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Caring through
Clowning
Businessman’s
hobby is no
laughing
Bob enjoying being out of costume and fishing the waters off the coast
matter
of Charleston.

By Don Gordon a clown school in Min- Today in Charleston, Mason is part

At regular times, Bob Mason, an en-
trepreneur with an extensive corporate
background, decides to clown around.
But don’t get the wrong idea. He is no
less in earnest in that mode than he is in
his business dealings. In the latter, it is
Mason’s job to find executive-level em-
ployees for his corporate clients. When
he puts on his clown face, his “clients”
are the sick and injured lying in hospital
beds.
Mason and his wife Sherrie came to
the Charleston area -- specifically, Sea-
brook Island -- in 2006, from Maryland’s
eastern shore, the result of their search
for a new location somewhere on the At-
lantic Ocean.
Four years earlier, Mrs. Mason hap-
pened to read a magazine article about
nesota and told her hus- of a national organization called Bum-
band, in less than flatter- per “T” Caring Clowns, whose members
ing terms, that it might provide therapeutic clowning to hospital
be just what he needed to Bob Mason as Dr. Geezer with Dr. Jolly Bonz. patients through the use of gentle humor.
lighten up his life. “I had The name of the 30-year-old organiza-
been traveling maybe how to do balloons.” When the school tion stems from the clown identity of its
three days a week for 40 weeks a year,” asked the students to name some special- founder, “Bumper T,“ now 84 years old.
Mason explained. ty, he chose hospitals and nursing homes, A resident of Barrington, N.J., “Bumper
So he took his wife’s suggestion and and it is a calling he has followed to this T” was in Charleston at the outset of the
made the trip to a place called Moose- day. Caring Clown program and was a guest
burger Camp where he and more than He said he had gone to the school in Mason’s home.
100 others would learn the basics of be- with an open mind as to where the course Mason turns up weekly at several lo-
ing a clown. would lead him. It turned out to be more cal hospitals, dressed as “Dr. Geezer“,
“Some executives would go there to than just a week of unwinding and hav- wearing scrubs and some facial clown
unwind for a week and have some fun,” ing some fun. makeup.
Mason said, though there would be oth- Back in Maryland, Mason said he As for the clown getup, he pointed
ers at the school who sought to make called on a local nursing home to put into out that the Caring Clowns are more re-
their living as clowns. practice what he had learned. “I went strained in their appearance.
“We took clowning 101,” Mason from room to room. It was very, very Mason continued on page 2
added. “We learned about makeup and gratifying,” he recalled.

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Mason
continued from page 1
“If a circus clown is a 10,
and a birthday clown an eight,
we would be considered a two,”
Mason remarked.
Caring Clowns work under
specific guidelines. They visit
a given patient just once, and
with permission, observe strict
rules of confidentiality, and are
trained to “be in the moment,”
according to the needs of the
individual patient. “Sometimes
we just sit and listen,” Mason
pointed out.
The whole purpose is to
have a positive influence on the
patients, their families and the
care-givers and to enhance the
healing process.
“Studies have shown the
positive effect that humor and
laughter have”, Mason com-
mented, and he shared one en-
counter that helps prove the
point and signifies what his
clown activity means to himself
and the patients.
“There was a lady who was
quite ill,” Mason said. “She
looked me right in the eye and
said ‘Dr. Geezer, thank you very
much for making me laugh.’
He didn’t let the patient see his
moistening eyes. “Something
like that is worth more than a
million dollars. They can‘t pay
you for that,” he added.
been Bob Mason’s other life for
many years. A native of Euclid,
Ohio, he graduated from Ohio
State University and also com-
pleted graduate work in psy-
chology at Temple University.
He established his own
company, Mason and Associ-
ates, in 1987 in Menlo Park, Ca-
lif., where he and his wife lived
for 25 years before moving to
Sherrie lands a 250-point marlin off the coast of Baja.
Maryland. His clients include a
number of major corporations.
“The economy being what
it is, recruitment is slow at pres-
ent. There are lots of excellent
candidates, but very few jobs,“
Mason stated simply.
Before going into executive
recruitment, Mason did cor-
business.
Mason gives no indication
of discontinuing either his busi-
ness or his clowning activities.
He and his wife Sherrie, who
went to high school together
in Euclid, take time to enjoy
life as avid golfers and as fish-
ing enthusiasts. He pointed out
that Sherrie caught a 250-point
marlin, by herself, off the low-
The Mason’s bike the lovely French countryside.
er coast of Baja in Mexico not third time there. “I tell everyone
long ago. Mrs. Mason, a retired I’m going back for my Ph.D.,”
school teacher, also does volun- Mason quipped.
teer work at the Medical Free It is obvious that Bob Mason
Clinic in Charleston. is into his “Dr. Geezer” role in
In the meantime, Mason’s a big way. And whatever Sher-
education as a Caring Clown is rie Mason thought her husband
not yet complete. He plans to needed back in 2002, clown
return to Mooseburger Camp in school seemingly provided it,
Buffalo, Minn. this summer for and then some.
another week, accompanied by
Dr. Dizzy Daisy. It will be his
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Dear Liz,
My husband and I have been
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We have two children, 10 and
13. My husband is constantly
on me about how I handle the
kids, the house--everything. I
am worn out from not having
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time. He works a pretty demand-
ing job, which I appreciate. We
have talked about divorce. The
kids are starting to struggle
themselves. And to be honest, I
find myself thinking about look-
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What You Don’t Know
By John Kuhn
Some things seem like they
should be easy--and they are
easy. However, some things
simply appear easy--even when
they are very difficult. The prob-
lem with some complex respon-
sibilities is that they may seem
simple on the surface, yet they
may be very difficult in reality.
For example, crossing a field of
fifty yards seems simple, right?
However, if that field is a mine-
field, it might be a very hazard-
ous crossing, indeed! On the
surface, both fields might appear
the same to the ordinary person.
However, experts can spot the
hidden problems which the ordi-
nary person may not. Sally, because he will name her
This is equally true for es-
tate planning. Let’s look at two
couples, the Browns and the
Robinsons. The Browns have a
very substantial and complicated
estate which may benefit from
tax planning. They own a sizable
business. They each have a prior
marriage and their marriage to-
gether is somewhat rocky. It’s
easy to see the mines in that field
and know that they would benefit
from consulting with an estate
planning attorney.
The Robinsons have more mod-
est assets of approximately
$200,000. They have a great
marriage and two wonderful
kids aged 12 and 15. It appears
on the surface that they might be
able to save some money and use
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ning method like online forms or
software at little or no cost. The
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have a hidden mine in their es-
tate plan.
The Robinsons’ case looks
simple to the untrained eye.
However, the Robinsons’ pri-
mary asset is Jake Robinson’s
401k which he started right out
of college, before he even met
his wife, Sally. Jake named his
ex-wife, Allison, as beneficiary.
Of course, Jake assumes that his
401k will go to his current wife,
as the primary beneficiary in his
Will or Trust. Jake doesn’t know
what he doesn’t know, i.e. that
his Will or Trust will not control
his 401k.
While the Robinsons could
“save” some money by using
some free or inexpensive, “do-it-
yourself” software, doing so will
end up costing them everything
because Jake’s 401k will go to
Allison at his death, even if Jake
names Sally in his Will or Trust.
Only an experienced estate
planning attorney who focuses
his or her practice in that field
will have the knowledge and
expertise to spot and defuse the
mines which you may encounter.
Some other hazards which you
might encounter are:
• Property ownership issues year, the Internal Revenue Ser-
(Joint Tenancy, Community
Property, etc.)
• Assets with beneficiary des-
ignations (e.g. brokerage and one that best matches your in-
bank accounts)
• Life Insurance
• Blended family issues
• Leaving assets outright to
minor children
Your estate planning attorney
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field to the other side. For ex-
ample, the attorney would have
advised Jake to complete a new
beneficiary designation form
naming Sally as the primary
beneficiary of his 401k. While
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Retirement Planning:
New IRA Rules and
Common Questions
IRAs (individual retirement
accounts) have long been a sta-
ple of retirement saving, and this
vice (IRS) introduced a new rule
that makes Roth IRAs available
to more investors.
The IRS has removed the
$100,000 modified adjusted
gross income limit for conver-
sions from Traditional IRAs or
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to pay the resulting taxes from a
conversion in full in 2011 or to
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IRA conversion options. Scot-
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IRAs.
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options when opening an IRA.
“An IRA can be a simple way to
build a solid financial base for
your retirement dreams,” said
Grupas. “It’s essential to do your
homework and take an in-depth
look at the recent changes and
the differences among the types
of IRAs to ensure you select the
vesting strategy.”
There are a number of dif-
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tors, such as Traditional, Roth,
SEP, and Rollover. Choosing
and understanding the IRA that’s
right for you is important. The
most common IRA types are
Traditional and Roth, with one
of the biggest differences being
the tax benefits. With a Tradi-
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be tax-deductible. In a Roth
IRA, contributions are made
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already been subject to income
tax. Overall, a Traditional IRA
puts more money in your pock-
et from your paycheck, while a
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lows withdrawal of contribution
dollars at any time, generally
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better shape than they entered it.
Perhaps no group of people was
more hurt than baby boomers or senior
citizens. While some senior citizens were
savvy enough to see the economic down-
turn coming and therefore minimize the
damage done to their nest eggs, many
more witnessed their retirement savings
take a big hit.
In many cases, the children of those
baby boomers and senior citizens are
left wondering what they can do to help.
Adults themselves, these children have
likely also taken a financial hit as a result
of the recession, and might be puzzled
as to how they can help their parents or
in-laws cope with financial loss. The fol-
lowing tips may help do just that.
• Avoid using credit cards. Credit cards
are not the solution to solving any cur-
rent debt or financial problems. Credit
cards are only adding more debt or, for
those without any current debt, creating
a bigger financial problem than the one
that currently exists. While recent legis-
lation in the United States has placed re-
strictions on creditors and interest rates,
that does not mean credits cards are now
a viable crutch for those struggling finan-
cially.
• Discourage risk. The knee jerk reaction
when one loses money in the market is
generally one of two things. Some inves-
tors immediately want to pull all of their
money out of the market, while others
want to take on more risk. The latter is
similar to someone losing money at a ca-
sino and continually doubling their bets
in an effort to recoup their losses with
one lucky hand. Unfortunately, there is
no lucky hand when it comes to the mar-
ket, and adults should discourage their
parents of taking on riskier investments
to recoup their lost nest eggs. Regardless
of how much a person may or may not
have lost during the recession, the rule of
thumb that investments should grow less
risky as we grow older still applies.
• Recommend a relocation. While the
housing market also took a hit during
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the recession, chances are your parents’
property is still quite valuable. What’s
more, if your parents are still in the home
where they raised their family, that’s an
asset they probably no longer need.
Whether downsizing involves selling
the home and moving to a smaller home
or condo or selling the home and relocat-
ing to a more affordable state or city, it’s
an option that can free up assets and help
relieve some of the stress associated with
losses from the recession.
Seniors who have suffered financial losses
resulting from the recession can still enjoy
their golden years with a few adjustments
to their financial planning.
• Discusss a fixed annuity. Fixed an-
nuities might not be for everyone, but
seniors worried about outliving their re-
tirement savings and having no income
might want to consider a fixed annuity.
These can be immediate or deferred, al-
lowing seniors the chance to plan for
living on a fixed income without having
to jump right into it. Consult a financial
advisor with your parents to discuss the
advantages and disadvantages to fixed
annuities.
• Suggest retirees adjust their withdraw-
al rate. Current retirees can adjust their
retirement account withdrawal rate and
save money in doing so. While it might
not be ideal to cut back spending during
a time that’s supposed to be carefree, the
recession certainly changed reality in
ways many did not foresee.
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The Evaluation of Knee Pain
By Dr. Eric Stem, MD
Knee pain can be caused by
a variety of sources. The knee
is a complex joint that is com-
posed of the junction between
the femur (thigh bone) and the
tibia (shin bone), as well as the
joint between the femur and the
patella (kneecap). In addition
to flexing and extending like a
hinge joint, the knee also slides
and rotates slightly. This com-
plex motion, combined with the
multiple muscles, ligaments and
tendons in and around the knee,
can lead to many different sourc-
es of pain. In addition, there are
multiple types of arthritis, with
osteoarthritis and rheumatoid ar-
thritis being the two most com-
mon. that stretch ligaments too far can
The initial management
of knee pain can be handled at
home (with a quick trip to the
drug store) by using the RICE
method: Rest, Ice, Compression
and Elevation. Resting and ic-
ing the joint helps to decrease
the swelling in and around the
joint. Compression, or use of a
compressive wrap, can provide
Hip and Knee News
support to the joint, as well as
aid in limiting joint swelling.
Keeping the leg elevated, prefer-
ably above the level of the heart,
also decreases pain and swelling.
In addition, the use of over the
counter anti-inflammatory medi-
cations, such as ibuprofen (Ad-
vil, Motrin) or naproxen (Aleve),
can also help alleviate the pain
and swelling. Taking these med-
ications on a regular schedule (as
directed on the bottle) is more
effective than taking them inter-
mittently.
Strains and sprains are some
of the most common knee inju-
ries. This injury occurs when
soft tissues around the knee
are injured from over-use or
stretched excessively. Injuries
lead to tearing of the ligament.
The treatment of ligament tears
may require bracing or surgery.
Knee pain, that persists or
worsens over time, warrants fur-
ther evaluation. You may con-
sider seeing your primary care
physician for the initial evalua-
tion of persistent knee pain. The
initial evaluation may consist of
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Eric Stem, MD
a history, physical exam, X-rays,
and possibly blood tests. This
investigation attempts to iden-
tify the cause of the pain, which
may be traumatic, degenerative,
inflammatory, or infectious. The
diagnosis of arthritis can usu-
ally be made with these tests. Lowcountry Orthopaedics and
Once the diagnosis has been
made, your primary care physi-
cian can institute the appropriate
treatment for your cause of knee
pain. However, sometimes the
diagnosis may still remain elu-
sive and further evaluation may
be required. This may involve
additional diagnostic imaging,
such as special x-rays or an
MRI (magnetic resonance im-
aging). Typical x-rays are use-
ful for visualizing the bones, but
an MRI allows the soft tissues,
such as ligaments and tendons,
to be seen. In certain situations,
referral to a specialist such as a
rheumatologist or an orthopaedic
surgeon is necessary to aid in the
diagnosis or management of the
disorder.
Dr. Eric Stem is an Ortho-
paedic Surgeon with subspecial-
ty training in joint replacement
and reconstruction. If you have
a question you would like an-
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the Hip and Knee News, please
write:
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(843)797-5050
This article is for provided
for general information only and
is not a substitute for seeking ap-
propriate medical care.
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experience knee pain that
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days of rest, ice, massage,
and elevation.
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knee-bending exercises
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Build adequate muscle
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and ankles.
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When doing squats, lung-
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Navigator/Caregiver, Dewey
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As we continue with our ‘caregiv-
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offer, in his own words, advice
on coping with caring for a loved
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many comments about the origin
of Lynyrd Skynyrd, as there was
about caregiving. But humor can
get us through a lot of hardship. In
fact, I was surprised to learn that
Lynyrd Skynyrd is in the Rock ‘n
Roll Hall of Fame whereas The
Outlaws are not. Folks, induct
The Outlaws into the Rock ‘n Roll
Hall of Fame. Their ‘Hurry Sun-
down’ album, as well as ‘Green
Grass and High Tides Forever’
provided many of us with great
southern comfort back in the day.
And I’m a yankee.
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and help, visit www.gailsheehy.
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“Number one, you cannot
do this alone. You have to form a
circle of care, not just family but
friends and colleagues of your
loved one, your neighbors, other
caregivers who have been through
this process. I really advise if you
can possibly afford it to get a ge-
riatric care manager who knows
the street language and has a visa
to this foreign country called our
medical system. Just a consult
for three hours will save you an
enormous amount of work and
stress. And you have to take care
of yourself from the beginning.
That means you have to do some-
thing for yourself that has nothing
to do with caregiving for at least
an hour every day.”
Dewey Teske chimes in with his
own survival advice as a care-
giver.
Think about caregiving BE-
FORE it is needed. Become
knowledgeable on all of the ser-
vices out there. Know that it is ex-
pensive for even the most basic of
care. You have to develop some
system to give you and your fami-
ly members some time away from
the continuous effort. As your
loved one progresses progresses
downhill, this will become much
harder. Keep the person you are
caring for involved with people –
we have used bingo at the Senior
House in North Charleston to help
my father socialize. Know good
eating habits and foods for the
elderly. Stay in the best physical
shape you can – there have been
many situations where I was more
physically tired in his care than
I was in the strenuous points in
my submarine career. Don’t take
your feelings out on your loved
one – get used to the “tether” of
his needs and give your loved one
the care he deserves.
Be kind at all times. Try to keep
the family together and informed
and get their advice on decisions
about their loved one. Keep them
informed of your loved one’s
medical situation. Keep your
loved one informed of his family
milestones as he forgets them.
Don’t be afraid to bring in help –
there are many wonderful outfits
that can help. The Lowcountry
Senior Network is one profes-
sional network organization that
opened my eyes to how many fac-
ets of caregiving I did NOT know
about!
Ask questions, talk to people
about your situation just for the
sake of your sanity – you will be
amazed that everyone to whom I
shared a story had an equal num-
ber of stories to relate back.
Watch his finances like a hawk.
Become knowledgeable on the
red flags for financial exploitation
– “legal” stealing from family
members is rampant out there. If a
family member says they want to
“take care of Dad” then watch it
even closer. Nobody in their right
mind WANTS to take care of Dad.
Realize there is great reward for
caring for a close family member.
There are wonderful times, funny
times despite the dementia and
because of the dementia. Realize
there will come a time when your
loved one will not recognize you
and to take advantage of the times
when he still does recognize you.
Reward the caregivers (both fam-
ily and professional) – things like
gift cards to their favorite restau-
rant, or coffee and donuts, movie
passes, a thank you card – all have
worked wonders and acknowl-
edged some very good care. The
senior companionship people are
not doing it for the money – they
truly care for the individual.
Take a hard look at his legal
situation, i.e., your loved one’s
will. For me as Conservator – his
probate reports are made, his taxes
are done. There are many things
(like assigning beneficiaries for
various policies and IRA’s) that
can NOT be done by a Conserva-
tor – so you must determine his
competency for legal matters and
re-evaluate it over time to prevent
future probate problems or any
other legal matter that may oc-
cur. For someone with dementia,
it may take days, if not weeks,
to determine what he really truly
wants.
Mark Gallagher or Dewey
Teske can be reached at lowcoun-
trysun@gmail.com
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CENTER
ACHIEVES
EXCEPTIONAL
RESULTS
Eric Hadley, Chief
Operating Officer of
Premier Senior Liv-
ing, today announced
that Sandpiper Rehab
and Nursing located
in Mount Pleasant, SC
has received a zero
deficiency survey. In
receiving the perfect
score, Sandpiper Re-
hab and Nursing was
recognized for meeting
or exceeding state and
federal standards in lit-
erally hundreds of ar-
eas of practice and out-
comes. Healthcare is
one of the most highly
regulated industries in
America and receiving
a zero deficiency sur-
vey is rare.
The South Caro-
lina Department of
Health and Environ-
mental Control in-
spects skilled nurs-
ing facilities annually.
The survey process is
known to be quite in-
tense and places facili-
ties under a grueling
spotlight. Only about
4% of skilled nurs-
ing facilities achieve
such high quality re-
sults as did Sandpiper
Rehab and Nursing.
“The entire staff is to
be congratulated on
this exceptional ac-
complishment. What
has been achieved is a
reflection of dedication
and professionalism
and we thank each and
every one for their con-
tinued commitment to
be the best”, comment-
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part of Sandpiper Re-
tirement Community
located in Mount Pleas-
ant, SC. Sandpiper Re-
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for those transitioning
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home.
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Moles - the hidden terror of your turf
By james parker they have had generations to tained grass, rather than in your
Moles are nocturnal anima- reproduce. In the newer subdi- neighbor’s dustbowl next door.
moles are nocturnal animals that visions, they are a little less of Moles are brown colored,
often tunnel around in people’s a problem because we have not little blind rodents that do their
lawns and property and cause yet provided the enclosed areas tunneling in the evening. You can
damage to their sod. The mole causing them to overpopulate test a tunnel by pushing down on
population has become an in- the area. Moles do not know it during the day. The next morn-
creasing problem for people’s property lines. They will travel ing if you wake up and the tun-
lawns due to the construction from yard to yard, and eliminat- nel has risen, it would be con-
of roads, highways and subdivi- ing them becomes an ongoing sidered an active tunnel and you
Out in the Yard process. We currently use bait have a live one in that particular
sions. When people call us and By James Parker
say there is a mole in the yard, it three times a year, rotating the tunnel. To treat this live tunnel,
often is not just one, but a family bait so there are different flavors we would usually take a pencil
southeast without any physical for the moles to feast on. and make a small hole in the top
or cluster of moles. If you were
barriers to keep them caged in. We often have calls from Moles are insectivores (they eat of the tunnel, drop some bait in,
to think about this more dynami-
Now that we have the physi- people who we have done mole insects), and they may control and lightly cover the hole with
cally, once a subdivision is built,
cal infrastructure of roads, we treatments for and they tell us some insect outbreaks. However, the pencil. I would only do this
there is maybe one to twenty
have created a virtual cage for that they are still having mole mole activity can also cause con- for live or active tunnels (where
acres completely surrounded by
families of moles to grow and problems despite our treatments. siderable damage to lawns. This tunnels are pushed up). A few
concrete, in which this family of
populate. Mole populations are The cluster or family is still there damage is usually in the form of days later, given some time for
moles cannot exit. Before man
by far a bigger problem in older but we have to remind them that tunnels and/or mounds in lawn the bait to work, you can step
developed subdivisions, moles
neighborhoods, due to the fact the bait will remain active for that can be unsightly, disturb down on the tunnel again to see
could just wander around the root systems, and provide cover if it rises up. You may choose to
or travel lanes for other small re-treat the tunnels, but hope-

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whose property he’s on. This is
why it usually takes up to a year
to eradicate a mole issue. We
also know that moles prefer to
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during your first attempt!
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Few children, even adult children, are ever prepared enough to help their parent deal with
the loss of a spouse.In addition to coping with their own loss, many adults must find a way
to help their surviving parent who just lost the love of their life.

While it is never easy help-
ing a parent in such a situation,
here are ways to help the surviv-
ing parent cope,
• Be mindful of your parent’s
health. Sadly, a common side ef-
fect of losing a spouse
is showing less in-
terest in your own
health. Kids must
make sure their par-
ent continues to eat
regularly. This can
be done in a number
of ways. Invite your
parent over for dinner
a couple of nights a
week, and go over to
your parent’s home
for dinner a couple
of additional nights.
If you have siblings,
share this responsibility. Also,
you can cook for your parent just
like he or she used to cook for
you.
While physical health is
important, be sure your par-
ent maintains his or her men-
tal health as well. Depression
is common among those who
have lost a loved one, so ask
them about their feelings and if
they’re getting enough sleep. If
adult children have their own
kids, bring the grandkids over
whenever possible. Nothing puts
a bigger smile on a grandparent’s
face than the sight of his or her
grandchildren.
• Allow them some space to be
themselves. While you might
want to stay as close as pos-
sible to your parent, you also
need to give them some space
to be themselves. Your parent
just lost his or her spouse, and
it’s perfectly natural for him or
her to want some time alone. Af-
ford them this opportunity, but
be mindful to check in with them
regularly and not allow them to
spend too much time alone.
• Engage your parent as much
as possible. When both your par-
ents were still alive, you might
not have invited them along to
the movies or when taking your
own kids to a sport-
ing event. However,
engage them in such
activities now, as they
might not get a chance
to do such things other-
wise.
Another way to en-
gage parents is to talk
to them about current
events or even books
you have been read-
ing. Doing so will help
them stay mentally
sharp, and you will no
doubt benefit as well
from their point of view.
* Take a trip with your parent.
Initially, your parent might be
reluctant to travel, especially
of he or she had travel plans or
dreams with his or her spouse.
However, over time your parent
will no doubt enjoy the prospect
of traveling with the family, and
it can be an enjoyable experience
for everyone involved.
Handwriting experts have
noticed a decline in penmanship,
and the handwritten word for
that matter. Many attribute this
decline to the increased use of
digital devices, such as mobile
phones, computers and PDAs. A
society that is short on time sim-
ply can’t set aside moments to
write letters or cards, right?
In the past, penmanship was
the mark of intelligence and in-
dicative of social class. Today,
many children barely get beyond
the printing stage of lessons,
never mind mastering cursive
writing. However, penmanship is
important and writing letters can
be the perfect way to reestablish
this lost art.
Letters are more personal
than an e-mail or Tweet can
ever be. A handwritten note says
that you care about the person
to whom the letter is addressed
and about what you are saying
because you spent a little more
time composing your thoughts
with pen and paper.
Ready to write
the perfect letter?
Follow these tips for success.
• Decide on your recipient and
what you want to say to this per-
son. Is it pressing news or do you
simply desire to catch up?
• Choose your stationery. The
tone of the letter will be indicat-
ed by the stationery you choose.
A casual note could be on a fun
printed paper. A more serious
conversation could be on linen
paper.
• You don’t write letters every-
day, so think of it as an event
rather than a chore. This way
you’ll enjoy the process that
much more.
• Practice your penmanship be-
forehand. Chances are reliance
on a computer or other electron-
ics has resulted in penmanship
skills faltering. After all, aside
from signing checks or digital
signature readers at retail stores,
when do you actually have to
put pen to paper anymore these
days? Grab a piece of lined pa-
per and practice writing a few
sentences. Similar to riding a bi-
cycle, with practice penmanship
will come back to you.
• Think of the letter as a conver-
sation. Start with an icebreaker
or an aside comment that will
eventually pave the way for
the “meat” of your letter. Don’t
over-plan the letter, otherwise it
may seem forced. (Remember,
writing is an art form and should
be treated as such.)
• Personalize the letter by in-
volving the recipient in the let-
ter-writing process. Don’t make
it all about yourself. Ask ques-
tions, recall moments you spent
together and touch upon topics
you know this person will enjoy.

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By Cappy Hall Rearick
The young doctor had the
grace to blush before opening his
PDR. “I don’t know much about
Turner Syndrome,” he stuttered.
Clearing his throat, he read aloud.
“It is a genetic disorder of females
characterized by the absence of
one of the two X chromosomes.
Newborns are below average in
length, with swollen extremities
and a webbed neck. Short in stat-
ure, they have low hairlines, low-
set ears, wide chests, and kidney
and cardiovascular abnormalities.
Some have normal intelligence,
but most are below average, par-
ticularly in mathematical and
spatial-related skills.”
The doctor sighed. “Your
baby has major issues, expensive
to treat. And,” he hesitated, “she’s
likely ... mentally challenged.”
The father stood and took
the mother’s hand. “Come. Let’s
get our baby and take her home
where she belongs.”
That was forty years ago. To-
day Baby Laura is a grown wom-
an who has experienced many
medical hardships, but whose
mental faculties have never been
challenged.
Her emotional stresses, how-
ever, have been legion. Laura
was a toddler doll with blonde
hair, enormous brown eyes and
a ready smile. She could charm a
cobra. As she got older, the physi-
cal abnormalities inherent in
Turner’s became obvious. Those
differences made her a constant
victim of ridicule.
“They called me a Munch-
kin!” Laura was in tears her first
day of school. “Why can’t I look
Exercise Tips for Boomers Starting Anew
Babies today have it better
than those that came before them.
That’s because, according to a
2007 report from the U.S. Census
Bureau, a baby born today has a
lot more life to look forward to
than one born 50 years ago. A
child born today can expect to
be around for the next 78 years,
whereas one born half a century
ago had a projected life span of
nine fewer years.
While some might suggest
this longer life expectancy is a
product of people taking better
care of themselves, others might
say it’s due in large part to ad-
vances in medicine.
Whatever the reason, it’s ob-
vious more and more boomers are
living longer lives, and many are
hoping to add even more miles to
their odometers. One way to do
just that is through exercise. But
for those 50+ who haven’t hit the
gym in a while, starting an exer-
cise regimen can be an intimidat-
ing, if not confusing, experience.
mature adults looking to make
exercise a regular part of their
lives should consider the follow-
ing tips along the way.
• Seek medical advice: The first
thing you should do, even be-
fore lacing up your first sneaker,
is visit a doctor. Each individual
is different, and a doctor will let
you know what you, personally,
should and should not be doing
16 JUNE 2010 •
like them?”
“Because you can’t, Princess.
Do you know why?”
She nodded her thick mink-
colored head of hair.
“Because you’re special,”
her dad said, holding her close. “I
love your specialness.”
Due to a hearing impairment,
her speech patterns were strained
and ultimately called for
the removal of her inner
ear. A hearing aid enabled
her to communicate more
clearly, but the gawky para-
phernalia felt like elephant
ears. She wondered why
God chose her for such
misery. Endless endocri-
nology treatments, ear sur-
geries and numerous kid-
ney infections were young
Laura’s way of life.
“You’ve won so many
battles,” her parents told
her when she became dis-
heartened. “Focus on your
accomplishments.” Her
parents’ words helped
sometimes, but too often
Laura just wished to be someone
else.
Before entering high school,
Laura experienced another blow
when her parents divorced.
She chose to live with her fa-
ther because it was the only home
she had ever known. Her mother
was nearby, but it was never the
same. Nothing was. Although her
facial features remained doll-like,
the woman Laura was becoming
needed and missed a mother’s
touch. Laura and her father, how-
ever, forged a powerful bond be-
tween them.
as you begin a new exercise regi-
men. In addition, a checkup could
reveal problems you might not be
aware of.
• Recognize limitations: If you
have not lifted a weight or run a
step in 20 years, you’re not go-
ing to be able to simply pick up
where you left off. Recogniz-
ing your physical limitations is
paramount to the success of your
new program. For mature adults,
the point of exercise is not to be-
come a pinup guy or girl, but to
get healthy or maintain existing
health. Set realistic goals and ac-
knowledge what you can and can-
not do.
• Choose an enjoyable program:
Choose an exercise program you
know you will enjoy. An enjoy-
able program will encourage
participation and increase the
likelihood that you’ll stick with
it. Whether it’s a daily walk with
friends or a structured workout at
the local gym with a trainer, the
program you choose should be
one you look forward to, and not
one you see as a necessary evil.
• Take it easy: Whenever a new
program is started, be it by a
teenager, professional athlete or
senior citizen, the temptation to
overdo it is omnipresent. How-
ever, flying out of the gates is a
great way to get hurt, particu-
larly if you do not yet know your
“I want to be a nurse, Dad,”
she announced as she cooked his
favorite meal. He had put on ten
pounds as the happy recipient of
her culinary abilities.
“A nurse?” he asked, flabber-
gasted. “Princess, you’ve spent
your life in hospitals! Why would
you want more of the same?”
She beamed a heart-stopping
smile. “Simple. People were there
for me when I needed them. I’ll
be giving back.”
That fall, Laura entered a
nursing program. Her mathemati-
cal handicap was a problem, but
she had a good coach in her dad
whose college major had been
Engineering Mathematics. She
soaked up biology, however, like
a thirsty nomad.
The day she clutched a hard-
won nursing degree in her small
hands, she announced, “I need
my own apartment.”
With Laura gone, empty
Choosing a facility that offers all of the amenities is one of the most important
steps a senior can take when beginning a new exercise regimen.
physical limitations. Take it slow
as you begin a workout, and make
a daily journal of what you do at
the beginning. That way, should
you encounter any aches or pains,
you can always look at the journal
or share it with your physician or
trainer to determine what might
be the root of the problem. As
you grow accustomed to physi-
cal activity, you can then make
adjustments to your routine ac-
cordingly.
• Do your homework on facili-
ties: You may, especially if you
are retired, prefer to workout dur-
spaces closed around her father,
holes she had easily filled with
her life force, her heart, her larg-
er-than-life presence.
A few months later, she
took another independent step.
“What?” her dad asked, not sur-
prised that she had created a blue-
print for her life. “You running
for POTUS?”
“Better than that! I’m
getting married.”
“Anybody I know?” her
father asked, while his heart
kicked over and formed a
lump the size of a golf ball
in his throat. He was afraid
his little girl, the kindest
soul he’d ever known, was
setting herself up. Legend-
ary California girls were
tall sun goddesses, a Beach
Boys’ album cover. Laura’s
physical disabilities would
choke a horse. How could
she ever hope to compete?
“Marriage isn’t every-
thing,” her dad said, hoping
his words might guide her
away from disappointment.
“Dad, every girl dreams of
becoming a bride like Princess
Diana was. Well, I’m not dream-
ing anymore. I’m going to make
it happen.”
His heart nearly broke. He
so wanted to soften the blows of
rejection he feared would come,
but how could he? Had he not en-
couraged her to dream? Hadn’t he
always urged her to go for what-
ever she wanted?
“I’ll be a bride, Dad. I may
not look as beautiful as Princess
Dianna on my wedding day, but
I’ll walk down the aisle in a white
ing the mid-morning hours when
kids are in school and working
professionals are at the office.
That can make choosing a gym
easier for you than it is for stu-
dents or professionals.
However, when looking for
the right facility, do your home-
work and find a gym that has
all that you want. Some gyms,
for example, heavily emphasize
weight training, and don’t offer
other amenities such as racquet-
ball courts or a swimming pool.
Find a gym that best fits your
needs.
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gown as pretty as hers.”
Her father frowned. “You’re
sure?”
“Yep. I have love to give,”
she replied. “God will guide me
to the one I’m to share it with be-
cause, like you, God wants me to
be happy.”
She hugged him. “Don’t wor-
ry. You’ll always be my favorite
older man.”
Dreams do come true. Chris-
topher’s eyes danced as Laura
walked down the aisle. She wore
a white silk gown and a veiled
crown of sequins and seed pearls
that reflected the candlelight in
the church. She walked toward
him slowly, her heart racing as
her face reflected the love in
Christopher’s eyes. Laura was a
princess.
Holding his daughter’s arm,
he felt a rush of pride for this tiny
woman beside him, born with so
many obstacles in her path. Un-
able to accomplish it alone, she’d
asked God to make her dream
come true, and between the two
of them, it did.
Today, Laura and Chris live
their happily ever after with two
adopted daughters, blood sisters
who had been praying for a lov-
ing family. Not even born the day
Laura and Chris were married, it
was all a part of God’s great plan.
*To learn more about Turner-
Syndrome, go to: www.turner-
syndrome-us.org
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JUNE 22 – 29, 2010 – 8 days/7 nights lodging.
14 Meals. Can’t tell you where we are going
or what we are going to do – but you will have
lots of fun and see lots of beautiful scenery!!
$1123.00 PP/MD $1181.00 PP/NMD
NORTH CAROLINA COASTAL
ADVENTURE
JULY 6 – 10, 2010 – 5 days/4 nights
lodging. 7 Meals. Tours of or visits
to Jockey’s Ridge State park, Eliza-
bethan Gardens, see a performance of “The Lost Colony”, visit
the Wright Brothers National Memorial, Ft. Raleigh Historic Site,
take the Hatteras-Ocracoke Ferry to Ocracoke Island, free time
to browse, tickets to the Crystal Coast Jamboree, tour of Tryon
Palace and Gardens in New Bern, NC with a trolley tour, dinner
cruise on the Henrietta III and trolley tour of Wilmington, NC.
$789.00 PP/MD $826.00 PP/NMD
** NEW ** - PIRATES HOUSE RES-
TAURANT AND THE SAVANNAH
THEATER
JULY 10, 2010 – Enjoy a Southern
Lunch Buffet at the fames Pirates House
Restaurant before taking our seats at the historic Savannah
Theater for “Southern Nights Music Variety Show” – two hours
of high-energy music, dance and comedy, perfect for a southern
afternoon. $92.00 PP/M $97.00 PP/NM
** NEW ** - BARN DINNER THEATRE,
GREENSBORO, NC & LAKE NORMAN
LUNCHEON CRUISE
JULY 24 – 25, 2010 – 2 days/1 nights
lodging. 3 Meals. This trip includes a
stop over to visit the Billy Graham Library
in Charlotte, NC. See the all-new 32-foot
mural painted by Thomas Kinkade. After checking into our hotel
in Greensboro for a one-night stay we are off to the fabulous
Barn Dinner Theatre for a scrumptious dinner buffet before en-
joying a performance of “Harry & Larry’s Christmas in July” –
you’re sure to laugh all the way home! On Sunday en route to
Charleston we will stop in Mooresville, NC for a luncheon cruise
on the Catawba Queen as we cruise around beautiful Lake Nor-
man. We should arrive back in Charleston around 5:00 PM.
$196.00 PP/MD $206.00 PP/NMD
LITTLE SWITZERLAND, NC & THE
BURNSVILLE COUNTRY CRAFT
FAIR
AUGUST 6 – 8, 2010 – 3 days/2
nights lodging. 4 Meals. Travel with
us to the beautiful Smoky Mountains
and enjoy the cooler weather. We will do a little “prospecting”
en route to the Big Lynn Lodge for a two-night stay. We will
visit Burnsville, NC for the annual Country Craft Fair where you
will find a variety of homemade crafts and goodies from local
artisans. This is a great time to do some early Christmas
shopping. $340.00 PP/MD $356.00 PP/NMD
** NEW ** - KENTUCKY “DOWN
UNDER”
AUGUST 10 – 15, 2010 – 6 Days/5
Nights lodging. 13 Meals (5 break-
fasts / 3 lunches / 5 dinners). Come
see another side of Kentucky with
Top of the Line Tours as we do the
“Down Under” Tour. We will spend three nights at the Park
Mammoth Resort Hotel, Tours of or visits to South Union Shaker
Village and Museum, lunch at the Shaker Tavern, tour through
Western KY University Downtown Area, KY Museum with the
Duncan Hines Exhibit - Adventures in Good Eating Presenta-
tion, Lost River Cave with guided boat tour, National Corvette
Museum, guided tour of the GM Assembly Plant, guided tour
of Chaney’s Dairy Barn on the Moo Wagon and lunch, guided
tour of Hobson Grove Historic Home, dinner at the Water Mill
Restaurant, reserved seating at the KY Repertory Theater for a
production of “Mark Twain”, historic tour of Mammoth Cave Na-
tional Park with lunch at Mammoth Cave Hotel, visit Land-be-
tween-the Lakes area of KY, dinner at Patti’s 1880’s Settlement,
show at the Badgett Playhouse, one night at the Chattanooga
Choo Choo Hotel with dinner in the Gardens Restaurant and re-
served seating at the Centennial Theater for an all new variety
show. What a Great Trip!! $915.00 PP/MD $958.00 PP/NMD
** NEW ** - JACKSON-
VILLE ALHAMBRA DIN-
NER THEATRE, KENNEL
CLUB AND SAVANNAH
RIVERBOAT LUNCHEON
CRUISE
AUGUST 21 – 22, 2010 – 2 days/1 nights lodging. 4 Meals.
Our first stop will be the Alhambra Dinner Theatre for a scrump-
tious buffet luncheon before enjoying a performance of “Amo-
rous Crossing” – a romantic comedy set aboard a cruise ship
en route to an island paradise. After the show we will check into
our hotel for a one-night stay. Later this evening we will go to
the Orange Park Kennel Club for a night of fun. We will have
a private room, a fun filled class on wagering to help everyone
be a winner, our own betting window plus a great buffet meal
to enjoy while watching the races. On Sunday we will stop in
Savannah, GA for a delightful Sunday Brunch Cruise on the Sa-
vannah River. After the cruise you will have some free time to
shop on River Street before departing for Charleston. $232.00
PP/MD $244.00 PP/NMD
MACKINAC ISLAND’S
GRAND HOTEL –
AGAWA CANYON
FALL TRAIN TOUR
– PICTURED ROCKS
NATIONAL LAKESHORE
& INDIANA’S AMISH
COUNTRY
AUGUST 30 – SEPTEMBER 10, 2010 – 12 days/11 nights
lodging. 21 Meals. Tours of or visits to Lexington, KY; Flint,
MI – Crossroads Village & Huckleberry Railroad and sightsee-
ing cruise on the Genesee Belle; Star-Line Ferry to Mackinac
Island, carriage tour of Mackinac Island, one night at The Grand
Hotel with Grand Luncheon Buffet, dinner and breakfast, eve-
ning entertainment; luncheon cruise on St. Mary’s River through
the famous Soo Locks; free time in Sault Ste Marie, Ontario;
full day Agawa Canyon Fall Colour Train Tour; visit the Upper
Peninsula Area of Michigan to include Munising, Pictured Rocks
National Lakeshore Boat Tour; S.S. Badger Ferry from Mani-
towoc, WI across Lake Michigan to Ludington, MI; admission
to Historic White Pine Village with lunch; visit Nappanee, IN;
guided Shingle Shoppes Backroads Tour of Amish Country-
side; Haystack Lunch in an Amish home; tour of Amish Acres;
Thresher’s Dinner at Amish Acres; tickets to Broadway Musical
at the Round Barn Theater, plus overnight at the Cumberland
Inn Hotel. $1852.00 PP/MD $1944.00 PP/NMD
FALL IN THE OZARKS –
EUREKA SPRINGS &
BRANSON, MISSOURI
SEPTEMBER 21 – 29, 2010 –
9 days/8 nights lodging. 16
Meals. Tickets to the Pine Mountain Jamboree, Passion Play
Exhibits, Top of the Mountain Dinner Show, the Great Passion
Play, the Pierce Arrow Show, the Haygoods Show and the Brett
Family Show. Enjoy a luncheon cruise on the Showboat Bran-
son Belle; visit the Precious Moments Chapel and Showroom in
Carthage, MO; visit the Harry S. Truman Birthplace in Lamar,
MO; visit the Harry S. Truman Library and Museum in Indepen-
dence, MO and free time for shopping, sightseeing and brows-
ing in beautiful St. Louis, MO – our hotel in located across from
the Arch! This is a trip you don’t want to miss!! $1158.00 PP/
MD $1217.00 PP/NMD
** NEW ** CARNIVAL LEG-
END WESTERN CARIBBEAN
CRUISE
JANUARY 15 – 23, 2011 – One
night in Orlando with dinner at
the hotel; 8 day / 7 night cruise
on the Carnival Legend Come
join Top of the Line Tours on our annual Caribbean Cruise on
board the Carnival Legend as we sail the Western Caribbean
on a 7-night cruise!! And what a vacation itinerary: Grand Cay-
man; the island paradise of Cozumel, Mexico; Belize; and Isla
Roatan, one of the Honduran Bay islands. This means in a
single week you can enjoy golden beaches, Mayan ruins, snor-
keling along coral reefs and seeing the tropical wonders of four
destinations. Sail on a floating resort so spectacular that it has
a two-level promenade of shops, lounges and more. **EARLY
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 Common Discounts Available to 50+ Crowd
Today’s seniors might cringe
at the escalating costs of necessi-
ties such as prescription medica-
tion and even higher utility bills,
and understandably so. How-
ever, savvy boomers can save
by taking advantage of a host of
discounts exclusive to the those
over the age of 65.
• Travel perks. Many baby
boomers love to travel, and can
even do so at heavily discounted
prices. Larger hotel chains often
offer boomers discounts as high
as 10 percent. Unfortunately,
many U.S. domestic airlines, fac-
ing higher fuel prices and dwin-
dling business due to the global
economic downturn, ceased
offering boomer discounts in
2009. However, certain airlines,
Helping Elderly Parents or Relatives From Afar
Today’s families are more
geographically diverse than ever
before. Whereas it was once
common for families to remain
in the same city or state for
generations, nowadays families
routinely spread out across the
country if not the world. Thanks
to technological advancements
that make it easier than ever be-
fore to stay in touch, families to-
day can still thrive and stay close
even if they live hundreds, if not
thousands, of miles away from
one another.
One issue facing many fami-
lies that have chosen to spread
out is how to help Mom and Dad
when they reach the age where
they need their adult childrens’
help. While this wasn’t a prob-
lem for the families of yester-
year, it is a genuine concern for
adults who live far away from
their parents. Fortunately there
are ways to be there for your
elderly parents even when you
can’t physically be there for
them on a day - day basis.
• Speak to your parents about
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including Southwest Airlines,
still offer discounted rates to
boomers. These discounts can be
as much as 10 percent. It’s also
common for car rental agencies
to offer boomer discounts.
• Transportation. Many com-
munities provide heavily dis-
counted, if not free, rates to 50+
for public transportation. Con-
sult with your local government
to determine if you qualify for
boomer discounts.
• Food. Grocery stores com-
monly offer discounts to older
customers, and many times you
don’t even need to be a boomer
to qualify. In general, chains of-
fer boomer discounts, includ-
ing special days for boomers to
shop, to anyone over the age of
Caring for elderly parents from afar is a growing concern as many
families continue to branch out across the country.
what they need. While some par-
ents might not be able to realisti-
cally assess their needs, children
should speak to their parents
when making decisions about
their care. Adults who live far
away from their parents might
not know exactly what Mom and
Dad need, so discuss the prob-
lems they might be having on
a day-to-basis to determine the
level of care or assistance they
will need.
• Examine finances. Managing
55. Restaurants are also known
to offer 50+ discounts, and often
these discounts extend beyond
“early bird special” discounts
of yesteryear. While early bird
specials still exist, many chain
restaurants offer discounted pric-
es to baby boomers regardless
of time of day. In many cases,
these discounts aren’t listed on
the menu, but it never hurts, and
typically saves, to ask.
• Arts and culture. Boomers
looking to spend a day or night
on the town and take in some
culture can typically do so at a
discounted rate. Museums and
National Parks typically offer
discounted admission to boom-
ers, as do movie theaters and
even some concert halls.
will still be there when they need
it.
loved ones while not interfering
with their daily routine. Visit
• Research community resourc- www.closebynetwork.com for
es. Many communities provide details.
adequate resources for the el- • Stay in touch with seniors’
derly who might be incapacitat- physicians. One way to monitor
ed or otherwise need assistance. elderly parents from far away
Residents of the United States is to keep in frequent contact
can consult with the Department with their physicians. Discuss
of Health and Human Services the situation with your parents’
or visit www.Eldercare.gov and physicians in person, and ask to
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local agencies designed to help in their health that might require
older persons and their families altering their daily routines or
access community-based servic- homecare schedules.
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 This particular parasite is
probably the least understood
among pet owners and the most
important in my professional
opinion. Heartworms are liter-
ally worms that live in the heart
of both dogs and cats when left
untreated. Pet owners want to
know if continuous prevention is
necessary because in some cases
it can be cost prohibitive. The
answer is ABSOLUTELY.
Dogs should be on heart-
worm prevention year round par-
ticularly in the Lowcountry due
to our mild winters and the in-
creased incidence of heartworm
disease in this area. The Ameri-
can Heartworm Society has done
a study showing the 100+ cases
of heartworm disease occur per
clinic in the Lowcountry. This
disease causes serious and often
times irreversible damage to a
dog’s heart and the treatment can
be both expensive (averaging
around $1000) and life threaten-
ing.
Heartworms are spread from
one infected dog to another via
a mosquito bite and we have no
shortage of mosquitoes in the
Lowcountry. Now you’re prob-
ably asking yourself this ques-
tion….”if my pet is indoors do I
need to keep them on heartworm
prevention?” Again my answer
is ABSOLUTELY. Indoor pets
are just as at risk because they are
never 100% indoor, they have to
go outside at some point either
to potty, take a walk or spend the
afternoon at one of our gorgeous
dog parks.
Advantage Multi: Advantage
Multi (my personal favorite)
doesn’t kill ticks but works on
fleas as well as heartworms. By
paying a little more for Advan-
tage Multi you can protect your
pet from fleas AND heartworms
with a single product applied
topically once a month to the
back of the neck.
Revolution: This product kills
fleas, heartworms, treats scabies
(a type of mange) and prevents
ear mites. This is my favorite
product for use on cats because
of the added benefit of prevent-
ing ear mites.
Heartgard/Sentinel/Inter-
ceptor/Triheart/Iverhart:
Each of these products is a
heartworm and intestinal parasite
preventive administered orally
once a month. Sentinel con-
tains Lufeneron, a flea sterilizing
agent, and kills whipworms. In-
terceptor also adds whipworms
to its killing repertoire. Triheart
and Iverhart are recently intro-
duced generics that are just as
effective as the Heartgard.
Guide to naming your new pet
Expectant parents pore
over book after book and
list after list to come up with
the perfect name for their
child. Pet parents are no
different. While sometimes
a unique physical feature
can help conjure up a pet’s
name, other times individu-
als need some help with the
naming process.
If a new pet joined the
family this year, perhaps
reviewing the list of the 10
most popular names of
2008, compiled by Veteri-
nary Pet Insurance (VPI),
the country’s largest and
oldest provider of pet insur-
ance will offer some inspira-
tion.
1. Max
2. Bailey
3. Bella
4. Molly
5. Lucy
6. Buddy
7. Maggie
8. Daisy
9. Sophie
10. Chloe
Most Popular Cat Names
1. Max
2. Chloe
3. Tigger
4. Tiger
5. Lucy
6. Smokey
7. Oliver
8. Bella
9. Shadow
10. Charlie
There are also some
pets that showed up in
VPI’s database that were
quite unusual. Here are the
five most unusual names.
1. Rush Limbark
2. Sirius Lee Handsome
3. Rafikikadiki
4. Low Jack
5. Meatwad
1. Edward Scissorpaws
2. Sir Lix-a-lot
3. Optimus Prrrime
4. Buddah Pest
5. Snoop Kitty Kitty
If these names do not
seem to fit your pet, you will
need to think of your own
name. Keep in mind that
experts say giving your pet
the wrong name could po-
tentially lead to learning dif-
ficulties, behavioral issues
and problems with name
recognition. There is an
art to picking the right pet
names. Here are some tips
to consider:
• Choose one or two-sylla-
ble names, which are easier
for pets to understand and
respond to.

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2 bananas, sliced
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backyard chefs have begun turn- meat from drying out during the
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juicy and delicious barbecue.
As they dust off their grills
and pull out their tools, every-
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the opportunity to officially dive
back into the grilling season.
While barbecue may be a passing
hobby for some, for others it is a
way of life, a true passion.
to thoroughly coat the meat to
One of those passionate
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grillers is National Champion
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Mike, his wife Debbie and their cooking oil to coat the surface of
two miniature schnauzers travel vegetables to add crispness and
around the country stopping at to hold on spices and seasonings.
almost 50 competitions a year to Davis also has some safety tips
flex their BBQ muscles. for fellow grillers:
In preparation for the sum-
mer grilling season, Davis is Pay careful attention to pork
sharing some of his secrets to and poultry. You must make sure
keep your grill in high demand both meats are properly cooked
no matter where you fire-up: through.
Always grill in a well vent-
When grilling, use a “smoker”
lated area, away from eaves and
box of aromatic hardwoods such
overhangs that can trap toxic
as mesquite, hickory or pecan
fumes.
to give that distinctive wood
Keep a full water bucket han-
smoked flavor.
dy in case flames get out of con-
When cooking larger cuts of
trol quickly.
meat, always use an indirect heat
as a source. Using the direct heat Do not defrost meats at room
method will char the outside of temperature, always defrost in
the meat without allowing the in- the refrigerator.
side to cook properly.
Use a spray or baste during
Use insulated barbeque mitts
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By Belinda Roberts
Here are some clothing ideas
for the ageless woman that may
be heading for a cruise in the Ca-
ribbean or Mediterranean, or who
may be going yachting or on a lo-
cal boat cruise.
The preferred nautical day time
cruise wear that looks chic and hip
can be worn in the summer as well
as when back on land, and has the
basic navy and white, usually ac-
cented with bright colors like
gold, to give it some punch. Your
patriotic colors are always a clas-
sic combination.
Black and white with black
trim and black and white accents
are perfect for women who are not
fond of navy blue.
The casual cute daytime
“cruisy” type clothes are fun, but
be a bit cautious with the capri
pants. Some women look great in
them, but many don’t, all depend-
ing on your body shape. If you Beauty & Fashion
are short, they may make you ap- By Belinda Roberts
pear even shorter, as they cut your
height and they show your figure the clothing should reflect brighter swimsuit with a solid or dark Try big, fabulous diva sun-
flaws if you have them. and flashier prints, as these work colored top. Supportive v-necks glasses, a large and beautiful
When cruising the Caribbean, better than on cruises to other des- are best to keep a large bosom in beach hat, a pair of gorgeous beach
tinations. They might be too much place. shoes, a great looking beach bag,

'Age in Place' on a Mediterranean cruise. {2} Big bottom: show off your and keep jewelry to a minimum.
The main goal is to be happy top! Wear the darker color on the Keep your look tasteful, be bold

with and comfortable and pack great bottom, and wear the lighter pat- and be beautiful!

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CLUES ACROSS
1. Manuscripts (abbr.)
4. Small explosive noise
7. Helps little firms
10. Without (French)
12. Macaw genus
14. Ad ___: improvise
15. Actress Eckland
17. Raja’s wife
18. Cotillion
19. Make too non-specific
22. Turned down
23. One who is owned by 6. A sheet of glass in a
another
24. Wolf (Spanish)
25. Breezed through
26. Anno Domini (in the year 9. The highest point
of Our Lord)
27. Railroad track
28. Lean-fleshed fish
30. Bachelor quarters
32. Laptop
33. Aluminum (abbr.)
34. Bollard
36. A brief infatuation
39. Wipe out information
41. Shell glyptography
43. Dime store founder
46. Abnormal breathing
47. One of the Greats
48. Curved sword
50. Digested
51. Coarse file
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53. CNN’s founder
54. Gidget actress Sandra
55. Fall back time
CLUES DOWN
1. Mutual savings bank
(abbr.)
2. Indian lute
3. Talk in a tearful manner
4. Skinned
5. NW Algerian port
window
7. Shrinks up
8. Drank excessively
11. Takes dictation
13. Gentlemen
16. Nonindustrial society
18. Finished second
20. Hollow stone
21. An insect wing
28. Corkscrewed
29. Hydrocarbon in fuel
30. Genus asimina
31. Poplar trees (Spanish)
34. Angrily rebuke
35. Expression of disappoint
ment 40. Pitcher social club
37. Relating to an ecological 41. To call (archaic) 44. Towards the oral region
Crossword answers
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 First you forget names, then you forget faces. Next you forget to pull your zipper up
and finally, you forget to pull it down. -- George Burns
SOME ONE-LINERS FROM
VAUDEVILLE COMEDIANS
There was a beautiful young woman knocking on my hotel
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A car hit an elderly Jewish man. The paramedic says, “Are
you comfortable?” The man says, “I make a good living.”
I just got back from a pleasure trip. I took my mother-in-
law to the airport.
I’ve been in love with the same woman for 49 years. If my
wife ever finds out, she’ll kill me!
What are three words a woman never wants to hear when
she’s making love? “Honey, I’m home!”
Someone stole all my credit cards, but I won’t be reporting
it. The thief spends less than my wife ever did.
We always hold hands. If I let go, she shops.
My wife and I went back to the hotel where we spent our
wedding night, only this time I stayed in the bathroom and
cried.
My wife and I went to hotel where we got a waterbed. My
wife called it the Dead Sea.
My Mother Taught me LOGIC... “If you fall off that swing and break your neck,
My Mother Taught me LOGIC... “If you fall off that swing and break your neck,
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My Mother taught me about GENETICS... “You are just like your father?”
My Mother taught me about my ROOTS... “Do you think you were born in a
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