A gentle answer turns away wrath,

but a harsh word stirs up anger.

people have differences in anything, they come to have a very strong discussion, the soft response calms the other
person's fury, and they no longer get to litigation, but can talk pleasantly.

But if we answer in the same way that the other person is talking to us, for example "if she shouts, or if she raises her
voice, and I also do the same", then there will be a lawsuit and a very heated discussion, which can reach the insults and
blows. As Christians we must avoid those answers that can lead to lawsuits and blows.