ABOUT ME

I am Inna Issah 35years of age ,single looking without no children, 5-7 ft tall,
133 lbs., black hair and chocolate colour....Im born and raised in Ghana....
I am an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends
and holidays. I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to
starting that with the right person. I am an honest,loyal, passionate, generous
, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who i
s easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous.
I am someone who is comfortable in a pair of jeans, drinking a beer as in a blac
k silk dress, sipping a glass of wine. I like the outdoors as I like to just sta
y at home. Hang around the house getting my hands dirty in the yard. Love to ent
ertain..
I am generally try to live a somewhere healthy lifestyle, exercising and some so
rt of joggings, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, trust me, I love sweets and
pastries such as ice cream,biscuits,cheeps,fun ice,fun pop,yorgurt and fun milk,
but try not to over do it in my life and i do not smoke or drink ....
I would also like to find an honest and good christian who we can participate in
activities together and encourage each other to pursue our interests as well. I
have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as
cooking ,swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would li
ke someone to share that with, as well as sharing his interest with me too..
I do also have some funs to such as fishing,boating,cooking,going to the beach a
nd i do want to participate all this funs with the person in my life..
I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, an
d I don't think that I'm too critical about things in my life, but I also believ
e that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work since
we all do believe in Almigthy God the saviour ooops so you do?
As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in
my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pur
sue his own interests and hobbies as well.
I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and ma
kes the time we dO spend together even better.
I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't ha
ve the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - lol. But I also wa
nt to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dw
ell on how the relationship is not working...
I do not expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and a
nd cleaning this are all responsibilities of a woman, I believe there is give an
d take in a relationship but im not here for one's funds or materials or other t
hings since all this are not included in a relationship, but here looking for so
me one honest,truthful,godfearing and i good listiner, and I realize that at tim
es it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem
doing that.lol
I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same
in return; I'm not too wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me
or "play" me..
Everybody makes mistakes and no one is 100% perfect.. I usually give people the
benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over.
I do not want to meet someone who may think of taking advantage of me or lie to
me and cheat on me under false pretenses,i do never lie,deceive,play games or ch
eat in my life and never wants to be cheated,diceive,lie or been played games wi
th in my life.
I am sorry if this sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrong doing
, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from th
e beginning.
In relationship i do believe there should be trustee,believe and understand beca
sue this are all the most important thing relationship have to go with and witho
ut all this beween the two couples i dont think the relationship will work and l
ast forver which i do always pray to Almighty God to have such a person who have
all this in his heart in my life...
With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as
well. I realize that I am 35 years old and that you are somewhere Older than me
, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go a
fter we get to know each other by Almighty God's name...
Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come
across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding to you?
I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human beings with the sa
me red blood in out bodies, we all make mistakes in life and i want to learn mor
e about life in a relationship more and more),I'm just asking you to keep it rea
l and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting his Or her time
or getting his or her feelings hurt.
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QUESTIONS TO ASK THE PALS OF HIS LOVE
I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relati
onship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they'
re too different to be compatible.Hope this finds you in good health and that th
ings are well with you.lol
Have you ever felt loved before with anyone in your life before ? and can you te
ll me what love means to you?
I think love is caring about someone in spite of their faults not just desiring
the Yes I have loved, I am not really sure that i have been loved in the way peo
ple talk about though, I have always felt something was missing.
love to me Is putting someone before yourself. It is desiring their pleasure mor
e than your own. The bible says a man is to love his wife as Christ loved the ch
urch, to me that means he should be willing to give his life for her.
As a friend used to say God said it, I believe it, and that settles it good. I t
hink Love is trusting,I think Love is Kind,i think Love is listening and i think
Love is giving.
I think to be in love is to want to spend time with someone more than anything p
hysically,mentally,chemically from heart to heart,soul to soul,body to body,mind
to mind and everything in your life with him.
I think being in Love is wanting to pleasure someone in the way you conduct your
life and wanting to please them physically weather that be staring into their e
yes or a long walk or an understanding touch or providing their material needs
or satisfying their sexual needs. but most of all I think it is just being there
no matter what good or bad...
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ABOUT THE PERSON I AM LOOKING FOR
About The Person Am looking for:::::::
I'm seeking a serious long term relationship and more. Someone who is responsibl
e, respectful, can take care of themselves, and who is employed.special to captu
re my heart and knows how to handle it with care, one who will cherish me and be
willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows. Someone who's willing to spo
il, pamper and love me unconditionally, whom is kind, sincere, honest, passionat
e, loyal, sense of humor, loving and wants a lifetime of passion.and also knows
how to have fun but can be serious when needed., so only serious inquiries will
be accepted.I hope to hear from you soon I'm looking for a soul-mate...a best fr
iend for life! Someone I could talk to about anything....A good listener, smart
and funny! I'd give the same to the ONE !! Who knows - may be you are my twin-so
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What is your idea of the perfect first date..??
It is always good to meet in a neutral place like a coffee shop or a place with
music in the background so you can chat. Ideas of a perfect date could be a roma
ntic dinner followed by a stroll in the moonlight,have a night of bowling and go
to a pub afterwards. Planning together a event or activitity you both would lik
e. These are just a few ideas to work with.
What is your perception of an ideal relationship..??
Spending time together and when your apart you don't forget the other person. Be
ing able to share your feelings and show your emotions freely. Being there to su
pport and stand up for that special someone.
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WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS
What have you learned from past relationships..???
I have learned from past experiences that honesty and listening are very importa
nt. Communication is important. Never try and change that person but take them w
ith all their faults. Be caring and thoughtful. Never go to bed mad or angry. Di
scovering new things together day to day helps keep the relationship alive.
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I value Gods presence in my life very much. Life is too short for games and dram
a, I am a fun loving Christian woman who takes each day as a gift from God. Im a
kind, thoughtful, sincere, respectful person with moral virtues and Christian v
alues. Im a happy person, ok with being me, but it would be nice to find that sp
ecial person to love, cherish, and complete me. I enjoy many things, one is sing
ing, which I do regularly; lead member in a Praise Team and Gospel Choir.I Like
Long walks admiring nature brings me much joy, God is awesome! I love to be roma
nced by soft music, candlelight; poetry (I write a little myself), holding hands
and appreciating what a good man brings into my life would be divine. I enjoy p
laying cards, board games, attending the theatre or just kicking back relaxing a
t home watching my favorite movies, dining out, or at home cooking my favorite
meal . Family is important to me I'm one of life's nurturers. I'm also loyal, co
mpassionate, dependable, dedicated, analytical, and light hearted.
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Kind Of Man U Looking For..?
I am looking for a kind, God fearing, mature man. A man that is not afraid to be
the head and not the tail. A man that knows that God is the Author and finisher
and walks by FAITH. He must also love the Lord as I do and enter the doors(of t
he church) with Thankgiving in his heart on Sunday morning. I am looking for a l
ong term relationship and someone I can grow old with. Life is too short and God
made man for woman and woman for man it was not meant for us to walk this earth
, alone.
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Wht Kind Of Partner U Looking For?
My partner should love God more then he loves me!!! I believe in God First, Fami
ly Second, Job Third and the rest falls into place. I believe the promises made
in the bible and how a woman should love her husband and I am willing to do that
but only with the right person. He must stand firm and close to the Lord or I a
m not interested. Praying is important to me so I would love him to be able to p
ray with me and understand that since God is first and formost, my day starts wi
th prayer. It ends that way as well. For him, I will respect him, love him, hono
r him and never will he have to fear that I would ever bring shame to our home a
nd I would expect the same from him.
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Wht Is Ur Personal Intrest In a Man?
My personal interest in the man ordained for my life is one of Godly character p
ossessing the fruit of Gods spirit. He must have integrity, wisdom and a knowled
ge of Gods word. He's not walking in perfection but, he is perfecting his walk,
in all areas of his life spiritually, emotionally and physically. He understand
s his purpose, direction and identity in Christ. He's family oriented. He has va
lues and virtues that reveal Gods transforming power in his life. He's sensitive
 and sincere, attentive and understanding of a womans need to be emotionally nur
tured and spiritually covered. He should have a knowledge of his role and respon
sibilities as husband and head of his home. Romance is a BIG plus. Articulation
of thought and expression of the heart are fundamentals. Becoming totally vunera
ble to the one he has elected to love fearlessly. His sensitivity, unselfishness
and concern for anothers needs are golden.
There is a time and a season for everything. I look for someone that I can commu
nicate with and he with me without judging me for who I am not an accept me for
who I am.A man of patience and understanding. A man who loves the Lord and knows
his place as a man. A man who is there to help pick of the pieces when I fall s
ometimes. If there is drama coming with you leave it outside the door. Someone w
ho have a sense of humor about life instead of always being serious about everth
ing. A man who knows how to take charge and at others times be able to take cons
tructive criticism without being offensive. A man who is confident in himself.A
man who can be relied upon and trustworthy and not full of games. A man of humil
ity and patience.Looking for someone with accountabilty of himself who doesn't m
ake excuses..
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Well, as u know its pertinent to give a detailed introduction before we get star
ted in this affair and moreover I am new to this online dating of a thing , if n
ot for the fact that my close friend found his present fiancee from this site he
nce after my break-up I decided to come on here to see if I would have same luck
. As you know quite well that on here its normal to have myriads of interested m
en but its my choice to choose just one ,I hope when I get to know u better it w
ill be safe to have u as my choice ,provided u will be capable of handling the k
ind of mild heart I have that needs tender care .
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PERSONALITY:I am a cool minded person , I love being straight forward in my acti
vities with people,infact the reason my folks like me is just cos of my policy o
f being simple as I believe Greatness Lies In Simplicity how about u dont u thin
k so ?
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PAST LOVE LIFE: This is most important to me and to u so that we both would know
how careful we would be in getting off together this time around. I was hooked
up with a man named Gregory deep in love unknowing to me he was cheating on me a
nd he had a devilish attitude amongst women. We were together for 3 years befor
e he finally told me the verdict of not being interested anymore for no reasonab
le reason, I had to meet a friend who consoled me and told me that she would sho
w me the source of her joy which I was going to get my joy from hence I am here
now in Ghana, I hope this would not re-occur again getting to meet u there. I wa
nt a man that will give me the love I desire and the care I will cherish as I wi
ll unavoidably unleash to him in same manner.
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BACK GROUND: Of course ! My back ground is neccessary in this affair as I am gla
d to let u know that I am the first woman amongst two lovely children ,I am Mati
lda the first Daughter and Gifty my sister is the last daughter.I lost my Dad ju
st of recent and could not withstand the agony when I head that ,my mom is a ret
ired Insurance Broker. My youth was full of bliss as I had fun during my youth e
njoying the company of being under the protege of parental care.
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EDUCATIONAL QUALIFICATION
Well, as a matter of fact I studied a double major, Actuarial Science and Insura
nce in School And also Catering and graduated with a good grade of Second Class
Upper Division, I loved the course cos my father was a very good instrument to m
y success in school hence I was one of the lecturers best choice amongst the fem
ales, not a bragg there ! ,only letting u know.
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HOBBIES:I like reading a lot , infact meta physics novels especially by Tuesday
TOM Clacy I love cooking , playing sqaush and watching basket ball and talk show
s like OPrah Winfrey talk show in the Harpo Studio.
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DISLIKES: I hate lies, I hate dirty people , I dont like loquacious men ,I also
dont like greediness cos I believe in giving and its only when u give u will tak
e its a natural law of creation.
LIKES:I like honest people, I like being down to earth, I love beign truthful in
all my deeds ,speech etc My dear, I think I have been able to give u in details
all u need to know about me and would love to read same in reciprocity to ensur
e a suitable ground for a start of this relationship.
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OCCUPATION
Funny enough, my present occupation is nothing close to what I studied in school
, I am presently a caterer as I find it interesting supplying people with food
this was introduced to me after school by my cousin who is into it also .He call
ed me one day and told me I should do this as she noticed me to this catering jo
b.I could not reject it but to opt for it ,hence he had to take me on some journ
eys with her,thereafter I began to get knowledge of the whole thing, now I am gl
ad I have gotten my stand and here I am in Ghana. I love this job cos it intrest
ing..
I think I am only trying to be self explanatory so that u could have a deep glim
pse into my kind of person ....
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FIRST PLACE
i want to express to you what I desire in a man, and what I do not desire. I am
a serious Christan woman and I am Guided by my relationship with Jesus Christ.
I say that up front because my faith is very important to me. I will touch on th
at more later. so I want a man Of faith who Has principles and values. we have
all made mistakes in life but need to be guided by something. i want a partner
in life some one to care for someone I can respect. I want a Best friend someone
I can share anything with. I need a partner not a judge or someone to tell me w
hat to do. I had a father and he is dead and gone and i do not seek to replace
him. I do not need a man to cook and clean if that was my desire I would hire
a maid.I believe That household chores should be by a couple. I can cook and do
laundry sweep mop and all that..