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Welcome to Module 8 of Mind Alchemy. If you've made it this far and you're really doing all the exercises, a huge congratulations to you. Honestly, human nature shows that most people talk about changing and say they want to change, but don't really do anything about it, even when given the tools to do so, so massive kudos to you. Okay, today we're going to be looking at one of my favourite topics, and that is beliefs. This is a huge topic and it deserves a lot of your attention. Changing your disempowering beliefs to empowering ones will, literally, change your life. I'd like to start this topic with a story
Belief formula
For the purpose of this course, I have come up with a belief formula, based on my Psychology degree research; both qualitative and quantitative. The belief formula is: perception + evidence + time = belief. Now to illustrate this formula, Id like to tell you a story about a girl named Sharon who is 22 years old. Sharon has never really believed that she is attractive which is reflective of a lot of people in the world today, both female and male. One day whilst at work, a male friend paid her a compliment, and said she looked really good and hot. Sharon was taken by surprise by this, but didnt really think anymore about it However, when she went home that night, she looked in the mirror and thought about what her friend had said and thought that she was actually looking a bit better than she had been. A few nights later when she was out with friends she was approached by a good looking guy who asked if he could buy her a drink. Sharon was really flattered but politely refused to take the drink, which caused a little stir among her friends, who joked with her about this. Again she was taken aback by this compliment. Sharon started to reflect on recent events and began to question and challenge her perception of her beliefs in herself. Other small things like this happened over the next few weeks and Sharon's (self) belief was starting to take hold. A few weeks later, Sharon is out shopping by herself and she sees a nice pair of jeans and decides to try them on. She looks in the mirror, in the changing room, which as you know can be traumatic for anyone :) and was able to recognise that she actually looked good and she acknowledged that she liked what she saw in the mirror.
Belief formation
When we are young our beliefs are formed from external forces i.e. parents, teachers, friends, peers and family. If we respect another person then it is easier to believe what they say; Santa Claus, anyone! In adulthood, we have transferred these childhood beliefs across, so its time to look at your beliefs, evaluate them, and identify which ones you want to discard. Whenever you question something it means you are starting to doubt it. This will lead to more questions which result in you being less likely to believe entrenched attitudes given to you from others. However, you will be able to retain those beliefs that you actually trust in. Think about the belief that 99.9% of the world population holds true: That the sun is going to rise every morning. Think about that belief just now, question it. The possibility of the sun rising tomorrow morning is extremely high. How do we determine this? We look to the past. It has always risen in the morning. there has never been one single day that the sun has not risen at a specific times. These times have been recorded and we can trust in our past experience of the previous events. So because of the evidence, we have no foundation to say that this belief is not true. Obviously there are some people out there that
Evidence:
What actions can you take today as a result of doing this exercise?