speak. And it is the privilege of wisdom to listen. - Oliver Wendell Holmes 3 rd Oct, 2013 Outline of Presentation Introducing Listening skills Importance of listening Process of listening Types of listening Barriers to listening Improving listening
Listening Skills What is Hearing?
What is Listening?
Is Hearing and Listening same?
Definition of Listening In words of Kevin Murphy, The better you listen, the luckier you will get.
In words of Johnson, Listening is the ability to understand and respond effectively to oral communication. Importance of Listening Listening for Enjoyment Listening for Information Listening to be Emphatic / Supportive Listening for Evaluate Critically No Listening, No Learning Building of Trust Success of Career
Process of Listening Active Listening
Sensing: Postpone Evaluation Avoid Interruptions Maintain Interest Evaluating: Empathize Organize Information Responding: Show Interest Clarify the Message Types of Listening Active Listening Pretending Listening Emphatic Listening Content Listening Critical Listening Passive Listening Selective Listening Listening for Mutual Creativity Intuitive Listening Direct Listening Suggestive Listening Barriers to Listening About 70 percent of an average persons waking hours are spent communicating.
How much of that time do you think is spent listening?
45% Barriers to Listening What percentage of the information given in a 10-minute presentation does a listener retains?
50%
What percentage of the information is remembered two days after the presentation?
25%
Why does this happens?
Due to Barriers to Listening Common Barriers Relating to listener
Relating to speaker
Relating to message
Relating to external environment Barriers Relating to Listeners Prejudgement about the speaker Late arrival Premature response Lack of attentiveness Attitude and selective perception Lack of time Lack of awareness Hearing problem Rapid thoughts Wrong assumptions Barriers Relating to Speaker Unclear voice Body language Ego Way of presentation Inconvenient environment Barriers Relating to Message Length of message Organization of message Semantic language Flawed symbols
Relating to External Environment Noise Poor transmission media Light Temperature Improving Listening Stop talking while listening Put the speaker at ease Show your interest to the speaker Resist distractions Place yourself in shoes of the speaker Be patient, do not interrupt Go easy on argument and criticism-no one wins Improving Listening Ask questions Body language Give feedback non verbally and verbally Take notes No focus on appearance Knowledge of the topic in advance