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Sr.No. Statement Excellent VeryGood Good Fair poor


1.
I feel alone
1.1. I am a person with anxiety
1.2. I am not interested to take
responsibilities
1.3. I wish to be independent
1.4. I don’t like anyone who interfers
in my life
1.5. I love my freedom of living style
1.6. I am against social rules and
ethics
1.7. I want to live my life in my own
way
1.8. I don’t like lawfully life bound
relations
1.9. I like such style as for mental
peace
1.10. Do you believe in
yourself?
1.11. Do you like to share your
views with others?
1.12. Do you like to spend lot of
time in games, chitchat?
1.14Do you have nature to listen
others?
1.13. Do you feel upset if you
hear that anyone is criticising or
blaming you?
1.14. Do you like to talk when it
is necessary or not?
1.15.
 Am I the person I want to be?

 Do I want this relationship simply for


the sake of wanting to be in a
relationship, or do I want to be in a
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relationship with this person
specifically?

 Do you think we can share common


interests and stimulating
conversation with this person?

 Am I physically attracted to this


person?

 Do you respect my opinions and


ideas?

 Do you feel like yourself around this


me, or do you behave differently
when I am around?

 Do we have similar religious/spiritual


viewpoints, or do we at least have
compatible ideas about spirituality?

 Do you think we share similar goals


in life and the desire to achieve
them?

 What are your attitudes toward


education and its place in your lives
individually and as a family?

 Do you share a desire for children?

 What is your financial situation as


you enter the marriage?

 Do you respect each others need for


some solitude?

 What do you expect of each other in


terms of division of household
chores, cooking, home maintenance,
etc.?

 Do you feel unfulfilled if your


lovemaking doesn't lead to orgasm
every time?

 Do you understand and respect each


others needs for foreplay?

 What are your attitudes toward the


use of credit cards?

 Is forgiveness an essential element


of your relationship?

1.16.
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Factors of stress

A. Individual factors

2.1. Do you feel run down and drained of


physical or emotional energy?
2.2. Do you feel that the job interferes in
your family life?
2.3. Do you find imbalance in personal
and professional life?
2.4. Do you like to join clubs or social
groups?
2.5. Are you always in search of new
things?
2.6. Do you enjoy organizing groups or
committees?
2.7. Are you afraid of being alone?
2.8. Are you feeling that impish system
set by the employees at workplace?
2.9. Do you find that you do not have
time to plan as much as you would like
to?
2.10. Are you feeling that you are not
doing justice with yourself?

B. 2. Organisational factors

1.1. Do you find the organisational


working conditions are not
satisfactory?
1.2. Do you find the restrictive
behaviour is imposed on the
employees?
1.3. Do you face the problem of poor
communication in the
organisation?
1.4. Is there office politics disturbs in
your work?
1.5. Do you find the job pressure is
not equitable?
1.6. Ever you find lack of mutual
trust among employees in the
organisation?
1.7. Do you find the unrealistic goals/
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targets are given to attain?
1.8. Do you find the wages/salary are
not given as per the
performance?
1.9. Do you find the performance
system is justifiable for all?
1.10. Do you find the threat
to individual freedom in the
organisation environment?
1.11. Do you usually face the
problem of lack of sufficient
resource to accomplish task?
1.12. Do you think quality of
working environment is
satisfactory?
1.13. Do you find on few
employees always job pressure is
more than few?
1.14. Do you always find job
insecurity fear?

II. Affects
on the
performance

1. Does it affects on
the performance?
1.1. Doesn’t it
affects on the
number of
output
produced or
the services
per day
1.2. Doesn’t it affects
on the productivity of
your performance
1.3. Doesn’t the
factors of o
organisation forces
you to remain more
absent on workplace
1.4. Do the workplace
is more accident pro
affects on the
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performance
1.5. Do you find your
morale &
motivational level
gets reduced
1.6. Do the lack of
decision making
power impacts on
your performance
1.7. Do the
inadequate resources
availability impact on
the performance
1.8. Do you find lack
of support of
colleagues impacts on
your performance
1.9. Do you find skills
mismatching to the
job requirement
impacts on the
performance
1.10. Do you find the
lack of trainings to
perform job at
workplace impact on
performance

III. Consequences
of stress

1. Do you face
problem of
headaches and
eyestrain
1.1. Do you find
the problem
of
cardiovascula
r is arising
1.2. Do you feel
that you are
facing more
accidents
1.3. Do you find
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your
distracted
mind
1.4. Do you
always in
more anxiety
1.5. Do you face
more
loneliness
1.6. Do you start
consuming
cigarette
1.7. Do you start
consuming
drugs
1.8. Do you
always
complain that
others do not
invite/ignore
you
1.9. Do you think
of switch
over to some
other
organisation
1.10. Do you
face the
tardiness in
the
organisation?

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