Professional Documents
Culture Documents
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Activity:
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Dogging
Cottaging
Tearoom
BDSM
Voyeurism
Agoraphilia
Amomaxia
Sex in Public
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Spatial Ownership
Private Space Public Space Accessible to the public Open environment of sexual exploration Open to the public eye
Ownership of the space: use of bathroom stalls Protected from policing of the heteronormative Does not have control over the spatial ownership
D.A. Millers: the binaries of private/public, inside/outside, subject/object are established and preserved, rendered enduring and credible, through the phenomenon of the open secret (Biber and Dalton)
Space to inhabit and perform illicit sexualities
CLIP
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SQUIRT.ORG
Squirt is a website where men meet other men for sex, fun, and friendship... Our members help one another and help their communities to grow in their understanding of their erotic lives and of responsible public sex. ... And of course, Squirt also strives to get you laid! A lot! Popular hook-up location: Thames Hall Mens Washroom (CLIP) (INSERT ATTACHED PICTURES)
The typical Western guy has short hair, boot-cut jeans, and a Lacoste, Hollister, or Abercrombie polo shirt. This type seems to make up about 70 percent of Western students. Students are sexually promiscuous, as they probably are on most University campuses. (CollegeProwler website) Are identified as Heterosexual by the Heteronormative UWO community Some within this statistic will most likely participate in a Tearoom Trade.
DISCUSSION QUESTION
Why do you think majority of these incidents are participated by men with heterosexual identities? What about the sexual roles and desires of women in conjunction to with participating in Tearoom incidents?
-These types of bathhouses welcome those whose gender falls outside the bounds of woman (queer, transgendered or transexual) (6)
It serves as a counter to patriarchal societys constant denigration of womens sexuality, as being contra to sexual violence toward women and those with nonnormative sexualities, and as a resistance to the feminist sexual policing of the past where carnality, sexuality and desire were deemed to be objectionable and predatory behaviours. (6)
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Public Sex as a Form of Liberation: - Sexual desire for selfexploration - Control of the body and space - Secret Positive/Negative Sexual Freedom
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Forms of Liberation
Men Sexual desire for self-exploration Control of the body and space
-obtain consent using sexual language -open secret -exploration of ones interest in desire and sexuality
Women
-women should not be perceived sexual -Being able to publicly but privately show your body in a safe environment -Have control over the situation
-Aphrodisiac effects of
lesbian/queer bathhouses -Self-gratification of committing the act without admitting
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Men
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losing social status, control, reputation, power exposing sexual homosexual identities and desires criminal prosecution viewed as sexually and socially deviant serious damage to family, relationships, career
Feeling guilt or shame Losing a sense of self-identity Realizing the root of the act
losing social status, how womens roles are perceived in the patriarchal society diminishing value of womens body policing their sexual roles as for the purpose to reproduce perceived as a slut / engage in promiscuous behaviour identify as sexually deviant
thinking such sexual activities to be wrongful acts fear of being abnormal subservient to custom
Conclusion
- The deviance of Public Sex is a driving factor of ones liberation of sex
- By proliferating our sexual desire for illicit covert sexual expression, our sexual liberation transcends in other aspects of our daily lives, liberating us from oppression.
- The opportunity cost of this nature is the risk of exploitation, suppressing sexual expression by imposing patriarchal roles of gender and sex. - Public sex should not be normalized but rather deviated. Performing an act outside its boundaries = opportunity to feel sense of liberation and self-gratification