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HOW TO FUCK LIKE A

PORNSTAR
The Step-by-Step Guide to The Best Sex of Your Life
By Christian McQueen
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Table of Contents

Chapter 1: How To Fuck Her Like A Pornstar (Overview) .....................................01


Chapter 2: How To Turn Her Body On ...................................................................09
Chapter 3: How To Turn On Her Mind ....................................................................36
Chapter 4: How To Make Her Cum .........................................................................47
Chapter 5: What If I Can’t Fuck Her Well Enough?................................................52
Chapter 6: The Secrets To Great Sex ....................................................................58
Chapter 7: How To Teach A Girl To Give You Great Head .....................................66
Chapter 8: How To Deal With A Sexual Dry Spell ..................................................69
Chapter 9: How To Create Sexual Tension ............................................................76
Chapter 10: How To Still Rock Her World With A Small to Average Cock ...........82
Chapter 11: One Tried and True ‘Trick’ To Getting Her Addicted To You .............91
Chapter 12: Conclusion .........................................................................................95
Chapter 1:
HOW TO FUCK HER LIKE A
PORNSTAR

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If you’ve had any doubts about your sexual prowess, Chapter 1 will lead you to
the pussy promise land and will ensure that you have some tools to take it up a
notch right off the bat. Pun intended.

Without further ado, here’s 5 Tips For How To Fuck Her Like A Pornstar

5 Focus On The Psychological, Not The Physical


I get emails weekly from readers who ask what is the best position to fuck a girl
in and how long they should have sex for before cumming.

Hear me loud and clear: Fucking a girl properly is only partially physical. The
rest is psychological.

Turning her on physically is a part of the process, but turning her mind on and
getting into her head is what you want to do. This separates you from the boys
who are trying to utilize every sex position known to mankind to impress her.

Guess what? You’re not impressing her, in fact, she’s sick of switching positions
every two minutes.

How do you get into her head and turn her on?

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There are two main aspects of this: will close her legs faster than a barn door
in a tornado. Always use “my”.
1. Talking Dirty To Her: open your mouth
and vocalize the interaction.

“You like that, don’t you?” 4 Dominate Her Physically


“That pussy feels so good” Get the concept of the two of you lying on a
bed of roses and gently having missionary
2. Lead Her Through Commands sex out of your head, if you ever want to
keep her around. That shit doesn’t fly.
Don’t do this: You should manhandle her and be a man:
“Would you like me to fuck you hard?” dominant, ravishing and always leading
and taking control.
“Do you want to do doggy style?”
Read closely: Women want to be ‘taken’
No, no, no. You are an alpha caveman and
by a man.
you command her. She is there to please
you. When she hops into bed with you, she’s
hoping that you’ll know what you’re
Do this:
doing and will rock her body, not ask
“Suck my cock hard. Slobber on it.” what position she’d like to try next. If you
could get a glimpse into a woman’s mind
“You’re my slut” you would be stunned: they are just as
sexually ‘dirty’ as men, if not more so.
“You’re my dirty girl. Eat my cum”
There’s a reason why the best-selling
“Open your mouth. Open your mouth my
book 50 Shades of Grey has women wet
little whore. Swallow my cum.”
all over the world: they love this shit.
“Spread your pussy”
Any alpha playboy in development should
“Hold your ass apart baby” (doggy style) know these few core positions and utilize
them. Anything other than these is gravy,
Note: Use “my” to provide ‘ownership’ of
but these are great dominating positions
her. Just saying “you’re a slut” doesn’t
that have served me well for over a decade.
help create the connection that Deep
Conversion sex creates and can also put Haven’t had any complaints, just
in her mind that you’re judging her, which compliments.

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DOGGY STYLE

THE JACKHAMMER (BEST


G-SPOT POSITION)

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“RIDE MY COCK” (OR COMMONLY
KNOWN AS COWGIRL)

Anything more is fine, but these are great tried and positions that allow you to dominate
and to ‘rest’ in the last one. Usually girls get off from riding a cock as well, so if you
want to make her cum, then sit back and let her ride you for a bit.

Note: Clearly there’s tons of other positions that you can use and I have a slew of
position illustrations included in this book, but start practicing with these. Practice
makes perfect.

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3 Get Rough Within Reason
Girls today are jaded by multiple partners, being frequent porn viewers themselves
and sexual experimentation to the 9th degree. What alpha males get, is that women
fantasy and enjoy rough consensual sex. This is a part of the desire to be ‘taken’ by
a man and ravished like it’s the last time on earth that two humans have sex. Here’s
some tips:

-Pull Her Hair:

Grab towards the base of her head, not at the end.

If she has longer hair, you can wrap it around your hand while fucking her doggy style.
Do a couple of hand wraps with her hair and pull consistently. Guaranteed she gets
wetter than Free Willy.

- ‘Choke’ Her (Consensually of course)

When I say ‘choke’ her, I mean apply some pressure on her throat with your hand, but
ensure that she’s down for this by gently grabbing her neck during sex. If she freaks,
then she’s not ready for it, or may simply not like it, but I have only met 2-3 girls out
of the hundreds I’ve fucked who didn’t like it. Most do, but test the waters.

-Spit On Her:

I’m not talking about hawking up a lugi and spitting it in her eyes, I’m talking about
gathering a small amount of spit in your mouth and spitting on her tits, pussy, mouth
and face. Start with spitting on her pussy, then nipples, then have her open her mouth
by commanding her (“Open your mouth my little slut”) and spit in her mouth. This is
highly fucking erotic.

-Have Her Eat Cum Off The Floor/Object While Holding Her Head/Hair:

If you shoot your load on her face, then odds are some cum will hit the floor. Do some
Next Level Game, like myself and straight up cum on a mirror, the floor, or a glass
coffee table and grab her by the hair/head and have her lick it all up on all fours.

Say this while doing it: “Eat my cum up. That’s my good whore. Lick it up, lick it up.
Good girl”. She’ll eat it up and be ‘eating’ it up in her mind too. Don’t be a pussy, you
can have her Windex it later. Your material goods will survive just fine.

Rest assured gentlemen, the most innocent looking girls are the sluttiest in bed.
Unleash her inner slut with these moves.
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2 Don’t Try To Please Her, Have Her Please You
This is a big one gents. You must get it through your head that by using Frame and
Dominance, her pleasuring you, provides pleasure for her. Alpha males are dominant
and get what they want from women.

They are not pussy footing around, eating a girl’s pussy out for an hour trying to make
her cum. There’s a time and place for that, but not in the initial stages from ONS to
repeat hookup partner.

To put this in simple terms: Girls love to suck and fuck an alpha males cock and
biologically have the instinct and craving to get his seed. In other words, bitches want
your cock n’ cum when you’re a High Value Male. Period. This is a fucking fact that will
never change.

Girls reward alpha males who take charge, with their pussies. This has always been
this way and always will.

She is your plaything and you should treat her as such. Fuck her like it’s the last time
you’ll ever have sex again and do it for your pleasure, not hers. Ravish her, dominate
her, open her mind by looking her in the eyes and talking dirty to her and you will rock
her fucking world.

Many a time, I’ve had sexy sluts tell me, “I love how you just take me and you’re like
a wild animal while we’re fucking”. Think about that: “wild animal”. You sure as hell
won’t get a girl worked up by lying under the covers and gently penetrating her in the
missionary position.

Note: I’m not saying every sex session should be pussy pounding time, but for one
night stands you should focus on the techniques I’ve laid out for you. These are tried
and true and once she’s hooked, you can venture into mixing it up sexually.

1 Be Spontaneous
You know where my least favorite place to fuck a girl is? A bed. Yep, it’s fucking boring
to me. My favorite place is a public restroom in the handicap stall. At my pad? Her bent
over my bathroom counter facing the mirror. She has one leg on the counter and I’m
behind her fucking her while pulling her hair and maintaining eye contact with her in
the mirror. Powerful stuff.

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Want to really turn on a girl, get her wetter than Niagara Falls and have her truly get
hooked on your sexual prowess? Get Spontaneous.

The reason why sex gets predictable between partners is because they get into
routines. You must live in the moment.

-Pull in her the alley behind a dumpster up against the wall, hike her skirt up and go
to town.

-Slip into a one toilet restroom, lock the door and bend her over the counter.

Obviously be smart and make sure you’re not within plain sight, but mix it up. Girls love
the randomness and excitement that having sex at the drop of the hat provides them
and you will too, if you stop thinking of sex of always having to take place on a bed.
You’ll find that as you incorporate mixing up where you have sex, that it’ll unleash an
animal like instinct in you, and you’ll ravish her body.

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Chapter 2:
HOW TO TURN HER BODY ON

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S
ex is crucial for getting a girl ‘addicted’ to you...

If you’re average in bed right now, learn and study this chapter, and most
importantly, use everything in it.

You will rock her world applying these techniques and rocking her world is
essential to getting her ‘addicted’ to you.

It’s time to make her wet…

Knowing how to properly fuck a girl is essential


in this process. Maybe you feel like your skills
aren’t up to the level they should be.
“If you can make a girl squirt
That’s okay. By the end of this book you’ll and cum so hard her body
have everything you need to know to fuck her shakes and quivers with
well, make her cum and ultimately, turn her delight, then you will ‘own’ her
into your consensual sex kitten. body. If you can make a girl
surrender her mind, then you
It starts with her body. will ‘own’ her.”
When you look at her, really look at her. Look -Christian McQueen
her up and down. Explore her with your eyes.
Girls love this even if she feels insecure. She
needs to know that you are fascinated with
her body. This doesn’t mean you’re needy and
putting her pussy on a pedestal, but that you’re a man who loves sex with pretty girls
and when she is in your bed, you’re consumed with her body in that space of time.

This is a form of overwhelming her in a GOOD way. Pretty girls want to be desired by
High Value Males. Everything they do in some shape or form, from working out, to
doing their makeup is designed to catch the attention of a HVM.

If she could care less about impressing an HVM, then what is she doing in your bed
anyway?

Pro-Tip: when you look into her eyes, imagine being inside her BEFORE you’re inside
her. Imagine her mouth wrapped around your cock. This creates Sexual Energy and
‘Chemistry’.

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How To Fuck Her Well
Here is a list of exactly what to do to fuck her well covering everything from positions
to how to prevent premature ejaculation.

Foreplay
Most men’s interest garbage sites and books will go on and on about foreplay, but
they’re incorrect.

Remember, great sex is about taking her fantasy and making it real. While slow,
measured sex has its place and I’ll get to that, initially when you first meet her and
fuck her, getting her caught up in the moment and having a thrilling fast experience is
more important.

Passion creates that sex you see in the movies where the guy and the girl are tearing
each other’s clothes off like animals before doing the dirty deed. The foreplay starts
the moment you open her after you’ve approached her. Teasing, charm and flirting is
where the real foreplay starts. You want to get her to the place where she’s wet and
ready to go the moment the two of you start messing around.

Pro-Tip: the eyes are the most erotic areas of a girl. Get ‘into’ her eyes. Tell her to look
at you as you slowly undress her. This creates vulnerability and will turn her the fuck on.

Dealing With Premature Ejaculation


Before we get into the actual sex, here’s some helpful tips on dealing with premature
ejaculation.

The more you think about it, the more it will affect your performance. This creates an
unnecessary pressure on yourself to ‘perform’. I’ll let you in on a little secret: there
will be times you cum quick. That’s life. It is NOT the end of the world and after your
refractory period (the time after you cum and when you’re hard again) you’ll have a
round 2, so don’t trip.

How you handle cumming quick speaks VOLUMES to the girl.

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If you freak out, apologize and make excuses, this screams “I’M TERRIFIED OF WHAT
YOU THINK ABOUT ME AND I’M NOT WORTHY OF YOU!” to her. Instead, Frame once
again comes into play. Let’s say you cum within 5 minutes of fucking her. Say this,
“Good warmup. Now for the main course”. This shows confidence and that you’re just
getting started, so she knows you’re not ready to go to sleep and that was it.

I’m telling you gentlemen, if you hold Frame like this, she will NOT lose attraction for
you, because you’re showing strength in the face of when most men are the most
vulnerable and act the weakest. Be strong and she won’t care.

Pro-Tip: an easy tip for lasting longer is to focus on something else when you’re fucking
her. Look at a picture on the wall, or the TV. This focuses your mind on something else
other than her firm ass riding your cock.

I’ll let you in on another little secret: it’s a turn-on to some girls to make a guy cum
fast. It makes her feel powerful for getting a HVM off quickly. This is another reason
why you should NOT make a big deal out of it if you cum quick.

Let’s say you cum within 5 minutes, you say the line I gave you and then you’re chilling
until you get hard again. For some of us older cats the refractory period might be
longer than normal. I used to get hard again within a couple of minutes. Now, it’s more
like 15-20 minutes.

The secret is to focus on anything else for about 5-10 minutes. You could watch TV, a
movie, or even chat with her about whatever, then start to kiss her again SOFTLY and
SENSUALLY. She might grab for your dick right away, but push her hand away gently
and let nature take its course. You are teasing yourself.

Play with her breasts. Rub her pussy. Look at her curves. Have her bend over for you
and pop her ass out. Nature will take its course and your cock will be back to full-mast
before you know it. This time, you should be good to go much longer, but remember
what I said: don’t put pressure on yourself and you’ll do great.

A Note on Not Getting Hard


Some of you men might struggle with getting hard. Here’s a quick tip: know your
alcohol limits and chill on the porn. Some guys get Whiskey Dick (can’t get hard after
drinking hard). Don’t take drugs that fuck with your dick and once again, RELAX. The
more you stress about it, the more it won’t work. If nothing else, go to the doctor and

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get the little blue pill (Viagra), or Cialis. That shit will get you hard no matter what.

Pro-Tip: if you can’t get hard the girl might think it’s her and she’s doing something
wrong. Let her think that.

The Sex
Learn these 15 positions, use them and they will serve you well. There’s countless
positions you can use, but these are the best I’ve found for being dominate and creating
a pornstar style of sex that always works.

Note: I will go into more detail with each position in this chapter, but here’s the quick
list.

• Doggy Style • The Wheelbarrow • A Midnight Snatch

• Cowgirl • The Bathroom Bang • Plank Deep Thrust

• Reverse Cowgirl • The Double Dipper • Sideways Deep Thrust

• Standing Up Ride My • Fuck The Couch • The Submissive Slut


Cock Style
• Kneeling Deep Thrust
• Standing Deep Thrust
• Flat Doggy Style

Pro-Tip: the more unusual moves she probably hasn’t experienced. Focus on those
because it creates a new memory for her tied to you only. This helps create the bond
faster.

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Doggy Style: probably the
most popular sex position
of all time and damn if it
isn’t hella good.

Pro-Tip: tug her hair by grabbing a fistful close to her roots. Tug gently, don’t jerk her
hair. The tugging she’ll love, the jerking she won’t. This is a great dominate move. You
can also throw in some ass slaps. Start softer and gauge her reaction. Odds are she’ll
moan “Harder!”

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Cowgirl: take a breather
and let her do some work.
Some girls get off quite
easily this way.

Pro-Tip: grab her gently by the throat as she rides you. Command her to
ride you harder and harder with a low tone. You will literally feel her pussy
start soaking on your cock.

Reverse Cowgirl:
great view of her ass
and pussy. You can
initiate ass play as
well.

Pro-Tip: gently rub your thumb on her asshole. This is a good way to initiate
anal. You can also slap her ass as well. Start softer and increase if she responds
positively.

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Standing Up
“Ride My Cock”:
make sure you’re
in shape to pull
this one off and
she’s not a heifer
that will snap your
cock in half like a
cucumber. Brilliant
dominate move
that will make you
feel like a beast
and she’ll love you
more for it.

Pro-Tip: support
her against a
wall, if it makes
it easier to hold
her up. Also, start
doing squats at the
gym (if you aren’t
already), because
that will help
tremendously!

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Standing Deep Thrust: great for
making her feel the extent of your
cock and dominate as can be.

Pro-Tip: spit on her pussy at intervals as you pull your cock out to the tip of
your head. This is a natural lubricant and adds to the ‘nasty’ factor. Feel free to
have her open her mouth and drop some drool in there as well. This works best
in the heat of the moment where a naturally shy girl will be open to this. Tell her
to look at your cock as it goes in and out.

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The Wheelbarrow:
once again, you
should be relatively
strong to pull this
off, but it’s a great
‘manhandling’ move.

Pro-Tip: hold on tight with both hands to the area of her hipbones. In the
diagram his hands are a little too far back. Move them up closer to her
waist. This creates a natural ‘cradle’ for your hands so you don’t drop
her and she breaks your cock.

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The Bathroom Bang: my personal favorite, this
one is great for maintaining eye contact with her
combined with verbal commands, plus you can
pull her hair, slap her ass and you have the best
view in the ‘house’.

Pro-Tip: verbal play is great for this move. “Look at


me. Are you my dirty slut? Tell me you’re my dirty slut”.
These commands are powerful as fuck and this is one of
the most dominating sex moves you can do combined
with the sexual position. Remember, it’s about her
‘surrendering’ herself to you through body AND mind.

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The Double Dipper:
another dominating
position this one is
perfect for transitioning
to anal. Her ass and
pussy are literally like
a nightstand for you
to penetrate. Note:
you can go from pussy
to ass, but if you put
it back in her pussy
after, she could get an
infection.

Pro-Tip: do this with her back supported by the edge of your bed, or couch. This
creates support for her and you can focus on thrusting deep into her pussy and
ass.

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Fuck The Couch:
everyone has a
couch. This is a
great move for
spontaneous sex
and we all know
sometimes you
never make it to
the bedroom.

Pro-Tip: give her a couch pillow or blanket and tell her to bite it. This
is another command. Does she listen? 95% of the time they will.

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Kneeling Deep Thrust: great move in general, but if
you’re smaller than average, or average in manhood
size, this move will make you feel bigger to her due to
the angle. If you have a big cock, this one will firmly
establish your size in her mind.

Pro-Tip: with your thumb rub the top of her pussy gently in a
circular motion while fucking her.

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Flat Doggy Style: this one is perfect for talking in her
ears while slowly grinding your cock into her pussy or
ass. It’s about as dominating as it gets and I’ve had
many, many girls cum from the combination. It also
makes your cock seem huge to her due to the angle.

Pro-Tip: throw a pillow under her pelvic area to really maximize


you hitting her G-spot. Talk dirty in her ears and lay your body
completely on top of hers, while holding yourself up with your
elbows. Grip her shoulders with your hands in a pull-up position.
This pulls you deeper into her while making her feel enveloped
by you. Grade A magic.

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A Midnight Snatch:
aren’t I clever?
Another one of
my favorite moves
this one is perfect
if she’s rocking a
short skirt and you
just walked into
your pad, or the
two of you’ve been
cooking and you
get spontaneous.

Pro-Tip: Create A Bubble while fucking her with this move and watch her completely
melt. The combination of Creating a Bubble and you slowly fucking her will rock her
world. It’s just the right amount of gentle and naughty. Alternate between fast and
very slow thrusting to build anticipation and get her extremely wet.

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Plank Deep Thrust: like doing the plank exercise in
the gym (except you’re not using your elbows), this
is the perfect position to ‘pound’ her pussy. She will
want it, try and see.

Pro-Tip: as opposed to talking to her, or trying to connect


with her eyes, avoid eye contact by putting one hand over
her eyes. Fuck her hard and rapidly. Watch the fireworks
explode. This requires you to be able to hold yourself up
with one hand, so make sure you’re strong enough to do so.

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Sideways Deep
Thrust: this one is
great towards the
end of your sex
session with her
when you might
need a breather. It
allows you to lay
down somewhat, but
penetrate her deeply
and have a great
view.

Pro-Tip: extend your right hand and gently trace her lips with your thumb,
before putting it in her mouth. She’ll suck on your thumb in a seductive
manner intensifying the sexual chemistry. If you’re a super freak, you can
even add more fingers into her mouth until she is drooling on your hand. Pull
your hand out after a bit and wipe it across her face. Tell her, “Good slut”.

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The Submissive Slut:
raw, primal and gets
the job done, this
move is great when
you’re ready to ‘tear’
her pussy up and
she’s been a ‘bad girl’.
Transition her from this
move to her knees, to
take a cumload to her
face or in her mouth.

Pro-Tip: tell her to grab her ankles like the “dirty whore” she is. For a better view and
more submission, have her take both of her hands and pull her pussy and ass apart
for you while still bent over. You can grab her wrists and use them for momentum as
you thrust in and out.

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BDSM
Due to the phenomenon of 50 Shades of Grey, women everywhere are starting to
experiment with BDSM, an overlapping abbreviation of Bondage and Discipline (BD),
Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM) and more sex toys.

This guide is an intro level guide, but it’s perfect for what you’re trying to accomplish.
This isn’t something you want to pull out on the first date, but after having sex initially
and testing her boundaries, you can add to the mix. If this isn’t your thing, no big deal,
but at least you’ll have the tools in your ‘toolbox’ if she wants to experiment.

Lastly, don’t think of BDSM as being some extreme shit of you wearing a black mask
and whipping her consensually. Start out slow with some soft handcuffs and work your
way up. I will tell you though, in 2017, girls are foaming at the mouth (literally and
figuratively) over this stuff, so it doesn’t hurt to have an idea of how it works.

Note: ALWAYS have the Safety Word Talk BEFORE engaging in any BDSM activities.
Make it simple, such as “Red!”, or something she wouldn’t normally say during sex.
This is good sound judgement so you and her having consensual adult legal sex are
on the same page.

Pro-Tip: buy the staples of BDSM and have them at your home. Then if she gets freaky,
you’re ready to go. It’s a similar principle to always having alcohol at your pad for the
“Let’s have one night-cap before you go” move.

BDSM Basic Terminology

Submissive: person being consensually tied up (her)

Dominate: person doing the teasing (you)

Let’s get one thing straight off the bat: you are ALWAYS the Dominate and she is ALWAYS
the Submissive. If she decides she wants to tie you up and fuck you in the ass with
a candle, then eject like a motherfucker because that girl has some issues. Or, stay if
that’s your thing. But, in general most of you would run and you’d be smart to do so.

Kind of jokes aside, she should WANT to be your Submissive and this ties into the
turning on her mind aspect of the seduction we will be getting into in the next chapter

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of this book. The more she submits, the more she opens herself up to you. This is
crucial. I’m not saying you must do BDSM sexual activities with her to get her addicted
to you, because you don’t but it does speed up the process and if she’s an ‘innocent’,
it will cause her to fall even harder for you.

As a side-note to show you how much women are into this now: Spanking is the #1
fetish activity women in America prefer! Let that sink in for a moment.

At the very least, you’ll want to experiment with tying her up consensually with her
pantyhose, or using your tie as a blindfold. The beauty of these types of consensual
sex moves is, that it heightens the senses even more. If you use your tie as a blindfold
for her, then her sense of touch, smell, taste and hearing intensify, which can also
intensify her orgasm. You know about how blind peoples’ other senses strengthen
after becoming blind? Well, that’s the same principle.

BDSM Basic Moves

Feather Fuckery: Yes, one of those soft things geese and ducks have. Get a feather like
this one:

Tell your chick to strip naked, wrap some


pantyhose around her eyes, wait at her
door on her knees and unlock her door,
because you’ll be there in 20 minutes.
Bring that feather (and a tie. I’ll tell you
why in a second). Walk in and don’t say a
word. Slowly trace the feather around her
body tracing her pussy and ass as well.
She will be trembling with excitement. She
might reach for your cock, but don’t let her
touch it. Tie her hands (not too tight!) with
the tie. Now she can’t grab your cock.

Tell her to open her mouth and stick her tongue out. Tell her she can’t close her mouth
until you say so. Lightly graze her pussy with your fingers. She’ll be dripping wet.
Finger her more until she’s breathing heavily and about to cum. Stop. Start tracing her

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body with the feather again. The entire point is to bring her close to climax, but then
pull back so it teases her. Then when she does cum, she’ll gush like Niagara Falls.

Then pull your cock out and put it in her mouth. Tell her she can close her mouth now.
She’ll start to suck on it. Tell her to open her mouth as wide as she can. Throat fuck her
until drool is pooling on her floor. Pull your cock out of her mouth grab her by the nape
of her neck and tell her to lick up the drool on the floor. Guide her face to the drool
(since she has the blindfold on she can’t see) and have her lick up the drool.

Put your cock back in her mouth and continue to throat fuck her. Cum on her face.

Remember: she is still ‘tied’ up and she’s blindfolded by the pantyhose she put on
before you came over. With your cum still on her face, finger her until she cums hard.
Pull your pants up and walk out of her place closing the door behind you. Go have a
cig (or chill in your car for 5-10 minutes). This is enough time for the entire experience
to settle in for her. Then go back and knock on the door. When she opens it, pull her in
and kiss her on the mouth. Bond with her. Game, Set, Match. Oh yea, you can put the
feather in her hair when you’re done.

Handcuff Harlot: get some Fuzzy Handcuffs like these:

Let’s say you’re chilling on your couch.


Earlier you put these handcuffs somewhere
‘hidden’, let’s say your sock drawer. Tell
her this: “Go to my sock drawer. There’s a
surprise for you”. She goes to your sock
drawer and walks back holding these
fuckers above. Tell her to kneel in front
of you. Tell her this: “You are my slut. Do
you understand that you are my slut? Tell
me that you know that you’re my slut”.
(The use of NLP is going on here. Neural
Linguistic Programming). She’ll say, “Yes,
I am your slut”.

Then you say, “Smart girl. Now undress


yourself”. She’ll undress herself and tell
her to look you in the eye when she does it.

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Remember, you’re chilling on the couch like an Ole’ G. Once she’s fully naked, put those
Fuzzy Fuckers on her with her hands BEHIND her back. Bend her over the couch with
her knees on the floor and her face where you would sit. She’s now in the Doggy Style
position with her hands behind her back and she’s fully nude.

Fuck her hard until YOU are ready to cum. Don’t worry about making her cum at all.
When you’re ready to bust, tell her to turn around and face you. Tell her, “Say you are
my dirty slut”. She’ll say it. Tell her to say it again. And again. And again. And again.
Have her say it until she almost shouts it out of frustration. Then cum in her face.
Smear the cum around her face covering it entirely. Her hands are still behind her back
and she’s on her knees. Then un-cuff her. She’ll instinctively go to rub the cum off her
face and tell her not to.

Tell her to go stand in the corner for 1 minute while you count. After 1 minute is up, tell
her she’s a great slut and her whore pussy felt great, then take a washcloth and wash
her face off gently while caressing her hair. This is the Sweet to the ‘Sour’. Tell her to
go brush her teeth so she’s acceptable to kiss. After she’s done brushing her teeth,
kiss her deeply and resume your activities as though nothing happened.

Paddle The Slut: get a paddle like this one:

One classic such move is the Paddle the Slut one I came up with years ago. This one
is great at showing who is boss, in a fun and consensual way of course.

This one is key to do somewhere REMOTE. When I say REMOTE, I mean REMOTE, as in
there is no one for miles around that could see the two of you. Take this serious. This is
a perfect one to do on your Make a Memory Trip if you choose to take a road trip. You
can even do it at night if you really want to amp up the excitement.

You and she are driving along the road somewhere REMOTE flirting and having fun. At
some point you suggest her giving you roadhead and she should eagerly agree and get
to sucking. We all know when you’re getting roadhead it’s hard as fuck to not wreck
your sports car when you cum, so it’s a perfect excuse to pull over anyway. Here’s what
you do. She starts giving you head.

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Look for somewhere in the distance where you can pull off where no one is around. Pull
off. Don’t say a word. Walk to your trunk (or for you Porsche enthusiasts, it would be
under your hood) and get that Slut Paddle from the previous slide. Walk back to the
car and tell her to get out. She might start laughing nervously, but stay serious. Tell
her to bend over the hood. Note: make sure your hood isn’t extremely hot. If so, have
her bend over your trunk where it won’t be hot unless you’re driving during the day in
blazing Vegas sun.

Tell her to pull her pants DOWN (if she’s wearing pants), or pull her dress UP, if she’s
wearing a dress. Spank her firmly with the paddle. NOTE: as men, we often don’t realize
our strength, so err on the side of soft and intensify if she plays along consensually.

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Give her 10 ‘smacks’ with the paddle. Tell to get back in the car. Get back in and pull
your cock back out and have her continue sucking you off until you cum on her mouth.
Have her swallow it. Gatorade makes a great chaser for the ladies. Continue driving
like it was normal.

Remember: All of these moves should be done as though it’s no different from you
brushing your teeth. It’s just another day in your life. Be cool. Don’t prattle about how
fun and sexy that was. That kills the mystery of who you are to her. Be the cool guy.
She’ll secretly be happy you are.

Wax the Whore: get some sex wax like this:

Wax is a blast, but I must say, be fucking careful, don’t burn the fuck out of your chick.
For you cats who can handle some wax, here’s another tried and true classic McQueen
Move that will have your new sex kitten
purring and her pussy soaked.

This is more of a soft and sensual sex


move that is good to mix in with the other
more abrupt sex moves. Sweet AND Sour,
not just Sour works best.

Here’s some good ‘ingredients’ to add to


the mix:

-Soft music

-Wine

-A delicious meal at home

-That sex wax. Have it lit already and burning ON THE TABLE. This must look spontaneous.
Best to light it around dessert so it’s not too hot.

The mood is right after a sexy dinner and you’re both a few glasses of wine in, but like I
said, don’t get shaky hands. Tell her to get undressed SLOWLY while you watch. Notice
how this is all about HER pleasing YOU? Sip on your wine. Take her in. Tell her to put
on her heels (if they’re off). If she came to your spot for dinner, I’m going to assume

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you told her “Skirt and heels” via text or call. So now she’s naked standing in heels in
front of you.

Tell her to pick up the wax on the table (that’s lit, remember?) and to bring it to you.
When she walks over to you, tell her to lie down on the ground on her stomach. I’d
highly suggest it be on flooring that you can clean up easily. Put a tie around her eyes
so she’s blindfolded. Walk around her using this very carefully tested series of phrases
I’ve designed and have used for literally a decade to great success. You will start
saying these phrases while dripping the wax on her body from your waist level as she
lies facedown, blindfolded by your tie and wearing her heels. The wax might splatter.
No matter. Who gives a fuck? Your floor will survive.

Here are the phrases:

“I know what you did. Don’t say a word, but I know exactly what you did. You know you
did”

-She might start to turn around to say something, but tell her to lie flat until you tell
her she can move.

“You think you can get away with something like this, but it’s too obvious. Too many
tell-tale signs have made it obvious to me.”

-You’re still walking slowly around her dripping the wax all over her body. Her mind is
racing at warp speed to figure out what you’re referring to.

“You are guilty. You, my sweet fucking dirty girl…are guilty.”

Crouch down beside her and set the candle down. She might try to ask you what you’re
referring to, but don’t respond. Tell her to reach back and start fingering her pussy and
ass. As she lies on the ground facedown, her body smattered with drying wax, wearing
her heels and your tie still around her eyes, pull your cock out and piss on her while
standing tall.

“What??! I can’t do that!”

Yes, you can. Now piss on her. The warmth of your piss combined with the warm wax
will create an overall warming sensation all over her body. IF you just pissed on her
without her fingering herself, she might not be in a sexual enough state, BUT remember
you commanded her to start fingering herself and she is fingering her pussy and ass.
Tell her to do it faster and faster until she is furiously masturbating while covered in
wax and your piss.

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As she is furiously fingering her ass and pussy, crouch down and cradle her head in
your hands. Whisper in her ear: “You’re guilty. Guilty of being my slut and mine alone.
Do I have your body?”

She says “yes”. Tell her to say “yes” and your name. It is key that she says YOUR name.

Then tell her: “Do I have your heart?”

She says “yes” and this time your name at the end.

Note: each phrase she repeats three times.

Have her sit up on her knees. Pull your cock out and throat fuck her hard until there is
slobber all over her chest and knees. Cum in her mouth. Tell her, “Gargle my cum my
slut”. She gargles it. Tell her to swallow it. She does. Do a mouth check to make sure
she swallowed every drop of your precious seed. Tell her, “You disgust me. Go take a
fucking shower”. Remove the blindfold and send her to your bathroom to bathe. Sit
down and have dessert. Your work is done.

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Chapter 3:
HOW TO TURN ON HER MIND

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Turning on her body is one thing.

Turning on her mind is an entirely different level.

Mastery of her mind and domination of her body will create the sex ‘slave’ you have
always desired.

Now you can have it…

A woman’s mind is a powerful thing and men


have wondered since the beginning of time
“In her mind lies her darkest
how to interpret what women think, what
fantasies and deepest desires.
they really mean when they say something
When you unlock those, you
and how they can manipulate it to get what
have access to something that
they want.
no other man has had. The final
Well, I’m no Socrates, but I have discovered frontier of exploration for man
the secrets of getting INTO a woman’s mind is a woman’s mind.”
and modifying her behavior on what SHE tells
-Christian McQueen
me. Gentlemen, I will say, what I’m about to
share with you is extremely powerful, so use
it with caution.

The first aspect of Sexual Mastery of Her Mind, is ALWAYS approaching conversations
from a place of NO JUDGEMENT.

The moment you verbally judge her previous actions, her current fantasies, or dreams,
she will shut the fuck down immediately. She should feel complete freedom in being
able to open up to you. This allows for HONESTY. While women are rarely ever 100%
honest, you might get 90% honesty, while her ex got 40% because he shamed her
from the start.

A great line you can use and I’ve used for years is this: “I don’t judge. Live and let live.
You can keep it real girl”. That simple. You say this when the two of you start talking
about sex, fantasies and as you start to get inside her head. Think of that line as your
remote control to opening her mind. Now obviously, you are judging the fuck out of
her INSIDE your mind, but you do NOT verbalize this. Keep it inside. You can use her
honesty to assess whether you would want to pursue an actual relationship with her,
or fuck-zone her. I have used this method to screen chicks and I cannot tell you how
many times it’s saved me from getting into a relationship that would have not worked.
It’s your ‘crystal ball’ when used correctly.

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It’s crucial to adopt the No Judgement attitude from Day 1 with her. Doing so from
the start will allow her to start to relax and eventually completely open up to you
throughout the conversion.

The next step in Sexual Mastery of Her Mind, is to open her up physically through
specific questions you will ask her.

Now note, you NEVER ask these in an interview style format. Learn these questions and
adapt them to your manner of speech so they don’t sound like they came from a book
for men. 😉

It IS important however, to make sure that the main concept of the question doesn’t
get lost in your version of it. These questions have been fine-tuned for years by myself
and some trusted close friends of mine that I’ve had test this system.

Also, note, that these questions are NEVER about her past. That will come out by her
as she opens up to you organically. Trying to pry into a chick’s past is pointless. She’ll
either lie, diminish the truth, or make shit up. This is about the NOW and the FUTURE.

Pro-Tip: your voice tone is very important, as is your body language. Be laid back when
you ask these and your tone should be calm and relaxed.

Also, note, that you don’t have to ask these rapid-fire like in one sitting. You can
casually drop these in over the first month of getting to know her. When done naturally
it doesn’t seem like you’re prying.

BIG NOTE: dropping one of these questions after Creating a Bubble will get you some
raw honesty.

Last note: the following is approaching this as though she is being honest due to you
making her comfortable. It’s key to make her feel safe to open up.

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The Questions

1. “Do you watch porn?”

If she says ‘Yes’, then she probably has been exposed to some very explicit acts. This
means you can step up the consensual acts with her.

If she says ‘No’, then you know you have a ‘blank slate’ to work with and you may need
to move slower.

2. Do you masturbate?

If she says ‘Yes’, then she probably has been highly sexual since being young. It also
may mean she is more in touch with her sexuality and will be open to more sex acts.

If she says ‘No’, then she may be more frigid sexually, or just might not get anything
out of it and prefers a real cock in her pussy.

3. How do you feel about kissing a girl?

Note: you are NOT asking her if she’s ever kissed a girl. Trust me she WILL volunteer
that answer as soon as you ask this, but it didn’t come from you asking about her past.

If she says something like ‘I’m curious’, then you have a bi-curious chick and there
could be room for threesomes. Testing her limits (like taking her to a strip club) will
tell you more.

If she says ‘Ewe! Not my thing’, or a variation of that, she’s not as down for that,
BUT that doesn’t mean it won’t happen. These things take time. The overall point of
this question is more about exploring her sexuality from reverse. By asking a ‘future’
leading question, she answers about her past.

4. What’s one sexual fantasy you’ve always wondered about?

Note: you had BETTER be ready to keep a poker face. You might be stunned if she says,

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‘Well, I’ve always wanted to have at threesome with two guys’, or something like that.
Keep your emotions in check. Again, another reason to be emotionally ‘shut off’ when
converting a girl. If you get too involved it will fuck with the process.

Now her answer could range all over the place, but take the degree of ‘nasty’ that she
tells you and double that in your mind. If she says something very ‘nasty’, then you
have a real freak on your hands. Or, it could be tame like, ‘Well, I’d like maybe have sex
in front of people at a sex club’, or ‘Sex in public would be interesting’. Your response
should be gentle and chill as fuck. DO NOT ACT AFFECTED by her response NO MATTER
WHAT IT IS.

5. I like nasty girls. How nasty can you be for me?

This is a loaded question. Depending on what she says, it gives you insight into how far
she is willing to go. She might say, ‘Whatever you want me to be, I’ll be it’, or, ‘I don’t
know, I’m pretty tame sexually’. This makes a difference. She should at least pay lip
service to you, if she’s really feeling you. I wouldn’t say this until at least 1 month into
the conversion. You don’t want to drop this on the first date.

That’s it. Only 5 questions, but they are specifically designed to give you insight into
her mind, but most importantly, they will get HER mind thinking on these topics.

Now that you’ve started inquiring into her mind ACTIVELY, you can inquire into her
mind passively through these tactics.

Pro-Tip: one way to keep a poker face when she gives you responses, is to think
about her in an ‘animal’’ sense. Women have a specific nature and they don’t think of
this stuff as Right and Wrong. It just IS. This helps relieve you of the moral code you
inherently believe that they follow. Men tend to have honor codes and stick to moral
codes more strongly than women because they operate from a place of logic and not
emotion. She is a grown child. Don’t put unrealistic expectations on her and you won’t
be disappointed.

Subverted Language

These are things you will drop into conversation that may appear innocent on the
surface, but they will get her mind working on how to please you better. Here’s some
examples. Note: don’t drop these all at once. This is over time that you say these here
and there.

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“I find you somewhat interesting”

This is vague enough that she will inquire as to what you mean, but you don’t answer her.
Now her mind is racing on WHAT you mean and WHAT about her could be interesting.

“I don’t know about you sometimes”

Said matter of fact like. This one really throws them for a loop, because it’s neither a
positive, or a negative statement. When she pushes to know what you mean, change
the subject.

“Time will tell if you have what it takes”

This is a great one that sets a standard for her, but in what exactly? Her mind will race.

“Show me something different about you”

Sets another bar where she now should think about what she can do, or say, to stand
out from all the other girls who you’ve dated and been with.

Dirty Talk

Girls (usually) love dirty talk. The key is to use it here and there. Don’t be a non-stop
chatter box of dirty phrases or you’ll sound more like an 80’s porn film. Here are
some classic ones that get into her mind. The real mind-fuck is that you don’t have
to be having sex to say these. Let’s say you’re at dinner and you’re about to go to the
restroom. Lean in and whisper something like, “I want you to choke on my cock right
now, until you feel it pressing into the back of your throat”. Say this with a small smile
on your face, then abruptly turn and walk to the bathroom. In other words, you’re NOT
waiting on her approval. You say it as a statement and then go do your thing. It’s very,
very powerful when done correctly.

Note: the usage of the word ‘MY’. This creates an ownership loop in her mind.

“Are you my dirty little slut?”

“How good does my cum taste?”

“Are you hungry for my cum right now?”

“You are my slut. You know that right?”

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“Open your pussy for me as wide as you can. That’s a good whore”

“Open your ass for me as wide as you can. Wider. Stretch it open. Good girl”

“Gag on my cock”

“Suck on my balls like my good little slut”

“Lick my ass good my dirty slut”

“You are my filthy fucking whore”

“I am going to fuck up your pussy”

“Your pussy is mine”

“Open up your slut mouth. Open it wide. That’s my good slut”

“Lick my cum up off the floor (her name)”

“Gargle my cum (her name)”

Now any of those phrases you can have her repeat back to you, so she takes ownership
of the phrase, but here are some specific ones that you want to use and you want her
to say these multiple times, never less than 3 times.

“I am your dirty little slut”

“I give you everything (your name)”

“This isn’t my pussy. This isn’t my body. It’s your pussy. It’s your body”

“I’m a dirty slut just for you”

“I’m nothing without you”

“I’m worthless without you”

“I’m not happy without you”

Now note that the phrases stepped up dramatically in intensity and she may balk at
saying them, but Frame comes into play. Command her to say them. She will break and
that ‘break’ is the equivalent of boot camp in the armed forces. They break you down
FIRST, so they can re-build you to what THEY want. Let that sink in for a minute.

You might feel unsure of yourself right now. You might be thinking…can I really get

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away with saying those things?

Yes, you can and you will.

You will never know how far you can go with a woman, until you try.

You will be shocked at what you can ‘get away with’ once you start this process. I know
it’s kind of intimidating, but you want to talk about another level of game? This is it.

Once you get comfortable with this behavior, your confidence will skyrocket, because
when she conforms to you, you’ll realize YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES.

Taking It Up a Notch

Alright gentlemen, this is the part where we step off the cliff. Don’t worry, I packed
you a parachute and you’ll be fine once you get used to these concepts, but at first,
they may appear shocking. I considered not including these in this course, but that
wouldn’t be fair to you.

To put it simply: you must crack some eggs to make an omelet.

This portion of the book might sound extreme and cruel, but trust me, how many times
have you had your heart broken?

If you’ve ever experienced being divorce ‘raped’ and the icy coldness of an ex, then
you know how cold women can be.

This is NOT in retaliation. You’re not doing this to ‘get back’ at your exes.

Your current girl does not need to ‘pay for the sins’ of your bitchy ex. This is a clinical
process; whereby certain variables must take place for her to convert. I believe you’re
man enough to handle this challenge and will utilize these techniques as you see fit to
convert your desired girl. Don’t use them unnecessarily, but when you do use them, I
can tell you that they will work in ways you cannot imagine.

You ready? Let’s do this shit.

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The Patriarchal Power Play

Remember that relationship you might have been in where you asked permission from
your ex to hang out with your buddies? Or maybe you always got the opinion of your
ex before you made minor decisions?

Those days are fucking over.

You are the Boss. You are the Man. You are the Patriarch of your home and your life. If
she doesn’t like it, she can walk.

Listen up and listen good: YOU MUST SET THIS PRECEDANT FROM THE BEGINNING.

Now you don’t do it on Date 1, but as the relationship intensifies, she WILL shit-test
you and she WILL make a Power Grab at the reins of the relationship. It WILL happen.
It’s in a woman’s nature to do so. You PASS the test by standing tall and not bending to
her whim. She will LOVE you for being firm. I’m telling you right now, if you pussy out,
she will leave you. Maybe not tomorrow, maybe not next week, but she has one eye on
the door and that is the motherfucking truth.

Now here’s what you say when she tries to check you…

“Darling, I’m the boss. Always have been and always will be. If that’s a problem for
you, then let’s go our separate ways right now, no harm done. I will do what I want,
when I want and you will not question me. Got it?”

This is said calmly and firmly. Raising your voice will make you seem weak and it’s not
necessary. It’s more effective said in that manner.

Now you might be thinking, “That’s awesome! But what does this have to do with
Fucking Her Like a Pornstar?”

Dominance of a woman starts outside of the bedroom and carries into the bedroom. If
a woman feels safe with you and that you are a rock, then she knows that she can open
up sexually. It also turns her on. She might not verbalize that, but deep down inside
she’s happy that she can be a woman because she has met a REAL man.

In a day and age where men are not men anymore and women feel the need to be more
masculine, you will stand out in a good way. The time for real men to stand up is now.
Be one of those men.

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The Crybaby Move

Now here’s where it gets real. You might think this is too much, but it’s a necessary part
of the process. At some point, within the 2-3 months of the conversion, you need to
make her cry. No, that’s not a typo. I’m not talking about berating her and making her
start bawling, but you need to get her to open up on an emotional level and physically
cry in front of you.

By her crying, it shows a few things:

She can be vulnerable in front of you. This is necessary for her to start ‘giving’ herself
to you.

She has healthy emotions. A girl who will not cry is not a healthy girl and something
is off.

It means she is sharing something about herself, or an experience with YOU that affects
her emotionally. This helps along the bonding experience.

If it’s ABOUT you that’s she’s crying, even better. I don’t mean it in a way that means
you were abusive, so don’t get it twisted. I would never tell you to be cruel or abusive
to a woman, but if she cries because she misses you, or feels like you’re pulling away
and she’s scared of losing you, or something along those lines, then it’s fine.

Pro-Tip: be gentle when she cries, but don’t turn into a beta bitch boy. DO NOT CRY with
her for goodness sakes. Lastly, have sex with her after she cries. She will open her body
up to you more because she was emotional BEFORE the sex.

The Mirror Move

You’re fucking your girl and you finish on her face. You don’t always have to cum on her
face, but get her used to it. If she’s freaking out dodging your loads like Neo dodging
bullets in The Matrix you got a problem. Juice some pineapples to make your semen
sweeter too.

So back to your girl…you cum on her face and have her stand up and walk her into
your bathroom. Have her look at herself in the mirror while you’re standing beside her.
You can be gently holding her by the neck (consensually of course) and say something
along these lines and have her repeat certain phrases while looking at herself in the

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mirror. Remember, she still has your cum all over her face.

“Look at yourself. Look at my cum on your face. You are my slut. Do you understand you
are my slut? (She says, “I am your slut (your name)”)

What do you see when you look in the mirror? (She responds with whatever, but it
doesn’t matter. You take the lead again) I see my dirty little slut who loves pleasing
me. Do you love pleasing me? (She says, “I love pleasing you (your name)”) How much
do you love sucking my cock and taking my cock in your whore pussy? (She says how
much) Good girl, now clean yourself up”.

Walk out leaving her in the bathroom to clean your cum off her face. Boom.

The “Thank You” Move

This is gold for getting in her mind that YOU are the prize. After you have sex with her,
say this, “What do you say?”. She might think for a second and not know, but say it
again, “What do you say?”. Unless the girl is mentally slow, she’ll figure it out and say,
“Thank You”.

The “Thank You” move is powerful, effective and if you’re not using it already, then
start. This reaffirms in her mind that sex with YOU is a privilege, not a right.

Note: You should never say it to her. She might get testy and say something like, “Why
don’t you thank me?!” Look at her wryly and calmly say, “That’s not how it works doll”.
Case closed. Go take a shower.

Pro-Tip: once you do this a couple of times, she’ll probably initiate it on her own and
simply say, “Thank You” without you bringing it up. You should be fucking her so well
that it’s a given for her to say it.

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Chapter 4:
HOW TO MAKE HER CUM

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Her orgasm is her giving you ‘access’ to everything her body has to offer.

In order for a girl to cum, she must relax. In this chapter, you’ll learn how to do that
and how to make her cum with just your hand and your voice.

Let’s get started…


“Her orgasm starts with
Getting a girl to cum might seem like a big mystery. you seducing her mind.
You have countless articles online and even whole The more you have her
books dedicated to the process, but it’s very mind, the more she opens
simple. up her body.”
The key is there are two main components to -Christian McQueen
making her cum:

1. Getting her to relax.


2. Stimulating her vagina in a manner that
will cause her to cum and even squirt.

To start, it’s a complete myth that only some girls can squirt.

The reality is, every girl can squirt, but most guys don’t know HOW to get her to squirt.
A girl’s body is designed to have squirting orgasms, but many girls don’t relax enough
to let their pussy go and cum hard including squirting.

Some girls are very in touch with their sexuality and orgasm and can even induce
squirting orgasms themselves. You’ll find those types of girls will be easy to make
cum, but for the other types, the shyer and sexually cautious types, you’ll have to put
in some ‘work’.

This chapter is simple and shorter than the previous two in this section because it’s
quite basic. This method I have used on literally hundreds of girls to great success and
it only involves your hand.

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The Method

Putting her at ease before you make her cum is crucial. This isn’t some arduous process
where you need to dim the lights, light candles and spend 45 minutes giving her a
massage. Sure, those might help, but this is about getting her relaxed quickly. Here’s
how you do that.

Have her lie on her back. This will come about organically when you’re making out with
her on a bed, couch, floor, or the like. She should obviously be naked.

Gently rub AROUND her pussy, but don’t touch it…yet. The point is to tease her. The
more you tease, the more the anticipation and the harder her release.

Spit on your hand and place your entire hand over her pussy almost in a cupping
position. Your hand should be warm. The spit will create a natural lubricant.

Slowly start to play with her clit. Be gentle. You’re almost grazing it with your fingertips.

She’ll probably be twitching at this point begging for you to stick your cock in. Don’t.
Slowly work two fingers into her pussy. Use your dominate hand because this will take
some energy. Example: if you’re right handed, use your right hand and vice versa.

With two fingers inside of her, use a Come-Hither motion curling your two fingers UP
until you feel an almost sponge-like piece of flesh. You really can’t miss it, if you follow
these steps.

As you’re putting your two fingers into her, kiss her gently on the neck and around her
ears. Tell her this: “I want you to completely relax for me baby. Can you do that?”

She’ll say “yes”. Then say this, “I’m going to make you cum baby. Do you want to
cum?” She of course, will say “yes” again. As you’re saying these phrases in a CALM
and LOW TONE, you’re motioning your two fingers in her vagina pressing the sponge
like part of her pussy with the tips of two fingers.

It’ll almost feel like you’re scraping the inside wall of her pussy, but you’re not. Sidenote:
your finger nails should be neatly trimmed so as to not cause her pain.

Pick up the speed of motion with your fingers until you’re moving them rapidly and
consistently in the same sponge like spot. At this point she may be moaning and
arching her back.

If you’re strong enough, place one arm behind her lower back and almost lift her lower
back up as you do this. To help you understand this concept, your arm becomes the

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equivalent of putting a pillow underneath her lower back, but it’s much more primal
and will turn her on more.

She may start saying something like “I can’t”, or “Oh baby stop”, but watch her body.
Her pussy should be sopping wet and you can tell by her body that she is going to cum.

Tell her this, “Let go baby, let go. Cum for me. Cum for me”. This reinforces that you
know she’s close and that it’s okay for her to release. She might be feeling like she’s
going to pee (same sensation), but she’s not.

As it escalates, move your fingers


faster. If your hand cramps, switch
hands FAST and continue. She will
be writhing around the bed possibly
screaming and moaning (depends
on the girl), or she may be more
quiet, but breathing hard and
twitching.

As she climaxes, she’ll go to push


your hand away. Hesitate for
another 3-4 seconds and you’ll feel
a flood. Literally. Then pull your
hand out and she’ll squirt and cum.
Note: I’ve had some girls who squirt
literally 3 foot and others who it’s
like an old water fountain: it just trickles, but the essence is the same that she has a
‘squirting’ orgasm.

This might seem like a lot of steps, but it’s not. It’s fluid and once you get the hang of
it, you won’t even think through the steps, you’ll just do everything and will be able to
get her off within 5 minutes or less. It really is that affective. This chart shows you the
proper placement of your fingers so you get the concept clearly.

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Wrap-Up

Getting her to cum through actual intercourse will vary depending on the girl. Every
guy’s dick is different and every girl’s vagina is different, so there’s no one solution to
making her cum that way. Using your hand to make her cum is powerful in that you
will get experienced to the point where you can do this on the fly, let’s say in your car,
or somewhere else. Having the ability to make her cum anywhere shows her that you
have a ‘power’ over her body.

The other reason you want to master the hand method, is that many girls cannot cum
through intercourse, but every girl can cum when a guy uses this method.

Now here’s a disclaimer of sorts: every girl CAN come through this method, but she
might not cum the very first time you use it, due to you not having the method down
exactly right.

Give it another shot.

Work on getting her more relaxed. Fine-tune the process for your specific girl.

I’ve used this on hundreds of girls (many times girls I had just met hours before), so
it works when done properly. Don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself, just use it
and watch her melt.

The other great reason to use this method is if you do it BEFORE you fuck her, then you
can enjoy the sex because you’re not concerned with getting her off DURING the sex.

Her body is relaxed and she’ll be eager to please you since you handled her orgasm
first. You can of course, do this at any time: before sex, during sex (pull out and get her
off like this), or even after you blow your load, but it’s very effective when done before.

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Chapter 5:
WHAT IF I CAN’T FUCK HER
WELL ENOUGH?

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As a man, it’s not uncommon to feel like you might not be good enough, or her best
lover when having sex.

This chapter is all about how to deal with


those feelings and how to overcome
“It is not the critic who counts; not
them.
the man who points out how the
“Faster! Fasterrrr!” This chick wouldn’t strong man stumbles, or where
shut the fuck up. the doer of deeds could have done
them better. The credit belongs
“Harder…harderrrrr” She almost to the man who is actually in the
growled when she said it and then a hint arena, whose face is marred by
of that silly Valley Girl accent emerged. It dust and sweat and blood; who
was like banging an attractive werewolf. strives valiantly; who errs, who
I guess. comes short again and again,
because there is no effort without
I had a sexy Latina girl, tall with medium
error and shortcoming; but who
length hair (I prefer longer hair, as do
does actually strive to do the deeds;
99% of men in the world, but I’m not
who knows great enthusiasms,
going to turn down an ‘easy’ lay), bent
the great devotions; who spends
over my bathroom sink. Bending a girl
himself in a worthy cause; who
over the bathroom sink, having her prop
at the best knows in the end the
one leg up on the counter and grabbing
triumph of high achievement, and
a fistful of her ass while pulling her
who at the worst, if he fails, at least
hair with the other hand is my favorite
fails while daring greatly, so that
position and one of life’s great pleasures
his place shall never be with those
that doesn’t cost a dime.
cold and timid souls who neither
Her ass looked great. Her long legs know victory nor defeat.”
extended for eternity and all was well in
-Teddy Roosevelt
the world except for…

Her mouth. She wouldn’t shut up.

I’m all for a noisy chick, but the DEMANDING non-stop direction giving shit is a huge
turn-off to me.

I finally just pulled out, had her get on her knees and blasted a load on her face.

She looked slightly disappointed and I was irritated.

I had been banging her for almost twenty minutes. Not Olympic levels, but a solid

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‘performance’.

I tossed her a towel and walked to my refrigerator to grab some water and then it hit
me:

Was I good enough for her in bed?

I’ve never felt inadequate with my sex game. Never. So, this threw me for a loop. She
was around twenty-four and I was thirty, so the age match was good (for a night at
least), but since when did a chick have that disappointed look on her face?

Fast-forward to the next night and I was out on the prowl chopping it up with the
bartender of a particular joint I frequent and I spotted another sexy Latina across the
bar. I started to approach and stopped myself.

That’s odd, I thought. She gave me a nice smile and I knew it was just a matter of
approaching and seeing what was up, but I felt paralyzed.

Then it hit me: how the chick the previous night had acted towards me was throwing
me for a loop causing me to question myself. Sheeeet.

She caused me to question myself, but, it was irrational fear on my behalf. Just because
the girl last night was demanding didn’t mean that this chick would be. Just because
many girls act bossier now than ever, doesn’t mean they all do. Plus, what did I have
to lose?

I still didn’t approach.

I let her walk out the door, this time with a disappointed look on her face, but for a
different reason, and then mentally kicked myself across the bar for not taking action.

The point of telling you about these blips in my life is for a couple of reasons:

We’ve all had moments with chicks in bed where we know we disappointed them.

Allowing a somewhat negative incident to take precedence in our minds can cause us
to form bad patterns in every aspect of our life, not just game.

In my case, the tall Latina being bossy and her looking disappointed caused me to
question myself and then take that question and dictate my behavior the following
night.

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That’s bullshit, but normal.

What should not become the NORM, is continue to be held back by an isolated incident.

Let’s take a more extreme hypothetical example:

Let’s say there’s a guy named Marco who every girl he approaches turns their back
on him. What would that do to his confidence? What sort of negative loop would that
cause him to fall into?

In an extreme case, such as Marco’s, he should take a step back and examine his
game, his appearance and every little detail of how he’s portraying himself to see if
perhaps it’s in his control to change it. But for rare and isolated incidences where we
weren’t on our A game, don’t allow yourself to fall into a negative pattern of believing
there’s something wrong with you.

Instead, chalk it up to the game.

Yep, the game.

The game is no different than sports. You have great players, good players, average
players and below average haters players. Some day’s star athletes strike out, toss-up
bricks and can’t seem to do anything right.

Does that mean they don’t have talent? No.

Does that invalidate their previous game winning homers and shots? No.

Does that mean that they must have lost whatever skill they had and they will never
return to their former glory? No.

Well, the same goes for game. We all have slumps. If a ‘player’ says he’s never had a
slump, he’s full of shit. Granted, the more you know the quicker you can pull out of it,
but we all have experienced that feeling of getting shot down no matter what we did,
of just not hittin’ the pussy right and of overall being ‘off’.

It’s okay. Don’t beat yourself up because that will only make it worse. I know this for
a fact.

If you start to replay your ‘failure’ over in your head over and over and over, you’ll start
to repeat it.

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There’s science to back this up as you can see below:

Source: A lot of people sit at home, dwell on the negative and find themselves getting
deeper and deeper in their depression. Psychologists call this style of repetitive
negative thoughts “rumination.”

Examples of rumination include repeating in your mind negative experiences in the


past, replaying conversations that you had, dwelling on the “injuries” and “injustices”
that you have suffered, or asking questions that don’t have answers, such as “Why am
I so depressed?,” “Why me?,” “What is the meaning of all of this?” or “Why did he or
she say that?” You may ruminate about your physical maladies, your aches and pains,
your emotions, your sensations or just about anything. The key thing is that you are
stuck.

Susan Nolen-Hoeksema at Yale University has been studying this problematic style for
years.

Her research shows that people who ruminate are more likely to get depressed and
stay depressed.

She finds that women are more likely than men to ruminate — and that this partly
predicts the greater likelihood of depression in women. We also know that to some
extent rumination is a way to avoid emotions — you are stuck in your thinking because
you can’t face the emotions that you may have. You are over-thinking, trying to make
sense, trying to get the answer.

And, when you are ruminating you are temporarily withdrawn from reality. You are
not active, you aren’t socializing, you are not living in the present moment. You are
somewhere else — in your head, in your thoughts, in a different time. You think you
are “doing something,” but you are not pursuing goals, nothing is happening, you are
stuck.

Many people who ruminate actually don’t realize that they have a choice. “These
thoughts just come into my head and I can’t get rid of them.” It’s as if a thought
pops up and you have to entertain it for an hour. You don’t. You do have a choice. For
example, you are ruminating and the phone rings. You stop ruminating and talk on the
phone. You temporarily set it aside.

Others ruminate because they believe that they will forget what they wanted to
remember that was so negative. This is a combination of what psychologists, like Adrian
Wells at the University of Manchester, call “cognitive incompetence” and “cognitive

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consciousness”– where you don’t trust your memory and you are continually focused
on your thinking. You can’t trust your memory so you repeat the rumination. But
because you think you have to pay attention to every thought that occurs, you are
overwhelmed — and there is more to remember.

You also think that thinking about it will give you clarity, give you the final insight, and
that everything will make sense. Adrian Wells’s research indicates that ruminators often
believe that they have a responsibility to figure it out, that their rumination will lead to
solving a problem and that their rumination will motivate them. Sometimes, of course,
thinking about what has happened can lead to learning from your mistakes, it can
motivate you to try harder, or it can help you find some meaning in your experience. But
many times rumination simply leads to getting stuck in the negative, withdrawing from
reality, and trapping you in an endless loop of questions without sufficient answers.
End Excerpt

As we can see backed by science, dwelling on our ‘failures’ only causes us to be stuck.
How is being stuck good for a player in a slump? It’s clearly not.

You came quick with a hot girl on the first date? Oh well, shrug it off and keep it moving.

You had a girl at her doorstep after a date and all you had to do was lead her inside,
but you choked? It happens.

Lighten up and realize that it’s not that serious. There’ll be another chick. Another
opportunity and no matter what, you make up your mind to just have fun.

Don’t dwell on your possible screw-up because it’ll only bog you down into repeating
it.

Shake it off like a man and get back on the horse.

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Chapter 6:
THE SECRETS TO GREAT SEX

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I often get asked what are just a few of my secrets for great sex.

Well, it’s hard to condense what they are, but I did, so here you go.

If you only have a few moments before you have a sexy girl coming over, or you’re
headed on a date, then read these tips so you rock her world today…

I’ve had a lot of sex. Some good, some bad and some mind-blowing.

I’ve had sex with 450+ girls in my life (I’m 32). I don’t say this to brag, I say this to
preface this comprehensive guide with actual experience. When you’ve had sex with
hundreds of women you start to figure out what works and what doesn’t.

The Mindset

Great sex starts before you slip off her bra, before you insert your cock into her vagina
and starts before you even approach her. That’s because great sex starts with YOUR
mindset.

If you think poorly about yourself, then you will radiate this vibe in a 30-foot radius
to every girl (or guy) you encounter on a night out. Developing a proper mindset is
essential and I will go into this in more detail soon, but for now, you have got to get a
grip on your mindset.

If you think you’re worthless, you will live a worthless life.

If you think that you’re inadequate for pretty girls, then you will only date and have sex
with girls who are unattractive to you.

If you are solely concentrated on your cock size (and any insecurities that you might
have) you will never be able to truly have great sex, because you will be in your MIND,
instead of the MOMENT.

Another note regarding this: with the number of sexual partners that girls have
nowadays you are not her biggest and you are not her smallest, but it doesn’t matter
because the actual EXPERIENCE she has when with you is what keeps her coming
back. Focus on what you CAN control and you will be at peace with this.

There are two mindsets that you must adopt to gather the reins of your mind and take
control:

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1. I will rock her world
2. Sex with me is a privilege

These two thoughts coincide to create a mindset of sexual confidence. Through actual
application (sex) you will develop prowess. The more practice you put in, the better
you will get.

If you’re a virgin reading this and you feel scared, then allow me to reach through the
screen and virtually bitch slap you. Everyone was a virgin at some point and before I
fucked hundreds of girls, I obviously was a virgin as well. It’s okay to feel nervous, but
the only way to alleviate these feelings is to learn game and have sex.

The best way to adopt these two thoughts and create a new mindset is simply to think
them and say them out-loud repeatedly every day.

The second part is putting them into use. You can sit and stare at the wall everyday
muttering these phrases and never approach girls and you will remain sexless. Combine
thinking and saying these statements with conviction AND approaching girls, going on
dates and sexually escalating and you will see the difference.

The Approach

In this section, I’m not covering the actual approach, but instead the main aspects
that will get the sexual energy flowing before you even actually have sex with her.

Have you ever heard a girl say, “Such and such is soooo sexy!” (and the guy is not
physically attractive). That’s because he exudes sexuality.

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Looks and sexiness are two different things.

While a person can be physically attractive, they can also have the sexual energy of a
rock. If you have looks and sexual energy then you’re golden, but if you’re not the best-
looking guy, you can still become sexy by channeling sex into your vibe, swagger and
style. This book isn’t about style, but the sharper you dress, the higher your perceived
sexual value.

Simple example is this:

Joe Blow walks into the club wearing a wrinkled button down, jeans that are tattered at
the cuffs and a hemp necklace. Yes, Joe is still stuck in the fucking 90’s. Girls instantly
turn their back on him and whisper “What a creep!” to their friends.

Joe Blow has read my other books, applies the vast knowledge, improves his life and
returns to the club.

Now he is Joe Smooth.

He walks into the club rocking a tailored suit and a modern haircut, but most importantly,
his BODY LANGUAGE is confident and screams alpha male. His physical movements are
measured and deliberate.

He scans the room slowly like a lion surveying his prey for a late-night meal. He utilizes
strong eye contact to establish himself as someone not to fuck with (to other males)
and as a proper sexual option to the females. Girls instantly start eye-fucking him and
nervously giggling to their friends, “Who’s THAT sexy guy in the suit??”

Now which version of Joe is more apt to get laid?

I’ve touched on this before, but the key to kick-starting your sexual energy during an
approach is to imagine undressing her as you speak to her.

She will feel this. Your sexual energy will exude.

You’re not doing this in a leering manner, but instead ‘sending’ your words with sexual
intent even if the actual words are not sexual in nature.

Here’s an example:

You’re talking with a girl and she comments on your pocket square.

Girl: “I love your pocket square. I wish more guys would dress up”

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You: “It’s difficult for boys to be men”

What you’re saying is not sexual in nature, but here’s what you’re THINKING when
you’re saying this: I’m going to wrap your legs around my body and give you such an
intense orgasm your body shakes.

While you’re THINKING this, you IMAGINE the two of you naked doing this. Your
thoughts will come through in your eyes, thus making an ‘innocent’ statement (“It’s
difficult for boys to be men”) sexualized in a dominating manner which will turn her on.

This is exactly how you can be posted up at a club and see a playboy approach a
girl, talk to her for a couple of minutes and then walk out holding her hand. It’s that
powerful.

Now, note that this takes practice. The more you do it, the more seamless it will become.
Start practicing now.

The Physical

Now for the fun part, the actual sex. There are 5 main components to the actual physical
aspect of having great sex and here they are:

#5. Confidence

Sure, it might be hard to be confident if you’re not sexually experienced, but the very
simple way to navigate around this obstacle is this:

1. She’s naked with you.

She is attracted enough to you to have gotten naked and open up her most intimate
body part to you. That tells you everything.

2. Be in the moment.

You really must let go of wondering if you’re the best she’s had, wondering if she’ll like
the sex enough to see you again, and casting off the pressure of performing. It’s easy

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as guys to get caught up in wanting to be her best sexual partner, but brother let me
tell you, that is a burden that is one that I frequently say “Fuck you” to. The best way
you can ‘perform’ is to ravish her with passion, dominance and confidence.

#4. Lose Yourself In The Moment

You can’t have great sex when your mind is wandering about everything but what
you’re doing. It’s like how a girl can’t have an orgasm if she’s in her mind and isn’t
relaxed.

The more relaxed you are, the more she will be.

The more you take her in, her scent, her body and her mind, then she will relax and
melt.

The real question is, if you find yourself thinking about other shit while you’re having
sex with her, then you obviously are not attracted to her enough. I can tell you that the
attraction level makes a difference.

I’ve had sex with some girls, where the movie playing on the TV is more interesting
than her.

I’ve also had sex with girls where I could have died inside them and been happy because
their beauty was so staggering to me.

Let go, relax and just be.

#3. Blowing Her Mind

Here are some more tips for how to do this.

-Create sexual tension. The easy way to think about this is as Push-Pull.

The push would be you taking her shirt off.

The pull would be not taking her bra off immediately.

99.9% of guys will take the girls bra off first and then go to town sucking on her
breasts, but the G way to handle this is to lightly breathe on her breasts (while her bra
is still on) and remove her panties BEFORE taking her bra off. Hell, you can even start
to fuck her while she’s wearing her bra, then take it off after a couple of minutes.

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-Another way to do this, is don’t be predictable. Sex in the kitchen? Sure. Sex in the
bathroom? Of course. Don’t be the guy who always defaults to having to fuck on the
bed. It’s lame. Unpredictability is paramount to making it ‘hot’ and ‘heavy’.

-Get in her mind. Here’s an example of how this works:

You have her sitting on your kitchen counter facing you with her legs open and you’re
inside her. Pause your thrusting and gently trace her lips with your finger, while staring
into her eyes, then say something like this:

“You’re sexy as hell” (then kiss her passionately)

Read closely, because I’m about to drop a knowledge ‘bomb’: Great sex comes from
creating an Emotional Bubble.

Anybody can have sex, but when you combine the physical act of sex with connecting
to her emotionally through what you say (and what you don’t say), then you have
sexual fireworks. There’s a reason why women love the book 50 Shades of Grey which
is a damn BOOK. i.e. it’s words, not pictures. Learn to turn a girl on verbally and she
will be putty in your hands.

#2. The Pursuit of Pleasure

Your pleasure. If you’re focused on trying to make her orgasm for hours, you’ll miss
the point. A woman likes to have orgasms sure, but here’s the deal: most women don’t
even have orgasms through actual penetration, so you’re more than likely wasting
your time.

“Only about a third of women experience orgasm regularly during intercourse.”


(Source)

Instead, focus on your pleasure and ‘using’ her for your pleasure. You will find that she
will be more into that then you down on your knees eating her out for 30 minutes to
no avail.

Now this doesn’t mean you can’t try to make her cum, but keep it in perspective.

A feminine woman who is biologically attracted to an alpha male, will get great pleasure
out of PROVIDING him pleasure.

For you experienced playboys out there, ever notice how a girl will get on her knees to
give you head and the look in her eyes is pure pleasure? Now maybe she loves gobbling

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on cocks, but what she really is feeling, is pleasure from providing you pleasure and
being ‘slutty’ for you. This is a fucking fact. Next time a girl gives you head look into
her eyes and tell me you don’t see it.

#1. Fucking Like It’s Your Last Time Ever

If I told you that the next time you have sex, you’ll be forced into celibacy forever, I’ll
bet you would ravage her with passion and pleasure for the both of you.

Next time you’re having sex (the imagination is very powerful), imagine it’s the last
time you will ever have sex again. I can guarantee that you will enjoy the moment and
it will be incredible sex. And not to be morbid, but we’re not guaranteed tomorrow and
it very well could be.

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Chapter 7:
HOW TO TURN HER BODY ON

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The reality is when you meet a girl you’d like to keep around, you might have to teach
her some things.

Correction.

You will have to teach her some things and hell, there’s nothing wrong with that.

Here’s how…

A girl who doesn’t know how to give head usually hasn’t sucked off 100 guys and don’t
take her lack of experience, for a lack of enthusiasm.

I’ll take an enthusiastic girl any day over a jaded pro.

Here’s exactly how you can teach your girl how to give you great head, without insulting
her, without causing her to feel insecure and in the process, will establish addiction
techniques that cause her to become head over heels in love with you. I’ve used this
process on double digit girls to resounding success.

1. Sit on your couch, chair, or wherever you prefer to get your pole smoked.

2. Put a pillow on the floor in front of you.

3. Tell your girl to get undressed.

4. Have her kneel in front of you with her knees on the pillow.

5. Tell her, “Baby I want you to take your time with giving me head and I’ll show you
exactly what I like. Afterwards I have a surprise for you”.

6. Walk her through it. Examples:

“less hands”

“open your mouth wider”

“choke on it”

“gag baby gag”

“let the slobber go”

“let the drool go”

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Pro-Tip: I get specific and dominating and you can always do a Pussy Check during to
see how she feels, i.e. finger her from time to time. If her pussy is dripping, then she
loves it. The pussy doesn’t lie.

6. The instruction doesn’t stop as you’re about to blow your load. Instead, complete
the educational process: walk her through taking your load. Examples:

“Keep your eyes open. Look up at me”

“Open your mouth baby. Stick your tongue out”

“Take my cum. Now”

Or if you have big balls: shoot your load on a mirror or on the hardwood floor and say
this “Lick up my cum” while you hold her by the nape of her neck.

Then make her gargle it while looking up at you with her eyes shining brightly.

Then tell her “Swallow”. She does and have her stick her tongue out far and check her
mouth. Did she swallow every valuable drop? If so, pat her cheek gently with affection.

6. When she asks what her surprise is, say, “My presence baby. My presence”.

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Chapter 8:
HOW TO DEAL WITH A SEXUAL
DRY SPELL

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I don’t care how much of a boss you might be right now; every player goes through
dry spells…

Or, you might not even be a player and are struggling to simply have sex on a consistent
basis.

I get it. I’ve had dry spells too and it fucking sucks.

In this chapter I outline exactly what to do to BREAK that dry spell…

Oh yea, it works like a charm.

“Two years?”, I asked incredulously. “Yea, I know it’s pretty bad”, the businessman
replied to me. WTF? I thought. How does a guy go two years without sex? That’s
nuts…right?

How does one deal with a sexual dry spell? I can tell you how to deal with not having,
as I call it, “fresh pussy”, meaning a new notch, but having a sexual dry spell period
required some research into men’s lives who are suffering from one.

I did some research.

Then I did some more.

And I came up with some solutions for my coaching clients, based on what they have
went through, the ‘mistakes’ they were making and my own experiences from years
back.

If you’re suffering from a sexual dry spell, keep reading because the following five tips
might just snap you out of your dry spell today.

5 Make A List Of Your Current Day To Day Schedule and Habits

The first thing I had my clients do is make a list of their day to day activities. I wanted
to know EXACTLY what they filled their days with. From the moment they woke up, to
the moment they got in bed to sleep.

My first hunch was correct: Almost all of them were workaholics and put very little to
zero time into their social and dating lives.

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While most of them are successful financially, they realized that a man who does not
lead a balanced life, is not a happy man.

Sex is a need.

Men need sex.

It’s not healthy to not put your cock into a sexy girl’s pussy. Period. Even if she’s on
her period ha.

After they made lists, I had them individually write out how many hours could be
shaved off working and allotted for pursuing girls sexually. Most being workaholics of
course, this was a fun task for them and I had to push them to change their current
habits to balance their lives out. They thanked me later, because I cracked the code to
get them on the road to pussy heaven.

4 Get A Game Mentor ASAP

While this might sound like a pitch for my coaching services, it’s not. It’s just a fact.
Thankfully, my clients had me already, so I allotted time specifically with each of the
ones suffering from dry spells to make a battle plan.

Here’s what you do, if you cannot afford a professional coach:

-Go out solo with your MAIN intention to find guys good with women and learn from
them. Buy them a shot. Be cool. Be friendly. If you really have balls, tell them straight
up that you struggle with women and would love to shadow them for a while. Tell them
you’ll buy drinks, be the DD (designated driver), whatever, just make sure that they
know that you know, that their time is valuable and you don’t expect advice for free.

In AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) it’s called getting a Sponsor.

For Game purposes, I’m telling you to get a mentor. Someone who knows how to
attract women, how to talk to them, and how to get sex. Your game will SKYROCKET
when you do this.

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3 Don’t Push It, Flow With It

On the other side of this situation, I had a couple of clients who were trying so hard,
that they were in a dry spell. This is called ‘trying too hard’. It repels women. Re-read
that. It repels women from a football field away. Women can sense men who aren’t
getting laid and it may scream neediness.

Now I know you’re thinking: “Well Christian, if I’m NOT getting laid, HOW do I get laid
when women are repelled by men who DON’T get laid?”

I called it, right?

Here’s what you guys do who fall into the camp of doing everything and nothing is
working:

Take a break from gaming women. I’m serious. Pick up a hobby, focus on your work, do
anything and everything that has nothing to do with you getting laid. Take the focus off
women and put it on yourself.

A funny thing might just happen: you might just find yourself getting some stares from
that cute girl at the gym.

You might just find that you’re not as eager when you get a text from a girl to your
surprise.

You might find that your energy calms and your mojo can flow.

When you push something constantly, you must take time to let it do its work.

Have you ever heard the expression “lean back”? It means just that, lean back and
be chill for a moment. I’ve found personally, that when I push and push with women,
is when I encounter dry spells of new notches. As you progress as a player it can
sometimes take more and more to satisfy one’s voracious sexual appetite.

2 ‘Lower’ Your Standards

Another factor that I found was that some of the clients experiencing a sexual dry
spell, were men with standards that were unrealistic for their level of Game.

Now read closely so you don’t misunderstand my point: It’s GOOD to have high standards

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for yourself and the women you sleep with, BUT if you’ve been on an extended dry
spell because you won’t sleep with anything less than a 7…you’re doing yourself a
disservice.

I’ll let you in on a little secret: I’ve slept with gorgeous models, I’m talking girls with
actual campaigns and billboards on Sunset Boulevard, and sometimes the sex was
BETTER with a 6 or 7 I’d pull from a dive bar. Not always, but sometimes.

The result is the same: You pump. You hump. You cum. The end. Don’t get it twisted
for your ego.

Another thing: you’re not marrying the girl. You don’t even need to take her out on the
town on your arm. There is such thing as practice girls…

The Movie Girls

-The girl you invite over for Netflix (movies) and fish sticks, but won’t be seen in public
with.

-The girl you don’t mind being seen in public with at your local movie theater.

-The girl you make a sex movie with.

-The girl you take to a movie premier who causes the producers to get jealous of you,
she’s THAT stunning.

That’s 4 different types of girls you can work with, so don’t let your ego get the best of
you and leave you with blue balls for eternity.

A wise old man once told me, “When the dam breaks, it floods the banks”.

When you get your dick wet with a ‘6’, the engines of your mojo turnover.

When you sleep with a ‘7’, the pistons on the engine to your mojo start to pump.

Just like girls sense when you’re sexless, they can sense when you’re having sex and
they will be drawn to you.

Guys ask me, “How come when I have sex with 1-2 girls in a week span, girls from
months ago who I haven’t talked to hit me up?” Simple: Because they have a 6th sense
for men who are pre-selected and they go into competition mode. They also are drawn
to men who have their choice of the ‘village’, in other words, alpha men.

The other reason is because you don’t even realize it, but your Game is better after you

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bust a load with a girl.

You’re calm.

You’re chill.

You’ve released yourself in a way that benefits you psychologically, physically and
mentally, that jerking off in your bathroom sink doesn’t do.

Don’t dumpster dive, but be realistic with your standards and see if you’re not being
a bit too picky. It’s very common for sexless dry spell men to have this tendency, so
make sure this isn’t the issue.

1 Hire An Escort

“What the fuck? Did McQueen just recommend that I get a hooker?!”

Calm down.

There are times when a man has to do what he has to do. While I don’t recommend
that a man RELY on escorts, and CLEARLY, I advocate Game, I also know that ‘breaking
the seal’ so to speak, can be the trigger to getting men over the hump of a dry spell.

Let me be clear: THIS IS A LAST RESORT, but if it’s really that bad and you’re having
zero luck, then perhaps this is a course of action you could take.

While none of my clients had to resort to this, because I made them custom plans
and helped them break their dry spells (and I might add with 100% success rate), for
those of you who might be at your wits end, this could be an option.

Let me break something down for you that may shock you, but I’m keeping it real, as
I always do: sex is sex. If you’re sexless, then your mental, physical and emotional
health are suffering. Period. If you were to use the services of an escort ONCE to snap
out the dry streak, it might help you.

It’s custom in many countries for the young men to be taken to a brothel by their
fathers and mentors to lose their virginity. In some ways, I can see the benefit, because
it causes the young men to not pedestalize pussy as much as many young men do in
America. One only needs to look at the Elliot Rodger situation to see that him being

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sexless was literally taking him over the edge. Like I said: It’s NOT healthy. If his dad
would have gotten him an escort, perhaps he would have had the release he needed
and would have calmed the fuck down. Maybe not, but we’ll never know.

Disclaimer: I’m NOT advocating doing anything illegal in your state, country, county
or city. Laws differ based on your residence, so check your laws first, to ensure that
you’re in accordance with them. This is for entertainment purposes only.

Lastly, don’t get discouraged if you’re going through a dry spell. This world is full of
women with voracious sexual appetites and if you apply Game, put out the effort and
take the tips I’ve given you, you’ll have a sexy slut before you know it and your blue
balls will be a distant memory in the past.

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Chapter : 9
HOW TO CREATE SEXUAL
TENSION

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Sex. Rough and tumble sex. Hardcore sex. Soft love makin’ sex. Sensual sex. No holds-
barred straight out of a porno sex. Sex on bales of hay. Sex in nightclub bathrooms.
Sex on hoods of million dollar cars. Sex in private jets. Sex rocks. If you don’t agree
that sex rocks, then you’re probably reading the wrong book…

But, before you get to the really fun act of getting naked with a sexy woman, the sexual
tension you create before you have sex will speed up the process and make it more
intense and enjoyable for both parties.

Here’s how you do it…

Creating sexual tension is hands down my favorite aspect of flirting with a girl. The
newer the acquaintance, the more curious I am about how much sexual tension I can
create with her.

I’ll let you in on a little secret: women crave sexual tension.

Women love sexual tension.

Sexual tension plays into fantasies that women have.

The art is in the tease. The mix of just the right ingredients of alpha male body language,
what you say and more importantly, how you make her feel, creates a combination that
reveals itself in her as unbridled lust for you.

Creating A Bubble is paramount in building this tension.

What is Creating A Bubble?

It’s the act of drawing her in through the senses: sight, smell, sound, taste and touch.
The more intense the experience, the more that sexual tension is built, until she cannot
wait to rip your shirt off. If you properly lay the building blocks before you get to the
point of having sex, she will be eager to have sex with you.

If you have to sit on the couch for three hours trying to get her to take her bra off, then
quite simply: you have not properly amped the sexual tension to the point where it will
happen ‘naturally’ and with enthusiasm. Who wants to have reluctant sex? Not I.

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How Do You Create A Bubble?

Through the 5 Senses: sight, smell, sound, taste and touch.

Sight

Your eyes are your most important tool as a playboy who enjoys the company of sexy
girls. Yeah, you being 6’4″ isn’t necessary. Everyone has eyeballs, so there’s no excuse
not to learn how to use your greatest asset when communicating with a girl. And hell,
you don’t even have to have great eyes.

If you do, awesome, but I don’t have the ‘sexiest’ eyes and I’ve learned to use them to
create an insane advantage over most guys by harnessing the power of eye contact
and penetration. Not the kind of penetration you’re thinking, but ‘penetrating’ her eyes
and ‘seeing’ into her soul. When I look into her eyes, I am communicating silently my
desire to take her and bring the most intense pleasure she has ever received in her
life. Girls feel this down to their core.

Smell

This is two-fold: how you smell and how you use your nose to smell her.

Find a cologne that combined with your natural body chemistry makes girls stop you
in a store and ask what you’re wearing. If you’re not getting comments on how good
you smell, then switch colognes.

The second aspect of this, is smelling her. You’re not sniffing like a rabid dog, but
essentially breathing her in when you kiss, or nuzzle her neck. Smell her collarbone
and around her neck. Breathe her in. Imagine the two of you are one person. You will
almost feel a ‘buzz’ of electricity when you do this.

Sound

Sound is of course, what you say and what she hears. I’ll let you in on another little
secret: silence is one of the key ways that you build sexual tension. People are afraid
to shut their mouth and simply be and to allow silence to thicken in the conversation.

Here’s a practical example of how this works:

Her: “You seem like a player type; do you always do this?”

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Wait 2-3 seconds, not fidgeting, but calmly looking her in the eye in a dominate fashion
and throw in a small smirk…

You: “You seem like a type that likes players”

She nervously laughs and looks away, then tosses you a look with her eyes shining
bright. Hooked.

This works because you don’t deny, you don’t apologize, you simply ‘call out’ her shit
test in a smooth manner.

Another way to use silence to create tension, is when she asks you a question later in
the conversation when the two of you have become more comfortable and the sexual
tension has intensified.

Her: “So what are your plans for Memorial Day Weekend?” (The question doesn’t
matter)

Wait 2 seconds, then pull her close and kiss her on the mouth. This my friend, is
spontaneity and women crave it with everything within them. Learn to be spontaneous,
unpredictable and charming and you have the trifecta of getting women addicted to
you.

You: “You bring the animal out in me” (whispered in her ear after the kiss)

Then turn your back on her and order a drink. Push-pull. Give and take. Attention, then
ignoring. This isn’t done in a vindictive manner. It’s done in a fun roller-coaster type
way that creates a fun, dynamic of sexual tension between the two of you.

And lastly, the use of actual words to create sexual tension. There is a myriad of
statements you can make, but here are a few.

“Can you handle intense baby girl?”

“Something special is happening right this very moment”

“Come here” (kiss) Never underestimate the incredible power of a command to a


woman. It’s catnip when calibrated for the situation and is also essential when using
Frame.

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Taste

This is the obvious with kissing. No-brainer here, but keep your mouth fresh. I carry
Dentyne gum to keep my mouth fresh. If you have bad breath, the girl will run for the
hills. No excuses, get your mouth fresh as fuck.

The not so obvious ways are ones that I have used for years. They work very well.

Using the example of you being at a bar enjoying some intimate moments with this
sexy girl, here is a way you can build sexual tension through taste.

The Lime

Every bar has limes. Take a lime and squeeze it on your finger. When kissing her pull
back and squeeze some of the lime on your finger. Gently trace her lips with said finger.
Then gently insert your finger into her mouth.

Note: Do NOT shove it. This is done in a sensual and gentle manner. The girl will start to
suck the lime juice off your finger while looking at you deeply with her eyes. She might
even close them for a moment. You don’t have to use a lime, but lemons tend to be
too sour and most bars don’t have orange slices sitting around, unless it’s an upscale
lounge with ‘mixologists’, instead of bartenders.

Touch

Firm and Soft are the two ways to create sexual tension physically. You want to alternate
between the two, but always calibrate based on the receptiveness of the girl to your
touch. Some girls prefer more aggressive and rough. Some girls prefer more sensual
and gentle. You will only know by trying both.

A hand on her lower back firmly placed is the golden #1 standing-at-the-bar-move


that I and countless playboys have used. It’s tried and true. If you’ve kissed, then
grabbing a handful of her ass, or a slight ass tap works as well, but be mindful of your
surroundings. Less is more in public, unless you have the corner booth in the dimly lit
lounge.

Touching her throat gently when kissing and the back of her neck (her nape) and
gently running your hand through the back of her hair is also golden. Don’t pet her

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like a dog, but with your hand on the back of her neck when you’re kissing her, you can
trace her ‘baby hairs’ (the hairs at the base of her neck) with your thumb.

I’m also a fan of tracing a girl’s lips before kissing. This creates intense anticipation
before you kiss her and anticipation is an essential ingredient to a great kiss. Too eager
and it’s a turn-off. Controlled, passionate and learning to pull back right as she really
gets into it, will build some serious sexual tension.

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Chapter 10:
HOW TO STILL ROCK HER WORLD
WITH A SMALL TO AVERAGE COCK

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Ah the great “How does my cock measure up?” debate.

Most books on this are watered down content and fail to properly address this topic,
so thus, here you go, I’ve included this chapter in this book, because no doubt some
of you allow this to hold you back…

Combining science, a poll and a healthy dose of my real-world experience, if this


question is on your mind right now, then you can be reassured that it’ll be answered
by the time you’re done reading this chapter.

The Science

First off, I’ve gathered the science on actual average length, width etc. and the following
is an excerpt from this article: http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/271647.
php

-While 85% of women were satisfied with the size and proportion of their partner’s
penis in a study, men were less sure of themselves. (Wylie KR, Eardley I. Penile size and
the ‘small penis syndrome’. British Journal of Urology International, 2007, volume 99,
number 6, pages 1,449-1,455.)

-45% of men in the study believed they had a small penis.

-Across studies it has been concluded that flaccid lengths range around 7 to 10
centimeters (2.8-3.9 inches).

-Flaccid circumferences range around 9 to 10 centimeters (3.5 to 3.9 inches).

-Erect lengths range around 12 to 16 centimeters (4.7 to 6.3 inches).

-Erect circumference (only one previous study) was around 12 centimeters (4.7
inches).

One study, published in the British Journal of Urology International, suggested that
while the majority of women, some 85%, were satisfied with the size and proportion
of their partner’s penis, men were less sure of themselves. (Wylie KR, Eardley I. Penile
size and the ‘small penis syndrome’. British Journal of Urology International, 2007,
volume 99, number 6, pages 1,449-1,455.)

Almost half of men in the study (45%) believed they had a small willy – yet the
researchers reported that small penis size was actually rare.

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Some 170 women answered questionnaires in another study, which found that while
they attached some importance to penis size, it was only of “substantial” importance
to a “clear minority” of the women. (Francken AB, van de Wiel HB, van Driel MF, Weijmar
Schultz WC. What importance do women attribute to the size of the penis? European
Urology, 2002, volume 42, number 5, pages 426-431.)

My Note: We call these Size Queens and they do exist. I once had a girl on a date tell
me if my cock was less than 10″ long she wouldn’t have sex with me. I wiped the
chicken wing sauce off my fingers and vacated the premises.

While most of men’s worries about penis size centre on the length, women are more
interested in width, according to one study. (Eisenman R. Penis size: Survey of female
perceptions of sexual satisfaction. BMC Womens Health, 2001, volume 1, page 1 (DOI:
10.1186/1472-6874-1-1).

The study of 50 sexually active undergraduate women reported that penis width was
more important to sexual satisfaction than penis length.

Summary: as men, it’s easy to put tons of pressure on ourselves for cock size, but based
on the average sizes gathered in these studies, most guys are not walking around with
Anaconda Cocks. Keep reading to find out how your cock size affects your dating life.

The Poll

While women’s taste will vary and it’s usually based on their sexual experience (i.e.
the bigger the slut the more sizes she’s had and sometimes tends to be a Size Queen),
here’s some polls conducted to give you an idea of what their preferences were.

Source: http://www.livescience.com/46141-penis-size-girth.html

“For one-night stands, size does matter, but it’s not penis length that women are
concerned about — it’s girth, a new study suggests.

In the study, 41 women viewed and handled penises made on a 3D printer. The models
were blue, and ranged in size from 4 inches long and 2.5 inches in circumference to
8.5 inches long and 7 inches in circumference. They were asked to pick which of the
33 models they would prefer for a one-time partner, and which they would prefer for a
long-term partner.

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For one night stands, women selected penis models with slightly larger girth, on
average, than those they selected for long-term relationships.”

My Note: unless she grabs your cock at the bar, how would she know? She doesn’t.
This backs up my belief that the size of your cock has nothing to do with your ability to
pull a girl for a one-night stand.

“But there was no difference in length between the penises they preferred for one-time
partners versus those they preferred for long-term partners: In either case, women
tended to choose penises that were about 6.5 inches long. [8 Wild Facts About the
Penis]

The vagina has many pressure-sensitive nerve endings that detect sensations of
stretching, and these sensors may be finely tuned to detect variations in penis girth,
the researchers said. A penis with larger girth may also bring the clitoris closer to the
vagina during sex, which has been suggested to help with achieving orgasm.

On the other hand, longer penis length may lead to cervical pain, said study researcher
Shannon Leung, an undergraduate in biology at the University of California, Los
Angeles, who presented the findings last month at the meeting of the Association for
Psychological Science in San Francisco.

Previous studies on whether penis size matters have had mixed results: A 2012 study
of more than 300 women found that 60 percent said penis size made no difference to
them, but that those who frequently experienced vaginal orgasms were more likely
to prefer longer penises. And a study published last year found that whether women
prefer larger penises depends on the proportions of the man’s body, with larger penises
being more important to them in bigger men.

However, many past studies have relied on images, or used terms such as “small,”
“medium” and “large” when gauging women’s penis preferences, and these terms
may have different meanings to different people, Leung said. The new study, on the
other hand, is the first to use 3D printed models, which meant women could physically
handle them, Leung said.

In a second part of the new study, women were given one of the penis models and
allowed to examine it for 30 seconds. They were then asked to pick that same model
from a bin of 33 models, either immediately or after completing a 10-minute survey
(to allow time to pass).

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After completing the 10-minute survey, women tended to OVERESTIMATE the size of
the penis they had previously examined, the study found.”

My Note: girls are generally bad at gauging measurements. Ask a girl next time what
she estimates your cock size to be. I’ll bet (unless she’s very experienced) she guesses
about an inch to an inch and a half bigger than what it actually is. This science backs
that up.

“This finding may be reassuring to men who are self-conscious about their penis size,
the researchers said.

“For men who are considering surgery to increase their phallus sizes, maybe they do
not have to after all, if women tend to overestimate” the size of a penis they’ve seen,
Leung said.”

My Opinion

Here’s the deal gents: to some girls the size of your cock will matter and to many it
won’t.

There I said it.

I won’t tell you that some girls out there could care less if you don’t have a porn
star sized cock, because some do. This book is about telling you guys the way it is
regardless if you like it or not. While being lied to may feel better, the truth will set you
free (and your cock too).

So, what is a a guy to do if he has an average or small cock?

#1. The size of your cock has nothing to do with whether you can meet a girl day
gaming, or in a club and take her home to have sex. Unless she shoves her hand down
your pants to feel (and most girls are not that forward), then she doesn’t know. Even if
she does shove her hand down your pants most guys don’t walk around with a hard-on
and many guys are grow-ers, not show-ers.

The ability to meet a girl and take her home the same night is based on your confidence
and your Game.

#2. The myth that certain girls require a certain sized cock to get off is foolhardy at
best, unless she wants to get off through actual penetration.

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However, if a girl only needed a certain sized cock to get off, then someone please
explain how girls can get off from a finger? Aha. If you know the proper techniques on
how to get a girl off (see How To Make Her Cum chapter in this book), your cock size
won’t matter with whether you can provide her pleasure or not.

#3. Now this might bruise your ego, but deal with it. You’ll be a stronger man and will
be able to create a better strategy if you do. Your cock size doesn’t determine you
having a one-night stand, but it MIGHT determine if the girl comes back for seconds.

The reality is there are some girls who prefer a certain type of cock and perhaps after
the one-night stand you might find a girl who isn’t down for a repeat.

Yea, that might sting a little, but a couple of things:

1. She’s more than likely never actually going to say that.

2. Abundance Mentality comes into play once again. You have more options, so, so
what? You two had fun, chalk it up as just one fun night and keep it moving.

3. Who wants a girl who isn’t happy with her man’s cock size? There are girls out
there who will be happy with you, but you have to approach and find them.

#4. Playing off the last point, at some point in your player ‘career’ you will encounter
Size Queens. These are women who essentially have certain expectations and won’t
budge to accommodate anything less.

Solution? Next.

I mentioned it earlier in this chapter and that’s just one of a few experiences I’ve had
where the girl wanted a 10″ steel rod to play with.

Now here’s the deal, don’t get mad about it. Everyone has certain sexual checklists if
you will. Certain guys need a big ass on a girl. Some guys can’t stand flat chested girls.
And it goes on and on. This is just the female version of this. If she doesn’t want you
based on your cock size, then keep it moving, there will be girls who will.

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#5. If you want to avoid Size Queens, then look for girls with limited sexual experience.
Back in the day when men married virgins, it didn’t matter because the girl didn’t even
know what to expect as her sexual experience was zero.

Now while that may seem extreme, you can find a happy medium by dating girls who
aren’t the town bike (everyone gets a ride). Also, generally, but not always, the older
a woman the more experience she’s had. If you’re dating a 20yo average girl who isn’t
a slut, then odds are she’s less experienced juggling cocks then a 38yo woman who’s
been divorced twice and is a bar-hopper. Something to keep in mind.

#6. It is what it is. Your cock size is your cock size. Unless you opt for surgery (which
has massive risks), then that cock is with you for life. You can either let your little head
dominate and control your life, or you can use your big head to dominate and control
your life. The choice is yours, but what a shame it would be if you held yourself back
because you felt you weren’t good enough.

#7. There are girls who don’t prefer big cocks. “Wait what?!” Yes. I remember a certain
porn star (not hugely known, but a ‘name’ in the industry nevertheless), who I was in
a conversation with at an event with another gent, her date.

As conversations go in my company we delved into the topic of sex. She said she told
her agent “I refuse to do scenes with guys who have dicks larger than 6″ because it’s
painful and I don’t enjoy it”.

My mouth fell open. She was sincere and that’s not the first time I’ve heard that. Just
because you’re not walking around with an Anaconda in your pants doesn’t mean
there’s not hot fun girls who prefer an average size. Find them.

#8. The old phrase, “it’s not the size of the ship, it’s the motion of the ocean” essentially
means, learn how to fuck. Learn how to make love. Become an incredible lover and
it won’t matter nearly as much as you think. Become the playboy who gives her an
experience that shatters her other experiences and you will stand out and the repeat
‘business’ will come.

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#9. Casanova was of average size. Nuff’ said. Source: http://mymalesexuality.com/
opinion/PenisSizeChapter2.htm

#10. Learn better sex positions. If you’re rocking less in your briefs, then learn the
positions that maximize your cock size when doing the dirty deed. This goes back to
the “motion of the ocean” point, where knowing WHAT to do can be just as important.
Reference the chapter on How To Turn On Her Body in this book for a list of great
positions for smaller to average cock sized men.

#11. Turn off the porn. Nothing will drill into your psyche more that you’re inadequate
than binge watching porn. Watching dudes with 12″ monster rods drilling a petite
100lb girl will turn you into a head case. Think I’m joking? I’m not the only one with
this opinion.

Source: http://www.amhc.org/1-anxiety-disorders/article/24026-small-penis-
syndrome-characteristics-and-self-help-treatment-suggestions

“Our hunch is that some of the distorted ways of thinking about male and female
sexuality that manifest in Small Penis Syndrome may stem from the fact that many of
the men who have this problem have exposed themselves to a lot of pornography.

One of the many problems related to pornography is that it misrepresents what human
sexuality is about; replacing intimacy and love with simple and raw sex.

It also tends to be populated by male actors with larger than average genitalia who
aren’t shy about using enhancement drugs to prolong the size and duration of their
erections.

There are a lot of sexual behaviors (such as anal sex) that are far more common in
pornography than in the regular world. It is certainly the dominant attitude within
pornography that when it comes to penis size, bigger is always better. That is not
necessarily always the case in the regular world.

Without condemning pornography, which seems to have its firmly fixed place in society,
we want to make clear to men with Small Penis Syndrome that it is vital to recognize
that these biases and distortions exist in pornography, and that it is not wise to apply
the standards of beauty and performance and the value systems present pornography

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to your own life. Anyone who tries to do so will likely feel incompetent.

#12. If all else fails and you really feel inadequate date Asian girls. They have smaller
vaginas so your ‘average’ cock will seem like Mandingo to her.

So, there you have it. If you’re still feeling inadequate about your cock size, then I
highly advise you get over it and get out there fucking tons of girls.

Harsh? Yes.

Necessary?

Yes.

Hell, Bill Clinton (per court documents) has a 5-5.5-inch cock and became president
(and undoubtedly gets laid like a champ).

So, work with what you have and keep it moving.

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Chapter 11:
ONE TRIED AND TRUE
‘TRICK’ TO GETTING HER
ADDICTED TO YOU

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If you’re serious about getting a girl to really become emotionally and sexually attached
to you, then use these methods.

If you’re wanting to keep it casual and just a ‘fuck-buddy’ status though, then abstain,
because they really do work that well.

Part of getting a girl to fall deeply into love with you is creating a bubble of memories
and investment on her part that she will not want to escape and she will become
addicted to your mere presence.

How does one do this though?

I’m about to show you…

Part 1

The first part of finding a girl to become addicted to you is knowing how and what to
screen for. Let’s say that you have a solid handle on finding cool attractive girls without
major hang-ups and you meet a sexy girl who’s fun to be around and the two of you
start to hookup.

This becomes a regular thing for 3-4 weeks, but usually you have sex at your pad.
Logistics working in your favor in terms of her having her own apartment/condo/
house, then switch to hooking up at her place.

For this book let’s say she has her own apartment.

Part of the process is by connecting her home with you.

By this I mean that when given a choice you should always select to have sex at her
apartment or house. Not only does this lend less risk to her discovering a bobby pin
that another girl ‘accidentally’ left under your pillow, but it starts to create a world of
You, You, You. Everywhere she ‘looks’ and whenever she feels, she ‘sees’ You. This is
what you want.

The main reason for this, is that you are going to start creating powerful memories
where she lives so that she is constantly reminded of you in a positive manner.

Remember, I’ve showed you earlier in this book that the bed isn’t the only place to
have sex. Have sex in the kitchen (counters work well), bathroom (counter and mirror

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is your friend and the shower/bath), living room (but not just the couch. On the floor
and against the main door) and lastly the bedroom as well. If she has a walk-in closet,
do it in there too and yes, even hallways and stairs are fair game.

This doesn’t have to happen all in one night, but it will spark spontaneity in you which
will keep her intrigued and excited with the sex as well.

The overall point is to essentially ravish her in consensual sex in every conceivable
place of her apartment over a period of time.

You may start in the living room and end in the bedroom. The two of you might be
cooking together and then it turns into sex in the kitchen. Use the space. Use the
apartment. Get creative. Within a couple of weeks, she shouldn’t be able to look at
any spot in the apartment without having a MEMORY of sex with YOU.

This creates attachment on her part.

She will start to associate the apartment with you sexually and as an investment of her
body. Secondly, as she grows emotionally attached to you, she will be interlacing that
with the apartment, because you have ‘marked’ your space there by having sex with
her continually multiple times over a period of time where she lives.

She is now associating the apartment with you.

The apartment is now you and you are the apartment.

Still with me?

Secondly, you should create nights of such passion and sexual energy in her apartment
that she will never be able to get it out of her head.

I’m not talking about a drunken, stumble around, fall on the bed and have sex for 10
minutes hookup.

I’m talking about creating a full-on EXPERIENCE which leads me to Part 2…if you
want to be remembered, you need to be memorable and create an impression that she
CAN’T forget, WON’T forget and most importantly, doesn’t want to forget, because it’s
that fucking good.

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Part 2

At this point in our hypothetical story, you and the girl have been fucking for 3-4 weeks
with an additional couple of weeks of now hooking up at her place consistently. Don’t
play the same chord my friend and get interesting.

In fact, depending on the trajectory of the two of you, this could even be implemented
sooner than after a couple weeks of consistent sex at her apartment, but you should
have a decent idea of what works for the two of you and a gauge of the sexual chemistry
you two have.

The first aspect of this is Enrapturing Her and here’s what I mean by this: You’re not
just having sex with her body, but her mind and her emotions as well.

Sex between a man and woman on a purely physical level can be great, but sex between
a man and a woman when the man unleashes her emotionally can be earth-shattering
not only for her, but for the man.

You are getting inside her mind which is an incredible turn-on for women and getting
her into a state where she not only let’s go with her body, but her mind and emotions
as well, which leads to her having powerful orgasms that leave her shaking in bed.

You sexually experienced men reading this will know exactly what I’m talking about,
when you give a girl such powerful orgasms that she literally says “Give me a minute”
and just lays on the bed or floor shaking (with pleasure) and her face is aglow.

She may even cry, but it’s not due to pain or an emotional hang-up she has, but instead
due to the emotional release she had when she physically came. This is some next level
info gents, so if you’re feeling overwhelmed reading it, take a second and take your
time processing it.

Now you’re probably thinking, “Well, that’s all well and great Christian, but how do I do
it?”, so here’s some applicable tips for you.

-Make love to her (Note: this isn’t the same as most of the sex I’ve described in this
book so far). This doesn’t mean you can’t use those positions, but you’re reading her
body more and making it less X-rated and more R-rated.)

-Kiss her all over

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-Consume her

-Get consumed

-Let her ‘worship’ at the altar of your cock and treat her pussy as though it’s the last
pussy you’ll ever see in your life.

-Tell her she’s gorgeous

-Kiss every part of her body and do it with reckless abandon

-Gently ‘bite’ her ass, kiss her neck, smell her hair and look into her eyes. Don’t just be
with her, make yourself one with her.

-Shut out the rest of the world. Your phone ringing, texts going off, email alerts,
anything, none of that matters because you’re in the fucking moment. (Note: put your
phone on silent or turn off so you’re not distracted)

The second aspect of this is The Afterglow.

You’re both feeling ‘high’ from the sexual release and your knee-jerk reaction may be
to jump up, throw on your clothes, give her a kiss and leave.

Don’t.

If you’re only used to one-night stand sexual experiences, then this may feel unnatural,
but it’s key to learn to experience intimacy without losing a grip on your emotions.

A true mark of a player is a man who can experience emotions without becoming
emotional. Learning how to make a girl fall for you and and knowing how to handle it
in a masculine manner is next level game.

Remember, this is a different experience and one that you can introduce to develop an
actual relationship whether that is a harem or LTR, but regardless is necessary to start
creating a bond.

Instead, enjoy the moment.

Talk, but more importantly just listen. You just listening to her will make a stronger
impact than you running your mouth. Also, being a man of some mystery is always
attractive to women. Even small talk post-sex when you’re still in the ‘afterglow’ carries
weight, especially in a day and age when people fuck like rabbits on their lunch break
and then run back to work.

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Topics To Avoid: Don’t bring up your exes, her exes, or ask her number. This isn’t the
time or place and it’ll ruin the ‘bubble’ you’re creating.

Allow some time to pass, doesn’t have to be long, but around 10 minutes is fine to take
in the experience. Kiss her again. Tell her she’s gorgeous. Then get up and do whatever
you need to do.

The experience you gave her is an experience and then you step out of that experience,
so that she treasures it more and craves it. This is key: the actual ‘high’ she gets from
a sexual experience like this is on a time limit. You are a busy man with shit to do, but
when you are with her, you’re enrapturing her mind, body and emotions completely.
Then you might have to go and you leave with style and class.

Put your suit on, kiss her firmly on the lips, smile and leave. She might still be basking
in the experience, but your absence will only make her reminisce stronger about it.

She will become addicted and everything about her apartment will serve as a reminder.

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Chapter12:
CONCLUSION

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This is the end of the book, but just the beginning of your new incredible sex life. It’s
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