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Reduce Stress
To reduce stress, you need to understand stress. Stress is the result of your
perception of events. It is indicated by how you react to situations. What is stressful to
you might not be stressful to someone else and vice versa. You are not born with more
or fewer stress-prone genes than other people. In the end, it all amounts to attitude.
Stress is being implicated in an ever-increasing number of serious health problems.
To learn how to unstress, you must understand how you wound up stressed in the first
place.
The moment we encounter a tension-producing situation, our body chemically
prepares to fight or flee. Your adrenal cortex secretes hormones which cause you to
tense up. Your blood pressure rises and blood sugar is released for energy. Extra oxygen
is delivered to your organs so you can use them in fighting off the danger. Clotting
agents are increased in your blood in case you are wounded in the fight. Cholesterol and
other fats are released to serve as a reserve energy supply. Many other biological
changes also take place, all of which will allow your body to remain ready for action for
the next two or three hours.
But of course you dont fight and you dont flee, and this Stone Age internal reaction,
originally meant to protect you, becomes a serious menace to your health. So what can
you do?
Well, you have a few options. You can keep the stress repressed and bottled up
inside you. Of course this is sure to result in frustration, ulcers and worse health
problems down the line. Or you can express your stress through sickness, apathy, anger,
drinking, drugs, overeating or in any number of other undesirable ways. Or you can get
rid of your stress according to a plan, and this chapter offers a complete stress reduction
plan.
Make a list of all the stress factors in your life, and if the cause isnt apparent,
attempt to find it. What causes you to be agitated? What makes you angry? What
frustrates you? When does that tension begin to creep in? Write down all the little things
that affect your well-being. You must first identify your stress buttons before you can
eliminate them.
If you become stressed every time you have a report or a deadline, maybe it goes
back to a childhood incident. It could be something remote. Perhaps your fourth-grade
teacher reprimanded and embarrassed you, which programmed an automatic anxiety
response you are still carrying. Take the time to stop and think about the reasons for
your anxiety. Sometimes just knowing the cause is enough to alleviate the effect.
produced them. Spend this time doing something that is relaxing, while also mentally
engaging. This will take your mind away from the stressful thoughts of the day.
research study of 592 type A people, every single one doubted their ability to perform
their duties well enough to warrant advancement in their company. If this describes
you, I suggest you read Chapter Three, Increase Self-Esteem.
10. Exercise!
Since stress prepares your body for intense muscular activity, exercise is a great way
to relieve built-up tension. The more aerobic the exercise the better. Vigorous daily
exercise increases levels of the neurotransmitters as well as endorphins, the bodys
natural opiates, and will make it easier for you to relax more completely. The oxygen
flooding through your system will help you detoxify more quickly and eliminate the
biological factors that prolong stress.
So, running, fast walking, swimming, cycling, calisthenics, and aerobic dancing are
especially recommended. When you include regular exercise as a part of your lifestyle, it
assists you to keep your stress level low enough to absorb ordinarily stressful situations
without affecting you. Obviously it is best not to take up competitive exercise such as
handball, tennis, or volleyball, as these may create other stressful situations.
your diet. For example, you can greatly reduce candida by eliminating sugar and dairy
products from your diet.
If you dont take vitamins, perhaps you should consider vitamin supplements. Most
health food stores carry anti-stress vitamin and mineral formulas that can be very
helpful. Some of the most important stress fighters are vitamin A, vitamin C, vitamin E,
the complete B complex, and panthenic acid, which is vitamin B-5. Most nutritionists
suggest using supplements, but you need expert advice, or you need to do your own
research before purchasing vitamins. Of course, obtain your doctors advice before
making any significant changes in your lifestyle.
what is, you are wasting your energy, because you want something, or somebody, to be
different than they are. It wont happen, so why become stressed about something you
cant change?
A problem does not have to be eliminated to be resolved. Often a better solution is a
change in viewpoint. When you are no longer affected by a problem, you no longer have
a problem, although nothing may have outwardly changed.
What other people say or do, other than physical violence, does not affect you. Only
what you think about what they say or do affects you. Why allow another persons
problem to create a problem within you? Lets say the person closest to you is often
warm and loving, and you enjoy these times, but this person can also be selfish and selfcentered. During those times you consciously detach and let the negativity flow through
you without affecting you. It is that persons right to be grouchy, and it is your right not
to be affected. Nothing about the situation has changed except the way you view it.
Affirmations
The final chapter explains how to use the following affirmations as self-talk and how
to include them in a self-hypnosis format for daily mind programming.
I am at peace with myself and my circumstances.
I feel very relaxed and peaceful.
I now view life as a tranquil oneness.
I am no longer affected by what cannot be changed.
I am physically relaxed and emotionally at ease.
I now let go of all turmoil in my life.
I feel balanced and harmonious.
I am so relaxed and so at ease.
I no longer have expectations of approval or control.
I accept that what is, is.
I consciously detach from negativity, allowing it to flow through me without affecting me.
I handle disputes with other people immediately.