn’t mean
experts?) Anyway, Harvey says perfection. It means making the
women need to become detec- most of what you’ve got and
tives. Don’t be afraid to ask ques- putting it in the most appealing
tions. Who does he live with or package you can, she says. That Baby & Children’s Furniture
who lives with him? When was means wearing stylish clothes
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the questions, but comes up you know that you are single PediPeds • Best Chair • Britax
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